Hard reading taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by spljm on Friday, August 12, 2016 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Taurus Flirting and Mixed Signals

Taurus women often express affection through actions rather than words and can be inconsistent in communication. Their flirtation may be subtle and influenced by their comfort level. Pay attention to her touch and behaviors as signs of interest, but remember she may also value stability over verbal affirmation. Reading her signals requires observing her actions over time.

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@spljm
10 Years

I have a good friend who is a taurus. She has told me that she likes me and is attracted to me but some days acts completely uninterested. It seems like she flirts on her own terms - however, she is always sweet and always does sweet things for me.

She only told me she liked me once and in the beginning told me I was hot, she was attracted to me, etc. but the more I've gotten to know her, the less she says it. She used to text and flirt but now she does it in person moreso than in text. Is that a good sign?

Also, another question about taurus ladies I have is - anytime I bring up her having a crush on me or liking me or anything, she ignores it. She always tries to change the subject - text and in person.... so it's kind of hard to read. She is always touching on me and smacking my arm and play arguing but it is super hard to understand how she is feeling.

Can someone help me out on how to read these mixed signals?

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@spljm
10 Years

Oh she knows. I've told her how I feel but she gets all shy and changes the subject....but then goes right back to flirting

Do Taurus women change the subject and ignore hints like that often? Maybe she is too proud to admit how she feels?

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Yeah probably just see where her heads at? Atm. And if it meshes well with you and hers then start spending time.Taurus are earth sign once we express things it is up to the other person to show back. It is hard initially to express in the first place.

How long have you known her?

It pretty much just so easy and less complicated than most people think about Taurus. Not soooo much extroverted like most people Taurus come in contact with.

I'm a Taurus with Aqua moon. I usually express things I feel atm and let it be and see if either they can reciprocated some way. Or they can't and it's one sided situation then.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh I don't care but I think most Taurus have standards on how long they want to be friends, then become lovers like their own way. TAURUS are the one sign you can't rush into but Taurus always wants to know you like them back as well by doing your own things and being able to trust before hopping in the bed. So let's say you have know each other 6 months and you both are on the same I don't care the guy really should keep interested in the person they talk to at least. Even if Taurus initiate it must mean the communication is lacking and need to compromise together. TAURUS likes confirmation and routine communication alot.

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

If she's touching you and flirting with you she probably is sending signals that she likes you so why don't you just kiss her?

You both seem somewhat shy, you'll be stuck in this stalemate a long time unless someone makes the first move. And that someone should be you.

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@spljm
10 Years

I'm a Sagittarius - she is nearly 50

I'm just wondering I guess if Taurus women are known to change the subject or not answer a playful question and if so, why? Too shy to admit the question or something else?

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@spljm
10 Years

Hmm but We are both women so I don't know if that makes a difference...also, I don't know why she would say she liked me and is attracted to me if I make her uneasy....it's like she always wants to flirt on her terms...if I text something flirty she ignores it or changes the subject? Maybe she's shy...maybe she wants to be in control?? That's what I'm trying to figure out

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@Summer16
10 Years

Uneasy because she doesn't quite know where she stands with you. If you flirt, she isn't yet sure to trust your flirting or pass it off as passing attraction. Taureans need to feel secure.

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@spljm
10 Years

Ah ha

How do I show that it isn't just flirting? I always think it's obvious that I'm crazy about her

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@Summer16
10 Years

Just be consistent and don't back off. Because then that starts a whole new thought process and we think you were never seriously flirting to begin with. And actions speak louder than just words for a Taurus. Those 'aww' moments that show a person really cares gets to us more than someone just saying they care.