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Hello ! 🙂
Before writting everything, you may know that english is not my native language, so I apologize for allll the mistakes I'm gonna do ! and I write a lot so sorry for that too 😄
Ok so, I'm a scorpio woman and I'm deeepppplyyy in love with this taurus guy ; when I say deeply, it's so deep, I don't know how to put words on it !
I feel a deep connection between us, and I'm sure him too..
But, actually, we were in a "relationship" but he brokes up : to sum up all a year we were flirting, and because it was holydays (and I was shy and young), I said that I love him via facebook (actually I don't really tell I love you clearly), then he was like me too and starting saying things, and I'm sure he wasn't kidding (he said things like I'm so afraid that you stop loving me, I only want you, if you die I will die with you > young and cute stuff). But one night we were talking, he said to me that he fears so much the fact that I don't love him, I reassure him and he go to sleep after this conversation! AND THEN I started sending a lot of stuff like "i wanna hug you" because I was thinking "in the morning he is gonna be happy to see these texts"... one hour later he sends me a text saying that he have the impression that he miss something, that he have the impression to "go in a wall" and he doesn't feel love for me anymore..

I was like "ok me too" because I was so empty at the moment and because I'm extremely proud, I pretending feeling the same.
We don't talk to each other, except few months ago, I send him a text, we talk normally (even if I feel that we were a bit hypocrisis, we prentend to be "cool, relaxed, friends" but I know that it wasn't the case haha) but I.."drift" because I told him that I wanna talk with him but I don't know what to say, and he redjected me ! I try an other time to send him good luck before our finals, he never answers.
Then one day I smile at him and say him "hello 🙂" with my charming smile lol he look down saying "hello" and RUN AWAY, litteraly !!!
It's now 4 years, and I'm still in love and I have the impression that him too ! He always intensely stares at me, I never see that ! If people wasn't here, we're gonna stare for hours.
Even my friends told me that he always stares at me ! And I caught him few time trying to look at me discreetly !
One of his friend always look at me and smile to me like "🙂 i know everything 🙂 " BUT I learn that some of my friend ask him if he was stil in love with me or if he have a
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BUT I learn that some of my friend ask him if he was stil in love with me or if he have a crush on a girl (I ignore this before they do) he always replies "no xD" "no" "haha no", but then stares at me.. I can read in his eyes sometimes, before breaks I take, he stares at me with some eyes..omg..they saying to me "you're gonna miss me so hard" lol. It's not a stare like "she's sexy" but more a "love stare" but I maybe make a mistake..
Or sometimes, he laughs with some friends and look at ME smiling ..
I have the impression that I intimidate him so mucch, and I don't really know what to do, the end of our school grade is almost finish, and I want to talk to him before.. but do you think he still love me ?
And how express my feelings WITHOUT make him run away ?? And I know that I can bee "sticky" because when I love, it's with all my heart, all my mind, all my body ;

Sorry for this loooong text and for all the mistakes !!
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hahaha...This cracked me up as it is all so familiar. my thoughts...

You are probably mostly right about everything you say/think about how he feels. But....Its not going to work for you two. With Taurus/Scorp, it works with a rare couple here and there, but this thing you are stuck in....It is just not going to happen.

You are not going to really chase after him or ever reveal the depth of your feelings after feeling rejected like that.
And it would probably overwhelm him again if you did. Your only hope is in him taking the initiative. And he is running *away* from you, not towards you, right? So, just accept that you're in love with a person you can never be with because you are both too scared and proud. With time, you're drifting further apart, not closer together....

Is your Venus in Scorpio? Unrequited/unattainable love seems to be par for the course if so....Its a long, slow, painful process....Thank your lucky stars.
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Haha Infinite8, you are cute 😄
I have hobbies, a "good" life ; but when I have the impression that I forget him, my feelings appears 1000 times deeper..


This is why I am telling you to use all that intense energy you have inside of you and use it (channel it) into something productive (dancing, painting, writing, singing, studying to get to the best university). Refocus.

Because you must understand that you will NEVER forget him. Scorps don't forget stuff like that. It's something that just comes with the package. You might not like it now(you might detest it actually), but you will love it later... I promise 🙂
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Actually I have a lot of energy but I don't know how to "work" with.. !
Probably, but it's so dumb omg two people loving each other but can't be together because of fear..life is short !! 😢
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when someone is in love, he tries to be with the person and do everything for being with them, no .. ?




No, not really. You're in love but haven't done everything to be with him over the last 4 years, right? Sometimes when people are young, shy, insecure, intimidated, they run away from intense feelings like this. For me, the most intense feelings of love, that feel unstable and risky at the same time, could be the worst possible scenario. If I try to go after that, and it fails, I could be left with the worst possible heart ache. I might never recover. So, its not always worth the risk.

Anyway, you are young and seem cheerful. Enjoy your life...have fun. Don't get stuck on a guy who is running from you.


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If I were you, I would create another moment where he is once again starring at you and when he does that, stare at him back but don't look away and just walk towards him, kiss him on the cheek slowly and walk away.

But if he has a habit of running away... (Literally), that will be very hard to do 😕
So sad...



ROFL!!!! OMG please no! The mind of a Scorpio...lol! Do not tease him with anymore of your mysterious, seductive, ambiguous behavior! I'm sure you have done plenty of that already...It will not help! He will probably explode on the spot if you do that.
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TLS... Are you projecting somewhat?

They're 17, awwwww it's so cute to read.

He's probably shit himself and is running away as he hasn't yet developed any balls.

*** rolls eyes ***

Just be friendly with him and maybe tone down the intensity if possible. Get on with life but there's no harm in remaining in contact at some level.

At 17 it really wouldn't be wise to get overwhelmed and overly focussed on anyone but yourself.

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If I were you, I would create another moment where he is once again starring at you and when he does that, stare at him back but don't look away and just walk towards him, kiss him on the cheek slowly and walk away.

But if he has a habit of running away... (Literally), that will be very hard to do 😕
So sad...



ROFL!!!! OMG please no! The mind of a Scorpio...lol! Do not tease him with anymore of your mysterious, seductive, ambiguous behavior! I'm sure you have done plenty of that already...It will not help! He will probably explode on the spot if you do that.
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Hahaha I'm not going to do this haha
Even if sometimes, I'm so tired with his behaviour that, I think about things like that haha
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Hahaha I'm not going to do this haha
Even if sometimes, I'm so tired with his behaviour that, I think about things like that haha



Just seems like such a Scorpio thing to do. Pour fuel on the fire...lol. I remember one of the dreams I had about my Scorp crush. She finally approaches me to talk, and goes to whisper in my ear, but nibbles/licks my earlobe instead. LOL...It seemed so real. It was like she astral-projected into my dream to do that...hahahaha....
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The young Scorpio Taurus love such a beautiful thing to be apart of I remember being the same age involved with a Scorpio girl who would eventually teach me a very big lesson in life.I do believe that you two can work something out together if you really want it because it sounds like you guys definitely have that intense connection going on between you and I know exactly how that feels.Scorpios just need to understand that us young bulls have such golden hearts and love with such intensity that it literally scares the shit out of us because the intensity of our love overwhelms our usually stable nature.You take us out of our lil comfort zone that were so use too.so at a point we do what we do best just disappear or distance ourselfs from the one who is putting these intense feelings in our souls.we fear the power that you have over our emotions with your sorceress like magic.we love to be in full control of our lives and emotions and it's very hard for us when we are dealing with such a force of a woman like the Scorpio.he's definitely fighting what his heart wants because his mind is in fear of having you then having to deal with the pain of loosing you if it doesn't work out. He will have to decide to him self if the juice is gonna be worth the squeeze.
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^^^pretty much this....

I honestly would hate to be in a situation like this with a Scorp at such a young age. He probably feels like he can just look at you and tell it won't last. At 17? This connection may just be too intense for him. Imagine a 17 yr. old Scorpio staying with the same guy for life....lol. I can't....not with all the shedding of layers and changes they go through. First real love lost is devastating. Took me like almost a decade to get over it. During that whole time I couldn't even imagine that I'd ever recover or be able to love another person again.
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The young Scorpio Taurus love such a beautiful thing to be apart of I remember being the same age involved with a Scorpio girl who would eventually teach me a very big lesson in life.I do believe that you two can work something out together if you really want it because it sounds like you guys definitely have that intense connection going on between you and I know exactly how that feels.Scorpios just need to understand that us young bulls have such golden hearts and love with such intensity that it literally scares the shit out of us because the intensity of our love overwhelms our usually stable nature.You take us out of our lil comfort zone that were so use too.so at a point we do what we do best just disappear or distance ourselfs from the one who is putting these intense feelings in our souls.we fear the power that you have over our emotions with your sorceress like magic.we love to be in full control of our lives and emotions and it's very hard for us when we are dealing with such a force of a woman like the Scorpio.he's definitely fighting what his heart wants because his mind is in fear of having you then having to deal with the pain of loosing you if it doesn't work out. He will have to decide to him self if the juice is gonna be worth the squeeze.



Omg your message just make my heart melt haha !
You know, I try to forget him for like 4 month, I ignore him (I convince myself I do, but actually I was always staring at him when he doesn't see me) and then one day he looks at me with such an intensity omg..and after this, I have the intuition that something is going to happend but ..
Omg I don't know that I can make someone feel like that..
But what I can do ? If I talk to him, I fear that I would afraid him even more..


@Tauruslovescorpio: haha, actually, I don't really see age as a problem : my parents meet when they were 18 and they were still together until 2012 ! If we are really in love, I think it can last forever !
Maybe because I'm still young I don't really see your point and years after I will be like "he was right"
Maybe it's not going to work, or anything, but I think every relationship bring an experience and a lesson of "life" and THIS relationship with this guy, I think it totally worth the risk : a life without risk is annoying, no ? 😄
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Scorpiarse,

Regarding your last post, I think the point the other bulls are making is that YOU might think it's worth the risk for YOU (and I totally applaud you because I was exactly the same as you at 17 and I'm exactly the same now at 35, Scorp with balls) but HE might not think it is worth the risk to HIM due to HIS own nature which is rather different to yours despite there still being some similarities between the two signs.

Ignore TLS, he's still wrapped up in his own Scorp crush which he didn't have the balls to follow through on 😉

Ha ha! I'm just poking fun here, there's some good advice here from all. Maybe in ten years time you come back to the forum to declare TLS was right... Meanwhile a more grey haired TLS sits puffing on a big, fat, satisfying cigar as he nods his head and says 'uh huh' with a smug smile on his face...

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but I think every relationship bring an experience and a lesson of "life" and THIS relationship with this guy, I think it totally worth the risk : a life without risk is annoying, no ? 😄



Carefree risk-taking Scorpios skipping through soulmates like tulips, forever learning their life lessons....LOL, except....There's a little more to it....Especially with the young ones....Lets not forget that your plight is one of extremes - plummeting down to the murky depths, soaring back up to the highest heights - fully equipped for the journey - death and rebirth; you die and resurrect continually throughout your life....Anyone who tethers themselves to that might not rise up from the pile of ashes though, especially the sign in the zodiac that is most resistant to change. We have a really good instinct for long-term viability of partners. Its one of the main things we're looking for. When its a good match, that level of excitement we feel from you is so intense, but we know there's a volatility to it too. All that lava churning beneath the rocks is exciting and beautiful, but is it stable? LOL. We have our ways of observing and testing that. Once we make our decision though, we seldom change our minds.
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but I think every relationship bring an experience and a lesson of "life" and THIS relationship with this guy, I think it totally worth the risk : a life without risk is annoying, no ? 😄



Carefree risk-taking Scorpios skipping through soulmates like tulips, forever learning their life lessons....LOL, except....There's a little more to it....Especially with the young ones....Lets not forget that your plight is one of extremes - plummeting down to the murky depths, soaring back up to the highest heights - fully equipped for the journey - death and rebirth; you die and resurrect continually throughout your life....Anyone who tethers themselves to that might not rise up from the pile of ashes though, especially the sign in the zodiac that is most resistant to change. We have a really good instinct for long-term viability of partners. Its one of the main things we're looking for. When its a good match, that level of excitement we feel from you is so intense, but we know there's a volatility to it too. All that lava churning beneath the rocks is exciting and beautiful, but is it stable? LOL. We have our ways of observing and testing that. Once we make our decision though, we seldom change our minds.
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When you speak about "stable relation" is this refers to cheating or anything like that ??
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@scorpia I think you should be in contact with him if you genuinely like him and want a relationship with him that's the best way to show us were wanted by someone especially if it's someone who we have feelings for which I'm sure he still does those feeling don't go away easy for us. Be his friend joke around with him don't be too serious or intense with him about things don't talk to guys when you know he's around you or watching you it will show us your ours to have which is what he's looking for.don't try to manipulate him or make him jealous for any reason he will run and never look back at you.just be yourself just not so intense all the time like you guys usually are and you should be good just place yourself around him and hewill get comfortable with you being around and that's what you want.once were comfortable with having you around we won't want you to leave for a very long time good luck.

Ps.you should continue they staring competitions because we love it when you do it to us even though it puts the fear of God in us we can't help but like it.just don't over due it unless you want to fry all of his vrain cells which I hope you don't.
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I try to make contacts, and I'm pretty sure he too: one day he was walking in my direction smiling at me and staring at me like " I WANT YOU" and a friend of him talk to him so he doesn't approach me after..
But I don't really know how to do : I try sending texts, it works, but IRL he avoids me for like 4 days and when he looks at me and I say "hello" he answers back looking down and run away ..
That's why sometimes I just want to be clear and to reveals my feelings !

For the jealous thing, I don' do it, but he does ! He always speak and be close to a girl and he knows that I'm not a fan of this girl (and when I arrived close to him he speaks so LOUD), and look at me like every second while speaking with her and laughing very loud, it's very annoying ..

Oh, why do you like it ? 😄
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@tls but wouldn't you agree that if there was one zodiac sign that could actually rise above the ashes with Scorpio it would be us?Scorpio is considered the most powerful sign and Taurus it's opposite is the strongest sign. I feel like being a Taurus is a curse at times because life will constantly test our will and strength to see if we will break.oh and we are the most likely to resist change but I think for true love a Taurus will gladly change don't you think.
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Ha ha @ staring competitions!

I was told off for staring at the bull I liked. I think it made him uncomfortable. I used to stare when he wasn't looking though although I did look at him with an 'eh?' type confused look on my face a lot as I didn't really get him.

I didn't have the courage at that time to tell him I could stare and look at him all day because I thought he was very cute, handsome, and sexy! _??_

Wimpy AgentP911 _??_
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I've been thinking about this stable vs volatile thing. I'm not sure if it's a Scorp Sun or Scorp Venus thing or both.

I'm not sure exactly what Taurus means by their interpretation of stable. Examples might be helpful to demonstrate.

I do get the perception of us Scorps being volatile. The extremity of emotions or just emotions in general. It's often perceived as 'drama' and in some cases it is but in many it is just how we are.

However, having looked at myself a bit more regarding stability and being volatile, I'd say that underneath any emotional or volatile nature is definitely 100% stability.

It might sound like a contradiction and my version of stability might be different to yours.

I think stability for me is that kind of love or depth of feeling that no matter what happens I'm there throughout and to the end. I'm by your side with my support. Dependable. To be counted on. I might take you to my murky depths (ooooh sounds nicely perverted) but we'll both rise back up together. I might go from one extreme to the other, loving you deeply, wanting to keep you in my arms forever... To wanting to punch your head in when you piss me off... But underneath all the dark, bubbling turmoil is also a calm and serene sea of constant and consistent devotion and love that never falters or waivers.

Except when I wanna chop your bollocks off, of course! 😉

I think for a Scorp, when those extremes are provoked, then to us, or certainly to me, it means something. Like you're registering in our hearts somewhere. When those extremes don't happen then you're just not that important to us in that way.

It doesn't always have to be extreme and be at the top ends of the scale all the time. It can still fluctuate to a degree. They say love and hate are closely linked. I think there is truth in this, at least for a Scorp.

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Agent... you are CRACKING ME UP!!! HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA.... 😆



At least I'm welcome over here! Some twat on the Scorp board was being a right cunt earlier. I almost told him to shove his stinger up his arse!



🤗 ALWAYS!

I know who you mean... he's not worth it.
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Ha ha that's too cute!

I think the dick head in question rates himself as the Ayatollah of Scorp or whatever.

Hmmmm so much for solidarity in Scorp-Dom _— at least in Bull-Dom they all herd together in moments of need.
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I'm unconvinced with TLS's statement regarding having a good instinct for the long term viability of partners. I'm not doubting it. I'm just not convinced.

Without sounding like a bastard (that's my disclaimer out the way) but didn't you have a marriage to a Cancer for a number of years who probably wasn't the most compatible as all she wanted to do was watch TV because too much talking or mental stimulation hurt her head. Then she cheated anyway.

Now there's the Sag which seems ideal except for the fact you still have your attachment, for want of a better word, to this Scorp where you still think of her more often than not and even have dreams of her.

I'm gonna go and scuttle away now...

I'm actually just interested in the stability thing and the picking long term partner thing.
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I think the point the other bulls are making is that YOU might think it's worth the risk for YOU (and I totally applaud you because I was exactly the same as you at 17 and I'm exactly the same now at 35, Scorp with balls) but HE might not think it is worth the risk to HIM due to HIS own nature which is rather different to yours despite there still being some similarities between the two signs.





Pretty much. And you can't turn back a bull's decision with all the Scorp charms in the world. All the magnetic mind-controlling eye contact, sexy strutting and smirking, tuning your voice to the golden ratio pitch interval of the Siren song while your laughing with your friends (unwitting pawns that they are), knowing that he is watching and listening....LOL, all that will serve to do is arouse his emotions and passions, but his mind/reasoning will overpower that *every* time. Bull's ask you questions and share fears revolving around longevity, because they want you to REASON with them. We don't see solidity/stability in whatever emotion your currently feeling, because we know they are transient. Bull will be like "But what if it doesn't work out? I will be destroyed and never recover!" Scorp will answer: "But that's life! There are no guarantees! Life is a risk! That's what makes it fun and exciting! Yay! Besides, isn't it fun when your heart explodes into a thousand pieces! I LOVE THAT! I feel so ALIVE when that happens!!!". LOL...All you had to do was pledge your undying devotion....
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I'm unconvinced with TLS's statement regarding having a good instinct for the long term viability of partners. I'm not doubting it. I'm just not convinced.

Without sounding like a bastard (that's my disclaimer out the way) but didn't you have a marriage to a Cancer for a number of years who probably wasn't the most compatible as all she wanted to do was watch TV because too much talking or mental stimulation hurt her head. Then she cheated anyway.

Now there's the Sag which seems ideal except for the fact you still have your attachment, for want of a better word, to this Scorp where you still think of her more often than not and even have dreams of her.

I'm gonna go and scuttle away now...

I'm actually just interested in the stability thing and the picking long term partner thing.



Its a fair point, but my instincts told me she was wrong for me from the VERY beginning. The problem then was NOT listening to them. Even on the wedding night, I remember she was sleeping and I was looking out the window over the city, and the most overwhelming sadness came over me. Could feel it in the pit of my stomach....I knew it wasn't right. Besides that, she was also one of the most beautiful women I'd ever laid eyes on, so I kinda fell for that old trick as well. Lastly, Cancer women can manipulate the hell out of me. I'm just highly susceptible to a crying woman. Crabs aren't too proud to share all their feelings with you like Scorps, and when the floodgates would open and I could see how real all that stuff she was feeling, was to *her* and her sensitive tiny little heart, I really didn't have the boundary skills at that point in my life to handle it. You live and you learn....

And I'm just speaking from my Taurus side here anyway. Truth is I'm probably doomed in all long-terms as my Venus in Gem always gets bored, and is always arguing w/the Taurus about the benefits of letting things fail....The bull side doesn't take much convincing because the Venus in Gem is like "Just think about it...All you have to do is...nothing! Just do nothing at all!" LOLOL! The bull really likes that....
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Oi!

Who said having your heart obliterated into a thousand pieces by some arsehole was fun?

I can tell you now whole heartedly that it isn't fun at all.

It's down right heart breaking, soul destroying, and is unrecoverable.

Shit happens though. You just have to get the fuck on with it. Eventually you will mend and recover, and go forth and find another love.

The point is not to exclude yourself from something because you think it might be doomed! How can anyone think anything in life is guaranteed?

How do you reason your love?

How do you pledge your undying devotion?

Should one draw up a contractual agreement?

Transient emotions? Really?

I either love you or I don't.

I'm either with you or I'm not?

If I love you then I'm with you and if I'm with you then I love you.

Is this when the bull starts with his questioning of longevity, his sharing of fears, looking for the best guarantee he can get by whoever 'reasons' with him the best?

Is this when the bull starts with his bull about 'but what if this and what if that?'

And if he doesn't get the pledge of undying devotion he's looking for in the form he wants it then he makes up his mind not to pursue or continue.

Meanwhile, he sits there congratulating himself on the strength of his mind for making such an awesome decision and he pats himself on the back knowing his mind will NEVER be changed...

Meanwhile, that same mind continues to think about that amazing Scorp woman that he so smartly turned down...

'Yes, that was definitely the correct decision' he tells himself, as he goes on yet another quest for the sacred stability he thinks he so desires...


*** I'm awarding self first place for Best Post of the Day ***

Don't mind if I do!



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Ha ha! I'm just poking fun here, there's some good advice here from all. Maybe in ten years time you come back to the forum to declare TLS was right... Meanwhile a more grey haired TLS sits puffing on a big, fat, satisfying cigar as he nods his head and says 'uh huh' with a smug smile on his face...

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Hahhahahahahaha! As you shake a bony finger from your rocker and confess "You know...You shoulda listened to him from the start! I always did. He pulled me out of the fire once or twice in pm."

LOL!

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@scorpia I think you should be in contact with him if you genuinely like him and want a relationship with him that's the best way to show us were wanted by someone especially if it's someone who we have feelings for which I'm sure he still does those feeling don't go away easy for us. Be his friend joke around with him don't be too serious or intense with him about things don't talk to guys when you know he's around you or watching you it will show us your ours to have which is what he's looking for.don't try to manipulate him or make him jealous for any reason he will run and never look back at you.just be yourself just not so intense all the time like you guys usually are and you should be good just place yourself around him and hewill get comfortable with you being around and that's what you want.once were comfortable with having you around we won't want you to leave for a very long time good luck.

Ps.you should continue they staring competitions because we love it when you do it to us even though it puts the fear of God in us we can't help but like it.just don't over due it unless you want to fry all of his vrain cells which I hope you don't.



This is all really good advice if you want to pursue this. Every word of this "Ps" part especially is SO true. Cracks me up....There's this Taurus girl on here who keeps bringing up how revelatory and life-changing sexting with her Scorp crush was. My initial reaction is always like "Aggghgh!!! C'mon! Get out!". Then I remember that eye contact alone with my Scorp was more exhilarating than any sex I've ever had.
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Posted by Infinite8
@Agent: Ooops, got cut off! I meant to say that as for the rest of what you wrote, it was pretty accurate for me too 🙂 Also: you should be a comedian! You are so funny and charismatic! Love the sarcasm as well...LMAO!!



Ha ha ha... Frankly, I'm just a bit of cunt.

I like the conversations over here. You can say stuff and generally it's all taken quite well.

The Scorp board needs a fucking sign on the door that says...

'If your emotional temperament is above 7 out of 10 today then please leave that shit outside and collect it on your way out... Thank you...'
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It could benefit from having a warning on that Scorp board too...

'Dear guests,

If at any time during your visit you become overly emotional, irrational, hormonal or suicidal, please proceed to the nearest exit where upon you shall be escorted to your very own 'Dark Cubicle' to calm the fuck down and chill the fuck out, in that order...

Kindest regards,

Ayatollah of Scorp-Dom
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Posted by AgentP911
Fuck off did he pull me out of the fire via PM. The lazy fucker took four months and still didn't finish the task.





HAHAHHAHAH!....Dude, you wrote me _War and Peace_. Maybe next time do a Table of Contents, and an Index. Mail me a book mark or something. Even after I hired the audiobook narrator to record it for me so I could listen on my way to/from work, it was so long that I kept getting interrupted by really important life events (the birth and death of several generations of close relatives, Haley's comet came back around quite a bit, a procession of the equinox or two, etc.)....

I do appreciate how you entitled each part though. It made it much easier to find, when I'm back-clicking hundreds of pages of pm's, searching for "PART 10" or "APPENDIX 12B".

If my slothfulness gets a boo, I think my Taurean endurance deserves a round of applause. LOL.
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Posted by AgentP911
Oi!

Who said having your heart obliterated into a thousand pieces by some arsehole was fun?

I can tell you now whole heartedly that it isn't fun at all.

It's down right heart breaking, soul destroying, and is unrecoverable.






That was kind of the point of my parody. And it does seem pretty obvious Scorps are drawn to these more dangerous/risky types of love, by choice, by fate, or whatever. Its good old benevolent Pluto; he likes to blow you guys up, and then put you back together like little boys do with their action figures. He even adds in a lesson to go with it...lol.
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So... Totally off topic... Whatever the topic was anyway!!

Genuine moral dilemma here, need assistance...

Turned up to my physiotherapist appointment on Monday. Cute dude alert. Have booked second appointment for this Tuesday.

How inappropriate of me would it be to compliment him on his nice arms and then follow it up with asking him if he's single?

Naturally I'll make some form of effort with self to be presentable.

I will interrogate him sufficiently enough before landing killer question and then we'll wallow in awkward silence together while I wait for him to shrink backwards in absolute fear and terror before he runs away to escape!

Yup, I think I've got this dating lark sorted!!



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Fuck off did he pull me out of the fire via PM. The lazy fucker took four months and still didn't finish the task.





HAHAHHAHAH!....Dude, you wrote me _War and Peace_. Maybe next time do a Table of Contents, and an Index. Mail me a book mark or something. Even after I hired the audiobook narrator to record it for me so I could listen on my way to/from work, it was so long that I kept getting interrupted by really important life events (the birth and death of several generations of close relatives, Haley's comet came back around quite a bit, a procession of the equinox or two, etc.)....

I do appreciate how you entitled each part though. It made it much easier to find, when I'm back-clicking hundreds of pages of pm's, searching for "PART 10" or "APPENDIX 12B".

If my slothfulness gets a boo, I think my Taurean endurance deserves a round of applause. LOL.
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Yeah, must have missed the endurance bit. Another questionable Taurus trait...

Just like the douche bag in question CV or resume as you lot call it... which naturally I 'fell' across online while investigating something else... It said personable, reliable, competitive... Yeah, ermmmm... About those traits... Something about me arriving at the airport and you being so reliable that you simply... Weren't there... Or how about he was so personable that he... Didn't really bother... With anything... Competitive as a sloth...

Ughhhh... Let it go... Ok it's gone... The trouble of being a Scorp and taking risks is highlighted in my epic War and Peace...

Anyway, if you didn't want to assist you could have just been DIRECT and said so. Use the many emails to shove up your arse so I don't have to hear you whinge about it...

Stability... My arse!!

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