Confused about this Taurus man!

I'm a 26 year old Aquarius and he is a 27 year old Taurus. We've been talking/seeing for about 4 months now. There are days where he seems stand off ish but when we are together its like a match made in heaven. I've learned that they are afraid of change. That's a total deal breaker because us aquarians love change. But its weird cause we're pretty random and we get along so well! The only issue is that I don't hear from him a few days. Maybe even a week and when I do text him he's like nonchalant. I want to bring up the whole "do you like me" or "how do you feel" questions but I'm afraid that'll just scare him off. Then out of the blue he calls and says cute stuff like babe and miss you. Am I being played? Or he's just as confused as me. What should I do?

Hi Foreverontheroad,

Just curious, what his actual birthdate is? Also, you may want to look at both of your complete birth chart for a better understanding as well.

I have been in relationships with 3 Bulls in my adult years and I am a 34-year-old Aries woman. You are both so very young with full lives ahead of you. But, for a young bull, this is classic behavior. My bull is 48 years of age and he still has his life/activities (routine) and we may go 2 or 3 days without no communication. However, we have other ties together that creates the stability and security in our relationship. Continue to live your life and treat him as he is treating you. Bulls can be aloof and fickle, especially at the age of 27.

Once a courtship is established with you and your Bull, he may be in your life for YEARS to come! They value FRIENDSHIPS strongly, and once you are his friend, you are a friend for LIFE! Now, of course, hence there may be other FRIENDS before you...(here lies some challenges you may face with the bull) You must develope a thick skin and patience, when dealing with a Taurus male. Mirror his actions, and don't let him walk all over you! Establish your boudaries as well (depending on how the courtship goes, 4 months is still very honey moon stage) and also talk to him about what bother's you in a rational manner, and see what comes of it? Overall he is still a person. I know at 26 & 27 I though I had it all figured out and in life, people are placed in our life for REASONS & SEASONS, so grow and learn while traveling your path in life.

And asking the "how do you feel" this early may have him take a step back. 4 months is still very, where in fact if you sit back and relax, and start to look at his character and build a rapport with him, you may not like what you see or hear?? IJS... See, sometimes as women we are always concerned about him and his feelings, when It's not all about him (especially this early in the game) it's about YOU! All I am saying, is go with the flow, and get to know him, while maintaining focus on your growth and emotional health as well...becuasue when dealing with a Taurus man (any man) takes a lot of patience (especially a taurus). Their element is Earth, - stable, un-moveable, practicle, patient. Ruling planet is Venus, hence the charm, grace and sensuality that most Taurus men display. However, as with any person all these qualities must be honed and challenged, with expieriences in life. This may not answer you question completly, however I hope it provides some insight.

Take Care,

4 months is early for a Taurus male to be completely all in... Continue doing with you are doing and go with the flow...sorry but it will happen when he chooses it, not so much you. They are stubborn like that. But he is definitley into you if he's pursuing you by calling and such. But don't expect him to come out and tell you how he feels. He'll show you by doing things...