Complicated Love :(

I'm in love.

With a Taurus guy.

It's one sided. Not that he rejected me or something. But because I'd never have the courage to express how I feel. So he'd never know. Unless my excessive use of emojis via texts or excessive initiation of conversations or excessive blushing (face to face) triggers him or something.

For him I'm a good friend. That's it. Good friend ☹

If anyone can advise me anything regarding this. You're welcome!

@Op Hm how old are you guys.

You know i just got into emotions icons here and only here. I don't use them outside of here. It's all over.

Use words in person if you are close distance of each other?

How do you know him?

Is this a LDR?

If he's single he could have just friend zoned u because he didn't think u were interested Or maybe you're really pretty or funny or had another guy getting ur attention. Either way if u like him just tell him u have a crush on him and let him adjust to that. Then he'll make a move and u guys will live happily ever after ?☺️

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op Hm how old are you guys.

You know i just got into emotions icons here and only here. I don't use them outside of here. It's all over.

Use words in person if you are close distance of each other?

How do you know him?

Is this a LDR?

I'm 25. He's 26.

I overuse emoticons 😛

Yes it's long distance (friendship), nowhere near relationship 😢

Posted by Diddybop
If he's single he could have just friend zoned u because he didn't think u were interested Or maybe you're really pretty or funny or had another guy getting ur attention. Either way if u like him just tell him u have a crush on him and let him adjust to that. Then he'll make a move and u guys will live happily ever after ?☺️

If only I could gather the courage to say that I have a crush on him.

I'm even scared to start texting conversations with him everyday because I feel he may understand my hidden intentions and get creeped out.

I don't want to lose him 😢 😢

Posted by AneemA
You should simply ask him,

Thursday afternoon, you may casually let him know what a hectic schedule you have during that day and told him how it would be nice to grab something to drink after office hours and just chill. Then, "I'd like it if you come along with me." And see how his reaction will be. The context can be modified, say if you're on college then the same thing but it would be related to study and classes.

But just remember this is to have a clue on the initial attraction, in a way that is he finds you interesting enough, base one type of thing or as this is a taurus we're talking about, that he finds you comfy enough to spend time with. Then check with us again after doing that.

Screw waiting for him to ask you anything nor letting yourself surrender to the mystery. No, yoy have to know! And this is the first step. Let's not talk about confession of your feelings, just keep it casual and see the flow.

It was nice advice, but the problem is we stay in different cities. So meeting is not possible anytime soon.

How should I carry this thingy via phone? Like should I ask him about his life and everything? If so, how?

This "getting to know each other on a deeper level" phase via texting is new to me ?

How did you meet though which site?

Damn by your age I just ended my relationship with my ex. At your age I had my own apartment, car, and job. So what are your goals now?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How did you meet though which site?

Damn by your age I just ended my relationship with my ex. At your age I had my own apartment, car, and job. So what are your goals now?

Not online. We met at a party through friends. He came to my city for a week.

Well I have been through a breakup a year ago. Don't know about him. He's single though.

We both work btw (apartment and job - check). My love goal is to grow old with him ?

Cool. Good luck with your adventures in life and make sure you ask important questions and get to know him better. And have fun yet cautious.

My advice would be to focus on someone who is more available to you.

Give your love to someone where there is greater opportunity of receiving it back.

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Posted by Diddybop
If he's single he could have just friend zoned u because he didn't think u were interested Or maybe you're really pretty or funny or had another guy getting ur attention. Either way if u like him just tell him u have a crush on him and let him adjust to that. Then he'll make a move and u guys will live happily ever after ?☺️

If only I could gather the courage to say that I have a crush on him.

I'm even scared to start texting conversations with him everyday because I feel he may understand my hidden intentions and get creeped out.

I don't want to lose him 😢 😢

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How far away are you guys from each other? Taurus can be uber practical so one of the reasons above or it not being realistic can be a reason he's not putting himself out there.

If you get to know each other and attraction builds, you might force him to think outside of the box. But that can take a lonnnng time. U can just put it out there that u like him. U don't even need game just plain old "I like you" and force him to think about it. It'll change his approach to u at the very least and he'll give u some definitive answer.

If the answer isn't what you want just say well I think ur awesome so let's still be friends. Taurus are kind hearted - be brave! 🙂