scorpion stings

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by varies on Friday, September 26, 2008 and has 10 replies.

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@varies
19 Years

here's the message the scorp wrote to me after i freaked out about being friends with him. here's his message:

So, I guess after it all, the other night doesn't sit well with me. I don't
know if that seems odd or not to you. I slept on it, and I think that I have
to simplify my life, sort things out to organized, and get on with living.
This may seem kind of cryptic to you, but I'll just summarize in more
certain terms by saying that I thought maybe we could be friends, which is
kind of what I tried. But it is difficult to have a relationship as such
with you, for whatever reason. So I say we just cool it off, give each other
space. Sorry if that seems unreasonable, but it is what I've decided.

i'm sad. is he playing games?

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@Libra Carrie
18 Years

Hey! I got one of those too!! It really is a Scorpio thing. Wow...

Yes, he's playing games. Ignore his ass. Go right on being your fabulous self 🙂 He'll be back. It's the same thing as him saying, I'm gonna take my ball and go home. So let him go. He will keep looking to see if you are following him...and looking. And don't you dare. LOL

Mine just come back. I'm still ignoring him. LOL

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Do you want him as friends or more, Varies?

You clearly stated you don't want games - In the end live accordingly otherwise you're giving him the 'ok card' for the continuous game playing long-term...bs really !

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@varies
19 Years

i want to be more which is why i freaked out because he's not ready for a relationship. he urge me to be friends and i said i can't do this, then i went through the pros and cons and decided i could be friends. he's a bit jaded on his part and so now he's doesn't want to be friends as you can see from the note.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

so he put it in writing, good as a contract ! IMO take it and run !

Surely there's someone out there who wants what you want? Before you get even more emotionally attached and blah to this dude?

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@Roxanne
18 Years500+ Posts

typical scaredyscorp varies. i really think that if you show signs of moving on - sincere or not - it will force him into a corner and perhaps he will make more effort with you.

'that's what i've decided'..........ooooOOOOOooooo get you mister!!!

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@BeoWulf
19 Years500+ Posts

Varies, his msg seems a little cold-hearted. I agree with Libra-Carrie. Ignore his sorry ass. Stop pining for him and find yourself a better man.

**i'm sad. is he playing games?**

The only game this scorp is playing with you is to get you to keep thinking about him. Don't play such a loser's game.