Best way to tell a Scorpio you cheated?

I have been with my boyfriend 2 yrs, he accepted my daughter and son as his own. He's cool but he is older (35) and I just turned 23, so I like to go out with the girls, hang and what not. So I met my high school sweetheart and we did some stuff and now he wants me to leave my dude and be with him, but I told him nah, now he is saying he will tell my man I cheated, and he does have some proof (dumby me I left some clothes over his house) and so I want to tell him before dude tries too, any tips? I will be honest and upfront but not sure if I should tell him straight out or just write a letter or what. HELP NEED GOOD ADVICE!!

sounds like u and your ex are real winners 😉

Idk, it just happened. I love my man he is just a homeboy and I like to go out. I don't want to be with my ex because he has two babymommas and he is not working but there is something about him. I wouldn't even be thinking baout it except he is saying he will tell my man about it and he has some of my clothes so I can't say it didn't happen.

Just tell him straight up that you're a dirty whore who couldn't keep her legs closed.

Simple hun.

I think you're a dumb c-u-n-t personally. Hopefully he follows his instincts after you tell him and he chops your head off.

No need to be nasty, I am asking for help. I made a mistake you never made a mistake in your life?

*sigh* wait......... i think i saw this episode of jerry springer........are u sure your not pregnant?? 🙂 i think the girlfriend told the boyfriend about the ex and then the ex told the boyfriend about the girlfriend and then the boyfriend assaulted the ex and the girlfriend, who was carrying the ex's baby.....it doesnt end well 😢

No I am not pregnant.

i was just kidding........sorry for being mean 😢

if it were me, i'd have to cut you loose.

"Just tell him straight up that you're a dirty just like me who couldn't keep her legs closed.
Simple hun"

HaHa Love It :-)

Ooops I meant skank.

Oops I meant puta

It depends upon how well you can deal with Karma, i agree with FS, in your case i wouldnt tell him,.me personally i would tell him cause karma is a mother and i couldn't live like that my conscience would kill me i'd have to confess. Hope everything works out for you.

I know he will be mad, he once said cheaters are disgusting to him. My ex found me on myspace, we talked and texted for a while then we met up I thought just to talk but one thing led to another, you know how it goes. I thought he would be cool with it being a one-tome thing but he is tripping now and yes I have no one to blame but myself.

LOL @ FA! Guys, come on, she's sad and scared. Try to give her real world advice 😉
Personally, if I knew it would NEVER happen, I wouldn't tell him, but if it's possible it may happen again, then you NEED to tell him again. I hate lying....but, I'm really only human, and if I knew it would 99% never happen again, I wouldn't tell. That's just me.

Oh, see .. I thought this was an accidental fuck .. you know, you stood up to get the salt from the other table at the restaurant and the floor was wet, so you slipped and fell on his dick ... and you got dirty, so he used some of your clothes to clean you up ... and now, he wants to blackmail you to keep you ... because every 23 year old with two kids, who's a cheater is definitely a keeper if she falls and accidently fucks a man.

Yes, a 23 year old unmarried woman with 2 kids, who has these kinds of accidents is well worth trying to keep, at any means.

What I'm not getting though, is why blackmail?

What did you do to him?

Must not have been a very good fuck .... I mean, wouldn't he do everything in his power to CHARM you if he wanted to keep fucking you?

My suggestion to you is ... just tell him the truth ... I had an accident, a man's dick was involved and it fell in my pussy, and this then this man fell in love with me .. and you don't know what to do.

Scorpios are very forgiving .. don't worry.

"I thought he would be cool with it being a one-tome thing but he is tripping now"

But, I see I was wrong 😢 .... , and here I was ready to feel sorry for you for acci-fuck-I-forgot-my-clothes-on-his-dick .....

... looks like you inititated this fuck-session, if you were hoping he'd be cool with a one-time thing and let you walk away.

... or, it's also possible you did left your clothes on purpose to try and make your man jealous of you.

You cheated on a scorpio who cared about your kids as his own.
*speechless*
We all agree you should tell him, but i reckon you tell that guy you slept with to get out of town as soon as possible, you should do the same too 🙂
btw, that guy threatened you to tell your bf about the sex, and you still wanna be with him? wow big big wow..i mean what kind of guys he is? and there is still something about him that attract you, you say..well, i am sure you both have the same nature and quialities so you both should get together.

"My suggestion to you is ... just tell him the truth ... I had an accident, a man's dick was involved and it fell in my pussy, and this then this man fell in love with me .. and you don't know what to do."

Hahaha..that was a fuking worldclass funny thing.

"I have been with my boyfriend 2 yrs"

It's doubtful that this thread is real ... any woman who's been with a Scorpio for two years in a close enough relationship that this Scorp man considers her children as his .... would certainly KNOW him well enough by now to know what kind of a reaction he would have to something like this.

A woman in this kind of a relationship with a Scorpio man for 2 years, wouldn't be in here asking questions at all ... she'd be the one answering the gazillion questions about Scorp men that are here everyday.

you might as well just tell him and skip the bullshit.

Best way to tell a Scorpio you cheated?

Videotape your confession. Mail it to your Scorp with no return address. Enter the Witness Protection Program.

maybe she thinks she P-u-s-s-y whipped him and now hes trying to blackmail her....darling you are young and know nothing about a relationship....you are not ready to settle with anyone....so my thing would be to tell your EX man that you guys need to end it...I would not go into any details except that you are not ready for a mature relationship...and let him go to be with a woman that will appreciate him,love him, and not cheat on him

Damn so this guy was her high school sweetheart. High school wasn't over to long ago cuz she's 23. Shit when the hell did the two kids come in.

Poor man. just dump him. he deserves better. he deserves a mature woman. not a slut who accidentally fucks someone else.

I never cheat on anyone.

Once my heart is taken I don't even think about kissing another person.

It's obvious u don't love him and I don't believe in that let's work it out after I cheated bullcrap either.

You know they always say men think with here other head...but some women out there only think with there other eye if u know what I mean.

mystic i know exactly what you mean....here it is woman a looking for a good man and this person is cheating on one...go figure

why even sleep with a man with 2 baby mommas, no job— Lord have mercy

One dip, and he's hooked .. that's really funny, actually.

If this story is true .. and knowing that NO MAN is going to fall in love with a slut, and since he's obviously trying to get some kind of revenge upon her by wanting to blackmail her to fuck up her current relationship .... it would be pretty safe to assume that somewhere along the way, she fucked this guy over, and pay-backs a bitch.

'Cause it just doesn't add up ..

A man who loves a woman .. isn't going to blackmail her
A man who wants to keep a piece on the side .. is going to continue charming her to keep her clothes falling off.

Jpilar .. the best thing you could do for yourself in here (dxp), at this point is to remove this thread. It's not likely that you'll get any kind of respect in here from people for them to have any advise to tell you how to be a respectful cheater to your man.

Perhaps, what you could do is sift through some posts in here until you find a woman who is a successful cheater ... and then PM her, so you can ask her how she does it, privately .. out of public view.

You better not tell him. IF U DO, prepare for a nervous break down!

Sad but true...I know one thing admitting cheating is bad for any sign..

Be careful Sweety!

Well the guy she cheated with wanna expose it..

Welp she left clothes at his house...Pretty dumb I agree...

I guess she wanna beat him to the punch when really it doesnt make a difference cuz ummera...She's toast!

No my ex is just saying stupid shit like my first son shoulda been his and we never shoulda split up and blah blah so he mad I don't want to leave my man and be with him. I know he would never except my kids really because he has his own and he don't like my olders son father regardless.

I just feel like my man is nice but he want me to be wifey and I feel as though I'm too young for that. He's been with a woman before, almost married (common law). I'm only 23. Yes, I have my kids, but I am still young and want to have fun while I am still young. He want to be at home watching Love n Basketball and cooking and that's nice but I like to do it up, get my hair done, nails done, put on a fly ass outfit and go to the clubs and he say he too old for all that, but I'm not at the age of 23.

The bad thing is my sons see him, my Scorpo man, as daddy, they call him that. He say he can't have kids of his own and he excepted mine. I know I messed up and I aint messing with my ex anymore but dudes stay trying to talk to me and I will be hoest it is hard.

No, only my oldest son calls my man daddy and also his father daddy. My youngest son calls only my man daddy.

If you still have a wondering eye why even bother with a relationship? You need to free him...Dont you think he deserve better?

DON'T TELL HIM UNLESS YOU WANT TO LOSE HIM FOREVER! THAT WAS ONE HUGE MISTAKE! YOU MIGHT LOSE HIM ANYWAY!

Your ex is WACK!

...and the Scorpio's gonna kill you...just saying.

your Scorpio, better known as your personal babysitter will be crushed.

your scorp is gonna feel betrayed and leave you

Honestly I think she wants to have the best of both worlds.

"I just feel like my man is nice but he want me to be wifey and I feel as though I'm too young for that. I'm only 23. Yes, I have my kids, but I am still young and want to have fun while I am still young. He want to be at home watching Love n Basketball and cooking and that's nice but I like to do it up, get my hair done, nails done, put on a fly ass outfit and go to the clubs and he say he too old for all that, but I'm not at the age of 23".

Did u really read wat u typed up there? May be u should have waited to have all the fun before u had ur kids or did it not come to ur head that u might be young for that too? If u wanna go out to the club and have fun tell the dude and dont waste his time. U DONT KNOW WAT U GOT UNTIL U LOOSE IT! and u can never get it "AS GOOD AS" its either better or less than.

She's nothing but a kid too IMHO

WHY WON'T ANYONE THINK OF THE CHILDREN—*sobs uncontrollably for the future*

I think the reason you're staying with him is that he's LOOKING AFTER your kids while you're OUT HAVING FUN!

You're an adult now and you've two kids.Please set a good example for them.I'm really worried after reading this thread.There seems to be a even more gloomy future for the young generation...It's not the question of cheating here any more but a question of how mature you are.It's fine for a couple to have different interests as long as they both share the same view of their together future and RESPECT.

Any way, I wonder about the history of the father(s) of your kids. Was it also a mistake(in your view)? If it was and your Scorp man knew it, he is going to analyse the situation by using all the "evidence" you told him. For human nature is too unpredictable. I'd say that he could try to forgive and stay with you BUT he's going to expect you to change your behaviour, even cutting down all your clubbing interest.Now, he can do it in the most gentle way that you wouldn't feel that you're being changed OR he can brutally do it and suffocate you till you break down and break up with him!
The second scenario, if he's a man of heart, he will forgive you and move on with his life .It isn't about cheating , it's about two VERY DIFFERENT people who want VERY DIFFERENT THINGS in life.
There is some other scenario as well but they are too unusual for me to mention but these two above should help you sufficiently.

Apologises for any unitentional harm I have caused. I only want to speak the truth from a Scorp.

I know a Scorpio - and he "Aint" the kind of guy you want to break that kind of news too.

Good Luck !!