2013 most important relationship year in decades

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Share your stories ! how are the bull's relationships this year ?!?!?!?

I will start with my year....

ready?

1 ) I broke up with my ex of 2.5 years ( virgo) commitment issues from his part... decided to walk away from it all

2) Fell for a Taurus man...Shared the most amazing night(1) of my life , no sex , work colleague, familiar comfortable connection )

3) Got back together with my scorpions ex ( made a big commitment...turned out he is also emotionally unavailable.. he's icing me out atm)

Definitely has not been an easy ride so far... *sigh* planning to focus on myself now...but it seems that later time of year will give me better luck !

how about yours?


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Posted by taurusman
Gemini broke up with me after almost 4 years because of my possessiveness and jealousy issues. Still love her but i dont think ill get her back. We had a very bad break up and stuff was said on my end that probably pushed her away even more. Might have burned my bridges on her :/



I do believe that many Taurus's going through break ups this year. 😢 Its for the best i guess. Gemini doesn't like to be tided down. You need an earthy.

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Had an on and off relationship with a Scorpio for 7 mo...never had one of those before. It just ended a month ago and now he is icing me out. :/ But I learned a lot about myself through that relationship. I had a very bad marriage and even though the divorce was 5 yrs ago I realized that I have been holding my heart to tight and only letting men in so close so as not to get hurt again. Somewhere along the way with the Scorp I let all my walls down and let the pain from the past go. Even though it didn't work out with us and at this point i'm not sure we will ever talk again I will forever be grateful to him for coming into my life. It was because of his presence in my life that i realized all this. So I have a lot of love for him and I'm not sad or made at how things ended. I am very excited to see what will happen now that I am truly ready to be open to love. 🙂 So yes I think the second half of this year will be good to all of us!!
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This was an interesting year for me. I learned a lot about who I was and what I wanted in a relationship. I found myself settling in many of my past relationships. (Hint: moving fast with a Bull is never a good sign). I held on to relationships with individuals that I knew I was never initially in love with....just holding on and attempting to make it work because:

1) I hate changes, starting all over again, and too lazy to initiate any new prospects. 2)I love the stability, familiarity, and certainty that a relationship brings. I hate dating. Too confusing. Too much drama. No time for anyone else's BS!

But this year, I met a Virgo. Our connection was effortless, it surprised me. Although he's very physically attractive (My Venusian side) rarely notices this, believe it or not, (Moon in Gemini, Rising Sign Aquarius) his humility, compassion, the ability to articulate himself, and active listening is what drew me to let my guards down. I feel completely safe with him. I could be myself around him. He gets me. Things moved pretty slow, Virgos are quite cautious and methodical in their movements, which works great for me. I was single for a long time...and had a lot going on at the time.

I am looking forward to being with him for a very long time. I will be honest, he pisses me off at times and I want to throw him out the window (Virgos, and the 'mutual thing') but the pros outweigh the cons....🙂
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Wow! Thanks everyone for the in put so far... @ sugar bear... You just explained what I went through with my scorpion man.. I let my guard down at last... Gave it all to him. He reached my soul and shown me my compassionate site! I can't thanks him enough for it.. He iced me out but I just sent him an email to be his friend.. He's in my life as a friend . I figured that out... He's mentally sick you see. . I can't just forget about him. I love him deeply and eventhough we don't work out as couple .. I will always love him even as his closest friend. @ milky soft ! I strongly admire you for walking out from Taurus/ Taurus relationship. It must have been so comfy n a lot of touching involved /) I want to date a cap too. I am preying for him (cap) to come at the end of this year /) glad you have a good ride with a Scorp..!!!
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@ Taurus bull ! I had a habit of staying in a relationship Because it was convinent myself. It was ok with my ex Virgo but could have walked out way way way sooner ! I'm glad things are working out with your Virgo ! Mine just had commitment phobia... Couldn't make a decision to b with me long term or not... Otherwise positive all the way..! @ Fingirl... I don't blame myself for what went wrong either .. But none of it was in my control this year.. It has been a hell of a ride.. It's calming itself down now so thanks goodness !
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Thank you TaurusBull I believe you and I'm gonna kick it out there! And I am sooo happy for you and your virgo. I am always so happy when I hear stories of people finding love...it makes my heart smile. 🙂 Virgo's are good guys and good matches for us!

Sweetz...im gonna still call you that cause that's how you started and that's how I'll always remember you. 🙂 You know us Taurus's dont like change!...I followed your story with your Scorp. I think you are doing the best thing. God brings some people into our lives to teach us, grow us and show us things. Maybe he was brought into your live to unlock your compassion and to show you that it is ok to let your guard down and let someone in to penetrate your heart so that you can be open to whatever/whomever the future has for you. If that's the case then it was a good thing and not something sad. 🙂 And I'm glad that you are not holding onto any bitterness but choosing to just love him as a friend. You are rising above what went on and that is a good place to be because it lets your heart be free!

MilkySoft I'm excited for you and your Scorp...keep us posted and we want all the details! hehe

I say we just all come into agreement that the rest of this year is going to be awesome for all us bulls/bulletes

PS. I am in the beginning fazes of talking to a Cap right now. It's new now date yet just an attraction and friendship starting. It's funny cause Caps bring out my romantic/playful side...its kinda fun! 🙂
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@ sugarbear ..Awww your words were so sweet ! They were like music to my ears... That's what I love about Taurus's ! ! You pretty much sum up everything that was on my mind..the universe didn't send him to me for nothing. I have learnt and grown so much from it. I was on a similar boat to you. I had reading done by my friend (psychic) before and she pretty much read me inside out. I was sitting there bursting out tears I never known existed. My history and past stopped my heart from giving to anyone unconditionally. My Virgo ex didn't receive it either. I am so thankful for many things. There were alot of painful moments but my heart is now free. I am ready to love again. What surprises me is that I will always love him unconditionally. He's a friend that I want to be there for the rest of my life. I just want to see him happy . I am a little envious about your cap man ! I figured that they are the ones I wanna settle down with. !! They definately bring out our playful side.. I can feel it that everything will work out really well for us taurean towards the end of the year ! I did not want to date for a good few years but I figured that I should be open to whatever/whomever faith has for me and go with the flow 🙂 I also feel that the thing with your Cap will run smoothly. Keep us posted !!!🙂 We would love to hear every bits of it !🙂
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I'm a cap but I started the year out with a taurus man. It was a slow start but we became fwb. He acted as if he wanted more and would tell me he loved me (during sex). I didn't believe him because he still hadn't opened up to me about his life and I didn't feel like I knew him like I should've. A few months ago he let his childs mother move in his house. He told me it was temporary and they were not together but his actions proved otherwise. He still calls me and tells me he misses me but I don't want to be the other woman.

I would love to find a single taurus man that has let go of his past relationships lol
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I'm a cap but I started the year out with a taurus man. It was a slow start but we became fwb. He acted as if he wanted more and would tell me he loved me (during sex). I didn't believe him because he still hadn't opened up to me about his life and I didn't feel like I knew him like I should've. A few months ago he let his childs mother move in his house. He told me it was temporary and they were not together but his actions proved otherwise. He still calls me and tells me he misses me but I don't want to be the other woman.

I would love to find a single taurus man that has let go of his past relationships lol



He is just another selfish Taurus as I am, and maybe he is going through the middle age crises as well. Anyways, just don't reply back and he will stop after some time, and be sure that he will never sacrifice his HOME and KIDS for good sex.
Finally, YES don't be the other woman.
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@ senior Montana I am glad you have fallen bak onto your senses !!!! Surely 2013 has been insane on us taurus.... Faith is throwing out all different kind of obstacles / challenges/ love affairs to all of us in many different ways... Making us leaving the ones we were never meant to be with and meeting the ones we were always meant to be connected to....true there might be some karmic connections to the ones we came to know this year and it is our choice and decision to decide what we want in the long term. Figure out the reason why that person/this person came into our lives! ..set him/fee free once the purpose has been accomplished and set them free... 🙂 for me n e ways!
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why 2013 is most important year in decades? lol ..

anyhow this year as usual ... quiet year in relation but busy in my business
until in May i met this very beautiful Cancer girl ... 3 years younger then me ...
a very strong characteristic that caught my attention ... she's beautiful btw ...
a girl who is good with figures and investment ...
and she also never been into relation for past 8 years

her best friend encourage me to go for her ... I tried ...
was kinda tongue tied when with her despite i am a good in conversation with everyone else ... lol
anyhow ... due to my busy work and her busy schedule, its not easy to date her out ...
that start making me losing interest in her ... but i still wanna try courting her ... lol

and very recently there's this aquarius girl appear in my life ...
again her best friend (my close friend's wifey)ask me to consider and go for her ...
which i have no interest despite she is cute n good looks ...
but recently she begin to messaging me ...
asking for hang out together with her n the rest ...

my mom been nagging me to get attached and married asap ... lol
ouch ... mixed feelings ...
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Posted by miimii
I'm a cap but I started the year out with a taurus man. It was a slow start but we became fwb. He acted as if he wanted more and would tell me he loved me (during sex). I didn't believe him because he still hadn't opened up to me about his life and I didn't feel like I knew him like I should've. A few months ago he let his childs mother move in his house. He told me it was temporary and they were not together but his actions proved otherwise. He still calls me and tells me he misses me but I don't want to be the other woman.

I would love to find a single taurus man that has let go of his past relationships lol



He is just another selfish Taurus as I am, and maybe he is going through the middle age crises as well. Anyways, just don't reply back and he will stop after some time, and be sure that he will never sacrifice his HOME and KIDS for good sex.
Finally, YES don't be the other woman.
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Thank you! I've been posting about this guy and this is the first time I got an honest answer from a taurus male who was on the other side. I'm glad u made the right decision. Maybe this one will too one day. He is very persistent. Its sad to me that he should be putting that energy into his relationship.