A second opinion...Forced contact

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Noidea1123 on Thursday, August 11, 2016 and has 17 replies.

Do Taurus Individuals React Well to Forced Contact

Taurus individuals generally value their independence and prefer clear boundaries. Forcing contact can lead to being ignored or direct rejection. They tend to communicate their feelings honestly, and respecting their space often promotes better understanding and connection.

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@Noidea1123
10 Years

This one is not for me as I am currently dealing with my Bull.

Before I tell her what I have come to learn some real Taurus input would be great.

As far as I understand Taurus will let you know if she/he doesn't want you around/to talk to etc and forcing contact does not go down well. Would that be correct? You will either just get ignored or told straight up!!

Even though I have been having issues with mine not responding and just disappearing. When I tell him about it he usually apologies or something like "I was going to but" lol! Must be the procrastinator side of him that comes out with that!

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@TheCancerGirl
10 Years

All Bulls ignore and disappear from time to time.. You have to be incredibly patient with them if you can't they are definitely not the one for you love.. But they are honest so if yours didnt want you they will tell you!

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@RedIsNotBlue
10 Years

Posted by TheCancerGirl
All Bulls ignore and disappear from time to time.. You have to be incredibly patient with them if you can't they are definitely not the one for you love.. But they are honest so if yours didnt want you they will tell you!

It's eerie how well this describes me. Haunting. :o

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@symone88
10 Years

My Taurus ex never ignored me but he has disappeared on me before. When that happens, I never go out my way to chase him, because I know if we are meant to be then we will be. Although we have broken up and I took the break up pretty hard, he did not ignore me the few times I reached out. But like someone said above, he does look at the me reaching out as being forced...

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by jeane
Mine has never disappeared or not responded to me.

This is a Taurus in love. When a Taurus loves you they can't get enough of you. They don't disappear on you or go deathly silent.

You're lucky Jeane.

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@jeane
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Season

Posted by jeane
Mine has never disappeared or not responded to me.

This is a Taurus in love. When a Taurus loves you they can't get enough of you. They don't disappear on you or go deathly silent.

You're lucky Jeane.

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Thank you. I feel lucky. He is such a wonderful person. Far better than me. I genuinely feel so lucky to have him in my life. I feel like I have won the jackpot. I can't imagine being without him.

No, he has never gone silent on me. We talk everyday. I get the good morning texts and the good night texts. He'll initiate them 80% of the time. He confides in me, shows me his soft underside and calls me his best friend. He'd do anything to make me happy, but I'm already happy so he perfect just the way he is.

We're not in the quick flurry of a new relationship either. we've been together close to two and a half years now.

You Taurus are just amazing.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Taurus Infatuated:

1. Moves fast

2. Slows Down

3. Chase is over.

4. Doesn't see longevity

5. Disappears briefly

6. Reappears for some incentives (sex, food)

7. Disappears again.

Taurus in Love

1. Moves slow, but always consistent.

2. Behavioral patterns with you are more monotonous.

3. Can take or leave you with any BS you're associated with.

4. Sees Longevity. Incorporates you into his future plans.

5. Shows an interest in your pursuits, ambitions, and inquires about your family members and friends.

6. Chivalrous, noble respectful and sweet.

7. Very affectionate. The best of both worlds, seeing a future and strengthening that emotional connection.

Taurus in Limbo between Infatuation & Love

1. Frustrated, Angry Outbursts

2. Stubborn and Pride-Centered

3. Longer Disappearing Acts

4. Excuses as to why he can't commit. (Bulls are straight-foward, it's either a "yes" or a "no.") If the responses are vague. They're in limbo.

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@shopgirl
10 Years

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Taurus Infatuated:

1. Moves fast

2. Slows Down

3. Chase is over.

4. Doesn't see longevity

5. Disappears briefly

6. Reappears for some incentives (sex, food)

7. Disappears again.

Taurus in Love

1. Moves slow, but always consistent.

2. Behavioral patterns with you are more monotonous.

3. Can take or leave you with any BS you're associated with.

4. Sees Longevity. Incorporates you into his future plans.

5. Shows an interest in your pursuits, ambitions, and inquires about your family members and friends.

6. Chivalrous, noble respectful and sweet.

7. Very affectionate. The best of both worlds, seeing a future and strengthening that emotional connection.

Taurus in Limbo between Infatuation & Love

1. Frustrated, Angry Outbursts

2. Stubborn and Pride-Centered

3. Longer Disappearing Acts

4. Excuses as to why he can't commit. (Bulls are straight-foward, it's either a "yes" or a "no.") If the responses are vague. They're in limbo.

You wrote about taurus in limbo - how long does it usually last or with some persons it can last forever? 🙂

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@Noidea1123
10 Years

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Taurus Infatuated:

1. Moves fast

2. Slows Down

3. Chase is over.

4. Doesn't see longevity

5. Disappears briefly

6. Reappears for some incentives (sex, food)

7. Disappears again.

Taurus in Love

1. Moves slow, but always consistent.

2. Behavioral patterns with you are more monotonous.

3. Can take or leave you with any BS you're associated with.

4. Sees Longevity. Incorporates you into his future plans.

5. Shows an interest in your pursuits, ambitions, and inquires about your family members and friends.

6. Chivalrous, noble respectful and sweet.

7. Very affectionate. The best of both worlds, seeing a future and strengthening that emotional connection.

Taurus in Limbo between Infatuation & Love

1. Frustrated, Angry Outbursts

2. Stubborn and Pride-Centered

3. Longer Disappearing Acts

4. Excuses as to why he can't commit. (Bulls are straight-foward, it's either a "yes" or a "no.") If the responses are vague. They're in limbo.

I love this!

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@TheCancerGirl
10 Years

Posted by Instantkarma

Posted by TheCancerGirl
All Bulls ignore and disappear from time to time.. You have to be incredibly patient with them if you can't they are definitely not the one for you love.. But they are honest so if yours didnt want you they will tell you!

I think you relationship had some issues due to his relationship status?

My Taurus bf never ignores me. Only time he left me was because I asked him to. And gave him a great reason to leave me alone.

Otherwise he has been very consistent and considerate of my feelibgs. Doesn't ignore. Doesn't disappear.

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That may be true I can't speak on why he did it but we are together now and planning to have a child soon and he still has his moments where he gets in his head and needs his space he will go quite for a day or so and come back and tell me what was wrong or why he needed some time. I can't say for sure if in the past it was because of that because we are together now and he still had his moments..

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@SofiaV87
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by shopgirl

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Taurus Infatuated:

1. Moves fast

2. Slows Down

3. Chase is over.

4. Doesn't see longevity

5. Disappears briefly

6. Reappears for some incentives (sex, food)

7. Disappears again.

Taurus in Love

1. Moves slow, but always consistent.

2. Behavioral patterns with you are more monotonous.

3. Can take or leave you with any BS you're associated with.

4. Sees Longevity. Incorporates you into his future plans.

5. Shows an interest in your pursuits, ambitions, and inquires about your family members and friends.

6. Chivalrous, noble respectful and sweet.

7. Very affectionate. The best of both worlds, seeing a future and strengthening that emotional connection.

Taurus in Limbo between Infatuation & Love

1. Frustrated, Angry Outbursts

2. Stubborn and Pride-Centered

3. Longer Disappearing Acts

4. Excuses as to why he can't commit. (Bulls are straight-foward, it's either a "yes" or a "no.") If the responses are vague. They're in limbo.

You wrote about taurus in limbo - how long does it usually last or with some persons it can last forever? 🙂

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My Taurus BFF has been in limbo for a VERY long time. She makes excuses for it too. Very stubborn

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by shopgirl

You wrote about taurus in limbo - how long does it usually last or with some persons it can last forever? 🙂

For as long as the other person allows it and keeps them entertained.

The emotional connection is there...but security, the safety net, and stability isn't there.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

If he marries for stability with no emotional connection to the individual, a Bull will cheat.

If he loves you but sees no stability, he will NEVER commit. Don't be surprised if he marries someone else....out of the blue.

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Forced contact =no no

I will tell you when I want to see you.

If you're wondering, ask and I will tell you.

I shoot it straight as a bullette.