@Charlie89
10 Years
Will he act like a man again?
Will He Return to His Old Self After Moving On
It is unlikely he will revert to his previous behavior as his new relationship and lifestyle suggest a shift in priorities. His actions indicate a focus on his new partner, making it improbable he will change back to how he was. Focus on protecting your child and your well-being rather than hoping he reverts.
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He's living that yolo bullshit now. Trust me u didnt lose anything there. Did u break up or did he? I'd say get full custody and get a man who doesnt run through midlife crisis
Did he break up with you before he met this Gemini girl?
Gemini girls can't stand Scorpio men and vice versa. Quincunx energy leads to tons of misunderstandings.At best they can be friends. There is hardly any sexual chemistry btwn these two signs. Unless there are other factors in play.
Whereas dxp is loaded with Taurus women and Scorpio men attraction and how they are the best pairings for each other. I don't believe in sun sign astrology, but maybe the Gemini will be high maintenance for this Scorp.
One thing, he sounds so disrespectful. And irresponsible. Are you saying you want him back?
He's doing this because in Scorp fashion, they think they'll shrivel up and die if they aren't in a relationship.
Hence, he turns around and starts acting like an idiot because she's one. He's doing all this stupid shit in order to keep her around.
My Scorp friend did this when he got with his current flame. Didn't smoke weed, or was remotely interested until he got into a relationship with the guy. Not that I have an issue with his boyfriend- far from it. It's just he's stupidly impressionable and will change who he is and do all this dumb shit if it means keeping himself parked in that relationship.
Your dude is just being an asshat. He's just trying to keep up with the child bride he paired off with.
Posted by InstantShawarma
Did he break up with you before he met this Gemini girl?Gemini girls can't stand Scorpio men and vice versa. Quincunx energy leads to tons of misunderstandings.At best they can be friends. There is hardly any sexual chemistry btwn these two signs. Unless there are other factors in play.
Whereas dxp is loaded with Taurus women and Scorpio men attraction and how they are the best pairings for each other. I don't believe in sun sign astrology, but maybe the Gemini will be high maintenance for this Scorp.
One thing, he sounds so disrespectful. And irresponsible. Are you saying you want him back?
We had a mutual break-up and we were on the process of getting back together then he started sleeping with the gemini girl and now they're in a genuine relationship. No I don't want him back anymore I just want him to be apart of my daughters life like he was doing, but ever since this gemini girl came in the picture he's not himself anymore. Before we used to be able to have deep convo's and talk about raising our daughter and now he's rather spend time with his teenage girlfriend and doing cocaine.
Posted by InstantShawarma
Did he break up with you before he met this Gemini girl?Gemini girls can't stand Scorpio men and vice versa. Quincunx energy leads to tons of misunderstandings.At best they can be friends. There is hardly any sexual chemistry btwn these two signs. Unless there are other factors in play.
Whereas dxp is loaded with Taurus women and Scorpio men attraction and how they are the best pairings for each other. I don't believe in sun sign astrology, but maybe the Gemini will be high maintenance for this Scorp.
One thing, he sounds so disrespectful. And irresponsible. Are you saying you want him back?
We had a mutual break-up and we were on the process of getting back together then he started sleeping with the gemini girl and now they're in a genuine relationship. No I don't want him back anymore I just want him to be apart of my daughters life like he was doing, but ever since this gemini girl came in the picture he's not himself anymore. Before we used to be able to have deep convo's and talk about raising our daughter and now he's rather spend time with his teenage girlfriend and doing cocaine.
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Looks like he is obsessed with her and there isn't a lot you can do to better his situation. Look out for yourself and your daughter.
If his habits have become an addiction, think what must be done to keep your daughter safe from all this mess.
And I'm a Gemini who was in a relationship with a Scorp. I was 17 and he was 20then... I wasn't doing drugs or anything. But my impulsive, friendly nature drove him insane. It never worked because I had way too many friends, was partying hard and I used to get attention and he felt the need to be around me all the time. Surprisingly he was the one who cheated. Smdh
I would break up only to get back because he wanted me back. Some weird pull.
Anyways I shared because Gemini-Scorp isn't an easy pairing. I haven't heard any good stuff about this pairing. And she may exhaust him emotionally and mentally... Don't worry about him for now. He is being an idiot. Take care of your daughter, who needs you.
4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.
What else were you hoping for OP?
Posted by AgentP911
4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.What else were you hoping for OP?
I'm wondering the same thing. Other than the care of your daughter, not seeing why the comment about his decision to give this Gem "the world" was even necessary, but it's quite telling.
Seems like you have some issues to resolve where he is concerned.
Posted by AgentP911
4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.What else were you hoping for OP?
I'm wondering the same thing. Other than the care of your daughter, not seeing why the comment about his decision to give this Gem "the world" was even necessary, but it's quite telling.
Seems like you have some issues to resolve where he is concerned.
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I believe the OP was hoping for a reconciliation before the Gem got involved with him. Happens when a kid is involved, I think.
Posted by AgentP911
4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.What else were you hoping for OP?
I'm wondering the same thing. Other than the care of your daughter, not seeing why the comment about his decision to give this Gem "the world" was even necessary, but it's quite telling.
Seems like you have some issues to resolve where he is concerned.
I believe the OP was hoping for a reconciliation before the Gem got involved with him. Happens when a kid is involved, I think.
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Of course it does and I picked that up from the OP without reading any further. Choice of words often reveal one's true motivation.
I just prefer it when people are straight up about what the issue is vs trying to make it about something else. You'll get better responses from the Scorps on the board because they'll know what you're hoping to achieve.
OP, as for your daughter (since you're claiming that is what this is all about) sounds like you're already planning to take steps to protect her and keep her safe until he gets himself sorted, so what he's doing and who is doing it with is of little concern---hense my initial comment. He's grown and you're no longer together, so that's not your issue. If he's not of sound mind and body when she is in his care, protect her. Period. Find a new bestie to have "deep convos" with and stop focusing on how much your bond has changed. It happens.
I just hope you're not using sole custody as a threat to keep the Scorp in line. It won't work in your best interest or hers.
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shame on ppl bashing this guy, what did he do wrong? shame on you Charlie89....typical mother who thinks a baby would a trapped a man smfh u sound bitter, who cares who hes dating...you two are now co-parents
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like this
Ditto.
Posted by Charlie89
he's already moving in with his new girlfriend and they're engaged... 4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.
Marriage isn't 'the world', it's a promise that can easily be broken.
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
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what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..
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the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..
the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol
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Again. Agreed
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs....
Eh em...
now he's rather spend time with his teenage girlfriend and doing cocaine.
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So hes actually posting pics of himself on Instagram snorting coke?
I'm not understanding why this is a question or up for debate.
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
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The girl is massive on psychedelics and cocaine, and whenever i've been to pick up my daughter i've seen his girlfriend with a bong and she's all over. I don't want that around my child.
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..
the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol
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I'm far more angry and embarrassed all my friends talk about it and a 30 year old man should not be with a teenage girl as well as joining in her drug abuse with her and bringing my child around it. He can spend £300 on a designer dress for his new girlfriend but now buy his own daughter a birthday present?
Posted by DMV
So hes actually posting pics of himself on Instagram snorting coke?
Yes his girlfriend has quite the following on instagram and she uploads ~edgy~ photos of her self constantly in Calvin Klein underwear and videos of him snorting lines off her ass. With pics of them at raves with different pills.
and we have just been trolled lol at least u helped my day go by faster
Posted by 13th
and we have just been trolled lol at least u helped my day go by faster
I don't think you know what trolling is but you're just another useless scorpio man, so fuck off out my thread if you have nothing to offer.
What's the real issue here, that he's unfit to be a father bc he parties hard every once in a while, or that his dick is inside a 19 year old veej on a daily basis?
I srsly hope you put your jealousy aside and use your head bc a kid growing up without a father is way more damaging than drug use in moderation
Posted by DMV
So hes actually posting pics of himself on Instagram snorting coke?Yes his girlfriend has quite the following on instagram and she uploads ~edgy~ photos of her self constantly in Calvin Klein underwear and videos of him snorting lines off her ass. With pics of them at raves with different pills.
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Im calling bs. Post the Instagram link.
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
She didn't specify what drugs.. and dude I'm a pot head, I'm not talking about weed and I don't think she was either.. People don't go to raves to smoke weed..
the OP is full of shit....She just bitter/jealous of the Gemini,,,I see sheete like this all the time...She mad he's moved on...ima pot head too BTW lol
I'm far more angry and embarrassed all my friends talk about it and a 30 year old man should not be with a teenage girl as well as joining in her drug abuse with her and bringing my child around it. He can spend £300 on a designer dress for his new girlfriend but now buy his own daughter a birthday present?
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Nobody does being bitter like a Brit can!
£300 on coke. I wouldn't worry about that issue. He's probably snorting Persil for that little money.
Posted by 13th
shame on ppl bashing this guy, what did he do wrong? shame on you Charlie89....typical mother who thinks a baby would a trapped a man smfh u sound bitter, who cares who hes dating...you two are now co-parents
If she brings his drug usage evident to
The court he will be no-co anymo...
Darling OP! He is going to become a man again but you don't want to wait. It takes a while!
For Scorp to grow up - you don't have this much time to wait. Yea at 50 they are dreamy. But I am still hearing how crazy was he being young. With children. Didn't gave a damn. Now - perfect! Go figure...if you can just shake his charm off...I know...I know...
Posted by DMV
So hes actually posting pics of himself on Instagram snorting coke?Yes his girlfriend has quite the following on instagram and she uploads ~edgy~ photos of her self constantly in Calvin Klein underwear and videos of him snorting lines off her ass. With pics of them at raves with different pills.
Save as evidence for custody
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This! And it doesn't matter what he buys her or how much he spends so long as he's court ordered to pay child support for your daughter. Don't focus on him or his choice to be a loser, instead focus on getting full custody and making sure your daughter isn't being neglected by druggies.
Posted by enfant_terrible
What's the real issue here, that he's unfit to be a father bc he parties hard every once in a while, or that his dick is inside a 19 year old veej on a daily basis?I srsly hope you put your jealousy aside and use your head bc a kid growing up without a father is way more damaging than drug use in moderation
exactly
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
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Reality check, honey. Many parents "abuse" drugs and alcohol behind closed doors, it doesn't necesserily make them bad parents
He choose to be a boy, didn't you see that darling?
Riiight
But when a woman acts in a similar fashion it's just Stella getting her groove back.
"Go gurrrrrl"
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
Reality check, honey. Many parents "abuse" drugs and alcohol behind closed doors, it doesn't necesserily make them bad parents
Behind closed doors is different than doing it openly and posting pictures of yourself doing so on social media.. That's really immature.
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Lol ok then, by that logic most celebs should get their kids confiscated?
Immature is not the same as irresponsible.
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
Weed is a drug... I wouldn't want anyone taking that stuff or any form of drugs near my child!
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Op said Cocaine.
Thats a whole other game. :/
Save those pics. Show them in court. Your daughter should not be around drugs/drug users. And even if he came crawling back to you, why would you want him back? At this point he's probably addicted to drugs and just dropping some chick won't make that magically go away.
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
what drugs? weed? come on, unless hes a crack head ALL MOTHERS AND FATHERS should be in their childs life...
Weed is a drug... I wouldn't want anyone taking that stuff or any form of drugs near my child!
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Never said anything about doing ANY drug around ANY kid
Posted by Charlie89
I'm a 27 y/o Taurus woman, and i was with my scorpio ex for 4 years, we had a child but broke up a year ago.9 months ago he met a gemini girl, i say girl because she's 19 and he's 32, i just think it's wrong and gross! Since he met this girl i've seen via instagram that they do large amounts of drugs, she takes him to festivals and raves. In the 4 years i was with scorpio he never did drugs, wtf changed?
He has become very irresponsible and i don't trust him around our daughter anymore, we sat down and and talked and i mentioned taking full custody of our daughter and he broke down and cried and called me a witch and said i make his life hell and he's already moving in with his new girlfriend and they're engaged... 4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.
He's so distant and nasty with me since he got with her, will he change back to how he used to be because i don't want to deal with this anymore.
He chose to be a "boy" and now he met a "girl"... Age has nothing to do with it... If you were both meant to be with each other, it would have worked and you would not be on dxp writing to a bunch of strangers.
You both decided to have a baby even though your relationship was not perfect.... He did not change. . He was probably this way all along but you 1) refuse to see it or 2) Scorps are "secretive" so you have to dig really really deep to "find" the other side of them which obviously you didn't.
Your best bet is to try and build a good relationship with him for your baby's sake. But let him know that unless he seeks help for his addiction, he will not be permitted to see his child
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great response
Posted by 13th
unless if he is careless dad I hope he is on his way to court RIGHT NOW before this bitter fawk fades him out his daughter life.....I hate reading sheete like thisBut it sort of sounds like he is a careless Dad? Although we only hear one side of the story here.. but from what we have heard, I wouldn't want a man like that around my child.. He is dating a child and abusing drugs..?
Reality check, honey. Many parents "abuse" drugs and alcohol behind closed doors, it doesn't necesserily make them bad parents
Behind closed doors is different than doing it openly and posting pictures of yourself doing so on social media.. That's really immature.
Lol ok then, by that logic most celebs should get their kids confiscated?
Immature is not the same as irresponsible.
Then I used the wrong word.. Doing that IS irresponsible. And in my opinion, majority of parents these days are not cut out to be parents.. somewhere along the line people stopped seeing parenting as something to be taken seriously.. Nowadays they all let technology raise their children instead of doing the job themselves.. heck, half of the parents out there are children themselves anyway. And yeah.. there are a lot of celebs that should have their children confiscated.. Really.. there are just a lot of people out there who shouldn't be reproducing. LOL
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lol
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I'm a 27 y/o Taurus woman, and i was with my scorpio ex for 4 years, we had a child but broke up a year ago.
9 months ago he met a gemini girl, i say girl because she's 19 and he's 32, i just think it's wrong and gross! Since he met this girl i've seen via instagram that they do large amounts of drugs, she takes him to festivals and raves. In the 4 years i was with scorpio he never did drugs, wtf changed?
He has become very irresponsible and i don't trust him around our daughter anymore, we sat down and talked and i mentioned taking full custody of our daughter and he broke down and cried and called me a witch and said i make his life hell and he's already moving in with his new girlfriend and they're engaged... 4 years together and all i got was his baby, 9 months with gemini girl and he's giving her the world.
He's so distant and nasty with me since he got with her, will he change back to how he used to be because i don't want to deal with this anymore.