..happy ending...

Wow... How do I begin... I could be the only one in DXP here who is having this experience with a Taurus man.. He definitely decided I am the one.. He doesn't want me to lift a dam finger for anything. He is supporting anything I want to be and say he will look after me even if I don't have a job. He is planning to travel to Europe the next few years and we talked about what I am going to do while we live there.. We talked about our house...etc. He can get his hands off me... He loves his cuddles... He looks after me like I'm 5 years old! It's too sweet how caring and supportive he is of me.. He said he will always be there for me no matter what.. He's been dreaming of me a lot since we talked... He is already thinking of buying me lots of things.. first a real pony for my birthday and second the best camera you can get as we figured I am an artist and take breathless photos..it's incredible.. the bedroom act is also phenomenal.! The real bull is a true pleaser...!! Good luck ladies ..😉 a true bull is definitely worth waiting for.. a secret to finding one though is that .. When they decide you are the one.. Nothing can stop them... But if they decided you are not.. They will play this hot and cold game on you.... have their choices open.. Cling on to their the one ex... And make up tons of excuses as to why you can't be together...😢 sad but true.. I also hope mine will stay this way forever.. I have a feeling he will..😉

Is this the guy that was all over you from your first date? If so, it seems way too soon for you to get involved like this.

Best of luck.

Everything you mention sounds nice and lovely but it's only true if the passes the test of time.

Then again, between two tauruses, time ain't going anywhere.

Congrats...🙂

Posted by Damnata
Everything you mention sounds nice and lovely but it's only true if the passes the test of time.

Then again, between two tauruses, time ain't going anywhere.

Agreed with you. Two tauruses though. Time stay still... most likely nothing changes with time Amen. 🙂 n yes he's the guy who said he knew he was in trouble the first time he talked to me... 🙂

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Congrats...🙂

Thank you Taurus bull!!! He's very sweet. When are you getting yourself another bull—

Posted by soultalk
STVG, have u guys talked about marriage?

He talked about a diamond ring.. and he did hint about marriage.. We talked about marriage couples a few times how they some of them have separate beds and how we will not have separate beds. For us to move to Europe surely enough he will propose. I can see it coming pretty quickly. He's at this point in life as well where he's ready to look after me and is settled with his career. So I guess I came Into his life at the right time. 🙂

@ Nemsis. I can totally understand where your warnings are. I am trying to see if he will be that kind of man as well. I do dancing and he said I am more than happy to do partner dancing.. anything my heart desire he will support me... Only time will tell if he will turn possessive and jealous or not... If he does he will loose me so I have to train him early :p

Posted by scorchedearth
stvg i'm saying this in the most polite way i can... you're a naive gullible hot mess who does not exist in the real world with the rest of us.

if someone started blowing smoke up my ass the way this taurus is doing with you my first instinct would be to RUN. you don't even know him and he's talking about you not working... so he can control you financially... probably get you pregnant right away so you won't want to leave because you're afraid it'll hurt your kids... every post you've made for this douche has been one giant red flag after another.

this guy is obviously a rebound and you're happy that at least ONE taurus is providing the attention you crave. you're not looking at this guy logically. reread the fairlytale you spun us up there logically and tell me that he sounds safe. this guy is about to take you for a ride... good luck with that.

^^^+100000000

@stvg: :/ the ups and the downs with your main bull have caused you to completely give in to your venus gem. Which is a bad idea and how can venus taurus be so faaaassst like slooowwwww downn when it comes to love?? It doesnt happen, bulls are slow af and pessimistic when it comes to love since their happiness depends on someone else.....either hes an unevolved bull or you're a side dish.....im sorry if im being harsh but pls dont be so quick to jump in to another emotional mess :/ i dont want you to get hurt. MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT! How long have you known him?

well that sounds charming and i hope it works for you.

BUT be alert and don't ignore those signs...that appear sometimes.

i was engaged to a lovely taurus man once and he too made me the center of his universe. all those good traits - became reversed with time. it was like a revelation to me after a while - what i thought was protectivness was jealousy and the wish to control me. making a decision without him? LOL ohhhh the pouting. i am def. a 1:1 person but not a 24/7 person. lol.

today he is happily married and i am glad for him although we had a tough breaking off.


Nemises,

This is really TRUE. this is what happened to my Ex Taurus man at this time.
Bull needs a woman 24/7 and I am not this.

As we celebrate our holidays season with my family it became more worst.
At first, I ignored him but it seems he is more comfortable and a huge
fight again happened before Xmas. The funny thing, He kept saying those
words that is no longer working with me.
Today, he is not in a good mood. and again I bruised his ego saying
I will not let my emotion make a decision and don't even try to book me another
flights and my family because the edge on this situation is my work. I have a big
responsibility to the company. So use your brain. and don't decide for me, I will
decide for myself. and stop wasting money for me and my family. I don't need it.

This bull of mine...purchased me even I don't need his money.

He very controlling and Jealous even I was talking to my officemates yesterday.

I finally conclude...How can a bull still controlled me and Jealous even at first

he was the one who pushed me. I thought they are practical it looks like they are

more insecure. Ohh. he kept listening whom I talking over the phone. what a bull!

Posted by scorchedearth
this guy is about to take you for a ride... good luck with that.

I wouldn't automatically assume that he is about to take her for a ride scorched, that would mean believing that what she is writing about him is in fact what he is doing and saying, the last Taurus man she thought she was involved with was also made out to be madly in love with her blah blah blah, she sounds like she is spinning fairy tales in her own head again..

STVG, at the beginning of this month you were so hopelessly in love with the Taurus man who didn't want you and made it clear, and you professed to never be able to love anyone else ever again, yet here you are less than 23 days later planning on moving continents with what appears to be the new love of your life..someone you barely know. You start off a separate thread about him by proclaiming your extreme independence yet are finishing this with giving all of that up to trail around after a man whose only wish it appears is to financially and emotionally care for you and buy you a pony and camera, where is that independent streak gone in a matter of 2 days? How many times have you met this man? Does he really know of your true understanding of his intentions?

You have got to get a grip on yourself.

I got so many people to respond to but firstly let me say 1) we do not want to have kids just yet. We have talked about it but that would be when we are settle down .. Travelled the world and so forth.. So no he is not trying to make me pregnant and wishing to control my life. I already talked about myself needing to be independent and he's clear with that . 2) I am not spinning my own fairy tales. he's proved himself with actions and words. 3) he would be happy to see me dance with other people and we already talked about it and that he can not get jealous or possessive of me. 4) I am thankful you are all worried for me but things have gone too deep already and I seriously don't think anything will change. I hope so anyway.

All I want to know is why is no one addressing the....

He said he would buy me a pony comment? I stopped reading after that.

I don't know how old you are STVG but if you are older than 6 then I am a little concerned.

You appear to be searching for something that can only be found from within. If you don't understand what I am talking about then that is all the more reason to just pump the brakes a little. You don't have to stop seeing him but just slow it down. Think about eating your favorite meal it tastes so much better when you savor it.

Well shit. I was hoping for the name of a really good massage parlor.

LOLOL! GOOOD FISHY.

Thanks for all the warning! they really did me good. I have taken a step back and analyse everything from an outsider perspective.. Turned out he has got some mental issues... Low self esteem...insecurity... Depression and occasionally panic attack... That explains why everything happened so quickly.. Now do I run?

Why yes young lady, run, run as fast as you can 🙂. No in all seriousness...stop. Take time out and work out what it was in you that reacted to him in this way, his problems are his, yours are yours.

Posted by SunTauVenGem
Thanks for all the warning! they really did me good. I have taken a step back and analyse everything from an outsider perspective.. Turned out he has got some mental issues... Low self esteem...insecurity... Depression and occasionally panic attack... That explains why everything happened so quickly.. Now do I run?

Wondered when you were going to put the brakes on....it could still turn out to be a happy ending for both of you, if you let him know that you both have issues to work on separately.... wish you well 🙂

We talked about it and it turned out we both have issues. He has his and I have mine.. We talked about it and I was honest with him I was still hanging on to my previous (bull). He said he is a rebound which is most likely true. I have to get over my bull first before I have another relationship and he has to fix his self esteem issues and all the others. . we got to do that separately .. Thanks all for your warnings. My venus is a killer. I need to take control of that damn thing!!!!

Posted by celticlioness
Why yes young lady, run, run as fast as you can 🙂. No in all seriousness...stop. Take time out and work out what it was in you that reacted to him in this way, his problems are his, yours are yours.

Posted by SunTauVenGem
Thanks for all the warning! they really did me good. I have taken a step back and analyse everything from an outsider perspective.. Turned out he has got some mental issues... Low self esteem...insecurity... Depression and occasionally panic attack... That explains why everything happened so quickly.. Now do I run?

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Thank you!

Posted by gemeliorist
Wondered when you were going to put the brakes on....it could still turn out to be a happy ending for both of you, if you let him know that you both have issues to work on separately.... wish you well 🙂

Kind words! Thank you!

Never buy a pony while Venus is retrograde.

Posted by MilkySoft
Can't remember what book I read that stated a Taurus woman can be more vulnerable than even a fish girl in matters of the heart.

You can't spot the snakes in the grass with your head in the clouds, STVG.

True true true and true !! I have stepped away from it miles away so I can look at things realistically. you are so right. When I am overwhelmed in the "love" and the"us" I am not sure if I am actually in love with him or in love with the idea of "us" and what we could be.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Never buy a pony while Venus is retrograde.

Can you explain that a bit more ? TLS?