I'm a taurus girl through and through. I like to laugh and be silly i'm a kid at heart. I am a good mix of playful yet serious. My weakness is chips and salsa. I'm addicted to Cinnamon Bears. If you want to win my heart give me a back rub. I'm easly amuse

I have been told my smile "lights up a room" from multiple people.
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Im that way, the silent treatment, ignoring, anything that resembles that, is very damaging to me and I will try once and if you continue, then I withdraw and shut down.


This right here is me too.
I knew a Scorp guy years ago that played mind games and even told me did before we started dating. I knew him in high school, he was kinda nerdy and just a really nice guy because of that he never got the girl, they always just wanted to be his friend because he was just honest and nice. When he was in his early 20s he met an older woman (I think around 30) that he really liked and she told him that if he wanted to get the girl he needed to act like he wasn't interested in her (play games). To come on in the beginning but then back way off so she would want him. He told me how he would text and call a lot in the beginning and then back way off and keep the convocations short and then not text or call back right away but wait till the next day. He said that once he started doing that all the girls wanted him.

He tried doing that with me once we started dating and I called him out on it. Of course he tried to turn it around on me and said I was being crazy so I told him I didn't think we should date anymore and moved on. He came back 3-4 months later admitted he was playing games and saying how much he missed me and wanted to try again but by then I was over him. Been through that crap before and once you reach a certain point in your life the game crap is dumb! Personally I like respect, honesty, directness and communication but have learned that even in my early 40s most people don't know what those things are anymore in the dating world. I blame a lot of it on online dating.
I agree...it's sad. I have watched a few of my girlfriends stay with men because of the money and not love and they have even told me that is why they are with them and have cheated. And here I am single cause I won't do anything like that...I want real love. It's hard out there these days...the world has changed.
I agree with Cherrylips social media networks have screwed it up. I'll take it one step further and say so have dating sites...the grass is greener on the other side kind of thinking. Guess what it isn't!
Hmmm well once again you are grouping me into a group that is wrong. You don't know me and I never said that a relationship is solely based of emotions...because I don't think that. Here's a shocker for you there are women out there that think logically and don't base everything off of emotions.

Now I do agree with these two statements of yours. 1) Relationships aren't just based on emotions. Emotions are unreliable if you are going to base your entire relationship on. You are surely setting yourself to the course of destruction if you are looking for the "perfect mate". You will never find such a person. This is a delusion. 2) A real relationship is based not only on emotions, but also on companionship and cooperation. If you are a bad team player, nothing can save you in this world.

There are no “perfect” people in the world. We all have imperfections. Men can be bad team players too.
Actually no Crocodile I was not fickle or unreliable to them it was more the other way around. I don’t believe in playing with people’s hearts, I’ve had mine broken and I would not want to be responsible for doing that to someone else. That is why I said I loved them but it made me realize that it wasn’t true love because I believe true love is two people feeling the same way about each other, putting each other first with love and respect in your relationship. Not one person giving more and one taking more. And yes there is always room for growth and reflection in one’s life. We all have been hurt before, whether in childhood or adult hood. Those hurts can be taken into our hearts and we can build walls to protect ourselves from being hurt again and then end up picking the wrong people because of that. Just because someone has a nice job, money and house doesn’t mean that they won’t be effected by hurt and pain and don’t need to reflect on life and areas where they can improve themselves. If you never look inward to see if there are areas that need healing then you will just keep making the same bad choices and your life will be on repeat. That my friend is what one can call stupidity.

Argento I actually think you are in a good place right now. If the women from the past have not worked it is probably for a good reason. Better you be where you are now then married to the wrong person and unhappy or worse going through a divorce like so many others. Being single is not the end of the world. I believe you will find your true love. She is out there wondering where you are too.

Ha that made me laugh! I'm up for it...Argento if you are ever in the Orange County, CA area let me know!
Aww thank you, I'm glad I could help...that makes my heart happy! Good luck and if you ever need to talk I'm here.
Crocodile you're funny! I'm a single western woman, I'm defiantly not fickle or unreliable, I'm not a fan of the feminist culture also I love to cook. I don't really think you can group all western women into those categories.

OP I am in the same boat as you in a way. I am 42 and looking for "my" man not a man. Dating is easy but at my age I have realized that I have loved men before but I have never truly been in love with someone. So I am choosing not to date again till I meet that man and we both know that we are each others. I don't want to waste time and I don't want to waste someone elses. The only advise I can give is the advise I have taken myself. That is, there is a reason why the other relationships haven't worked. It is easy to blame the other person and look at there faults but now is the time to look within. Figure out what inside you pulled you towards these relationships that didn't work. If there are things that you need change or things from the past that need to be faced, do it. Figure out what the pattern has been with you and what needs to change with you so it doesn't keep happening. It's time we both find true love and I believe we will! I'll keep you in my prayers. xo

3 months
Mine was like that when we got her...but she was just used for breeding and I think the people abused her. The people that had her were getting threats from the neighbors to turn them in because they just let all there dogs run the streets. They kicked her son out and closed the gate and wouldn't let him back in. My mom and bro saved him at 3 am from being eaten by a coyote. They knew we kept him so a month later they dropped his mom over our fence. You could tell that she had just finished nursing a litter. Brono is a total sweetheart and was from the moment we got him. Bella was a total cookiemonster! lol Wouldn't let anyone touch her...it took me two months of spending about 3 hr a day with her slowly moving my hand toward her before I could even touch her! She just had her 3 yearaversery with a family in July. She only acts like that now if you try and pick her up and she doesn't want to be. Even then she doesn't bit she just puts her mouth around your hand but doesn't actually bit down. She's a brat but I love her. I think their brain is the size of a pea. :/ Not really a chihuahua fan but she'd be 6 feet under, ok ok maybe only 3, without me so...
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I'm a Taurus with a Scorp moon and I'm in isolation mood right now. I have decided people suck so I will just hang with my pups...I like them!
Posted by TaurusinTexas
No way, cancer is not for me.


That is exactly what thought when I say this, only mine went something like "HELL NO!" lol

Seems like bad luck to buy someone's ring from a failed relationship.

^^^^^^^
This is what I believe too! When the judge finally stamped the paperwork and my divorce was final with my ex I did a cleansing. Got rid of everything he ever got me and went and throw my beautiful ring that I loved off the end of pier into the ocean. Everybody told me to sell it or make it into a neckless. I said "No way! I don't want that symbol wrapped around my neck holding me back and why would I want someone else to wear a ring that symbolized love when my marriage was horrible...I didn't want to bring any bad luck their way." I did pray and ask God to have it wash up in front of someone if they really needed the money.

I don't keep things from exs except the memories and feelings, which in some cases last of years. :/
Yep last 2 times I went to the Laguna Hills one it was a 3-4 hr wait. :/ It’s actually faster to go to the one that is farther away in San Clemente…that one is tucked back in and you usually just walk in and out.
I prefer to cook, I really don't go out to eat that much. I enjoy cooking, nothing better then making dinner with a nice glass of wine and good music playing. Plus I like actually knowing what is in my food. One of the girls that use to work in my office had a side gig working at Cheese Cake Factory, she told me don't ever order a salad at a restaurant the salad dressing has more calories then most of the dinner entrees, like 2000 calories per serving! That is insane!! I make everything and love BBQing, summer is my favorite cause I'm on the grill like 3-4 times a week. The only food I really like going out for is breakfast, cause I hate making and cleaning up a big mess in the morning and baked goods, I just really don't enjoy baking, I'm not a real big sweets person.
I just ordered from them for the first time, 3 pairs of sandals, and was very happy with the price and how quickly they came! I will defiantly be ordering from them again and I'm not even a fan of online shopping.
Awww she is soooo cute! I like Aura