Getting real tired of your sh*t Taurus

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Posted by ladolcevita
Update: So guess what guys? After no contact for 3 weeks, he pokes me on fb. Trying to get my attention again? What the hell is wrong with this guy seriously—? If he still has feelings for me why doesn't he just act on them already? If he doesn't, why can't he leave me alone?! Ugh you taurus men drive me straight up the wall.



Admit that you're excited about him popping back up. lol...
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I mean lets be real I still have some feelings for him. obviously I wouldn't be posting here if I didn't but I'm also at my wits end. Like...I almost feel like I'm being emotionally abused at this point but I keep coming back for more like an idiot because I love this jerk. And I just want to know if he's doing this because he still has feelings for me but is slow to act on it or if he's literally just stringing me along for his own ego-boost. If I knew for sure that it was the latter it would definitely help to move on from this toxic situation. But it's that small piece of hope that keeps me hanging on. As a scorpio, I have a huge sense of pride as well and I hate myself for hanging on pathetically.



You should just be real, and direct with him. Tell him you still have feelings, you feel he is toying with your emotions, and he should tell you where he stands. If he doesn't want a relationship with you, he should just move on and stop contacting you, because your feelings are very strong, and what looks like indecision on his part is hurting you. He could be playing a game of weighing options, but you always have to factor in how slow we are, how we just operate on a different timeline, and Scorps can tend to freak out, overanalyze & speculate wildly, distrust, etc. in the interim periods.
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ladolcevita,

I had that feelings of *control* of our emotions when worst situation kicks in.

you are not alone...most of us suffered it and it's really exhausting that could lead to ending

a relationship.

Be gentle for yourself. Invite this guy. Tell him you would appreciate if he would invite you for

a dinner than poking your fb page.

Don't react when he do that.. I am sure he mean something and takes a lady to respond politely
than reacting impulsively. If you approach him with no emotional attachment it will be easier for you
to manage him.. Learn how the minds of men works.

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Posted by Impulsv
Sorry ur going through I dealt with it for four years. Slow sure yet with sag n six month he's engaged n gets married in three months. Today. Stop believe this they are slow be patient. The point is they are not treating u like u deserve n are wearing u out. Get out know or tell him ur no longer accepting disappearing acts not even one day of contact ( text)
Either he mans up or let him.
This fear depression crap don't be fooled it's ego boost. Like I said did he pull this crap on the sag? Or did she not put up with it.
Don't put up with it!



Bulls goes to the "red" rags like beasts even dangerous, think, it's their animal nature.
The rest eat, chew it, swallow it, give it a spin in the stomach ... and chew again. That about safety, stability..i have my doubts, just do to silly who permitte. They are tempted by the risk if you're sure going to relax and enjoy ruminating and ruminating any herb ... but if a red rag appears to charge.
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Posted by M143
TeaMint,

I guess you are right. This is what happened to my relationship. Bulls needs result... and this annoyed

me. We Scorpio likes to do things in time. We don't like to decide right away. We analyze first.

We have this problem of submission. We are not typical housewife. We are too independent.



Scorpio takes risks, Taurus if could buy love they would, fire happens never is what it seems ... and for once taurus decide (or decide for them rather) eventually end up burning. The problem is Scorpio has that lightness, that force will not really want security not only in appearance and lacks depth Taurus to see this and see how Scorpio could give, deliver.
Taurus problem is lack of depth, reason for Scorpio fascinates and scares them at the same time.
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I do not believe in hitting educational method but unfortunately that is how one learns many people. Scorpio Taurus can get better but not hit well and they know the games are over Scorpio (childishness and harems) and if you know the sooner you do know better, at least you stay quiet you break the head if they want. Scorpio must follow intuition and be relentless as ever, problem that Taurus makes us...agh...and it never works for us, we can not be what we are not, do not feel that suit us well.

Shame because they could work well land-water but tauros are very cowards, and all are fucking materialistic and this eagerness to possess to end up losing more than winning. Fucking materialistic and fucking half blind animals, total blind for an eagle's sight.


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And scorpio will be fucked but with only one message sent by telepathy can fuck taurus for several days and are really fucked, they shows it.

Worst of Scorpio is how difficult it's to forget us, is not possible they took the risk to live with it. And a crazy fires is fun too, lol. Impulsv😉 will be warmmy in hell, hum what home as comfortable...jeje.

Taurus only has value when they check value if not its only a stupid herbivore, is dangerous it's only a gypsy myth.
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Lol. TLS, Bring it On!

Yes, Some Scorps maybe blind of their enormous ego, man it's not just ego.. it's a cheap ego of a Bull.

If a Bull will just pick up a lady MORE THAN Scorpio woman, The bull deserves Honor & Respect from us.

If it happens the Bull will pick up a cheap lady over us, man, Our enormous ego hurts.. This is

injustice defeat. There's no honor to a fool it's shame. His glory vanish like a mist that used to

adore.
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I was once with a bull who said... he loves me. but man, long before I know it. He chose my flirty
libra friend at work. I sent him message privately * FOOL * if you're just going to replace me and dispose make sure it's more than me... not below than me.

Yes my enormous ego hurts.

But sadly,I chat my libra friend 1 wk ago. She said he is a different guy at this time. He is cold.
I kept insisting that he is a sweet guy. lol. She stole it from me. I resigned my job before. He called me and asked if my present job has a vacancy for engineer.I thought it was over after what he did.

I receive a message from him last sunday.. saying * thank you*. But this man moved my heart before but I ended the drama. hahaha. I just replied... * strange * I don't know why he thanked me.
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Fucking materialistic and fucking half blind animals, total blind for an eagle's sight.




Scorps are blind to their enormous ego though, and usually also blinded in their judgment by several other prejudices they gain through life's disappointments.
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Scorpio has confidence in himself and is not afraid to speak his mind, to do anything "to do", which is sometimes confused by weaker people with ego or prejudices but we are not boastful they just are not up. Part of Scorpio ego is misunderstanding or prejudices others but do not worry we were born with it and they are not going to tame us with insults.
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I was once with a bull who said... he loves me. but man, long before I know it. He chose my flirty
libra friend at work. I sent him message privately * FOOL * if you're just going to replace me and dispose make sure it's more than me... not below than me.

Yes my enormous ego hurts.

But sadly,I chat my libra friend 1 wk ago. She said he is a different guy at this time. He is cold.
I kept insisting that he is a sweet guy. lol. She stole it from me. I resigned my job before. He called me and asked if my present job has a vacancy for engineer.I thought it was over after what he did.

I receive a message from him last sunday.. saying * thank you*. But this man moved my heart before but I ended the drama. hahaha. I just replied... * strange * I don't know why he thanked me.



Is cold suddenly? Before huh? Haha, it means the air is cooling the earth and care, that bull might be looking for next vine. Tell him your company is not elegant enough room for him...lol.
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Like I said...



Scorpio ego is not question superficial, what you see is nothing just that scorpio wants to show you believes me. Real is in a very deep place i do not think you got there, fear the deep 😉
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LOL - is this a war of psychoanalysis? I'm game...

It gets old hearing that Taurus is superficial. Seeing value in tangible possessions doesn't automatically make someone superficial. Its simply part of the Taurus path to work, experience, and enjoy the material and sensual world we all live in - feeding off of and creating beauty within it. The bull symbol in the ancient world is primarily about fertility and potency. It also gets old seeing "depth" equated with having strong emotions. I think emotional depth is actually the least interesting type of depth. Mental/philosophical depth and spiritual depth are much more interesting, IMO. Some of the Taurus people I know are actually some of the deepest people I know, in these areas.

As far as fearing the depth of Scorpio, I think its common that Scorps at some point feel they scare people with their super intense emotions, after often being rejected for showing them, and thus are too scared themselves to really trust that they can show those emotions. So they hide them. Then, of course the ego has to say things like the the other is afraid of their depth, can't handle it, etc. An issue perceived as negative within the self simply gets externalized to others. The ego brags about how it only shows what it wants you to see, and revels in the power of a secret, but this is just Scorpio fear of vulnerability. Its the wounded child within you, the ego is its bodyguard, and its something to work on, not brag about. Its the arachnid, hiding under the rock to protect itself from the predators - afraid to come into the light.
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Scorpio has confidence in himself and is not afraid to speak his mind.



Often not the case at all, especially when it comes to speaking about how one truly feels, what ones true motives are, etc. Scorpio, with all the depth of emotion, and fear of vulnerability, is probably hiding and wearing a mask (showing only what they want you to see - as you admit) moreso than any other sign...until they learn to trust more freely.
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Scorpio has confidence in himself and is not afraid to speak his mind.



Often not the case at all, especially when it comes to speaking about how one truly feels, what ones true motives are, etc. Scorpio, with all the depth of emotion, and fear of vulnerability, is probably hiding and wearing a mask (showing only what they want you to see - as you admit) moreso than any other sign...until they learn to trust more freely.
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Scorpio lives below the surface, what is above everyone can see it is not interesting for us, too often is false but we know our own butter and the others. And any mental or philosophical depth is reached through emotions (e-motions) people are all connected no engine parts but having them does not mean they have you, are different things. Scorpio just is more aware of them and can work them without releasing them into the wind but also not ignoring, internally, we can die and revive without the sirens wake the whole city. People don't feel the toes and one day buum, baam, buum...
And philosophy, reason and mind bla bla bla are overrated in this psychopath world, are just like whores, sell what you want if you pay enough.
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Scorpio just is more aware of them and can work them without releasing them into the wind but also not ignoring, internally, we can die and revive without the sirens wake the whole city. People don't feel the toes and one day buum, baam, buum...
And philosophy, reason and mind bla bla bla are overrated in this psychopath world, are just like whores, sell what you want if you pay enough.



Yeah, I've seen my Scorp dad come out of the shower, with the red eyes he was rubbing, as if I don't know he was crying in there. Master of isolation, denial, and repression. Again, not much to brag of here. Its just your path - at war within your self, undergoing self-destruction in the lower phases, and of the lower self, and it can often be a lonely path. Its great that you're strong enough to be reborn, but kinda sucks that you have to undergo destruction in the first place.

Philosophy and reason (at which Taurus excel when they apply themselves), and divorcing strong emotion and bias/prejudice/subjectivity from the practice of them, actually allowed us to be so good at mastering the physical world, which has been quite a benefit to civilization, so I wouldn't say they are overrated.
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As a Scorpio I cannot even understand myself before until I met my own fellow Scorpio.I wonder where's

this behavior coming from...He cried when I refused to marry him right away. He is U.S sergeant army,

12 yrs of service at that time. he was 33 and I was 29 that time. I didn't see *ego* I saw *pain* can

be the cause of fears of being vulnerable...it kills us inside.

If it is *ego* issues. You will see the angry Scorpio stinging you over and over.

Heaven will forgive but not an angry Scorpio!!!




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As a Scorpio I cannot even understand myself before until I met my own fellow Scorpio.I wonder where's

this behavior coming from...He cried when I refused to marry him right away. He is U.S sergeant army,

12 yrs of service at that time. he was 33 and I was 29 that time. I didn't see *ego* I saw *pain* can

be the cause of fears of being vulnerable...it kills us inside.

If it is *ego* issues. You will see the angry Scorpio stinging you over and over.

Heaven will forgive but not an angry Scorpio!!!






Right, the pain, which I mentioned in talking about past rejections when they were vulnerable. The ego comes into play when Scorps decide to try to hide and bury the sensitive nature - judging it as a weakness, and project the opposite.
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Scorpio just is more aware of them and can work them without releasing them into the wind but also not ignoring, internally, we can die and revive without the sirens wake the whole city. People don't feel the toes and one day buum, baam, buum...
And philosophy, reason and mind bla bla bla are overrated in this psychopath world, are just like whores, sell what you want if you pay enough.



Yeah, I've seen my Scorp dad come out of the shower, with the red eyes he was rubbing, as if I don't know he was crying in there. Master of isolation, denial, and repression. Again, not much to brag of here. Its just your path - at war within your self, undergoing self-destruction in the lower phases, and of the lower self, and it can often be a lonely path. Its great that you're strong enough to be reborn, but kinda sucks that you have to undergo destruction in the first place.

Philosophy and reason (at which Taurus excel when they apply themselves), and divorcing strong emotion and bias/prejudice/subjectivity from the practice of them, actually allowed us to be so good at mastering the physical world, which has been quite a benefit to civilization, so I wouldn't say they are overrated.
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I'm not a fan of civilization, the story is false all lies and man each day passes is more dead than alive, the world is a decable pain and imbecility, civilization has nothing to brag about in my opinion . Technology advances? No significant since 45 and only for those who can afford them.
I hate this world, I do not like what has become the human, garbage. I do not question life because it is what it is, is only a little while, I guess that makes a big difference for me.
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I'm not a fan of civilization, the story is false all lies and man each day passes is more dead than alive, the world is a decable pain and imbecility, civilization has nothing to brag about in my opinion . Technology advances? No significant since 45 and only for those who can afford them.
I hate this world, I do not like what has become the human, garbage. I do not question life because it is what it is, is only a little while, I guess that makes a big difference for me.



LOL, no significant technology advances since 1945? How about the internet that you're using right now?

Its understandable to dislike the world in a lot of ways. I agree that there is a lot that sucks about it. But you've gone too far become quite the bitter Scorpio. Harboring hatred of humanity will really only destroy you in the end. The whole purpose of existence in a world of suffering/pain is to cultivate compassion and love, and that's the direction you should be evolving in. Instead you've let the hurt/pain you've experienced crystallize into a permanent grudge, and your attitude towards others has become almost dehumanizing. In judging the world and others as ugly/garbage/beneath you, you've become blind to your own ugliness. The path you're taking is the reason the world is as ugly as it is.