A virgo/taurus thang...

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I have been seeing a Taurus man on and off for a little over a year now and we've become very close over the past two months.

He has been travelling for three weeks and he's scheduled to return on Thursday. We have spoken on the phone every day since he's been gone and the conversations have mostly been about his trips, assignments or work. Very meaningful but also very on the surface. Now I'm really into this dude he has a magnetic pull rarely ever feel. From the moment I sat across from him desire reared her pretty little head. I'm a Virgo by the by.
I usually send him texts to motivate him if he's got a big day ahead of him. In the evenings I??ll tell him I miss him. Last Thursday, to express how much I missed him, I wrote a very detailed raunchy account of what I missed about him. He acknowledged it in a sweet way but he left it at that. Which was fine as I probably wouldn't know what to do with myself had his response been intense. On Saturday the pace changed. First, he expressed that he feels we've moved into a stage in our relationship that is no longer just sexual but emotional. I concur with him, I feel the same way and I told him so. Then he said he has been horny the entire day and all he can think about is sex with me, again I'm right there with him.

This line of talk has become our new norm apparently because, yesterday & today have been on that note. Now I love everything about this, I think I do anyway. My concern is that he's returning and I won't have distance to hide behind. I'm shy as hell. He has explicitly explained to me what he wants to do to me (and I want him to) but a part of me feels like this bull has seen his target, he's coming fast and he's going to hit me hard. How in the world do I even keep up with him? Taurean??s I would appreciate any advise you can give. Also he asked me if I had any surprises planned for his return. I don't. I'm very domesticated so I intended to clean his apartment, cook him a meal and patiently await his arrival in his favourite dress. If there are any suggestions on what I could there as well please let me know.
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I have felt the draw with Virgos, but then its like you guys are bluffing with how passionate you act....The hesitance and fear you're expressing in this post I've seen first-hand with a Virgo. I don't mean to be blunt but it was a total turn-off. In fact, she was the one who was pushing the issue, but then when the moment came, she got really shy and nervous, and froze. I think its important not to portray your self in that light to a bull, if you aren't ready to act on it. Be honest about your shyness and I'm sure he'd be as patient as you'd want him to be. But if you overplay your hand, just imagine a guy doing the same. Most women would be turned off by a man who talked a big game early on, but then was not what he portrayed. I have no problem with a shy woman; I even find it attractive. Just make sure you express that, even to the level that you are here. We appreciate honesty and he will probably find you even *more* attractive with full honesty. But when you're acting differently than you were talking, he will most likely get confused, maybe even take it personally and think you're less attracted to him in person.
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^The problem is not how Virgos come across. It's all in the vibe. Stay true to that turned on vibe no matter how shy or outgoing you are. Come on, a guy will notice when you desire him..Virgos are obvious with that.



Definitely easy to tell when a Virgo has liked me in the past. But when they freeze up, it is very confusing and feels cold. Easily misinterpreted if they don't communicate the reasons for it, the shyness they're feeling, etc.
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i think it was a bad suggestion. i take it back now. reason being a virgo would probably fumble in some way.



She'd probably be allergic to something in the whip cream. Start breaking out in hives, and then bust out a tackle box that serves as her travel medicine cabinet/first aid kit. You spend the night covering her sores in smelly Calamine lotion.
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i think it was a bad suggestion. i take it back now. reason being a virgo would probably fumble in some way.



She'd probably be allergic to something in the whip cream. Start breaking out in hives, and then bust out a tackle box that serves as her travel medicine cabinet/first aid kit. You spend the night covering her sores in smelly Calamine lotion.
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And that's why Taurus don't get nice things from Virgos.

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^The problem is not how Virgos come across. It's all in the vibe. Stay true to that turned on vibe no matter how shy or outgoing you are. Come on, a guy will notice when you desire him..Virgos are obvious with that.



Definitely easy to tell when a Virgo has liked me in the past. But when they freeze up, it is very confusing and feels cold. Easily misinterpreted if they don't communicate the reasons for it, the shyness they're feeling, etc.
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I'm sorry to break it to you but she's still the chick and you're still the guy.

Venusian or not..if you figure it out at first..follow up. Don't pussy up because suddenly it feels cold and confusing. It's like the moment a Taurus doesn't feel the adoration coming strong and the other party wants some adoration for themselves...suddenly problems come up. Sorry vain fucks, you have to budge an inch or too and actually pursue (if we're talking earth sign women here)
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^The problem is not how Virgos come across. It's all in the vibe. Stay true to that turned on vibe no matter how shy or outgoing you are. Come on, a guy will notice when you desire him..Virgos are obvious with that.



Definitely easy to tell when a Virgo has liked me in the past. But when they freeze up, it is very confusing and feels cold. Easily misinterpreted if they don't communicate the reasons for it, the shyness they're feeling, etc.



I'm sorry to break it to you but she's still the chick and you're still the guy.

Venusian or not..if you figure it out at first..follow up. Don't pussy up because suddenly it feels cold and confusing. It's like the moment a Taurus doesn't feel the adoration coming strong and the other party wants some adoration for themselves...suddenly problems come up. Sorry vain fucks, you have to budge an inch or too and actually pursue (if we're talking earth sign women here)
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Erm no...I was making the moves already. Assuming the person is not a Scorpio, I have NO problems initiating in that area as soon as I know the attraction goes both ways. She literally froze up like a child - got extremely nervous. She had asked me to leave a party so we could be alone together the first 10 mins I was there. She walked me back to my apartment. And I still was not making any moves. Then she starts talking about making out with me, how it will be fine even though she's good friends with my roommate, etc. etc. So at that point I took her over to the couch and she just froze. Fear all over her face, seemed like she was having a panic attack. At that point I felt it would've been cruel to continue so I just suggested we just relax and hang out. I've never seen fear like that before on a woman. I would've felt like a creep to try and push through that. Granted, these were wild college days and she had just snorted a few lines a couple minutes earlier. Maybe it hit her too hard.
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Did you grab her and kiss her? If not, you have no excuse.

It was the lines man. No one is that freaked out. Attraction and awesome sex would have developped had you just grabbed her.

But I get you on not being a total creep. Wrong Virgo in your case.

The problem with earth signs together is that each of us will circle another and figure out ways to prompt them into action. It goes nowhere fast. Which is why I said what I said.

In your scenario..yeah I would have left her be.

But honestly Virgo women need to be grabbed. If we start thinking and overthinking it's a done deal. Strike while the iron is hot.

Another way is to tease the Virgo into action. This also worked for men with me. They made it obvious they liked me but teased me in a way where I jumped on them. Funny enough it was air sign men. And the Cap lol.
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i think it was a bad suggestion. i take it back now. reason being a virgo would probably fumble in some way.



She'd probably be allergic to something in the whip cream. Start breaking out in hives, and then bust out a tackle box that serves as her travel medicine cabinet/first aid kit. You spend the night covering her sores in smelly Calamine lotion.



lol so true my 1st date with my 1st virgo gf she got allergies from the hot sauce and had a huge lip throughout the night!
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LOL!
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i think it was a bad suggestion. i take it back now. reason being a virgo would probably fumble in some way.



She'd probably be allergic to something in the whip cream. Start breaking out in hives, and then bust out a tackle box that serves as her travel medicine cabinet/first aid kit. You spend the night covering her sores in smelly Calamine lotion.



lol so true my 1st date with my 1st virgo gf she got allergies from the hot sauce and had a huge lip throughout the night!
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LMAO. I can see it happen.
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No, I hadn't even started kissing her yet, I was rubbing her shoulders and back....



See while you were doing that she was freaking out because she was overthinking it 1000 steps ahead.

When will he kiss me? How will that be? Am I good kisser? God I hope I am.

etc x 100000000000

Like I said, leave the rubbing for later. Kiss her to calm the panic down. It will go smoothly from there. Just don't let her think/overthinking.
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Another way is to tease the Virgo into action. This also worked for men with me. They made it obvious they liked me but teased me in a way where I jumped on them. Funny enough it was air sign men. And the Cap lol.



Teasing tip: Some Virgo women like to be hit in the butt with a cricket bat.

Just saying 😉
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Teasing and physical contact shortcircuites our brains. And that's a good thing for everyone involved.
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Infinite..the only guy who mastered that art with me was a Scorpio friend of mine when growing up.

Not to take points from his mastery but I was young and emotionally uncontrollable so I would always get pissed off when he would diss me. Which in turn made him laugh so hard and he loved it on a sadistic level. He thought the whole image of me stomping the ground and bitching was beyond hilarious. It probably was lol.

I remember when kids would come and play and yell under my balcony "damnataaaaaaaaaa"

He would come and go "i'm hereeeeeeeeeeee" or "fuck offfffffffff" or some clever insult he thought of that day.

It was really easy to rile me up. Now I am in the opposite end of the spectrum lol. I will not budge on inch if the intention isn't genuine.
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I'm way better at going with the flow now. Almost my entire existence is going with the flow since I found out I was mutable dominant. Well probably before that lol.



I think that's one of the benefits of Astrology. You find out about some latent abilities or propensities, that maybe you weren't so sure of before, and you can tap into more confidently now. I don't do much at work but after readinag about my Cap Ascendant, and then asking a few close friends how I'm perceived at work, I found out everyone really perceives me as very serious, hardworking/dedicated, professional, in charge, etc. So I've become a lot less fearful about mainly reading DXP all day.
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I'm way better at going with the flow now. Almost my entire existence is going with the flow since I found out I was mutable dominant. Well probably before that lol.



I think that's one of the benefits of Astrology. You find out about some latent abilities or propensities, that maybe you weren't so sure of before, and you can tap into more confidently now. I don't do much at work but after readinag about my Cap Ascendant, and then asking a few close friends how I'm perceived at work, I found out everyone really perceives me as very serious, hardworking/dedicated, professional, in charge, etc. So I've become a lot less fearful about mainly reading DXP all day.
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Yeah man, I'm all about using Astrology to navigate energies within me.
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Stomping on the floor is hilarious! It's child-like and innocent. So, I could see how he couldn't let that pass... When it promised such humorous pleasure!



That child-like innocence never abandonned my soul. But of course his god damn libra stellium had to piss me off. He has a Mars in Aries too so he knew the deal lol. The opposition in our charts are at a 0 degree so we were pretty much like magnets. We fed on each other's energy.

There's another thing that I have to this day. First kisses give me the jitters. It has to come as unexpected or I freak the fuck out. I actually start physically running. I was talking to him about that thing once and he told me he would just run alongside me on the street and yelling "people, people, check out this insane chick that won't let me kiss her". He knew I'd stop and laugh because I have a great sense of humor and I'd probably end up kissing him.

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Are you saying that once you learned about your chart, you focused more on just going with the flow?



Yeah, see my chart is about 47 cardinal to 47 mutable with just..6 fixed lol. So I would play up the cardinal energy in contests and life and was upset I wasn't getting my way. Now I use the cardinal energy when it suits me..but as a life philosophy I go with the mutable energy. Live and let live and everything will fall into place because there's always a reason for anything happening or not. And in time the reason is always revealed to me.

My chart did draw awareness to my total imbalance with the fixed modality. Explained why I need to strive and keep doing what I doing and not abandon projects. I never ran on a partner but I abandonned most of all my projects in this life so far. So I need to enfore fixed sign qualities.

I'm not as reactive anymore..I am animated though. My Aries best friend describes me as this ball of light/energy prancing around lol.

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Depends on the company but generally I turn giddy. Then either horny or sleepy, considering who I am with.
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Regardless of what sun sign a woman is, most of all, she should feel in each and every little cell of her body that she is a WOMAN when it comes to sexual matters. Everyone gets a moment of shyness, but you shouldnt feel it with someone you really feel close to. If you are confident to do the talk, you should be confident enough to do the walk. Throw it all outside the window and wear your freakum dress on.

A confident woman is sexy as hell in my opinion. Be confident in your skin, in your moves, kiss and touch, bring your soul into it. Take that man to a whole different world. He is already craving for you, show him what you got.

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Libra moon, libra venus, libra mercury. If he had a fire moon it would have been amazing for us. Damn his chart.

We can't stop overthinking infinite..always calculating scenarios and odds. But I realize a lot of it is virgo mentally sussing out the environment. So if I am in an environment where I feel safe..I can get my groove on. In the recent years I tried to move away from the environment idea and just lose myself with that person no matter what environment we're in.

I'm not negative but there's a touch of low self esteem in all virgos. We're humble people and we feel fake when we act as if we're all that. I know it's a weird mindset but it feels like we're deceitful if we stage this production when deep down we don't feel like sex gods and sex goddesses. Like we're tricking the other person somehow.

Then you have the perpetual woe is me virgos..ugh. Those cases..I can't deal and I don't think people in their lives can deal with them either.
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Posted by seezythescorpion
Regardless of what sun sign a woman is, most of all, she should feel in each and every little cell of her body that she is a WOMAN when it comes to sexual matters. Everyone gets a moment of shyness, but you shouldnt feel it with someone you really feel close to. If you are confident to do the talk, you should be confident enough to do the walk. Throw it all outside the window and wear your freakum dress on.

A confident woman is sexy as hell in my opinion. Be confident in your skin, in your moves, kiss and touch, bring your soul into it. Take that man to a whole different world. He is already craving for you, show him what you got.



Very true. Well said.
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I'm way better at going with the flow now. Almost my entire existence is going with the flow since I found out I was mutable dominant. Well probably before that lol.



I think that's one of the benefits of Astrology. You find out about some latent abilities or propensities, that maybe you weren't so sure of before, and you can tap into more confidently now. I don't do much at work but after readinag about my Cap Ascendant, and then asking a few close friends how I'm perceived at work, I found out everyone really perceives me as very serious, hardworking/dedicated, professional, in charge, etc. So I've become a lot less fearful about mainly reading DXP all day.
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oh is that cap asc related? people think the same of me. little do they know i sit there most of the time thinking i don't know what the hell these people are talking about and i just make up stuff as i go along.
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YOU KNOW? DO YOU, LEO MOON? DO YOU? 😛

K, since you're one of the cuter leo moons 😄

Water and fire suit me right. Both reactionary elements.

My dad is earth and air..I luff him, he's a Virgo but damn I don't get it.

The trenchcoat goes back to my Cap relationship. We lived in different cities. So one night I decided to just go there unannounced. He used to live with his brother in a highschool dorm. So I only put a trenchcoat on, while naked underneath..had the fare in my pocket for the train ride and my mobile phone and charger. That was it. So I went by train..9 hour journey changing the train once and giggling to myself that I was totally naked and no one had a clue. Got to that dorm, threw his brother out, fucked him silly til night. Then put the trench back on, took the ride back for 9 more hours. lol. Then I was in class Monday at 7 am. Lovely weekend.

(no ands I didn't take a shower before leaving. it's the life of the feral)
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I'm way better at going with the flow now. Almost my entire existence is going with the flow since I found out I was mutable dominant. Well probably before that lol.



I think that's one of the benefits of Astrology. You find out about some latent abilities or propensities, that maybe you weren't so sure of before, and you can tap into more confidently now. I don't do much at work but after readinag about my Cap Ascendant, and then asking a few close friends how I'm perceived at work, I found out everyone really perceives me as very serious, hardworking/dedicated, professional, in charge, etc. So I've become a lot less fearful about mainly reading DXP all day.



oh is that cap asc related? people think the same of me. little do they know i sit there most of the time thinking i don't know what the hell these people are talking about and i just make up stuff as i go along.
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Yeah, that is pretty much how I work as well.
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that's not a trench coat but it's the closest i could find and he's not even a koala.

it's a uhhh... toggle coat? duffle coat! there i had to google. same history though. wartime clothing. you see both in a lot of british war pictures.



Yeah, same for the "STAY CALM AND.." movement. I wonder how many are aware those are british war posters because most of people believe THE INTERNETZ produced that. lol.

In any case..STAY CALM AND DON'T POKE THE KOALA!
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I have a Virgo friend (Aries asc/ libra moon) who is gorgeous! But, she is SO NEGATIVE. Always complaining putting herself down (oh this looks horrible on me, I look ugly, I'm ugly) it's repetitive. And it unfortunately has turned off a lot of potential boyfriends.




i have a close virgo friend and she is exactly the same!
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My sister three.

But boys still interested. marsvenusscorp+cancermoon.