Early sex--- could it kill a relationship with Taurus?

I met a Taurus man, we had been on two dates, the third he cooked for me at his house. Kissed for hours, I told him that I wasn't ready for sex but he convinced me to stay over and.. woops.. it happened. And it was good but he came fast and he was apologizing for that, but anyway, I didn't mind.

Since then he still messages me every day, maybe even more, about daily things and we have conversations too. I saw him once since then-- again at his house. He wanted me to stay over, made me dinner again, we kissed but I "escaped" as he was pulling me into the bedroom and went home. Again, messaged me right away after I left and said that he already missed me etc. Asked me to see him the next day... I said why not the day after... he said he wants to see me that day, too, but I said just Friday, because I work too late on Thursday. He asked me to cook for him this time. It was going to see him tonight but he asked me if he could "be my guest" and stay over and we could have breakfast together, too. Then he quickly said "I'll be good". But I said, "actually, Saturday morning will be better since I get home too late." So now we just plan to have breakfast tomorrow at my place.

He always says "I miss you", calls me beautiful. He is obsessed with my 'beautiful face' etc. But I hinted the last time that I couldn't have sex with him because he's not my boyfriend, and he just says "Is that the only reason?" and didn't say anything else. And he never says anything but "you're so beautiful and smart", "I want to see you all the time", "I miss you". I heard that Taurus aren't so great at verbal stuff but still, it feels like there are gaps that aren't being filled in on purpose. Also he doesn't act possessive or ask about other men in my life (I haven't told him about any anyway but he doesn't seem too curious).

Is he just chasing me for sex or could he be considering me more seriously? To any Tauruses or people with experience...

I don't get why woman over analyze everything. JFC

And why is everyone obsessed with titles?

Did he at least eat you out first? Damn I'd be pissed if I didn't get mine

Posted by lilyofthevalley
I met a Taurus man, we had been on two dates, the third he cooked for me at his house. Kissed for hours, I told him that I wasn't ready for sex but he convinced me to stay over and.. woops.. it happened. And it was good but he came fast and he was apologizing for that, but anyway, I didn't mind.

Since then he still messages me every day, maybe even more, about daily things and we have conversations too. I saw him once since then-- again at his house. He wanted me to stay over, made me dinner again, we kissed but I "escaped" as he was pulling me into the bedroom and went home. Again, messaged me right away after I left and said that he already missed me etc. Asked me to see him the next day... I said why not the day after... he said he wants to see me that day, too, but I said just Friday, because I work too late on Thursday. He asked me to cook for him this time. It was going to see him tonight but he asked me if he could "be my guest" and stay over and we could have breakfast together, too. Then he quickly said "I'll be good". But I said, "actually, Saturday morning will be better since I get home too late." So now we just plan to have breakfast tomorrow at my place.

He always says "I miss you", calls me beautiful. He is obsessed with my 'beautiful face' etc. But I hinted the last time that I couldn't have sex with him because he's not my boyfriend, and he just says "Is that the only reason?" and didn't say anything else. And he never says anything but "you're so beautiful and smart", "I want to see you all the time", "I miss you". I heard that Taurus aren't so great at verbal stuff but still, it feels like there are gaps that aren't being filled in on purpose. Also he doesn't act possessive or ask about other men in my life (I haven't told him about any anyway but he doesn't seem too curious).

Is he just chasing me for sex or could he be considering me more seriously? To any Tauruses or people with experience...

I think you're good but the key word here is consistency. I'd say to test him out, you guys should try doing something that doesn't involve going to each other's places. Like go out on an actual date and see how he treats that experience with you. If all y'all are doing is cooking for each other, the guy is gonna try to get laid right after. Go outside, do things, and make him earn it.

Honestly though, I've had sex on first dates and they formed into relationships. It's not that big of a deal. If the sex is great and the person is awesome, it doesn't matter really how quick it took to have sex, I will generally want to be with you.

Update---

Thank you everyone for the feedback...

So today I did as some of you suggested and tested him a bit. Instead of coming to his house or having him over to mine, I just told him that I couldn't meet him there but could we just go to a cafe somewhere? So he says, "Not outside, I want to kiss you... I'm going to have breakfast and come to you for an hour, okay?" And of course I was thinking like, DARN IT all he wants is to sex me! So then we went back and forth.. I finally said that I can't meet him today. And then I got up the nerve to call him and tell him that I don't think we're right for each other, etc. When I was talking, I could tell he was really shocked, he tried to keep me talking, asking me, "Where is this coming from? What happened?" So finally I just said, "Things are just complicated right now, bye honey".

So he messaged me right after, said, "I started to eat but I can't eat anymore, what happened?" and I didn't respond and he said that he doesn't know what he should say and that "I guess you're really good at quitting... but you just told me that you like me... and I like you too" I say "everything is just too complicated for me". He's like "I see but I feel so good around you" and finally I'm like "Only if you kiss me."

So he's like "oh okay this is the problem. I didn't mean that" and I said "I'm not looking for that type of relationship" and he said, "Do you have time for a coffee? In a cafe." So we met and it went well. He took an awful picture of me that he loved and he wouldn't delete it. He told me that he never complains about his circumstances and I said, "Well I do complain but I usually never mean it" and he was like "You're just complaining because you need someone to help you. I understand. You can't do it all on your own." We talked about everything. Near the end he grabbed my hand. Didn't try to kiss me or anything. And he's been messaging me constantly today, even more than normal. So I think things are going better. I feel better because he's a fast learner... I could tell that as soon as I sent the "only for kissing" message that he knew exactly what the issues were. Really intuitive as far as a man goes... I wonder if it's a Taurus thing or because his venus and moon is Cancer...

You're right Baptist, I laughed🙂 but what do you think I should do? Not for the "next Taurus", but this one?

Posted by LadyNeptune
Did he at least eat you out first? Damn I'd be pissed if I didn't get mine

LOL

You are fine hon calm down lol

Posted by lilyofthevalley
You're right Baptist, I laughed🙂 but what do you think I should do? Not for the "next Taurus", but this one?

You can't undo what you have done. Maybe put off the sex first and start having a real life rs and courtship? At least you know what to expect now.

From what I read, Taurus actually prefers their wife to be virgins cos they don't want their wives tarnished and they wish to be the only one who possess their wife even more so than the famous possessive Scorps. Don't know whether this is true cos a lot of Taurus end up marrying non-virgins too. They also love to have fwb and have no qualms with sex before marriage with random girls.