Help?

I'm Cancer woman and i falling in love for a Taurus woman, and make two years i not talk to her. I said hurtful things to her an she blocked me on Facebook and never answered me.

I left her alone for a long time and the last letter I sent was in November last year and this week sent a message saying 'Hi!' in Facebook.

The guilt i felt, longing and pain are like ghosts behind me. The solution to all this would be talk ''face to face'' or it would be a waste of time?

I'm afraid to spoil all the good memories I have of her.

After those two years I never fell in love with someone or dated and know that by doing so, I am not replacing her, but just trying to forget the pain.



I was born on July 8, 1992 and her on May 11, 1973.

At the time of the fight, she posted on Facebook indirect messages such as: '' Leave your ego at the door, '' '' If you are in a place and is not learning or contributing, go to a place where you are '', '' everyone you know is facing a battle that you know nothing about, be gentle, always! ''

If anyone can help, I will be very grateful! 😄

Have you made apologies for your actions?

It's not a waste of time if you both come away from it with some closure and perhaps new beginnings perhaps as friends.

My brother is a Taurus and is stubborn as hell. If you did him a wrong, you'd have to show him in alot of ways how sorry you are before he would even listen.

What were the hurtful things you said to her....

And why were those words said?





....I will tell you how to proceed.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
What were the hurtful things you said to her....

And why were those words said?





....I will tell you how to proceed.

Your so sweet and helpful — I don't have any advice myself op...but listen her she gives good advice!

Be very honest, clear and concise.

Do not hold back.

I don't do well with vague stories.

You two haven't talked for 2 years and now you are falling in love with her?

On Monday, she responded to my message.

She says: ''Hi! How are you? 'And I said I was fine and asked the same for her and and she said ''All right! ''.

Today, I continued the conversation telling something random about my life.

I wonder if she's just being nice or want to send an indirect or are waiting for me to continue to talk.



Thanks to all the advice and answers!

What did you say that was hurtful?

Posted by TaurusBull1977
What were the hurtful things you said to her....

And why were those words said?





....I will tell you how to proceed.

Hello! I was angry and wanted to say that a person close to her was not nice. I wanted to express everything I was thinking and feeling, take it all from me, I did not mean, i hated her and that anger would be forever. I am ashamed of the words I used, I will not say it again and not remember everything. Thanks for your help 😄

Posted by Pisces1803
Have you made apologies for your actions?

It's not a waste of time if you both come away from it with some closure and perhaps new beginnings perhaps as friends.

Yes! Several times, apologized for online messages and letters. Then I decided to stop make her remember it all. I want to apologize personally....

Posted by whatever001
You two haven't talked for 2 years and now you are falling in love with her?

I'm not madly in love. I missed her and I want to resolve this situation to maybe start a new relationship. She was an important person in my life and unforgettable.