*Update* Scorpion/Bull waiting game. May the odds be ever in your favor.....

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by rainwoman90 on Thursday, September 1, 2016 and has 30 replies.

What Does the Astrology Say About Relationships and Waiting Games

Astrology suggests that Scorpios and Bulls often experience intense emotional connections and challenges. These signs may engage in waiting games due to fears of vulnerability or insecurity. Understanding planetary influences can help interpret relationship delays and conflicts, encouraging patience and self-awareness for better connection and growth.

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@rainwoman90
10 Years

Okay guys I'm back with major updates on the situation with Mr. Bull. So, if you read my update on my other post you'll know that he had gotten into a car accident and lost his job. So no car and no job. He lost his job as a direct effect of him losing his primary means of transportation. So that's that.

Now, as for figuring out what the deal was in regards to us communicating, I took it upon myself to ask my friend E about what was up when I visited her one day. She further explained the accident situation and also mentioned that Mr. Bull was talking to someone! Apparently at the time he took interest in me and had requested my number they were not that serious. E did, however, also explain that the woman he's involved with was a very unsavory character. She hits him in E's boyfriend is involved in the conversation and calls Mr. Bull and we ended up chatting a bit. He admits that's he's talking to someone but said the situation was 'weak' and tells me to hit him up sometime. He was at his grandmothers funeral when the call was made. Awkward, as I was put on the spot, but I was happy that progress had been made.

The following day I text him, nothing major, but we ended up having a short conversation. Pretty basic get to know you stuff really. This takes place over the course of a week. Nothing heavy, which I was fine with. At one point he asked for a photo of me which I gave and he sent me one of himself as well. Very innocent pictures. Come Sunday of the same week Mr. Bull decides he wants to back away from the situation saying he was still dealing with someone (the lady I mentioned earlier) and he doesn't want to disrespect anyone. I am saddened by this as I was genuinely interested but I respect his decision. Everything was ammicable.

Fast forward to the following Tuesday...Mr. Bull texts me explaining that his, now girlfriend, saw my picture in his phone and automatically assumed that we had sex! Nothing even close to that took place as I still haven't seen this man in almost 2 months. She is very angry at this point and he said she almost ran him over as she was leaving for work!! He was very clearly distraught. I agree to speak with her on the phone to smooth things over if need be. She calls and me, her and Mr bull ended up in a 3 way convo. I try to explain what happened but she overpowers most of the conversation and I see exactly what E was talking about. She emasculates and threatens him, 'decides' she isn't going to beat me up because she's not mad at me, lies, threatens to make mr bull change his number so nobody can talk to him, and demands he cut off his friendship with E's boyfriend as long as theyre together, which, he already said he would never do. Also, Mr. Bull apparently said she couldn't have any male friends.

After the conversation ends I text him saying that he should just be honest about the situation and hopefully she'll understand. I didn't say what I really wanted to say.

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@rainwoman90
10 Years

Because I don't know her and I still barely know him. I checked in on him the next day and he said everything was smooth and they decided to be together. I really hope things don't continue to go downhill because it did not sound good at all. I'm pretty concerned but what can I do? It probably wouldn't do any good to speak up but I feel like I should. Sheesh! What are you guys thoughts?

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Too much drama. You'll all be on Jeremy Kyle next!

This is why he didn't 'pursue' you then as his focus was on someone else.

Frankly, and without reservation, this guy is a fucking idiot. This is not a quality man and not a man fit enough for a Scorp. I felt ill just reading about his bullshit. No car, no job, some nutcase bird he's still hanging onto who has his balls in a jar on her shelf. Seriously, he thought it was ok to bring his shit to your door with a three way convo with him and nutcase to explain you hadn't fucked each other?

No, no, no, no, no...

Step away from the Taurus man!

I'm waiting for @RedOctober to comment on this one, popcorn is in hand!!

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@rainwoman90
10 Years

Posted by NotSoInstant
End of the day, he picked her over you. Not once but few times. Most often, men 'feel it' for a girl from day one. That's when it leads to something definite and substantial in the long run, from what I have noticed.

He keeps choosing her over you. She might be shady or not, regardless he wants to be around her.

Move on. 😢

Agreed!.The whole situation has put a pretty bad taste in mouth tbh

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Idk why you're even still thinking about him. He chose to be with someone else and the type of partner he picked shows that he must have some issues. Don't say anything. You have no place in his life right now and he can make his own mistakes.

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@rainwoman90
10 Years

Posted by AgentP911
Too much drama. You'll all be on Jeremy Kyle next!

This is why he didn't 'pursue' you then as his focus was on someone else.

Frankly, and without reservation, this guy is a fucking idiot. This is not a quality man and not a man fit enough for a Scorp. I felt ill just reading about his bullshit. No car, no job, some nutcase bird he's still hanging onto who has his balls in a jar on her shelf. Seriously, he thought it was ok to bring his shit to your door with a three way convo with him and nutcase to explain you hadn't fucked each other?

No, no, no, no, no...

Step away from the Taurus man!

I'm waiting for @RedOctober to comment on this one, popcorn is in hand!!

Yeah unfortunately. This post actually cracked me up! Backing away.... ?

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Well, I chase a man. This is giving time and chances if relationship will grow better or grow worse than ever. Scorpio knows when to bend, on hold and let go.The scary part is letting go. Once done.. had all those best given to the other partner who kept on abusing..trust me. Only Scorpio can burn the bridge and bury that person forever.

It is not love we seek. It is respect.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

This dude actually didnt message her all the time.

She pursue and convinced herself he likes her.

Revelation : he didnt pursue because he have a gf.

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@redoctober
10 Years

Posted by AgentP911
Too much drama. You'll all be on Jeremy Kyle next!

This is why he didn't 'pursue' you then as his focus was on someone else.

Frankly, and without reservation, this guy is a fucking idiot. This is not a quality man and not a man fit enough for a Scorp. I felt ill just reading about his bullshit. No car, no job, some nutcase bird he's still hanging onto who has his balls in a jar on her shelf. Seriously, he thought it was ok to bring his shit to your door with a three way convo with him and nutcase to explain you hadn't fucked each other?

No, no, no, no, no...

Step away from the Taurus man!

I'm waiting for @RedOctober to comment on this one, popcorn is in hand!!

Uhm how am I getting involved in this? I don't know anything about Taurus....

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@Helye
10 Years

Posted by redoctober

Posted by AgentP911
Too much drama. You'll all be on Jeremy Kyle next!

This is why he didn't 'pursue' you then as his focus was on someone else.

Frankly, and without reservation, this guy is a fucking idiot. This is not a quality man and not a man fit enough for a Scorp. I felt ill just reading about his bullshit. No car, no job, some nutcase bird he's still hanging onto who has his balls in a jar on her shelf. Seriously, he thought it was ok to bring his shit to your door with a three way convo with him and nutcase to explain you hadn't fucked each other?

No, no, no, no, no...

Step away from the Taurus man!

I'm waiting for @RedOctober to comment on this one, popcorn is in hand!!

Uhm how am I getting involved in this? I don't know anything about Taurus....

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Not you. This redoctober.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Helye

Posted by redoctober

Posted by AgentP911
Too much drama. You'll all be on Jeremy Kyle next!

This is why he didn't 'pursue' you then as his focus was on someone else.

Frankly, and without reservation, this guy is a fucking idiot. This is not a quality man and not a man fit enough for a Scorp. I felt ill just reading about his bullshit. No car, no job, some nutcase bird he's still hanging onto who has his balls in a jar on her shelf. Seriously, he thought it was ok to bring his shit to your door with a three way convo with him and nutcase to explain you hadn't fucked each other?

No, no, no, no, no...

Step away from the Taurus man!

I'm waiting for @RedOctober to comment on this one, popcorn is in hand!!

Uhm how am I getting involved in this? I don't know anything about Taurus....

Not you. This redoctober.

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Haha. Dxp play too much

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@Helye
10 Years

Posted by Nevermore

Posted by Helye

Posted by redoctober

Posted by AgentP911
Too much drama. You'll all be on Jeremy Kyle next!

This is why he didn't 'pursue' you then as his focus was on someone else.

Frankly, and without reservation, this guy is a fucking idiot. This is not a quality man and not a man fit enough for a Scorp. I felt ill just reading about his bullshit. No car, no job, some nutcase bird he's still hanging onto who has his balls in a jar on her shelf. Seriously, he thought it was ok to bring his shit to your door with a three way convo with him and nutcase to explain you hadn't fucked each other?

No, no, no, no, no...

Step away from the Taurus man!

I'm waiting for @RedOctober to comment on this one, popcorn is in hand!!

Uhm how am I getting involved in this? I don't know anything about Taurus....

Not you. This redoctober.

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Who made this? Did you made this? This is hilarious & sooo true!

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I don't claim this piece. Someone who is under my tutelage made this.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by tiziani

Posted by rainwoman90

Posted by tiziani
Don't get involved. Maintain stronger boundaries.

Yeah probably the best thing to do.

It sounds like that is the absolute last option you will pick, though. Which is unfortunate.

You've seen with your own eyes that you getting involved on the phone makes thing even more volatile for them. And yet you feel like getting involved once again. What are your intentions there?

You also may not know this guy very well, but you've just found out that he's in a place in his life where he "forbids" his new girlfriends from having friends. Do you want to end up in a relationship with someone of that mindset?

These are rhetorical questions. Just pointing out that you've already discovered more than one reason to keep your distance.

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You're correct, sir. She will continue to keep in touch with him because she knows the Bull likes her. The Bull is not choosing her and her ego is bruised.

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@rainwoman90
10 Years

Posted by Sssupes

Posted by tiziani

Posted by rainwoman90

Posted by tiziani
Don't get involved. Maintain stronger boundaries.

Yeah probably the best thing to do.

It sounds like that is the absolute last option you will pick, though. Which is unfortunate.

You've seen with your own eyes that you getting involved on the phone makes thing even more volatile for them. And yet you feel like getting involved once again. What are your intentions there?

You also may not know this guy very well, but you've just found out that he's in a place in his life where he "forbids" his new girlfriends from having friends. Do you want to end up in a relationship with someone of that mindset?

These are rhetorical questions. Just pointing out that you've already discovered more than one reason to keep your distance.

You're correct, sir. She will continue to keep in touch with him because she knows the Bull likes her. The Bull is not choosing her and her ego is bruised.

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Okay guys, sure I was saddened by how this ended up, I'm human, but I'm perfectly capable of not contacting the guy.

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10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by rainwoman90

Posted by Sssupes

Posted by tiziani

Posted by rainwoman90

Posted by tiziani
Don't get involved. Maintain stronger boundaries.

Yeah probably the best thing to do.

It sounds like that is the absolute last option you will pick, though. Which is unfortunate.

You've seen with your own eyes that you getting involved on the phone makes thing even more volatile for them. And yet you feel like getting involved once again. What are your intentions there?

You also may not know this guy very well, but you've just found out that he's in a place in his life where he "forbids" his new girlfriends from having friends. Do you want to end up in a relationship with someone of that mindset?

These are rhetorical questions. Just pointing out that you've already discovered more than one reason to keep your distance.

You're correct, sir. She will continue to keep in touch with him because she knows the Bull likes her. The Bull is not choosing her and her ego is bruised.

Okay guys, sure I was saddened by how this ended up, I'm human, but I'm perfectly capable of not contacting the guy.

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You say that as you continue to do it. After all that drama, him clearly stating that he's with HER, talking to her and her saying "don't contact him" yet, you still did.

My money is riding on you'll keep in touch

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@CalicoCakes
10 Years

Ugh ignore the both of them. Clearly they're both very petty individuals, and Mr. Bull there is clearly indecisive... If he picked that crazy canary over you, then clearly he doen't know what he wants. He's certain to make horrible decisions anywhere. You should consider looking for someone else lol.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by LentoBull91

Posted by DMV

Posted by TaurusinTexas

Posted by tiziani
Taurus-Scorpio is even winning Best Synastry right now!

Because it's the best!! ? anything with Taurus is but this one is pretty amazing!

Its amazing but does it have longevity?

It definitely is amazing it's life changing and transformative when we connect on a deep level things will never be the same but what people never understand is it takes a well evolved bull and well evolved Scorpio for the union to last your blending the two strongest/powerful personalities in the zodiac and people expect it to be all peaces and cream smooth sailing each time when in reality it will not be an easy ride it will be challenging as fuck that's why you will see many Taurus Scorpio couples fail but the thing is it will never end we will never let each other go when one Taurus Scorpio couple fails another is started the union of the Taurus and scorpio has been mentioned since b.c times through the ancient Greeks Scorpio died for Taurus which is how Scorpio earned a spot in the zodiac wheel and was placed across from us on the opposite end of the axis of love/loyalty/intimacy/intensity the love our signs shared was a to die for type of love think Romeo and Juliet to all the bull Scorpio couples out there don't forget about the love we share for each other don't let our clashing personalities stubbornness wanting to be right all the time or controlling personalities get the best of us it's hard to find someone who can match that type of love that we can build with each other we can go a whole life time without finding that intense transformative love again so cherish every moment with each other and except each other for who we are and most importantly don't let the love fade away and turn into hate for one another.

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One damn punctuation mark in this whole paragraph

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Well, Taurus and Scorpio pairing..

It's just two people striving to be better in a relationship. However, bulls will be the one to cheat and not Scorpio. Bull most stubborn even in misery. They dont let go the past(ex bf,ex wife,ex gf). This triggered a lot to a Scorpio either she will withdraw or let go the bull. Scorpio woman are not that stubborn.We choose the battle wisely.

Scorpio are just very calm in dealing matters of the heart.

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by M143
Well, Taurus and Scorpio pairing..

It's just two people striving to be better in a relationship. However, bulls will be the one to cheat and not Scorpio. Bull most stubborn even in misery. They dont let go the past(ex bf,ex wife,ex gf). This triggered a lot to a Scorpio either she will withdraw or let go the bull. Scorpio woman are not that stubborn.We choose the battle wisely.

Scorpio are just very calm in dealing matters of the heart.

^^^ hahaha this is funny because I can say the same for some of the scorpio woman I've encountered it just depends on what kind of bull your dealing with the evolved ones who have worked on themselves have learned to curve the bad traits we posses

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

LentoBull,

So you think I am dealing a young bull?

He is very matured morethan you expected.

His motto: Life is grey

My motto: Life is black and white.

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@LentoBull91
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by M143
LentoBull,

So you think I am dealing a young bull?

He is very matured morethan you expected.

His motto: Life is grey

My motto: Life is black and white.

I didn't think that age has nothing to do with it imo if that's how your bull is then he hasn't evolved just like scorpios we're also meant to evolve