Are Taurus betchy and intimidating?

Theres a new girl who works with me on fridays and shes a Taurus but I find her very... sharp, rude, and has some sort of era that makes me feel on the edge. She hasn't been like that with me, but when she says things its just clean cut and too the point. I'll watch her in awe as she like back talks my boss and stuff. Hes a Taurus as well. His wife is Cancer, and he tells me that if this girl works with her his wife will not have it. And that she won't be here for long...
I dunno. This is just the first Taurus girl I have come across knowingly.
Are Taurus like this?

Posted by Mr. Defense


Taurus have a circle, a group of people who the value. That group is fairly small and limited. If you exist outside of this group, then they really have no respect or regard for you.

Let me elaborate on this...

Bulls pick and choose who we let in our domain. We trust them completely! We protect them. We're loyal to them. We will fight for them. We're not pretentious. We may appear a bit standoffish, yes, but phony, we're not. An entourage isn't needed. Just people we trust and that we can rely on. This doesn't make us users. Users are leeches who feed off their hosts. With Bulls, it's quite the contrary, we're The Protectors, The Nurturers, & The Solid Ones.

As for anyone outside the inner circle? What purpose do they serve really?
If we can't trust you, why let you in?
If we do not know what your intentions are...why let you in?
If you're here to waste our time...why let you in? (just get straight to the point and state your business)
If you're inconsistent, a liar, phony, or unreliable...why let you in?

If you're outside of our circle, you're not in our heads....or in our lives. You do not know what's going on with us because you're either attempting to serve your own purpose...or you just simply don't care enough to ask.

Posted by Mr. Defense


I was seeing a Taurus girl years ago, and she totally admired some Detroit drug dealer. She loved his loyalty and his aggression.

I strongly dislike aggression. Assertiveness, Yes, Aggression, No!

I can't speak for every Bull (different natal charts, of course)...

But I do admire loyalty.
I also admire honesty, integrity, and good ethics.

There is nothing highly ethical about being a drug dealer.

I believe that a man can be loyal, honest, and dominant.

But when you 'use' the term 'dominance' be careful in the context that is used when referring to a Taurus' preference.

It may have a different interpretation depending on the Bull.

Do I like to be controlled? NO

Possessed? YES!

I think there is a difference.

I love a man who isn't afraid to be a man and assert his position.

Stand his ground,

Not run me over with a Bulldozer!

I love being claimed as "His Woman."

That big 'cojones attitude' turns me on. (pardon the expression) 😛

It's simply a statement.

Being 'smothered', and 'controlled' is an action that I do not care too much for.

I would say that particular one is like that. One day a week doesn't make for buddy buddy time, not really.

If she won't have the back sass, she won't. Not like everyone within a job environ cannot process who you can talk easily with and who you do not.

Posted by Torro
No, Taurus is a peaceful one. Will intimidate only when provoked. A lot.

This ^^^^^^^^

Posted by venusianbull
Two Bulls together have the ability to tell the other to feck right off and have a beer later with no issue.

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And this^^^^^^^^

Posted by Mr. Defense
TaurusBull, then answer me this question. I was assertive with the Taurus girl, I never took her crap, and I let her know she was crossing the line.

It's the way you did it.
Bulls respect three things.
Honesty, Consistency and Reliability.

*Note: consistency is underlined.*

You were assertive.
But not consistent.
In one breath you enjoyed taking care of her.
Then...
You complained about being taken for granted.

See the inconsistency?

This is a common problem Bulls have with most Virgos, believe it or not!

We're fixed signs...not mutable.
Don't expect us to change when you change.

You introduced the concept of a FWB.
But secretly wanted a relationship.
So w/o verbalizing this to her...you treated the FWB as a relationship.
Gave her the impression that you didn't mind taking care of her.
Then threw it in her face.

The nature and details of the relationship should have been discussed prior to any monetary contributions to any household bills, gifts and etc.

We respect men who are FIRM and CONSISTENT.

Flip-flopping indicates game playing, manipulation, weakness, or a man who is unsure of what he wants.

An assertive, consistent man who knows what he wants spells S-E-X-Y!🙂

I love you Virgos.
But to be honest....
The inconsistencies, changeable poker faces, "Woe is me, my sh&t don't stink attitude"...
Gets on my nerve sometimes!

To handle a Bull...
You just need to show her ONE FACE, the real 'YOU,'...not a myriad of poker faces.
And please do this with a subtle firmness and consistency.

yes they want to create a scene for attention because nobody really cares what they have to say

LOL!

This is real cute VirgoR....🙂

Is this why we can't stay mad at you Virgos for long—??

Always know how to put a smile on our faces 🙂

Posted by Mr. Defense


The lesson a Taurus should learn is to learn to see the world outside of your nose. In my opinon Taurus are a little too self involved and self possessed, and they really don't pay attention to how their actions impact other people. I think this is the hardest thing a Taurus has an issue recognizing, but it's important. I don't care what sign you deal with, people are going to judge you based on what appears to be seflishness.

We do see the world outside our noses.
We're not as self involved and self possessed as the world think we are.
Quite the contrary....
We give...give...and we GIVE!

The problem most zodiacs have with Bulls?
We're quite comfortable being conventional 'old souls' in the New Age of Aquarius.
We make no apologies for who we are...
And quite perceptive to the world around us.
Some things just don't change.
Fake people.
Liars.
Cheaters.
Dishonesty.
Greed.

While the other 11 zodiacs may play nice & be distracted...

A bull will always have their eyes open. We can predict how a situation will play out, and do you know what?

A majority of the time, we're SPOT ON!

Trust in what we tell you.

How else are we going to protect the people in our inner circle?


If an individual's intentions are disingenuous, I call them out on their BS and refuse to play nice...how does NOT permitting this individual into my inner circle going to have a positive impact on my life?

@Mr Defense...

Example: I will enjoy maybe one glass of wine. I NEVER get drunk. Why? I'm a lady who prefers to be alert and in control of her situation and observant of her surroundings.

How am I perceived by others? Uptight. Inflexible. Boring.

While everyone else is distracted, intoxicated....I'm ALERT!

So, yes, I can see the world past my nose!

@Mr Defense...

Many Bulls, although annoyed by some traits Virgos possess....it's the earthiness Virgos possess, and old-school traditional values they adhere to is what we find so endearing....
As well as their nurturing attitude and their amazing intellectual wit.
I feel completely natural (to be myself) when I'm around them.

As for change?
I don't mind gradual changes...I just can't do sudden changes.
I will adapt eventually...but not when I feel that my morals, or integrity is in question.
Despite the bad rap/misconception Bulls are given for being greedy, selfish and self-absorbed...
I can never make a decision that will impede on someone else's happiness, take away their choices, misrepresent myself, or make an immoral decision that went against everything I stood for.

This is a side of Tauruses that people don't see on the Evil Post Cards! 😛

Posted by Torro

Don't you hate that feeling of not being in control of your words, actions, body, it's weak and pathetic.

I couldn't agree with you more...

Haha Gandalf. Good smell is serious bidness.

Posted by Redbull
We're not going to waste time on people who arent worth our time. Or worse, people who are detrimental to be around. And we only get better at this as we mature. No other sign understands this principle like us.

This^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Right, well we talked and stuff now. She seems cool. Aha , from what I hear I'll be the only one who gets her. ( She smokes and stuff so thats how we connected LOL. No one else there does.
wow replies, lol

Posted by harry99


Pick one stick to it and never change it and if you do be prepared for us to leave or for us to get suspicious of you until you prove what you're saying.....

PREACH!
PREACH!
PREACH!

@Mr Defense

Welcome to Taurus class 101

Posted by harry99


Pick one stick to it and never change it and if you do be prepared for us to leave or for us to get suspicious of you until you prove what you're saying.....

Please take notes....and sit quietly....

Posted by Mr. Defense
Is it worth my time to try to win her back, or is trying to make a amends a waste of my time?

This^^^^^

Spells U-N-C-E-R-T-A-I-N-T-Y

Haven't you been taking notes Mr Defense?

Harry99...
What do you think?...

Should we put him over our knee and spank him with a ruler? 😛


Mr Defense
Maybe having you pinned down in one place will keep you consistent.

Posted by Mr. Defense
Sorry I don't gamble. I want a sure thing. There isn't anything appealing about rolling dice in the game of love.

You want the 'sure' thing....
But yet, you express uncertainty?

We can't answer that question for you.

Posted by robyn808

Your answer is totally in your question. Is it worth your time? If you're not sure, then NO! it is not worth your time.

Will you follow your heart or your head?

Sounds like to me, you follow your head....
And create uncertainty by over-analyzing a situation to death.

Do not expect your former Taurus or any other Taurus on this board to dot the I's or cross the T's for you.

Posted by harry99


Know thyself.

Love is so rare that it's best to get it if you can. Don't let your pride stop you from going after something that could be
great. Not saying she'll even talk to you much less get back with you. We're pretty consistent that way.

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So Mr Defense....

What do you want to do?

Whatever you choose to do....
Make that decision, stick to it, and simply live with it!

Posted by harry99
Then don't worry about it. Because you can't control everything.

Some (Not all) Virgos DO want to control everything don't they?
I will not exude any emotion...therefore I'm in control.
I will not be romantic, vulnerable or play the courting game...therefore I'm in control....

Posted by Mr. Defense
Sorry I don't gamble. I want a sure thing. There isn't anything appealing about rolling dice in the game of love.

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...Therefore I am not in control....

LOL!

Posted by Torro
No, Taurus is a peaceful one. Will intimidate only when provoked. A lot.

Our neighbour Aries might be to blame for this though. Aries is agressive, sharp and to the point. If she happens to have an Aries Mercury, it will add to the rudeness and bluntness.

why it always gotta be about aries....im sure there are bulls without aries in their chart that are agressive...stop trying to put your negative traits off on us....own it

Posted by Gandalf
Taurus are not intimidating. They smell very very good. If i see a taurus i sniff the shit out of them. other than that i don't give a crap about taurus or being in the inner circle😛

it just kills me when i go to certain boards and certain signs speak as if they are so much better or elite than others...puleeze....its beeen rampant over here on this side as of late....pisces are also guilty of this....and they say fire signs have huge egos