Taurus Guy and his women

Here is a story i want to share

My Background: I am 38 (Libra sun, cancer moon, virgo venus, aries rising) .

i quitted my job in 2014 and got back to the same office 5 months ago.

I had affair with a Taurus guy and he is my co-worker from the same office, affair started Aug last year.

Taurus Background: 33 years old, has a undivorce wife and 2 little daughters. he is working in our office (O1) from day time and after he works in his own office (O2). He had chasing me for few years, text me and called me

like hell, and i blocked him. But then i need sex, thats why i contacted him again.

we had sex in our first date and we had sex regularly then after.

He had introduced me to his working partner in O2, a late 40s woman, quitted her full time job to work in O2.

Later i found out this partner has a strongly crush on him. Which he denied from the beginning. Later his partner found out our relationship after i sent him a binkini photo, from then i was banned from O2.

He want me to moved out and said that he doesn't want to share me. Actually i also felt that my relationship with my husband is a death end. I moved out this Feb, but that time i have not job and i was too rely on him, he was so busy and only contact me few times a week, i felt so insecure and i called a quitted and i go back to my husband. But then i also go back to Taurus too.

I went back to O1 because i want to work again and he said he want to see me around. I got back, we have lunch sometimes, and then little walk after work.

He told me this will be not commitment and not in exclusive anymore, i could not leave my stuffs in his flat, and he also told me he is sleeping with women just for sex. And he told me we were more then sex.

But then recently , i was the one who initiated all the dates. And our date were only lunch, dinner or have drinks in bar. i felt i was being used, but then i think i just want some affections and sex from him.

In March, O1, a Capricorn woman joined his team, she is 32 , married has a son, but rarely talk about her husband. She is my lunch mate, then i told her about my affair. Before she would talk about the tarurs guy, and their work, but not she is not talking at all. Her look also changed, being more pretty and sexy



One day she told me she is having lunch with her friend, later i saw them come back together, and i was so angry and i asked The Capricorn why i cannot join, she said she want talked personally with Tarurs. Also they were sending text during the lunch time, because i saw them on and off line in the same time, i know is not about work.

Then i cancelled the dinner, which was postponed by him.

I called tarurs after work and has a big fight with him, he said swear words and hang up.

Next day i told him i want to talk, then he said not into talk anymore and said

" i do have self-respect"

" Dump me"

" I told you already"

" Just said it and don't walk away like that"

" moving on"

"with the Capricorn ?"

" Whoever is not important"

so this is the end.

Capricorn comes more cold to me, i don't know why.

And is a pain to see them in same space and they lunch together and the Capricorn waiting for him to off work sometimes, but i cannot quit this job, no people like this Taurus and Capricorn also has no friend except me.

As i tolerance so much in this affair and drag down my bottom line again and again so that i can have a great rebound.

I know long long ago, the guy is not for me and i will go back to my husband. Because every woman with him is a disaster.

Women for him are for different purposes, wife for his offspring and crushed partner manager O2 for him and me a sex doll. He is hiding his lies layer(woman) by layer (woman) like an onion rings.

P.s I don't want that Tarurs asshole back, i want both of them get out of my life.

Also i am not sure is Capricorn know anything about Tarurs was the guy i talked about.

But i don't want to face her anymore, so what should i do.

Now i still woking in the same office with them. In pain. Please Help.

....And what are you asking?

1. How to dive into the mental psyche of a Taurus and understand his interpersonal relationships with other women?

2. How to keep your employment and still maintain your sanity?

3. Figure out how you're going to 'improve' your sexless marriage?

Taurus Bull 1977, I want to know what should i do to deal with the Capricorn, pretend to be friend with her, or just detach from time by time And yes 2. How to keep my employment and still maintain my sanity?~ I really want to keep working in this office, i have many friends in there and i am my boss favours.

I won't quit because the asshole.

Also i want to know about Number 1 as well, but may be when i am more detach from him.

How do you 'pretend' to be friends with anyone?

You're either feeling the friendship or you're not.

If there is no emotional connection to the Taurus, then what is the problem?

By the way, you're too neurotic and scattered all over the place.

You're trying to find a solution to all your problems at once.

You will give yourself a panic attack.

Try dealing with each problem one step at a time.

Keep your job.

Maintain your friendship.

Stay clear of this Taurus.

Then figure out what you're going to do about your marriage.

Because i used to have lunch with her 2 days a week and have a chat with her in the morning before work.

I don't want to be friend with her anymore, but cut her off suddenly seems odd and this may trigger her to think there is to do with the taurus, have to handle carefully.

If she knows all the story, then i am just being a fool in front of her. Because from the previous conservation with her, she always thinks the guy do nothing wrong, was me not fitting the sex only rules. So i am not sure did the Taurus tell her anything on her side. He is a big liar anyways, he said bad things about the Capricorn in front of me. but then now...sigh~ and do all that drama infront of me.

No i still has feeling for him, hateful and sadness, i know he is not worth it, but i just feel lost something i liked before.

Cancer Moon make me too sensitive and sentimental.

Yes, keep my job is 1st priority.

Explicit, thanks for your " Hard Hit", i know what i did is really wrong and horrible to my husband, and after this once, i never do it again, this experience is far too terrified and i will try to back to love with my husband, he has giving me 100% secure feeling and loyaty that i believe no one else can give me.

Updates:

Taurus and Capricorn getting really close now, they come to office and off together on sat (mon-fri Capricorn is sending her son to school, so she will come really early). sometimes Lunch and go downstairs to smoke together (one following the other).

And one of coworker told me that many people in office already having some gossips about they are hooking up.

Taurus has a really bad reputation on works and his personal life, different coworkers seeing he was with different women in business trip and on the street. He is a womanizer.

And i am still suffering as the Taurus making up so much dramas in office and still struggling what should I do with Capricorn.

Then Friday afternoon around 11, i was being told by Capricorn that she was dating a friend for lunch, and for me is too late to date someone else. And actually she was having lunch with Taurus and she was following him like a little bird, she was not even talk to me when i was standing behind them.

She just being a different person when she is with Taurus, she acts affectionately.

As she told me from beginning, she doesn't believe in sweet words and will not hook up with coworker in office. She is kind of person who will has casual sex with her friends, but now seems she is under the spells of Taurus.

She also saying the way she acts to Taurus is not representing she likes him. But to me, Her actions are totally against what she is saying.

As Taurus acting really cold to me, more worst then a normal co worker.

Capricorn has not friend at all in office, no one want to talk her except a lady sitting next to her.

So now, I want to cut off Capricorn, not having lunch with her and ignore her , only communicate with her for works.

But what should i do to make it simple?

And why does Taurus acting so obvious with Capricorn? They are ignoring other co workers who are sit around them.

He once told me not to speak to others about us, was not good for him and me in office. Capricorn thinks he is really smart, but i don't think so.