does taurus guy want more than friendship??

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okay where do I begin....well I met this Taurus guy off a dating site...he's 27, 1 child, works 3 jobs, and has own place/car...quite independent I will say... on the other hand I'm 26 (LIBRA) no kids....work 2 jobs , own place as well as car....now we hit it off ok I will say...this was about 5 months ago...at first we weren't talking everyday ...about a month later we exchanged numbers and pics...and that's when It picked up a little more. now we don't live in the same city...I know lol...but we're only 3 in a half hours apart from each other...now this is my first time dealing with a Taurus so I kinda did my research to see what to expect lol...but lately I've been feeling that this guy likes me...I'm not gonna say I don't like him because I do.. I realize that whe's been calling me more and text every now and then...it has been a few times where we've been on the phone like more then 2 hours ...I was like wow...when I bring that up to him...he says well yea the conversation is good. He does have 1 daughter that he co parent with...he says him and the baby mom are not together, he loves spending time with his daughter... I also read where they say Taurus men don't open up...but I feel he has to me...like he's on child support and I can tell that it was bothering him.....so he confided in me...he works really hard and that's what I admire about him...he also opened up to me about other personal things...such as his bank account and even his grandma....I can relate to him...I feel that there is chemistry but I don't like to put my feelings out until I know that he is sure......we have a lot in common...he love cruises and so do I...we're both hard workers...and I just can't wait until we meet....he's actually coming to my city in 3 weeks to check it out...my city I mean...he says that because he's a deputy in his city....not much money there so he's considering moving to my city at the end of the year...well he said if everything goes well...from what I see now and when I'm on the phone with him...is just magic...he does all the initiating...calls ..well I might every once in awhile.....I like talking to him....yesterday his grandmother went in the hospital he called me the night before but I didn't answer....so we spoke yesterday and he just shared that with me.....when we talk he say's I'm his favorite....but seriously WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? DOES HE LIKE ME MORE THAN A FRIEND? ALSO WHAT TO EXPECT FROM A TAURUS MAN? CAN LIBRA AND TAURUS WORK?
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Yeah libra and Taurus are pretty compatible. And I think he is getting a little attached to you because he is sharing very personal details and you two talk a lot. Plus, he is on a dating site so obviously he is looking or a partner which is a good thing because you probably are too. I had a libra tell me that I am his favorite person before and I believed it because he had actions to follow, opening up to me, showing affection, giving me attention etc. Tauruses don't really okay mind games. If he says that you are his favorite and makes an effort to call and text you frequently I would take his word for it. Any other questions?
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@4ND5yes I do know that tourists in libras are different and my nature is very airy...but I mean I don't have a problem being loyal just long as its given back to me.. but I do exactly know what you mean I mean I'm not expecting anything then friends right now hopefully you know if everything works on me I don't know I can't really put a title on anything, I just kind of feel like he likes me and that's okay cause I like them too lol...
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@mysterioustaurus thanks for the great advice...I just keep saying that is just something about him that I like I mean I do want to meet him in person and to see if the chemistry is really really there thanks for the advice I just never dated a Taurus so kind of don't know what to expect but thank you.he always like ask me questions sometimes he would be like well let me just ask you what do you think about this and I'll be like wow you know he just asking me questions I was like wow I hope one day he called me like 3 times I was like okay you know I just don't get this from like a regular friend or friends period lol.
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Lol @ lust tell me about it....but we started talking 5 months ago...I mean I don't let him know that I like him....it's not crazy like...more like strong like. I know I can't help it....so what's Taurus traditional behavior, I wanna be prepared..I'm not looking to rush either...I believe in letting things develop....how will I Know if he want something more when if we cross that bridge? Meaning are Taurus men vocal? Do u think he wants me to be his? ...I'm sorry it just feels real when we're on the phone...well of course the friendship I mean....I do like a man to lead BTW....just if you can give me some key points..
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@mysterioustaurus ....I'm a traditional type of woman...I do like when a guy court me....but I do give subtle hints to him....funny that you said that about two weeks ago...we were talking...about like banks and money and just our personal goals ...and it was a little joking going on where as he said he could see my future...I was like really ....so I asked questions like so do you think I ll meet a good guy, and his response was yes you will....he won't be perfect but he will be great for you. Then I asked do you think I will have kids, and his response was oh yes ...he says he see me with two kids lol, I asked do you see me being married, and he said yes you're an amazing woman....so all along I know he's speaking of himself ....so he asked do you see yourself with a guy like me...and I said quietly yes I do....like why did I say that....but I was being honest....and then conversation proceeded....but to answer your question I think he knows lol
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@lust well you see we already talk about goals and things...he told me he wants to move here...his main job is an deputy...but he wants to go to school and finish getting his degree in accounting...his plans is to relocate to make more money....I wouldn't say he's moving to my city because of me....he says he wants to be able to take care of his daughter which he 's already is. I felt like after we see each other then I'll see what kind of person he is....I mean yes we talk and text but I wanna see if it's real....and I'm paying close attention to him... Even if it doesn't involve more than a friendship its fine... I want him to be happy....but I feel like we have a lot in common...never dated an earth sign...well yes I did once a Capricorn...and it just didn't work...even though I like what the earth elements symbols....you know about a month ago the Taurus guy ask me to go on a cruise with him...in December....he knows I'm going on one with my family in February next year...IDK why he asked me to go with him....I asked who were all going...he replied he doesn't know...so I suggest well maybe you should invite your friends, he replied no he didn't wanna bring them....so I was like wow in my mind ...I guess he wants it to be just us two....but I'm not going anywhere until I meet him I need to see his eyes .
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@mysterioustaurus ....I'm a traditional type of woman...I do like when a guy court me....but I do give subtle hints to him....funny that you said that about two weeks ago...we were talking...about like banks and money and just our personal goals ...and it was a little joking going on where as he said he could see my future...I was like really ....so I asked questions like so do you think I ll meet a good guy, and his response was yes you will....he won't be perfect but he will be great for you. Then I asked do you think I will have kids, and his response was oh yes ...he says he see me with two kids lol, I asked do you see me being married, and he said yes you're an amazing woman....so all along I know he's speaking of himself ....so he asked do you see yourself with a guy like me...and I said quietly yes I do....like why did I say that....but I was being honest....and then conversation proceeded....but to answer your question I think he knows lol
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@BUSYEYES88 thanks for your advice but I do know in life their aren't any guarantees , that's why I don't take anything in life for granted....as I stated in my intro at first in the beginning after we exchanged numbers, I wasn't feeling him like that and I don't know how he felt....we didn't even exchange pics after we started texting on the phone, most guys want to see pictures right away...but I guess it was need to with us....so at first he was just somebody to talk on the phone with....it wan't until these last 2 months I notice we were talking a lot more...I got a 2nd job in april and he was very supportive.....to be honest I don't know what to expect....and I'm not getting my hopes up....he did Attempt one time to come to my city...he called ONE DAY saying he was gonna take a road trip...I was like where and he said to my city, so I was like oh to see your family...he has some family in my city he hasn't seen in years...his response was he didn't contact them wasn't planning on it....so then right there I knew it was because of me....so I was shocked, he was getting his car all fixed up....right after that his car ended up in the shop so I told him it's ok we can meet another time, I'm a very patient person....that was LIKE 2 MONTHS AGO DURING A WEEK DAY, I TOLD HIM IT WILL BE BETTER IF HE CAME ON A WEEKEND BECAUSE THAT'S WHEN I'M OFF....IN MY MIND I WAS THINKING WHERE WILL HE SLEEP BECAUSE I DON'T BRING MEN TO MY HOUSE AT ALL....SO THAT WOULD MEAN HE PROBABLY WOULD GET A ROOM OR MAYBE GO TO HIS PEOPLE HOUSE...BUT THEN MAYBE THAT WOULD BE WEIRD BEING THAT HE SAID HE HAVEN'T SEEN THEM IN OVER 10 YRS....SO I GUESS WHEN HE COME DOWN HERE WE WILL ME...HE TOLD ME THAT WE WILL DEFINITELY BE MOVING, HE REQUESTED A WEEK OFF OF WORK BUT HE DIDN'T TELL HIS JOB WHAT IT WAS FOR...HE SAID THAT HE DIDN'T WANT THE JOB TO BE SUSPICIOUS OF HIM LEAVING, HE SAID THAT HE DIDN'T TELL ANYONE NOT EVEN HIS CHILD'S MOTHER....I TOLD HIM WELL YOU TOLD ME...HIS RESPONSE WAS BECAUSE I HAD TO ....I'M COMING TO YOUR CITY...SO I WAS LIKE OK.
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@lust what is the question you want me to ask him?....actually I'm on the phone with him now...he called again tonight..he say he was just checking on me...so I told him how my day is going....so I asked him why am I so tired and I shouldn't be working this hard...I was just joking with him....he tells me I need a boyfriend...but he said it so quick, so I ask what did you say and he say you need a boyfriend...I was like well when that time come....why would he say that though