Can someone decode this Taurus-Speak for me?

1st "Taurus-Speak" example:

Mr. Bull tells me that we should get together tomorrow. I say, "ok." He then says, "I'll let you know by noon if I'm available or not." What? Why ask to do something if you're not sure if you really can do something? This has happened a few times. Then, when tomorrow comes, he DOES let me know by noon (as promised), but it's usally, "I'm all tied up today." Please decode... One time I said, "Let's just do something the next day then" when he said that he'd let me know by noon if he was free. He ignored my suggestion...

2nd "Taurus-Speak" example:

Mr. Bull texts me to say that he sent me an email. I text back saying that I would not be able to get to it until late that night, as I was not home. His response was, "No problema! Go party all night!!" I responed, "You should be partying with me." His final reply was, "I don't have time to party. I'm too busy working." What does all of that mean?

I am not understanding this at all. Are you sure this guy is a taurus? What are the rest of his placements? I tell you what it seems as if he is just playing games. The way I see it, you hace two options. Be Direct, or Ignore the guy. Hopefully he will drop the facade, and maybe you can find the real person hiding behind the front.

I'm not a taurus, but I know a lot of taurus people and this doesn't sound like something they would say. You should say: I am a busy person and don't have time to be your last minute thought of the day that you fit in if you have time.

— yeah, that's odd and I don't think it has to do with his sign at all - it's probably a guy thing; especially that "I don't have time to party, I'm busy working." He sounds a little pissed off that you are off doing whatever it is you are doing...partially jealousy, but I think with all of the other comments you've posted, he is all over the place. Typically if a Taurus wants you - you don't have to question it. Yes, we are stubborn, and slow to fall in love, but if we want to spend time with you, we don't play games and stuff we WANT to spend time with you. I honestly don't see this as sign related. But, we'll see what others think.

what the hell are u talking about? there's nothing to decode. taurus, and men in general, are not that complicated. ur getting all girl with this. in the first example u gave he is just trying to keep the lines of communication open. he's letting u know he wants to spend time with u but, from what i gather, he is a busy busy man. he probably foresees that there might be an open slot the next day, being as nothing is scheduled, and is informing u just in case. tell him it's confusing u.

in the 2nd it sounds like he's encouraging u to have a good time? i don't get it.

Probably because there is nothing to get. Busy, or not. You make time. SexyBanana be upfront with the guy, and find out what his deal is. I'm curious as to what he would say.

"Nana" - I like that, Bella. It's HIS Venus that is in Aries. His has a Libra moon.

I'm surprised at all of the replies here. The thing is (in the 2nd scenario), I wasn't going out partying. He ASSUMED that I was. It would totally be within my character to over-analyze, so maybe that's what I'm doing wrong here...

I'm "getting all girl" - LOL...

Wow...you are very beautiful, Madalena...

I have a lotta "friggin" Scorpio in significant areas of my chart (rising, venus) - haha, so I get your point about him acting Scorpionic (cuz we can be so suspicious/jealous)...hence why I was reading into it (and probably over-analyzing / getting "all girl.").

The bottom line is that I'm probably too free-spirited and unpredictable for Mr. Taurus. He is drawn to me and repelled by me at the same time. He doesn't know if he can trust me...especially because actions speak louder than words to Taureans. My words tell him all the time that I am drawn to him, attracted to him, admire his intelligence, etc. However, my actions tell him that I like to party, get "hit on" at said parties, am not a workaholic, and cannot be pinned down under his thumb. He pulls away from me when he hasn't seen me in awhile. But as soon as I am in his presence - and he sees me, smells my perfume, and hears my voice - he changes his tune. And no, we have not slept together.

what i'd really recommend is not listening to any female advice when it comes to a guy. let's not kid ourselves here. we don't think like men. men do. if u want advice on ur man problems then i suggest asking one. seriously. most men will just give it to u straight. u may not like what u hear but they're usually spot on in my experience.

I have to agree with Ninja, I have a guy friend that I met online, we've only seen each other twice it's never been anything intimate, but we talk on the phone occasionally. We've established this kind of best friend relationship over the phone in the last 7 years (he lives in another state) Any time I need advice on a guy regardless of his sign, I run the scenario by my friend and he's always dead on, he in most cases can predict what the guy means or will do before the situation occurs. Even though at times I wished he was wrong with a guy I really wanted it to work with, he was always correct in his opinion of the guy and why he was doing the things he did. It's very scary, but most men are wired the same, it's their experiences and maturity that make them different.

Posted by SexyBanana
Wow...you are very beautiful, Madalena...

I have a lotta "friggin" Scorpio in significant areas of my chart (rising, venus) - haha, so I get your point about him acting Scorpionic (cuz we can be so suspicious/jealous)...hence why I was reading into it (and probably over-analyzing / getting "all girl.").

The bottom line is that I'm probably too free-spirited and unpredictable for Mr. Taurus. He is drawn to me and repelled by me at the same time. He doesn't know if he can trust me...especially because actions speak louder than words to Taureans. My words tell him all the time that I am drawn to him, attracted to him, admire his intelligence, etc. However, my actions tell him that I like to party, get "hit on" at said parties, am not a workaholic, and cannot be pinned down under his thumb. He pulls away from me when he hasn't seen me in awhile. But as soon as I am in his presence - and he sees me, smells my perfume, and hears my voice - he changes his tune. And no, we have not slept together.

He sounds EXACTLY like my Taurus!!!!! wow. we were ina great relationship for a year and he got super scared. Now he says over the phone that when he invited me to his brother bday party (with entire family) that it means nothings. The minute he see's me he is ALL OVER ME. Baby this and baby that, taking pics, holding my waist, kissing me and fixing my plate. jUST LIKE OLD TIMES!!!! The extended family (aunts, uncles and cousins) didnt even know we had broken up! Then he tells me he loves me but is not ready for a relationship....(after being in one with me for 11months) And i think his moon or venus is in Aries. The psychic told me our planets are "SOUL MATE PLACING" someone HELP ME! LOL.

Posted by Shaks
Fishy.. never forget this regarding your Taurus.. "Dont listen to what people say, its what they do that shows their true intentions"

Yeah...

I think your guy just needs some reassurance. I think the fact that he still brings you around his family says a lot.

How long has this umm... relationship been going on for??

Because if it is just the begining I can promise you he's testing you, whether conciously or subconsciously, to see how maleable you are.

He wants to see what he can get away with.

Posted by SexyBanana
"Nana" - I like that, Bella. It's HIS Venus that is in Aries.

Sex Nana would be better...

OooO Venus in Aries... Not good.

Yep...it's a new...um..."relationship" (if you wanna call it that).

Yeah...I agree. Last night he texted me while I was at Disneyland. I told him that I couldn't text right then because I was at Disneyland. His response was, "Say hi to all of the princesses for me." To me, that's a nice comment dressed in snake's clothing. He wanted me to get jealous of the princess comment. And yeah...having a lotta Scorpio in me...I got jealous. UGH! I didn't respond though. I just stopped texting him.


Uh-oh... Why is Venus in Aries not good?

In my experience, Venus in Aries people they change their minds in love a lot, they fall in and out of it very quickly. IME.

He almost sounds like he is wanting you to be his beck and call girl. I don't mean that bad either. I have found in my expereince with these guys, is they really want you to make the time for them. its shows that they are important to you and they always wanna feel like they are important. When i was first "dating" mine, i happened to get really sick. So i wasn't at work and i was able to answer every text and call he made. HE LOVED THAT. Then i went back to work and it's like he had to detox from having that time i had for only him. like i had to ween him off of me again. lol

It may not sound like it matches what i'm talking about, but thats what i'm seeing. He's interested because he wouldn't be asking you if he wasn't. He might be unsure of his time, so he isn't committing 100% , but he is also seeing if you can conform to his life style and his needs.

I would play along if it doesn't really bother you. These guys are worth the extra effort you HAVE to put in for them. but their reward is so worth it!

I would conform to what he's asking for a little bit, see how he responds to you being carefree about it. let him get away with it a few times, then call him on it. not in an irritated or angry manner, by expressing that you feel like he is teasing you. make it light... and easy.

Oooh yummy! I'd LOVE to be his "beck and call" girl!