Will taurus man date someone while he's not completely over his ex?

I'm in relationship with taurus man. He's been really caring, lovely, and treat me very nicely so far. He also said he loves me and thankful to have met me and felt like he can trust someone again despite how much his ex hurt him.

At the same time, I have the feeling he's not over his ex completely as he still like her sister's instagram post (a picture of her and her sister). I also accidentally *I swear* see his ex's instagram account poped up the first thing on his instagram's suggestion which mean he searched her often.

His ex did try to get him back though but he denied her and he told me everything about it. So I'm not really sure.

Does this mean something? Or maybe I should just give him some times?

Posted by octobersveryown
There is nothing wrong with missing someone. Just because he had her instagram up on his phone, it doesn't mean he's trying to rekindle anything with her.

I honestly think you have nothing to worry about. Just trust him and be there for him to help him heal. Like I said, it's natural to miss someone. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't mean it. They really think about their decisions and consequences of their decisions, so I'm sure he's with you all the way. But like I said it's only human nature to miss someone who once meant a lot to you.

That's kinda reassuring. I was really scared when I found out but maybe as you said, he just missed her once a while. After all they were in relationship for 5 years.

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Posted by bubblypisces

Posted by octobersveryown
There is nothing wrong with missing someone. Just because he had her instagram up on his phone, it doesn't mean he's trying to rekindle anything with her.

I honestly think you have nothing to worry about. Just trust him and be there for him to help him heal. Like I said, it's natural to miss someone. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't mean it. They really think about their decisions and consequences of their decisions, so I'm sure he's with you all the way. But like I said it's only human nature to miss someone who once meant a lot to you.

That's kinda reassuring. I was really scared when I found out but maybe as you said, he just missed her once a while. After all they were in relationship for 5 years.

Definitely give it time. He'll be doing that for a little while, but if you're there for him without any begrudging sort of judgments about him, he'll really love you for that and appreciate all that you did for him.

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Thank you! I feel relieved now. That means a lot.

@PrettyTaurusLove

ohww...

Knowing that he shares it with you (his ex tried to get him back) definitely he's into you. He respects you a lot in a sense that he wants you to trust him, and telling you everything is one way of showing it. He may also wants to know your reaction, if you ever get jealous—— ? it may sound immature but it's cute. hahaha LOL! sorry. But seriously, he's into you.

Posted by PrettyTaurusLove
ohww...

Knowing that he shares it with you (his ex tried to get him back) definitely he's into you. He respects you a lot in a sense that he wants you to trust him, and telling you everything is one way of showing it. He may also wants to know your reaction, if you ever get jealous—— ? it may sound immature but it's cute. hahaha LOL! sorry. But seriously, he's into you.

Yes he did tell me, and he also told me when his ex contacted him. And I made sure I showed him I was jealous but not in a crazy girlfriend mode lol. Thank you though, that's really nice to hear ?

Posted by andstill
depends how cute you are

the cuter you are the easier to get over said ex

Lol that easy, I'm cute as hell. I guess I have nothing to worry then!?

@TaureanLady

Be careful.....Ive dated several Taurus men who weren't over their exes and they all ended the relationship with me because they weren't over their ex.

@TaurusVenusGirl

If you jump from one relationship to the next, without healing, you bring all the baggage from the old into the new relationship.

If you really like him, I'd put on the breaks and just be friends. Let it slowly develop, this way when he is ready, he'll be healed and wont bring in the stuff from the previous relationship.

That means no fucking until he is completely over her!

@jeane

12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by TaurusVenusGirl
If you jump from one relationship to the next, without healing, you bring all the baggage from the old into the new relationship.

If you really like him, I'd put on the breaks and just be friends. Let it slowly develop, this way when he is ready, he'll be healed and wont bring in the stuff from the previous relationship.

That means no fucking until he is completely over her!

While I agree with you in the whole, you guys carry some scars for years. Sometimes old wounds have a way of rearing its head.

@4ever_confused

I got dumped by a beautiful taurus man because he actually is having an on and off thing with his "ex of 2 years" and is unavailable. That beautiful man broke my cold heart.

@earlorg16

10 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm a taurus guy and I've been guilty of this in the past. However, that was when I was younger and I've come to learn that this isn't a Taurus thing per se. I was with a Leo girl once who was still seeing her Aqua ex as well. My friend who's a sag, is seeing an Aries now, but when they first started, she was still in love with her pisces ex. One of my taurus friends just got out of a relationship with her ex, and hasn't really dated or been in the mindset to date.

@soundsunscene

11 Years

Could a Taurus jump head first full

Steam ahead into a new relationship and fall in love with someone fresh from a very long term separation (say 20 plus years) if the old love died and they lived separate lives or would it be more just trying to fill in the void for now ?

@Hamburgers

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Posted by PrettyTaurusLove
ohww...

Knowing that he shares it with you (his ex tried to get him back) definitely he's into you. He respects you a lot in a sense that he wants you to trust him, and telling you everything is one way of showing it. He may also wants to know your reaction, if you ever get jealous—— ? it may sound immature but it's cute. hahaha LOL! sorry. But seriously, he's into you.

Yes he did tell me, and he also told me when his ex contacted him. And I made sure I showed him I was jealous but not in a crazy girlfriend mode lol. Thank you though, that's really nice to hear ?

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His frequent Instagram visits indicates he's not trying to let the feelings for his ex die.

I rarely visit the Instagram page of an ex.

@saweetz1988

13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Hamburgers

Posted by bubblypisces

Posted by PrettyTaurusLove
ohww...

Knowing that he shares it with you (his ex tried to get him back) definitely he's into you. He respects you a lot in a sense that he wants you to trust him, and telling you everything is one way of showing it. He may also wants to know your reaction, if you ever get jealous—— ? it may sound immature but it's cute. hahaha LOL! sorry. But seriously, he's into you.

Yes he did tell me, and he also told me when his ex contacted him. And I made sure I showed him I was jealous but not in a crazy girlfriend mode lol. Thank you though, that's really nice to hear ?

His frequent Instagram visits indicates he's not trying to let the feelings for his ex die.

I rarely visit the Instagram page of an ex.

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Ageee, I would put on a break.... out of sight out of mind... for a Taurus, it takes a lot of time to heal esp if that ex means the world to me. So I have to delete everything to move on completely... I have dated a guy only to find myself running back tommy ex when he returned... not again though,this time I have completely moved on...!im ready to love again.. be careful of a rebound.... take it very slow.... if you can... how long did they break up before you guys had a relationship?

@Walkergrl

10 Years500+ PostsVirgo

My ex-husband is a Taurus. I've known him now for 14 years. He's kept all of his former relationships (ex gf's & wives) on back burners. I was furious when I found out that he took our infant son to visit his ex-wives (yes plural, he's married to wife #4 now) without my knowledge.

I've been divorced from him now for 9 years and he still tries to control me. I work VERY hard at keeping my life private from him and I've often wondered how the current wife puts up with all the energy he continuously invests in me...

His father passed away over a year ago and my former mother-in-law wanted me to come to the funeral. It was interesting because all 3 ex-wives were there. I actually felt sorry for the current wife.

@Bricks195