Cancer, Taurus, Leo triangle

Cancer female seeing Taurus guy

Leo female friends with Taurus guy, who deep down wants him

Taurus guy doesn't want to end his friendship with Leo and has been caught lying about meeting up at times.

Apart from this he is a great guy and he seems very in love with cancer.

I don't know what to suggest...Cancer wants to end it based on a recent lie, yet again.

I'm thinking the Leo is going to win....

@TheGreatSearcher

If you are not involved or don't care about these people, then don't get yourself involved at all.

Can't say much aside from the fact that this Taurus is an asshole.

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
If you are not involved or don't care about these people, then don't get yourself involved at all.

Can't say much aside from the fact that this Taurus is an asshole.

I don't want to get involved but being friends she confides in me... So I guess I'm involved by default? I don't know, I really liked him too-- for her-- he made her so happy. I guess I don't want to see this ugly side of him, but I think you're right, he's playing with her or wants to keep the other in the background...

She should dump him?

Posted by Nevermore
Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

I think the Cancer needs to get a grip and not let the Leo come between her and good thing.

Leos are very competitive ...this girl is probably getting off on the fact that the Cancer is threatened by her. She probably doesn't want the Taurus , just likes the attention... And the Cancer is looking jealous, insecure, and paranoid by giving the Taurus an ultimatum

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂

12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by brianafay
I think the Cancer needs to get a grip and not let the Leo come between her and good thing.

Leos are very competitive ...this girl is probably getting off on the fact that the Cancer is threatened by her. She probably doesn't want the Taurus , just likes the attention... And the Cancer is looking jealous, insecure, and paranoid by giving the Taurus an ultimatum

THIS is what I have been thinking... the advice I have given her in the past s to stick to her guy but recently, it's a bit much, the lying isn't fun.

AS you said, LEO doesn't care about the Taurus guy, she is trying to upset Cancer.

I am thinking let him go, maybe then he will realize...

@AbbyNormal

i know what its like to be put in the position to chose my partner or my friend and i dont like it. i would never ask my partner to stop talking to their friends. i encourage it. everyone needs friends and a support system. sometimes it's easier to talk to them about some things. i understand this and i guess i expect my partner to be openminded enough to consider this as well. some people have deeply rooted insecurities and cant handle their partners having friends. i dont want to be with someone like that. thats not to say i devote most of my time to the few friends i have, no. i make sure that when im with my boyfriend, im with him... not on the phone with someone else. keeping in touch regularly is normal. talking all the damn time to someone else could be annoying im sure. whenever im on the phone too much, he will say so. and i put the phone down and spend more focused time with him. i just dont think its realistic to ask someone to cut all ties with friends. if the chick is obviously into her boyfriend, as the gf, I'd ask him to limit his time spent with this female to avoid any unpleasantries and encourage him to assess the situation. you cant turn a blind eye due to friendship either. if shes into him, that needs to be shut down by him and id trust him to do so if we talk about it. at this point in my life, i would hope my partner would have the prudence to consider such things before i even have to bring them up.

the lying is a NO NO. you are free to do whatever you want but dont lie to me. dont break that trust. she will have to assess that part on her own. he might have lied just bc he didnt want to give up the friendship or he could have bc the leo got what she wanted. thats where i find my biggest issue.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂
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DXP is based on generalizations... and Taurus are no exceptions, thank you for stopping by.

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Posted by Nevermore
Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?
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Yes, they have been for awhile.

12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by AbbyNormal
i know what its like to be put in the position to chose my partner or my friend and i dont like it. i would never ask my partner to stop talking to their friends. i encourage it. everyone needs friends and a support system. sometimes it's easier to talk to them about some things. i understand this and i guess i expect my partner to be openminded enough to consider this as well. some people have deeply rooted insecurities and cant handle their partners having friends. i dont want to be with someone like that. thats not to say i devote most of my time to the few friends i have, no. i make sure that when im with my boyfriend, im with him... not on the phone with someone else. keeping in touch regularly is normal. talking all the damn time to someone else could be annoying im sure. whenever im on the phone too much, he will say so. and i put the phone down and spend more focused time with him. i just dont think its realistic to ask someone to cut all ties with friends. if the chick is obviously into her boyfriend, as the gf, I'd ask him to limit his time spent with this female to avoid any unpleasantries and encourage him to assess the situation. you cant turn a blind eye due to friendship either. if shes into him, that needs to be shut down by him and id trust him to do so if we talk about it. at this point in my life, i would hope my partner would have the prudence to consider such things before i even have to bring them up.

what you say is true but he does lie about being with this "friend", makes up stories

@AbbyNormal

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Posted by AbbyNormal
i know what its like to be put in the position to chose my partner or my friend and i dont like it. i would never ask my partner to stop talking to their friends. i encourage it. everyone needs friends and a support system. sometimes it's easier to talk to them about some things. i understand this and i guess i expect my partner to be openminded enough to consider this as well. some people have deeply rooted insecurities and cant handle their partners having friends. i dont want to be with someone like that. thats not to say i devote most of my time to the few friends i have, no. i make sure that when im with my boyfriend, im with him... not on the phone with someone else. keeping in touch regularly is normal. talking all the damn time to someone else could be annoying im sure. whenever im on the phone too much, he will say so. and i put the phone down and spend more focused time with him. i just dont think its realistic to ask someone to cut all ties with friends. if the chick is obviously into her boyfriend, as the gf, I'd ask him to limit his time spent with this female to avoid any unpleasantries and encourage him to assess the situation. you cant turn a blind eye due to friendship either. if shes into him, that needs to be shut down by him and id trust him to do so if we talk about it. at this point in my life, i would hope my partner would have the prudence to consider such things before i even have to bring them up.

what you say is true but he does lie about being with this "friend", makes up stories
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forgot to address that. youre quick! editted! ?

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Posted by Nevermore
Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?

Yes, they have been for awhile.

I don't give a shit about that leo girl, but if he's been lying and doing behind her back.. That should be more focus on than that girl.
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You are saying, he is more focused on LEO than his own girlfriend?

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Posted by AbbyNormal
i know what its like to be put in the position to chose my partner or my friend and i dont like it. i would never ask my partner to stop talking to their friends. i encourage it. everyone needs friends and a support system. sometimes it's easier to talk to them about some things. i understand this and i guess i expect my partner to be openminded enough to consider this as well. some people have deeply rooted insecurities and cant handle their partners having friends. i dont want to be with someone like that. thats not to say i devote most of my time to the few friends i have, no. i make sure that when im with my boyfriend, im with him... not on the phone with someone else. keeping in touch regularly is normal. talking all the damn time to someone else could be annoying im sure. whenever im on the phone too much, he will say so. and i put the phone down and spend more focused time with him. i just dont think its realistic to ask someone to cut all ties with friends. if the chick is obviously into her boyfriend, as the gf, I'd ask him to limit his time spent with this female to avoid any unpleasantries and encourage him to assess the situation. you cant turn a blind eye due to friendship either. if shes into him, that needs to be shut down by him and id trust him to do so if we talk about it. at this point in my life, i would hope my partner would have the prudence to consider such things before i even have to bring them up.

what you say is true but he does lie about being with this "friend", makes up stories

forgot to address that. youre quick! editted! ?

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I am quick... only because I want to stay on DXP eternally but I have so much work to do lol

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Posted by Nevermore
Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?

Yes, they have been for awhile.

I don't give a shit about that leo girl, but if he's been lying and doing behind her back.. That should be more focus on than that girl.

You are saying, he is more focused on LEO than his own girlfriend?

That = her Taurus bf lying behind her back that are more a caused to break the trust from him.

He disrespect her big time.
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He sure did, and she's so good this Cancer, she's given him so many chances over this situation... in the long run he will regret losing her, this I know.

Shit, I even liked him... (as a friend)

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Posted by Nevermore
Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?

Yes, they have been for awhile.

I don't give a shit about that leo girl, but if he's been lying and doing behind her back.. That should be more focus on than that girl.
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I agree, she should definitely consider the fact that she can't trust him and therefore this relationship is probably going nowhere fast.

But also for future relationships should consider her insecurity is going to keep causing her these types of problems and when you put people in certain situations you're setting yourself up to be lied to.

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Posted by earlorg16

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂

DXP is based on generalizations... and Taurus are no exceptions, thank you for stopping by.
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Hah, good luck to you with that ignorant mindset! 😄

I'll continue to not crap on any sign just because of one dumba*s because that just ain't right.

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Posted by Nevermore

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by Nevermore

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by Nevermore
Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?

Yes, they have been for awhile.

I don't give a shit about that leo girl, but if he's been lying and doing behind her back.. That should be more focus on than that girl.

I agree, she should definitely consider the fact that she can't trust him and therefore this relationship is probably going nowhere fast.

But also for future relationships should consider her insecurity is going to keep causing her these types of problems and when you put people in certain situations you're setting yourself up to be lied to.

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interesting perspective... you think he is lying because of her insecurities? I never thought of it like that.

it's twisted at times, is she insecure because he is lying to her or is he lying to her because she is insecure...

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂

DXP is based on generalizations... and Taurus are no exceptions, thank you for stopping by.

Hah, good luck to you with that ignorant mindset! 😄

I'll continue to not crap on any sign just because of one dumba*s because that just ain't right.
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I think my generalization is working out fine with your input here, thanks, keep going

10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by tiziani

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Maybe she drew too much attention to the Leo. It happens.
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The cancer and taurus were spending time together and the LEO wouldn't stop texting the Taurus guy during those moments -- friends right? -- she is the one who needs the attention big time but hey maybe you're right Cancer put too much weight on it.

@EvatheDiva

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Cancer female seeing Taurus guy

Leo female friends with Taurus guy, who deep down wants him

Taurus guy doesn't want to end his friendship with Leo and has been caught lying about meeting up at times.

Apart from this he is a great guy and he seems very in love with cancer.

I don't know what to suggest...Cancer wants to end it based on a recent lie, yet again.

I'm thinking the Leo is going to win....

Cancerian "females" tend to be jealous. So what if he meets w/the Leo chick? Why are you jealous? If he tells you he "loves" you then what is the problem? "Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud." (1 Corinthians 13:4). What is all this jealousy about? Of course he lied to protect that evil green monster (you; AKA jealousy) 😡 Why cannot he have "female" friends? YOU can have "male" friends, but not vice versa? Cannot you see that when you "trust" a man he won't have to lie about having this "Leo" female friend? I don't see this as a "problem", but just with you. There are deep issues that you are harboring from the past (previous relationship) and you're not giving this guy that chance to show he's honest, truthful, and that he loves you. Just remember, you don't OWN this guy in order to tell him who/who not to see. Sigh!!!!!!!!!! If you give in the towel; then yes, she will win. But who REALLY wins? "Sometimes when you win, you really lose, and sometimes when you lose, you really win, and sometimes when you win or lose, you actually tie, and sometimes when you tie, you actually win or lose. Winning or losing is one organic mechanism, from which one extracts what one needs." (White Men Can't Jump). Sigh!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Maybe she drew too much attention to the Leo. It happens.

The cancer and taurus were spending time together and the LEO wouldn't stop texting the Taurus guy during those moments -- friends right? -- she is the one who needs the attention big time but hey maybe you're right Cancer put too much weight on it.

That's the beautiful thing about love triangles - everyone has blood on their hands. I'm not saying Cancer is responsible for the choices Taurus and Leo make though.

Personally I've been in two separate situations where a woman I loved, and who's opinion I respected completely at the time, was calling attention to how I act and talk around another woman and her around me, etc.

Each time it was calling attention to a woman I wasn't even thinking about or looking at in that light at all, UNTIL my partner made it obvious that her attention was caught by that woman. So that made me think, well if I respect her and she thinks we've got something then.... maybe we've got something?

It's funny how it works.
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This is so true and I have experienced this in my life also, both ways, where I was putting the "other" in the spotlight and vice versa.

For this situation, the Taurus -- has admitted having a crush on the LEO in the past -- but it is now only based on friendship. I guess the difference is SHE was the object of his affections previously.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Cancer female seeing Taurus guy

Leo female friends with Taurus guy, who deep down wants him

Taurus guy doesn't want to end his friendship with Leo and has been caught lying about meeting up at times.

Apart from this he is a great guy and he seems very in love with cancer.

I don't know what to suggest...Cancer wants to end it based on a recent lie, yet again.

I'm thinking the Leo is going to win....

Cancerian "females" tend to be jealous. So what if he meets w/the Leo chick? Why are you jealous? If he tells you he "loves" you then what is the problem? "Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud (1 Corinthians 13:4). What is all this jealousy about? Of course he lied to protect that evil green monster (you; AKA jealousy) 😡 Why cannot he have "female" friends? YOU can have "male" friends, but not vice versa? Cannot you see that when you "trust" a man he won't have to lie about having this "Leo" female friend? I don't see this as a "problem", but just with you. There are deep issues that you are harboring from the past (previous relationship) and you're not giving this guy that chance to show he's honest, truthful, and that he loves you. Just remember, you don't OWN this guy in order to tell him who/who not to see. Sigh!!!!!!!!!! If you give in the towel; then yes, she will win. But who REALLY wins? "Sometimes when you win, you really lose, and sometimes when you lose, you really win, and sometimes when you win or lose, you actually tie, and sometimes when you tie, you actually win or lose. Winning or losing is one organic mechanism, from which one extracts what one needs." (White Men Can't Jump). Sigh!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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All Cancer females are jealous? DON'T generalize EVA, don't you know it's ignorant? 😄 (I am only saying this because of an earlier post)

but no, she is a lot less JEALOUS than the TAURUS is, that's for sure. Had she done those things to him, HA... you certainly hear the shit hitting the fan.

And no cyber hugs back to you EVA because you haven't read the posts, it's not about me.

Signed,

no love

APC

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Cancer female seeing Taurus guy

Leo female friends with Taurus guy, who deep down wants him

Taurus guy doesn't want to end his friendship with Leo and has been caught lying about meeting up at times.

Apart from this he is a great guy and he seems very in love with cancer.

I don't know what to suggest...Cancer wants to end it based on a recent lie, yet again.

I'm thinking the Leo is going to win....

Doesn't matter what the leo says or does if Taurus truly loved / cared for cancer nothing would get between them. If I was cancer I'd be done with this mess quick. Lying about a friendship... Lying about texting?

As for leo sure we're competitive but I personally wouldn't fight for a guy's attention.

I'd make it really easy for him & never look back.

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LOL, he must be playing the LEO to some extent for her to keep hanging on like that.

10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

LEOs are competitive but for someone else's guy? strikes odd to me

@EvatheDiva

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Cancer female seeing Taurus guy

Leo female friends with Taurus guy, who deep down wants him

Taurus guy doesn't want to end his friendship with Leo and has been caught lying about meeting up at times.

Apart from this he is a great guy and he seems very in love with cancer.

I don't know what to suggest...Cancer wants to end it based on a recent lie, yet again.

I'm thinking the Leo is going to win....

Cancerian "females" tend to be jealous. So what if he meets w/the Leo chick? Why are you jealous? If he tells you he "loves" you then what is the problem? "Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud (1 Corinthians 13:4). What is all this jealousy about? Of course he lied to protect that evil green monster (you; AKA jealousy) 😡 Why cannot he have "female" friends? YOU can have "male" friends, but not vice versa? Cannot you see that when you "trust" a man he won't have to lie about having this "Leo" female friend? I don't see this as a "problem", but just with you. There are deep issues that you are harboring from the past (previous relationship) and you're not giving this guy that chance to show he's honest, truthful, and that he loves you. Just remember, you don't OWN this guy in order to tell him who/who not to see. Sigh!!!!!!!!!! If you give in the towel; then yes, she will win. But who REALLY wins? "Sometimes when you win, you really lose, and sometimes when you lose, you really win, and sometimes when you win or lose, you actually tie, and sometimes when you tie, you actually win or lose. Winning or losing is one organic mechanism, from which one extracts what one needs." (White Men Can't Jump). Sigh!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

All Cancer females are jealous? DON'T generalize EVA, don't you know it's ignorant? 😄 (I am only saying this because of an earlier post)

but no, she is a lot less JEALOUS than the TAURUS is, that's for sure. Had she done those things to him, HA... you certainly hear the shit hitting the fan.

And no cyber hugs back to you EVA because you haven't read the posts, it's not about me.

Signed,

no love

APC

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"Good luck, Little One". 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

The Cancer does not know I have made a thread in her honour... I will wait for the dust to settle and will show her what others think.

She needs to give her head a shake lol

I hope he doesn't stalk her like he's done in the past -- when she has tried to end it.

He shows up at her place, waits for her after work...

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂

DXP is based on generalizations... and Taurus are no exceptions, thank you for stopping by.

Hah, good luck to you with that ignorant mindset! 😄

I'll continue to not crap on any sign just because of one dumba*s because that just ain't right.

I think my generalization is working out fine with your input here, thanks, keep going

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Umm what? I said the Taurus you're referencing here is a dumba*s. I agreed with you on him being a prick. You're the one who responded being dismissive of us bulls because of one dude. There are bad eggs in all signs, but there are also plenty of good ones too. Not everyone is a prick, generalizations are silly anyway. If you think everyone's alike as a whole based on only their sun sign, so be it, but that is soo far from the truth.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂

DXP is based on generalizations... and Taurus are no exceptions, thank you for stopping by.

Hah, good luck to you with that ignorant mindset! 😄

I'll continue to not crap on any sign just because of one dumba*s because that just ain't right.

I think my generalization is working out fine with your input here, thanks, keep going

Umm what? I said the Taurus you're referencing here is a dumba*s. I agreed with you on him being a prick. You're the one who responded being dismissive of us bulls because of one dude. There are bad eggs in all signs, but there are also plenty of good ones too. Not everyone is a prick, generalizations are silly anyway. If you think everyone's alike as a whole based on only their sun sign, so be it, but that is soo far from the truth.

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what is your problem? you keep talking about generalizations as if they are so obscure in your world, a quick look at your profile-- clearly, it's littered with generalizations

so you can generalize however you want but when Taurus generalizations are made, you get all hot under the collar, why so sensitive?

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I hope he doesn't stalk her like he's done in the past -- when she has tried to end it.

He shows up at her place, waits for her after work...

Stalks her?

Another reason to be done with this guy.

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He just shows up places when she wants a break... I guess that is stalking?

you are on a site where people judge and generalize based on times of birth

smh

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Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?

Yes, they have been for awhile.

I don't give a shit about that leo girl, but if he's been lying and doing behind her back.. That should be more focus on than that girl.

I agree, she should definitely consider the fact that she can't trust him and therefore this relationship is probably going nowhere fast.

But also for future relationships should consider her insecurity is going to keep causing her these types of problems and when you put people in certain situations you're setting yourself up to be lied to.

interesting perspective... you think he is lying because of her insecurities? I never thought of it like that.

it's twisted at times, is she insecure because he is lying to her or is he lying to her because she is insecure...

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No, he's ultimately responsible for his own actions and that's the whole point.

It's just like when you're a teenager and you lie to your parents about something...even when you're not doing anything "wrong," just doing what you want instead of what they want. If instead of trying to dictate your life and force their ideas on you they allowed you to make decisions for yourself you wouldn't feel the need to lie to them.

People make a mistake trying to control someone else's actions and choices - people will always do what they want in the end... Either openly or behind your back.

This reminds me of my ultimatums thread ... I should dig that bitch back up

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Doesn't matter that Leo win, at least Cancer will avoid that bullet that he's constantly lying to her and doing behind her back. Even as a friend (since they are only seeing to each other).

Yes, I think so too-- dodging the bullet--

I think she will end it, as painful as it is.

Not long ago, he was behaving strangely like not going to a party with her saying he wanted to stay home and get some rest. I had a feeling he was lying to her and was meeting up with other. As it turns out, I was right. I had even told her, jokingly and she said, oh no, he wouldn't do that... ugh

Wait, so they are actually committed relationship?

Yes, they have been for awhile.

I don't give a shit about that leo girl, but if he's been lying and doing behind her back.. That should be more focus on than that girl.

I agree, she should definitely consider the fact that she can't trust him and therefore this relationship is probably going nowhere fast.

But also for future relationships should consider her insecurity is going to keep causing her these types of problems and when you put people in certain situations you're setting yourself up to be lied to.

interesting perspective... you think he is lying because of her insecurities? I never thought of it like that.

it's twisted at times, is she insecure because he is lying to her or is he lying to her because she is insecure...

No, he's ultimately responsible for his own actions and that's the whole point.

It's just like when you're a teenager and you lie to your parents about something...even when you're not doing anything "wrong," just doing what you want instead of what they want. If instead of trying to dictate your life and force their ideas on you they allowed you to make decisions for yourself you wouldn't feel the need to lie to them.

People make a mistake trying to control someone else's actions and choices - people will always do what they want in the end... Either openly or behind your back.

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true but if someone is dictating your life and you don't like it, you have to move on, not manipulate the situation to your advantage

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This reminds me of my ultimatums thread ... I should dig that bitch back up

yes, dig it up!!!!

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I hope he doesn't stalk her like he's done in the past -- when she has tried to end it.

He shows up at her place, waits for her after work...

Stalks her?

Another reason to be done with this guy.

He just shows up places when she wants a break... I guess that is stalking?

Or the beginning of it at least......

So he gets clingy when she wants out but otherwise can't let the leo go?

Smh.

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Yes!!! exactement

I think he knows he's got a good thing with Cancer -- had a good thing -- messed up big tim

big time, who's big tim

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I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Maybe she drew too much attention to the Leo. It happens.

The cancer and taurus were spending time together and the LEO wouldn't stop texting the Taurus guy during those moments -- friends right? -- she is the one who needs the attention big time but hey maybe you're right Cancer put too much weight on it.

That's the beautiful thing about love triangles - everyone has blood on their hands. I'm not saying Cancer is responsible for the choices Taurus and Leo make though.

Personally I've been in two separate situations where a woman I loved, and who's opinion I respected completely at the time, was calling attention to how I act and talk around another woman and her around me, etc.

Each time it was calling attention to a woman I wasn't even thinking about or looking at in that light at all, UNTIL my partner made it obvious that her attention was caught by that woman. So that made me think, well if I respect her and she thinks we've got something then.... maybe we've got something?

It's funny how it works.
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I have to ask you, in your case when this has happened, do you end up following through? or is your partner's fantasy about it all better than reality?

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I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Maybe she drew too much attention to the Leo. It happens.

The cancer and taurus were spending time together and the LEO wouldn't stop texting the Taurus guy during those moments -- friends right? -- she is the one who needs the attention big time but hey maybe you're right Cancer put too much weight on it.

That's the beautiful thing about love triangles - everyone has blood on their hands. I'm not saying Cancer is responsible for the choices Taurus and Leo make though.

Personally I've been in two separate situations where a woman I loved, and who's opinion I respected completely at the time, was calling attention to how I act and talk around another woman and her around me, etc.

Each time it was calling attention to a woman I wasn't even thinking about or looking at in that light at all, UNTIL my partner made it obvious that her attention was caught by that woman. So that made me think, well if I respect her and she thinks we've got something then.... maybe we've got something?

It's funny how it works.

I have to ask you, in your case when this has happened, do you end up following through? or is your partner's fantasy about it all better than reality?

First time, after it was over between me and the Aries, yeah I followed through with a Gemini she was always pointing out.

Second time, the other woman was a Gemini again. There was nothing to follow through actually. I told both of them I want to talk with the Gemini some more, I did. And what I thought would happen did: the fantasy was over in seconds once we really got to know each other. That's what I wanted to happen. When you barely know someone, and someone else is building them up in your head then it's not possible for that new stranger to have any flaws. But once you get to know one another, your mind is over it within seconds. At least that's how it is for me.

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Thanks for the response, it is the same for me...

Interesting they were both Geminis huh... maybe you are sending out vibes you are not aware of?

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I hope he doesn't stalk her like he's done in the past -- when she has tried to end it.

He shows up at her place, waits for her after work...

Stalks her?

Another reason to be done with this guy.

He just shows up places when she wants a break... I guess that is stalking?

Or the beginning of it at least......

So he gets clingy when she wants out but otherwise can't let the leo go?

Smh.

Yes!!! exactement

I think he knows he's got a good thing with Cancer -- had a good thing -- messed up big tim

Well..

He's got two chicks fighting for his attention.

The leo is just a smokescreen in this story.

IMO if it isn't the leo it will eventually be someone else. When you value someone you don't make them doubt about your intentions, you don't play with that. Taurus guy isn't worth it. Cancer needs to stand up for herself.

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And maybe more... some people need so much attention. She told me it's over between them and he's asking her not to leave him? she's firm... I hope she can stay like that

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I think the Cancer needs to get a grip and not let the Leo come between her and good thing.

Leos are very competitive ...this girl is probably getting off on the fact that the Cancer is threatened by her. She probably doesn't want the Taurus , just likes the attention... And the Cancer is looking jealous, insecure, and paranoid by giving the Taurus an ultimatum

THIS is what I have been thinking... the advice I have given her in the past s to stick to her guy but recently, it's a bit much, the lying isn't fun.

AS you said, LEO doesn't care about the Taurus guy, she is trying to upset Cancer.

I am thinking let him go, maybe then he will realize...

I don't agree with either one of you on that. Who cares about the Leo or the competition. Cancer seems to be hurt by the TAURUS'S actions of lying in a very serious way. This is a MAJOR red flag that needs to be addressed.

He abused her trust. Said he would stay home to see another. Had it been the other way around?!?! Ha! He would have dropped her immediately!

It's not about some competition. It's about the behavior of what Cancer considers to be her future husband. IMO she is doing the right thing and being VERY healthy about her priorities. She will be hurt, but she can look for another that will have more integrity and is more impeccable with his word.

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I do not disagree... I know some are making it out to be that Cancer is jealous and is probably bringing this upon herself but you are right, he is lying -- to see LEO -- that's never a good sign

The other way around? It would be a disaster.

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I thought Taurus men were BETTER than this....

He SO loved this cancer girl, what the hell is wrong with the world?

Please don't generalize all Taurus men based on one rotten egg. Thanks. 🙂

DXP is based on generalizations... and Taurus are no exceptions, thank you for stopping by.

Hah, good luck to you with that ignorant mindset! 😄

I'll continue to not crap on any sign just because of one dumba*s because that just ain't right.

I think my generalization is working out fine with your input here, thanks, keep going

Umm what? I said the Taurus you're referencing here is a dumba*s. I agreed with you on him being a prick. You're the one who responded being dismissive of us bulls because of one dude. There are bad eggs in all signs, but there are also plenty of good ones too. Not everyone is a prick, generalizations are silly anyway. If you think everyone's alike as a whole based on only their sun sign, so be it, but that is soo far from the truth.

what is your problem? you keep talking about generalizations as if they are so obscure in your world, a quick look at your profile-- clearly, it's littered with generalizations

so you can generalize however you want but when Taurus generalizations are made, you get all hot under the collar, why so sensitive?

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I'm on this mostly to read opinions honestly. Not to start crap or put down signs based on a single person. Generalizations are one thing, dismissing an entire group for one person is another. There are prick Taurus people, and there are good ones. There are two sides to a coin. That's the only point I was trying to make. Thanks for looking up my profile 🙂

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you are on a site where some people judge and generalize based on times of birth

smh

FTFY, speak for yourself.

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you are on a site where some people judge and generalize based on times of birth

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FTFY, speak for yourself.
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hahahah I am glad I looked that up, I thought you were saying something like FkU

OK, you can be stubborn, as you wish

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I hope he doesn't stalk her like he's done in the past -- when she has tried to end it.

He shows up at her place, waits for her after work...

Stalks her?

Another reason to be done with this guy.

He just shows up places when she wants a break... I guess that is stalking?

Does he Cry, sounds like heaven. Cry Bytch Cry.

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probably... who knows what he will do now that she's called it quits