Why did my Taurus guy disappear

He might just be busy.
Some men just suck at texting back, he assumes he can do this because you like him.
He does not have to give you attention anymore cause he knows you will do anything for him.
This is the nature of men or he's talking to other girls.
This is why I like to follow potential boyfriends on Instagram so I can see what their up to muahhaha

I first thought that too, but I do stalk messenger and know when he was last active. I know, shame on me. He's been on quite a bit since he's been off work. I also know he's read my messages. I also thought the same thing about maybe he knows I'm hooked so he's backing off, but I'm not sure. My thing is, is he done or just needing space?

Why would he think I'm stupid?

Posted by ursupergirl33
Why would he think I'm stupid?

We like Winners, unfortunately you fell way below the acceptable line of expectations. Taking pix of another guy screwing you was a test I presume and you failed miserably. You obviously gave off the impression that you a Ho, and he wanted to verify such. Once he got confirmation you were kicked to the curb. Now he may like Ho's, so he might have tossed you into the Harem with all his other Ho's. But in terms of exclusivity rights you have none, go back to Match.com and try again... Maybe this time you you will find yourself a Pimp who will demand you fuck some dudes for money before he will let you do his laundry or whatever.

I swear you have just made that up.

I raised my eyebrow initially as it is online dating and you have not even met in person and then I got to the 'he wanted me to fuck another man' bit and I raised the other eyebrow.

I lost the will to live when I read you actually did it.

Posted by AgentP911
I swear you have just made that up.

I raised my eyebrow initially as it is online dating and you have not even met in person and then I got to the 'he wanted me to fuck another man' bit and I raised the other eyebrow.

I lost the will to live when I read you actually did it.

I don't know AP, I've encountered a lot of stupid people like this in my life, it's certainly plausible if she lives in America. Unfortunately. LOL

Hell, there's a chick on Youtube whom is known round the interwebs for being a Hooker, her youtube channel is titled "TheHappyHooker" or some such nonsense and she is living proof that extreme stupidity exists. She also gets trolled HARDCORE.

Ok. Well thanks. I'll kindly remove him from my friends list and never bother him again. I had a gut feeling about it. First time I didn't go with my gut. I know that next time a guy begs me to mess with another guy, I will just take the chance of losing them if I don't. But, I am getting sick of the double standards. Don't be telling me we're not exclusive so you can get head from your step mom and then act like I'm a ho for doing something you told me to do. Sick of guys screwing around and get mad because we do it. But thanks. I know now what I did wrong.

Posted by ursupergirl33
Ok. Well thanks. I'll kindly remove him from my friends list and never bother him again. I had a gut feeling about it. First time I didn't go with my gut. I know that next time a guy begs me to mess with another guy, I will just take the chance of losing them if I don't. But, I am getting sick of the double standards. Don't be telling me we're not exclusive so you can get head from your step mom and then act like I'm a ho for doing something you told me to do. Sick of guys screwing around and get mad because we do it. But thanks. I know now what I did wrong.

Highly doubt that, but good luck!

Posted by AnomalousBull

Posted by AgentP911
I swear you have just made that up.

I raised my eyebrow initially as it is online dating and you have not even met in person and then I got to the 'he wanted me to fuck another man' bit and I raised the other eyebrow.

I lost the will to live when I read you actually did it.

I don't know AP, I've encountered a lot of stupid people like this in my life, it's certainly plausible if she lives in America. Unfortunately. LOL

Hell, there's a chick on Youtube whom is known round the interwebs for being a Hooker, her youtube channel is titled "TheHappyHooker" or some such nonsense and she is living proof that extreme stupidity exists. She also gets trolled HARDCORE.

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And I thought I had 'issues' and made some big 'fuck ups'!!!!

Posted by ursupergirl33
Ok. Well thanks. I'll kindly remove him from my friends list and never bother him again. I had a gut feeling about it. First time I didn't go with my gut. I know that next time a guy begs me to mess with another guy, I will just take the chance of losing them if I don't. But, I am getting sick of the double standards. Don't be telling me we're not exclusive so you can get head from your step mom and then act like I'm a ho for doing something you told me to do. Sick of guys screwing around and get mad because we do it. But thanks. I know now what I did wrong.

It's not the screwing around bit. If you want to screw around then crack on. Just ensure its what you want, it makes you happy, and use protection so no disease is spread and no babies appear!

It's the circumstances of your story and the intention and motives used.

Some bloke you've NEVER met asks you to fuck another guy with the promise and reward of a committed relationship.

This is not how it works. This is not what it looks like. This is not how it should be. This is not how you would want it to be.

Weird. Some guys actually do get off on watching their wives, gfs have sex with other men. Did you meet him on a fetish website? What type of potential arrangement was discussed? Something in your background summary is missing

@CreativeCap
I didn't meet him on a fetish site. As a matter of fact, I had no idea that he was like this until recently. He told me that he wanted to tell me some things about himself. I thought I knew a lot of stuff about him because over the past few months, I learned his routine, about his family, etc. Then, he shocked me by telling me about all of his fantasies. When he mentioned this one, I wasn't too overly surprised because I know some men and women are into watching their significant other with other people. Him being a Taurus, I knew he was very sexual. I was attracted to him in the beginning because he is very stable, works hard, etc. But, him being so sexual sealed the deal because I knew that he would be able to remove my Capricorn reserve and let me be myself in the bedroom. We talked about this for days and he finally convinced me that to do this. I'm not a cheater, but he convinced me that if he asked me to do it, it wasn't cheating. I still felt extremely bad after. I even told him just before that I had a gut feeling that I was going to lose him and he said that I would have him even more because he wanted to know that I would let him live out his fantasies. After the deed was done, he acted like nothing was wrong and even said he would start arranging for me to come down to where he lives. But I agree with the one who said I got played. I feel like he set me up to fail and I fell into the trap. It sucks because being the Cap that I am, I can usually spot crap like this a mile away. I also didn't look at this as desperation. I'm very stubborn and determined so I looked at this as proving my devotion and loyalty. But I have removed him from my life so that I don't fall for his charms like the rest of his harem will.

It also really angers me that he played games with me. If he wasn't interested he should've told me to move on. I thought the Taurus didn't like games. Well, neither do Caps. I'm very straightforward and I expect a Taurus to be the same way. I didn't expect to still completely have him as I figured he would have to have me in his presence to seal the deal, but I did hope that this would at least prove my loyalty. But, it was all a game to him. It backfired on me because he just believes that I'm not loyal at all now. I do think after being on this forum that he did throw me into his harem as I was the one who had to remove him from my life by deleting him from my friends list. It does make me sad because I truly did believe I had met my perfect partner out of the bedroom and in.

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Posted by ursupergirl33
Why would he think I'm stupid?

We like Winners, unfortunately you fell way below the acceptable line of expectations. Taking pix of another guy screwing you was a test I presume and you failed miserably. You obviously gave off the impression that you a Ho, and he wanted to verify such. Once he got confirmation you were kicked to the curb. Now he may like Ho's, so he might have tossed you into the Harem with all his other Ho's. But in terms of exclusivity rights you have none, go back to Match.com and try again... Maybe this time you you will find yourself a Pimp who will demand you fuck some dudes for money before he will let you do his laundry or whatever.

And rest assured that that pimp will be a taurus or a libra!!

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Of course, not just anyone can be a Pimp it takes a certain bag of traits 😛

Good morning BTW or shall I say Good Afternoon for you.

Posted by busyeyes88
Hey AB. It's afternoon here! Thanks!! Lol

Hope you having a good day!

The Venusian men are terrible ! They are terrible communicators and so fake! The best pimps!!

Thank You, same here 😉

So far the day has been beautiful, with a nice cool breeze and everything is running as it should be with no problems. Just the way I like it, a Perfect day.

I hope this really is a game and something that did not happen