Can there be anything in my birth chart that makes me less popular or make people jealous of me?

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aj123
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11 Years

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Hi,

Throughout my life, I've always felt a bit like marmite haha, in that the nice, kind people (you know the type who are nice and polite to generally everyone) absolutely adore and love me and give me extra attention etc. but the the selfish, more rude people (about 75% of the population I've encountered) seem to dislike me (secretly) as in front of me they'd be friendly to me but in the end, they'd accuse me of something or say mean things to others about me but I am not sure why this happens quite frequently?!

I am polite, say sorry, thank you, etc, smiley, have a 50:50 listen-talk balance, not too loud, never rude, always willing to have a chat, willing to help, never demanding, never bossy, etc. (I am quite a simple bread and butter type in that I'm nice to everyone until they prove to be rude etc (but even then, I would never directly confront anyone)..

Maybe it's jealousy? As people who really like me suggest it might be that and a really close guy friend even told me if he was a girl, he'd hate me out of jealousy. Most of the negative behaviour I get are from girls (I am a girl as well) and I notice a lot of the ones that hate on me, often copy me in many aspects too e.g. clothes, hair style , food/diet..

I am not trying to suggest I am so amazing that I can only explain it as jealousy being the reason haha but I have 2 degrees from a top uni, working at a uni, average/slightly above average in terms of looks (or so I've been told)

Even recently, there was a competition for a job contract extension between myself and 3 other people - me and another girl got the job after a fair interview process - the other 2 who didn't get it unfriended me on Facebook and are generally resentful (but still friendly with the other girl who got accepted).

Even at school, people would ask me what grades I got and then call me a show off (even though they asked for me what my grades were) but others would post their high grades even on Facebook and they'd get congratulated and praised by the same people who called me a show off.

Is there anything in one's chart that could indicate these kind of problems? I always feel like in a group e.g. at work, school, house share, one person (usually a girl) ends up disliking me - somethings without even saying a word to me and then somehow spreads this feeling to everyone else as well, despite me not having even a slight disagreement with any of them.

Can people feel more jealousy towards certain people for some astrological reason? As I know there are, definitely, better looking and/or cleverer people than me where people do not feel jealousy and support them whilst being an obstacle to me 😢

Any insight much appreciated.

Thank you.