He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?

I??ve known a Taurus friend for some time??_

He sometimes make comments which makes me think that he might be interested, like —Work isn't the same because I don't get to talk to you online.?? He used to ask me to hang out all the time but I was always busy and couldn't??_ One time, I agreed to come to his cocktail party and brought a few friends along. After we left the party, ALL of my friends said that he's interested in me just from the look in his eyes when he looks at me.

So some of our mutual friends went for a short trip together. We all hung out but the entire weekend we didn't really talk (which is weird because we usually make conversation). But he DID send me a text when I was going back home to tell me to drive safely.

Then recently we hung out but he was surrounded by girls, he's very attractive, so girls are always clinging onto him. So I didn't really get to talk to him or hang out with him. But everytime I look at him, he??d look at me and give me a smile??_ like a head tilting smile. He called me the next day after work to see if I had a good time and asked me if I wanted to go watch a movie screening with him for work. I said sure. We went and it was really platonic, he didn't try to hold my hand or anything at all! Even though he didn't pull back or anything when we mutually touched or when I touch his face he??d just look into my eyes. But he wouldn't initiate contact.

We went back to his place after the screening to have dinner because I owed him a home-cooked meal I had promised a while back. So I cooked and also surprised him with a gift, Wine. He was ecstatic because he said he had been wanting a glass of wine all day. So we ate and literally told stories about our childhood and laughed every single second of it until 4 am!!! At that point, I told him I was dreading leaving because it was so late and I was getting tired??_ He offered for me to sleepover. I said I couldn't. I'm so bewildered. There were no physical contact from him or anything at all??_ We laid side by side in bed swapping stories but he didn't try to touch me or any of that sort.

He texts me the next day to see how my day was (to see if I was as tired as he was). And we periodically text throughout the day. And then there's no contact the day after. And now, I'm left totally confused.

Help me understand his actions. Is he not attracted or interested in me at all?

Oh, thank you all for your help. I really appreciate it.

ask him. taureans like the direct approach. they may not initiate it but that's how they tend to work. they'll usually draw u to them. u should feel pretty lucky that he's throwing u the bones that he is. the taurus guys that i know won't say anything unless u either drag it outta them or say something first. so be bold. don't be afraid. taurus men love a strong individual of character who is confident.

What if I can't do that? =X I'm not a direct person at all.

Are there any other ways I can let him know I want to hang out more often?

is someone holding a gun to ur head? of course u can do that because u are in control of ur actions. u may have to step out of ur comfort zone and take the risk. the worst that could happen is rejection... which is not the end of the world. ur not gonna die of embarrassment either. u'll be just fine.

i must re-iterate that taurus are attracted to strong individuals with confidence. if ur not even strong enough to inform him that u would like to, as u say "hang out more", then it's probably best to leave it alone. what sucks is that he may truly like u but maybe he can sense this in u which might be somewhat of a turn-off. i have a significant amount of taurus male friends, and one who is a lover, and they will still befriend those that are not as strong. they may even play around with them but they won't fall in love with them.

i seem to attract taurus men the most. they say taurus are slow movers and they attract u to them. i think it just takes a certain kind of person to make them really move. cuz when they zone in they go for what they want and with force!

besides, u need to tell that voice inside ur head to stfu! don't let anyone, or anything, make u feel like u don't deserve what u want. most of the time we are our own worst enemies.

You should listen to Ninja...shes always right. (seriously)

I took some of your guys (gals) advice... haha Okay, I'm not the most forward person but I really tried. So here goes my update of current events, and hopefully more to come.

So the Taurus took me out and vowed to brighten up my night because I was having a really terrible day. On our date, I had my arms wrapped around his (I initiated, of course) and his leg was touching mine but he didn't make an attempt to try to move it or anything. I took a non-verbal communication class a long time ago and remember that if the opposite sex likes you, they wouldn't try to move their leg away if it was subtly touching yours. So it's a good sign, right?

We went back to his place and he prepared me dinner because he remembered that I always get hungry every few hours. I have a big appetite for my petite size.

We laid next to each other, attempted to go to sleep but was having so much fun just talking and laughing until like 4 in the morning. He can really talk up a storm!!!! And as with the first time I spent time with him, we really really make great great GREAT conversation. He definitely knows how to make me laugh and I make him laugh as well. At one point in the evening, he told me briefly about the last girl he dated and how it didn't work because she became jealous and demanding and that the more she liked him, the less he liked her. He said he wanted a girl who isn't always looking to be in a relationship. I briefly told him that when his friend (Bob) first met me, he asked me out on a date. And he was like, "Oh, why didn't you go?" and I just said, "No way!" I also told him not to tell Bob that I told him this and he said, "Well... If Bob didn't tell me he asked you out on a date then Bob obviously didn't want me to know about it." And I also said that I think relationships need to come very naturally and not be forced, which he agrees with me.

When I finally drifted off to sleep, he was cuddling me, his feet touching my feet and our fingers interlocking. Just the most comfortable feeling and most natural to be with him. Anyway, while asleep, my coughing woke me up and he was all, "Are you okay? Do you need water?" and I just nodded and said I was okay. Then I turned around to face him and asked, "Were you awake this entire time?" He said yes, he couldn't sleep. I said sorry, then gave him a kiss on the cheek.

anyway, once I kissed him, it was hard to stop. I was caressing his face, running my fingers through his hair and neck, all the while, my breath and tip of my nose is lingering on his face... I placed another kiss on his cheek again, then the corner of his lips... then lightly bit his bottom lips, unsure of where and how to approach this urge to kiss him so much and so passionately. I release his lip from the nimble grasp of my teeth, and kissed him again, he responds... he perked his lips and kissed me back, both of our lips tenderly embracing and grazing each others slowly... God, I wanted to just consume him... But I managed to poise myself and and control my passion. I apologized and he said, "There's nothing to be sorry about." So I turn around and he's cuddling me from behind, and I notice that he's whimsically running his fingers on my back, FIRST time he showed any sign of initiating affection by voluntarily touching me. We both did finally fall asleep. When we finally woke up, we just laid in bed, procrastinating to wake up and get moving. I finally had to get out of bed because I needed to start my day, so I gave him a kiss on the cheek and said time for a shower!

When he was ready to go to work, he said I could stay as long as I needed. And I told him I would cook some breakfast first and then will head out. He gives me a BIG hug before he walks out the door for work and I grabbed him by his face and looked into his eyes and told him to have a good day. He said, "I'm going to be so exhausted at work. But I'll be thinking of you to help me through the day." When I was cooking at his place and he arrived at work, he texted me and I told him I was currently cooking him some food so he'd have something to eat when he comes home later. I also texted that I wished he was there with me. And his response was, "Same!!" AND, since my morning class was canceled, he said that I could've came into work with him that morning because his workplace needed extra help...


Sorry for the super long post. =) =)

AWE!!! Girl you cooked a meal for him later?? THEY LOVE THAT 😉 That story is so sweet! I wish you the best with him, these bull men, are addicting!!! 🙂

Awwww....... I like happy stories... 🙂