aqualove2011
@aqualove2011
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Confused about tauraus ?
You have to accept that you might have destroyed this but be grateful he is willing to give you another chance.
He wants to rebuild his trust in you and that takes time. Be patient. Be understanding. It is you who is at fault here so he is perfectly within his rights to call the pace at this point.
Taurus don't like to be pushed. That he is responding to you but isn't not initiating indicates to me that he is being polite but not ready to jump back in to what you had before.
Give him some space to come to that decision. They won't be pushed. Concentrate on rebuilding your friendship and showing him you can be trusted with consistent and stable behaviour.
He wants to rebuild his trust in you and that takes time. Be patient. Be understanding. It is you who is at fault here so he is perfectly within his rights to call the pace at this point.
Taurus don't like to be pushed. That he is responding to you but isn't not initiating indicates to me that he is being polite but not ready to jump back in to what you had before.
Give him some space to come to that decision. They won't be pushed. Concentrate on rebuilding your friendship and showing him you can be trusted with consistent and stable behaviour.
Posted by jeaneThank you for your advice.
You have to accept that you might have destroyed this but be grateful he is willing to give you another chance.
He wants to rebuild his trust in you and that takes time. Be patient. Be understanding. It is you who is at fault here so he is perfectly within his rights to call the pace at this point.
Taurus don't like to be pushed. That he is responding to you but isn't not initiating indicates to me that he is being polite but not ready to jump back in to what you had before.
Give him some space to come to that decision. They won't be pushed. Concentrate on rebuilding your friendship and showing him you can be trusted with consistent and stable behaviour.
Should i stop intiating the conversations and allow him to make that move. Im in a pickle and dont know if it will it upset him moreif i stop texting or continue texting.
Posted by aqualove2011You can initiate but let it be a mix. Don't contact him every day.Posted by jeaneThank you for your advice.
You have to accept that you might have destroyed this but be grateful he is willing to give you another chance.
He wants to rebuild his trust in you and that takes time. Be patient. Be understanding. It is you who is at fault here so he is perfectly within his rights to call the pace at this point.
Taurus don't like to be pushed. That he is responding to you but isn't not initiating indicates to me that he is being polite but not ready to jump back in to what you had before.
Give him some space to come to that decision. They won't be pushed. Concentrate on rebuilding your friendship and showing him you can be trusted with consistent and stable behaviour.
Should i stop intiating the conversations and allow him to make that move. Im in a pickle and dont know if it will it upset him moreif i stop texting or continue texting.
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This will give you a number of things
1) it shows him you respect him to go at his pace and give him the time he needs
2) it shows you are not clingy and desperate
3) it gives him a chance to miss you
It sounds like you have a guy who loves you a lot. Just trust in the relationship you had and him that things will work out.
The more you squeeze the more the sand disappears through your fingers.
Posted by Redoctober2000First off i wasnt bribing and he really liked it! Second off it was the medication that made me ill. Im fine! 3rd your rude stop posting on my stuff. Im looking for genuine and compassionate responses. Besides your not even answering my main question just shouting at me.
We have told you to GIVE HIM SPACE!!! Basically don't communicate with him. Let him come to you if he wants to....
You may have had side effects from your prescription drugs but you took it out on him and physically and mentally abused. Who wants to stick around for that drama?
You are not in a good place... Work on yourself and get yourself FULLY better....
You may have to face facts that your relationship has been destroyed and that if you both ever get back together again, it will have to start anew. Bribing with gifts etc will not bring him back. He has told you how he feels. If you respect him then you will do as he says.
Just be a friend for now.. Your on YOU. Stay single until you have fully recovered.
If roles were reversed you would be feeling the same as him..
Jesus busy, if the roles were reversed, i would be gone so fast you'd think I never existed.
He is patient. He is forgiving. All wonderful bull traits. Calm your tits and things will hopefully go back to how they were but you must give it time.
He is patient. He is forgiving. All wonderful bull traits. Calm your tits and things will hopefully go back to how they were but you must give it time.
Posted by jeaneI am giving it time. i get confused sometimes so i ask questions. I like your advice and i take it with a open heart and mind. I have been in situations where the roles were reversed and i didnt back out as quickly. My family and friends tell me hes being a mangia, bitch, pussy. I disagree thats why i come to this forum. But instead i get people yelling at me to leave him alone. Your the first person to take the time to give me some advice i could use. People on here say leave him alone. But i know if i just stopped talking to him it would hurt him more. I love him and know im blessed to have him. I love that he protects himself and sets boundaries and i want to do my best at honoring his wishes. Thank you for explaining his needs to me on a clear level.
Jesus busy, if the roles were reversed, i would be gone so fast you'd think I never existed.
He is patient. He is forgiving. All wonderful bull traits. Calm your tits and things will hopefully go back to how they were but you must give it time.
Posted by aqualove2011It's alright. We all get confused from time to time. None of us have all the answers all the time.Posted by jeaneI am giving it time. i get confused sometimes so i ask questions. I like your advice and i take it with a open heart and mind. I have been in situations where the roles were reversed and i didnt back out as quiclu. My family and friends tell me me hes being a mangia, bitch, pussy. I disagree thats why i come to this forum. But instwaf i get people yelling at me. Your the first person to take the time to give me some advice i could use. People say leave him alone. But i know if i just stoppef talking to him it would hurt him more. I love him and know im blessed to have him. I love that he protects himself and sets boundaries. Thank you for explaining his needs to me on a clear level.
Jesus busy, if the roles were reversed, i would be gone so fast you'd think I never existed.
He is patient. He is forgiving. All wonderful bull traits. Calm your tits and things will hopefully go back to how they were but you must give it time.click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000Get over yourself!Posted by jeane
Jesus busy, if the roles were reversed, i would be gone so fast you'd think I never existed.
He is patient. He is forgiving. All wonderful bull traits. Calm your tits and things will hopefully go back to how they were but you must give it time.
Exactly!!!
I have dumped people for having to repeat "I want my flat redecorated" 3 times!!!!
I just don't understand how people can abuse someone to that level and still think the person should be around them!! That's when you know how patient bulls are... People take the piss out of us all the time because of it!!! Smh!
If the person knows their meds will affect their behavior surely the logical step to take would be to give the relationship a break, get better then pursue where you left off?!! I just don't get it!!!click to expand
He knows me as who I am. Im not an abusive person and your taking your past relationships out on mine. I dont expect anything from him but i have asked you 4times to stop posting on my stuff. Im blocking you
Op,
These bulls retreat when they get hurt.
So give time. It maybe take time
Do favor in yourself. Just focus to yourself
And just leave him alone.
Just remain be friends with him.
He likes it though. But dont put much hope
On that.. they can jump another woman too.
These bulls retreat when they get hurt.
So give time. It maybe take time
Do favor in yourself. Just focus to yourself
And just leave him alone.
Just remain be friends with him.
He likes it though. But dont put much hope
On that.. they can jump another woman too.
Kites and painting sunsets?? I wouldnt respond either.
Focus on yourself, give him space, and respect his requests. If he doesn't come back, he's not willing to commit to you and you should brace for that.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
Posted by DMVWe both are artist.. he just painted a sunset and sent it to me and its beautiful. We have talked about flying kites together before. We dont do wild, we like the small things.
Kites and painting sunsets?? I wouldnt respond either.
Posted by earlorg16Fortunantly its not a long term thing and I prepared him for what was coming. I even tried to get him to leave our realationship during it but he didnt want to. I was suffering through postpartum depression and the lost of my baby. We thought an anti ssri would help but it backfired traumaticly. He has mentiond that i need to get my life back together bc it did fall apart. Your advice is honest and I like it thank you
Focus on yourself, give him space, and respect his requests. If he doesn't come back, he's not willing to commit to you and you should brace for that.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
Posted by NotSoInstantThank you.
I think he likes you a lot. I would even go so far as to say, you must be someone very special to him. As far as I know, based on the way he is with you even after the med fiasco, he wants to move slowly but he wants to be in control of the situation.
Taurus men have huge egos. If he is around even after the outbursts/abuse (however you want to term it), it.means a lot. Also note how he is avoiding the physical aspect of the relationship. If they come back to you after all this, he will have faced a struggle between his ego and his love/affections for you.
I feel he wants a strong foundation but he wants to be respected. Also he needs time to forget what happened.
Give him time. But don't withdraw. Learn to be patient. Let him know through your ACTIONS how you are in control of your emotions... If you aren't be honest about it with him... If you need time, let him know.
Taurus men, when in love are very very patient and will wait for their girl.
Send him your texts, because he has said he likes to receive them. If you stop now, he will feel bad. But give him time to miss you. Don't force him to hug you or cuddle with you.... Let it happen when he is ready. Respect his wishes.... Trust me, when you dont force it to hapoen, he will understand and will reach you sooner..... Men need time to heal too....
I believe that was that was the most confusing part of it all. He talked about how much he loved me, reassured me that we will get through this and he will be still be here afterwards no matter what. We werent expecting that horrific episode tho and then he broke up with me. I felt like he was lying to me and had me believe he loved me when he didnt. Reading this i now see where he is coming from. Thank you
Posted by aqualove2011I'm so sorry for your loss and to hear all of this. This is the last thing you need during a time like this. He's kinda an asshole for knowing all these details and not being able to handle it especially when you're on meds. Hopefully things turn the corner for you, you don't need this atm. Stay strong and hang in there!Posted by earlorg16Fortunantly its not a long term thing and I prepared him for what was coming. I even tried to get him to leave our realationship during it but he didnt want to. I was suffering through postpartum depression and the lost of my baby. We thought an anti ssri would help but it backfired traumaticly. He has mentiond that i need to get my life back together bc it did fall apart. Your advice is honest and I like it thank you
Focus on yourself, give him space, and respect his requests. If he doesn't come back, he's not willing to commit to you and you should brace for that.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
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Posted by earlorg16Thank you for you compassion. Ive always been the one to be mentally stronger in our relationship. I believe he tried his best that he knew how too. He doesnt have very much experience in being there for someone. I have found the right steps to take care of myself and grow from this in a healthy way.Posted by aqualove2011I'm so sorry for your loss and to hear all of this. This is the last thing you need during a time like this. He's kinda an asshole for knowing all these details and not being able to handle it especially when you're on meds. Hopefully things turn the corner for you, you don't need this atm. Stay strong and hang in there!Posted by earlorg16Fortunantly its not a long term thing and I prepared him for what was coming. I even tried to get him to leave our realationship during it but he didnt want to. I was suffering through postpartum depression and the lost of my baby. We thought an anti ssri would help but it backfired traumaticly. He has mentiond that i need to get my life back together bc it did fall apart. Your advice is honest and I like it thank you
Focus on yourself, give him space, and respect his requests. If he doesn't come back, he's not willing to commit to you and you should brace for that.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
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Posted by NotSoInstantAhh good to know. I take back what I said. Thanks for the heads up. 🙂Posted by earlorg16Hey there!Posted by aqualove2011I'm so sorry for your loss and to hear all of this. This is the last thing you need during a time like this. He's kinda an asshole for knowing all these details and not being able to handle it especially when you're on meds. Hopefully things turn the corner for you, you don't need this atm. Stay strong and hang in there!Posted by earlorg16Fortunantly its not a long term thing and I prepared him for what was coming. I even tried to get him to leave our realationship during it but he didnt want to. I was suffering through postpartum depression and the lost of my baby. We thought an anti ssri would help but it backfired traumaticly. He has mentiond that i need to get my life back together bc it did fall apart. Your advice is honest and I like it thank you
Focus on yourself, give him space, and respect his requests. If he doesn't come back, he's not willing to commit to you and you should brace for that.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
I'm gonna say this, I don't think this guy is an arsehole. From what I remember from her previous thread, OP met this Taurus guy when she was few months pregnant and they started a relationship and she gave up the baby for an adoption(?) Op pls do correct me if I'm wrong. She was on meds and somehow things went very bad and she became abusive/physically violent (few times?). So he moved away and asked her for space (?). But the OP continued to text(?)him instead of giving him the space that he asked her for.
Even now he is not certain but still remains friendly, I believe.
I don't think its fair to call him an asshole. Js. No offense intended to the OP though.
And this is how I understood the situation.
I think the entire Taurus board asked her to give him space. He has met her after few weeks. What I'm saying is, men run away from women for less baggage than this. I have seen it. At least the guy is honest and trying here. And yeah, I'm rooting for them to work out in the long run.
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Posted by ImpulsvNo one should have to stay in a relationship where there is physical and emotional abuse.Posted by earlorg16
Focus on yourself, give him space, and respect his requests. If he doesn't come back, he's not willing to commit to you and you should brace for that.
Honestly, if something like that freaked him out to the point where he's doing this to you, do you really think he's mentally prepared to deal with it long term? We take time to analyze these things. Don't force him into a corner or rush him into a decision. That'll only push him away further and further.
Finally some good sense
If someone can't understand u were medicated n not ur usually self n punishes u by withdrawing affection that is cruel! He is punishing u
He's does t have what it takes for a real relationship of communication n forgiveness
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My bull ex wife is an aquarius. She did everything for him including those swapping spouse and 3some and they like doing it for several times. After married they just lived together for 4 months and he broke up with her. Back again.. casual and sex adventure and left her until he said nothing satisfies in this life..they remain friends until this day.
Maybe aqua and taurs are just good for being friends.
Made me laughed at redoctober air+earth=sand.
Maybe aqua and taurs are just good for being friends.
Made me laughed at redoctober air+earth=sand.
Posted by aqualove2011This part concerns me. I'm sorry you've had a rough time of late.
Yes my baby was given to someone else for her protection. It was very hard to do but its still a loss i suffer from. Also i had two experiences where the medication didnt mix well with me. Medication never really has so it was a risk we both knew about. He wanted me to text and hang out. also the people who did reply to my first post 2weeks go all said the same thing give him space, take things slow. There were no details in explaining what intitled to my situation. I mean its such a broad statement. I know if i was to just cut all communication he would of been more hurt. I love my taraus and dont find him to be rude or weak. I know people can only take so much. The advice i have been given this time arpund is useful and compadsionate. I was afraid to even come back on this forum for advice bc of all the rude remarks and unhelpful advice i was given. Phychology is hard to understand to some they see it black and white its abuse. Some see it as a reaction to a medication which it was. If I was given a rash from it it wouldnt of caused any discomfort except for me. This medication has side effects of confusion, aggressive impulsivness, memory loss and unusual behaivors and this is what i sufferd from. I felt like i was possesed. Scared i just quiet it which amplified it unstead of calming it. All i wanted to know in detail what i should do and i deeper level of wisdom on whay hes going through. I recieved that info and im applying. I Thank everyone who is supportive and helpful towards me and my relationship.
You use the analogy of a rash let me use one of an alcoholic. Should a person remain in a relationship with an alcoholic when there is abuse? The alcoholic can't help that they drink. It is beyond their control. However their behaviour when drunk leaves everyone around them open to violence and aggression.
It doesn't seem like you get that yet. Making excuses for your behaviour and trying to control the situation when he has asked for space is not what is going to get you back on track.
PLEASE, listen to the Taurus Hivemind.
We all keep telling you to give him space 'cause this is how we work. We're fucking stubborn and need time to think things through. If you rush us not only would it not work, it would just deter us further. I'm really not trying to be a dick here and I can't imagine what you must be going through, but this is not the way to deal with your problem. (Taurus guy)
We've already established that you want things to work out. Does HE want the same, though? It's time for him to make his move. If he hasn't already, he either does not want this, or he's just taking his sweet time, thinking things through. He's going to mull over all the little details: Does he want this; want you? Does he see a future together with you? Does he think the two of you look good together? All that lovey-dovey BS, really. He's either thinking about all those things right now or he'll just say "Fuck It" and move on, altogether.
You can either A.) Give him a generous amount of time: 6 months. (6 weeks in Taurus time) or B.) Let it go. There really is nothing left to do. From this point onward just remember that the more you try to pressure, nag, persuade him about this -- there is a 90% chance of you making it worse which leads to the dreaded cold shoulder Taurus. (Refusal to acknowledge your existence)
We all keep telling you to give him space 'cause this is how we work. We're fucking stubborn and need time to think things through. If you rush us not only would it not work, it would just deter us further. I'm really not trying to be a dick here and I can't imagine what you must be going through, but this is not the way to deal with your problem. (Taurus guy)
We've already established that you want things to work out. Does HE want the same, though? It's time for him to make his move. If he hasn't already, he either does not want this, or he's just taking his sweet time, thinking things through. He's going to mull over all the little details: Does he want this; want you? Does he see a future together with you? Does he think the two of you look good together? All that lovey-dovey BS, really. He's either thinking about all those things right now or he'll just say "Fuck It" and move on, altogether.
You can either A.) Give him a generous amount of time: 6 months. (6 weeks in Taurus time) or B.) Let it go. There really is nothing left to do. From this point onward just remember that the more you try to pressure, nag, persuade him about this -- there is a 90% chance of you making it worse which leads to the dreaded cold shoulder Taurus. (Refusal to acknowledge your existence)
When the emotion cloud up the brain considered it all as messy as it is. The eyes can be blind. The heart can be dumb. The mind can be blocked.
At times like that... all I have to do is to Pray to have wisdom. Wisdom is great it is beyond knowledge. It go beyond the wild imagination.
You dont have to come up here in dxp and ask people's advice on what to do. All the more you get confused because people have a different approach in life. It maybe could help you but I am pretty sure you know what to do.. either chase him. Keep chasing him or stand for your own and let go a bit.
At times like that... all I have to do is to Pray to have wisdom. Wisdom is great it is beyond knowledge. It go beyond the wild imagination.
You dont have to come up here in dxp and ask people's advice on what to do. All the more you get confused because people have a different approach in life. It maybe could help you but I am pretty sure you know what to do.. either chase him. Keep chasing him or stand for your own and let go a bit.
I never seek advice from others. Nah, as a Scorpio myself I have the ability to keep silent during misery..this is how I work. Close friend knows my silent mode has a message.
Posted by AriesLady8
Listen. I've read most of your threads. I've stopped trying to give advice because you're not hearing anyone. It seems like you just stew in your thoughts and come on here and ask the same exact questions you've already asked. If you want to talk about your thoughts on here, just say that.
Some people are getting hostile with you because you're doing exactly what they've advised you against.
You have a cheat sheet here. Use it! We have a wealth of knowledge that we are trying to give you. These are Taurus people. These are people who have been in relationships with Taurus people for years. Who would know better than us!
You are going to lose him if you don't start listening!
He has backed up and he is weighing everything. Weighing if the situation is worth it. Trying to see if this was an isolated incident or if this is apart of your character. Hes trying to see if you are stable and solid. Mentally and emotionally.
If anything you behavior is pushing him away and also making him feel bad for you. And you don't want anyone showing you attention just because they feel sympathy for you.
Please just RELAX! Go paint your sky. Go fly your kite. Find your own joy in your day... Without him. Men love happy, healthy women. We radiate a glow when we're happy and confident within ourselves. And this attracts people.
You are exactly right and men love women who have their own lives. It's been almost 4 years with me and my Taurus guy and he just now coming to terms with his feelings and making plans for the future with me but I've had my own life without him and allow him to come to me. Not every woman seems to understand that about Taurus men which is why they break up and run away. I've read great advice from others and if you're looking for folks to give you advice in a soft and compassionate matter, this may not be the right site for that. As someone who is in a relationship with a Taurus man, you need to back off and give him space. Do not contact him. Let him come to you but in the meantime get your own life together and keep your options open to date other men. If you two are not officially exclusive then there is no relationship. Give him space.
Posted by RedIsNotBlueI get confussed when i should text him/reach out to him. He says he really likes my corny text but he doesnt have to respond which i respect. But... Wheres the balance with this. Should i text/reach out to him every other day? Once a week? I agree to give him time no rush.. My text dont cinsist of relatiobship talk. Its checking in on him. But i notice if i dont give him a text everyday he starts distancing himself more from me. Is that a good or bad thing?
PLEASE, listen to the Taurus Hivemind.
We all keep telling you to give him space 'cause this is how we work. We're fucking stubborn and need time to think things through. If you rush us not only would it not work, it would just deter us further. I'm really not trying to be a dick here and I can't imagine what you must be going through, but this is not the way to deal with your problem. (Taurus guy)
We've already established that you want things to work out. Does HE want the same, though? It's time for him to make his move. If he hasn't already, he either does not want this, or he's just taking his sweet time, thinking things through. He's going to mull over all the little details: Does he want this; want you? Does he see a future together with you? Does he think the two of you look good together? All that lovey-dovey BS, really. He's either thinking about all those things right now or he'll just say "Fuck It" and move on, altogether.
You can either A.) Give him a generous amount of time: 6 months. (6 weeks in Taurus time) or B.) Let it go. There really is nothing left to do. From this point onward just remember that the more you try to pressure, nag, persuade him about this -- there is a 90% chance of you making it worse which leads to the dreaded cold shoulder Taurus. (Refusal to acknowledge your existence)
Posted by aqualove2011You're only making things worse by reaching out at this moment. You need to let him decide what he wants to do. If you decide to be patient and it's still not enough; if after an ample amount of time he's a no-show. Then you should seriously consider leaving this torrid affair behind you and move on to better and brighter prospects. I know it hurts. All these Taureans here are only trying to help you.Posted by RedIsNotBlueI get confussed when i should text him/reach out to him. He says he really likes my corny text but he doesnt have to respond which i respect. But... Wheres the balance with this. Should i text/reach out to him every other day? Once a week? I agree to give him time no rush.. My text dont cinsist of relatiobship talk. Its checking in on him. But i notice if i dont give him a text everyday he starts distancing himself more from me. Is that a good or bad thing?
PLEASE, listen to the Taurus Hivemind.
We all keep telling you to give him space 'cause this is how we work. We're fucking stubborn and need time to think things through. If you rush us not only would it not work, it would just deter us further. I'm really not trying to be a dick here and I can't imagine what you must be going through, but this is not the way to deal with your problem. (Taurus guy)
We've already established that you want things to work out. Does HE want the same, though? It's time for him to make his move. If he hasn't already, he either does not want this, or he's just taking his sweet time, thinking things through. He's going to mull over all the little details: Does he want this; want you? Does he see a future together with you? Does he think the two of you look good together? All that lovey-dovey BS, really. He's either thinking about all those things right now or he'll just say "Fuck It" and move on, altogether.
You can either A.) Give him a generous amount of time: 6 months. (6 weeks in Taurus time) or B.) Let it go. There really is nothing left to do. From this point onward just remember that the more you try to pressure, nag, persuade him about this -- there is a 90% chance of you making it worse which leads to the dreaded cold shoulder Taurus. (Refusal to acknowledge your existence)click to expand
Posted by aqualove2011Confused...... Does he reply to your text messages or not? How often?Posted by RedIsNotBlueI get confussed when i should text him/reach out to him. He says he really likes my corny text but he doesnt have to respond which i respect. But... Wheres the balance with this. Should i text/reach out to him every other day? Once a week? I agree to give him time no rush.. My text dont cinsist of relatiobship talk. Its checking in on him. But i notice if i dont give him a text everyday he starts distancing himself more from me. Is that a good or bad thing?
PLEASE, listen to the Taurus Hivemind.
We all keep telling you to give him space 'cause this is how we work. We're fucking stubborn and need time to think things through. If you rush us not only would it not work, it would just deter us further. I'm really not trying to be a dick here and I can't imagine what you must be going through, but this is not the way to deal with your problem. (Taurus guy)
We've already established that you want things to work out. Does HE want the same, though? It's time for him to make his move. If he hasn't already, he either does not want this, or he's just taking his sweet time, thinking things through. He's going to mull over all the little details: Does he want this; want you? Does he see a future together with you? Does he think the two of you look good together? All that lovey-dovey BS, really. He's either thinking about all those things right now or he'll just say "Fuck It" and move on, altogether.
You can either A.) Give him a generous amount of time: 6 months. (6 weeks in Taurus time) or B.) Let it go. There really is nothing left to do. From this point onward just remember that the more you try to pressure, nag, persuade him about this -- there is a 90% chance of you making it worse which leads to the dreaded cold shoulder Taurus. (Refusal to acknowledge your existence)click to expand
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Ok. So ive posted here before about my ex (im sure most of you would remember it if i started talking about it) but at the beginning of the year she left me, asked me to come comfort her and it sent my mind into an overdrive "omg come back to me!!!" strea
Since @ssupes deleted before anyone even got to answer, let's try again....
Leo man, Taurus woman, how's that gonna pair up?
Personally I think anything with a taurus woman is amazing but perhaps we should hear some other opinions!
Okay guys I'm back with major updates on the situation with Mr. Bull. So, if you read my update on my other post you'll know that he had gotten into a car accident and lost his job. So no car and no job. He lost his job as a direct effect of him losing hi
I know a guy (Taurus)...I'm interested in him...But i don't know whether he's interested!
My cousin bro knows him...He's told me that this guy is not really a go getter in case of girls...That he never had a gf, is busy with his career, adventures...will
I'm Cancer woman and i falling in love for a Taurus woman, and make two years i not talk to her. I said hurtful things to her an she blocked me on Facebook and never answered me.
I left her alone for a long time and the last letter I sent was in N
I met a Taurus at work. When we first met he said he's been eyeing me for weeks but that was the first time I remember seeing him.
He's 30 and hasn't had a longer relationship than 10 months. Maybe that's not something to judge but since I've met him it
I've been dating this Taurus guy for a couple months. He kinda wanted to get serious pretty quick, wanting us dating only one another etc. It's been easy sailing until a few days ago his ex wife- recently divorced knocked on his door 6 months pregnant say
Is there any Tauruses out there that can tell me how well there relationship is going with a Sagittarius man? or vice versa...... How long did you relationship last?
Hello everybody
Well, i have a story to explain first then i will need your help.
I'm leo man, 50 years old, french but leave in Thailand for more than 20 years.
I separate to my wife more than a year ago then, after a few month i met a taurus girl, mo
I'm dating this guy and he is acting just like a Scorpio ! He also has Mars in Scorpio.
He is more Scorpionic than me, and I have Sun pluto saturn in scorpio.
Is this Common ?
He has sun and venus in Taurus and his possesiveness and sensuality co
OK, so I've been "seeing" this Taurus/Gemini cusp guy for about 9 months now. His birthday is May 20. I'm an Aquarius, btw. Let me also add that we've never met in person. We live in different countries. Our "relationship" is mainly online (Skype etc) & t
Would a Taurus feel like that fwb is their possession and find it hard to let go still even though they may not be together officially?
Hi everyone, this is my first post so sorry if this has been discussed before, i'm a n00b and i'm not afraid to say it!
I am wondering if anyone had an insight on a taurus and leo relationship.
I'm the leo, she's the taurus.
I'm her first girl, she
Happy Sunday guys. I hope you guys had a great weekend!
Anywho I would entertain you guys for a min. So after these last couple of relationships ( my last one was for a year and the one before that was 8 years), I have decided to retire from love. Lol
Hello, I have a question about a taurus girl. We know each other since two years when she came at my workplace. The problem is we were both in relationships. My relationship had lots of problems and she also said that hers is not ok and that in the past s
I recently set up an online dating account and within 2 days, I seem to have caught the interest of a Taurus male.
The conversation was interesting and flowed really well, we exchanged numbers (I offered mine as an alternative to using the website) and
Greetings! Female Scorpion here. I just wanted some advice about this Taurus guy that I met at a friends BBQ. This get together was in late June so it has been a minute since initial contact. Mr. Bull walked into said shindig, said hi but other than that
Hats off to you ladies!
My dad's girlfriend had open heart surgery today. She's in ICU right now and will be unconscious for 2 days but the doctor said the surgery was a success.
So he calls me to tell me all about these articles he's reading now ab
This week ive been texting him but he chooses what to answer to and he only relpies at night. For example tonight i asked him if he would help me with a painting and i mentiond how pretty the sunset was. He Ignored the painting question but sent me a picture of the sunset from his house. Also lastnight I invited him to come make a kite with me this weekend and he replied idk. When i mention good news he replies with encouragement. im always the first to text tho :/ i also sent him a surprise gift expressing the things I liked about him/us. He texted thank you and that he liked it. But Im afraid im going or am scaring him away and bc of how i acted last time, I think he might be more nervous than ever to hangout and im afraid that my oppertunity of him "testing the waters" to see if we could be together again is ruined. I read that tauraus do like persistence but am I doing it wrong? Should I stop texting/inviting him to do things and wait for him to respond first or continue with my efforts/texting and be patient?