Hoe to deal with Taurus man extremely possesive ?

I am talking with a Taurus man , just as friends, nothing else, but he is extremely possessive and always require messages from me and send me a lot of messages ...... I dislike this possessive behaviour if I can call it like this, I don't want to hurt him telling him directly he is too possessive, but I dislike he is only concerned about me from morning when he start with messages of good morning, until night when he end with good night and if over the day I am not talking with him , he send sad faces and messages and questions......... I want keep him as a friend, but I don't know how to deal with his possessive thing ? How to make him understand I dislike this and I need my time . From what I know, they are angry very easy of you tell them to keep space.....

What is your sign?

Just tell him it's suffocating outright.How're you even dealing with such possessiveness? It'll choke me to death!

Curious- nothing wrong with Taurus people, why don't you like them?

At OP- if you can get your bull to trust you wholeheartedly.. you won't even see this trait...however being possessive is just what alot of people have no matter what..

Must be a VIT or some shit like that to be possessive over material possessions. Haha people are possessions beautiful sorta, so we want you to be ours... and too excessively about being possessive is a turn off even for me.. And yes just talk to him about if you don't trust me there is no relationship..

Posted by Huldra
Well, for one, Taurus people on here won't help you much as the good contributors have deleted their accounts and the rest accept this behavior as natural way of life. It's their natural habitat, as any sign has one.

Secondly, that kind of clingon behavior has to be cut short by imposing some solid boundaries on your part, especially if just friends. If you try to gently coax him/her out of it, it won't happen. A bovine will walk through anything that's not a solid wall.

Well thank you for speaking on behalf of all of us lowly Taurus people that are left to answer questions. LOL I for one (Taurus female) do not tolerate this behavior. I just blocked a Scorpio guy from contacting me for doing this very same thing. It reeks of neediness & desperation. I need for people in my life to have a life of their own & not depend on me for entertainment. So I will certainly not be telling OP that it's natural & to accept it. Matter of fact, my ex/father of my child, is a Bull, without a single ounce of possessiveness so this isn't standard, across the board behavior.

I'm possessive about my food & my money. That's about it lol as far as relationships go, I give my partner plenty of space, I only expect respect in that space. Anyway OP, obviously this bothers you so just tell him. Tell him that you're busy & you will contact him when you get some free time. If he doesn't respect your boundaries you may have to end the friendship. But you can't expect someone to know your preferences if you don't speak up.

Posted by Gil
What is your sign?

I am Leo 🙂

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
Just tell him it's suffocating outright.How're you even dealing with such possessiveness? It'll choke me to death!

Right ! Is terrible ! If I am not to computer, he leave messages asking : are you there ? or what are you doing ? 😢 and this for so many times per day................

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Curious- nothing wrong with Taurus people, why don't you like them?

At OP- if you can get your bull to trust you wholeheartedly.. you won't even see this trait...however being possessive is just what alot of people have no matter what..

Must be a VIT or some shit like that to be possessive over material possessions. Haha people are possessions beautiful sorta, so we want you to be ours... and too excessively about being possessive is a turn off even for me.. And yes just talk to him about if you don't trust me there is no relationship..

Yes, youa re right, but I like Taurus peoples for their honesty in special. Me and him are not being in relationship, just for some business , nothing personal, but he just want to talk all the day time and evening and night................ Now I should not tell him he is possessive because I have this interest to finish this business with him and maybe is better to support this , not to end the contract if he get angry 🙂 haha what do you think ?

Posted by Huldra
(Dated a Taurus who did this, not uncommon)

Thanks Huldra ! got it 🙂

Posted by RiverLee

Posted by Huldra
Well, for one, Taurus people on here won't help you much as the good contributors have deleted their accounts and the rest accept this behavior as natural way of life. It's their natural habitat, as any sign has one.

Secondly, that kind of clingon behavior has to be cut short by imposing some solid boundaries on your part, especially if just friends. If you try to gently coax him/her out of it, it won't happen. A bovine will walk through anything that's not a solid wall.

Well thank you for speaking on behalf of all of us lowly Taurus people that are left to answer questions. LOL I for one (Taurus female) do not tolerate this behavior. I just blocked a Scorpio guy from contacting me for doing this very same thing. It reeks of neediness & desperation. I need for people in my life to have a life of their own & not depend on me for entertainment. So I will certainly not be telling OP that it's natural & to accept it. Matter of fact, my ex/father of my child, is a Bull, without a single ounce of possessiveness so this isn't standard, across the board behavior.

I'm possessive about my food & my money. That's about it lol as far as relationships go, I give my partner plenty of space, I only expect respect in that space. Anyway OP, obviously this bothers you so just tell him. Tell him that you're busy & you will contact him when you get some free time. If he doesn't respect your boundaries you may have to end the friendship. But you can't expect someone to know your preferences if you don't speak up.

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I tried be nice and told him about my thinking and told him I dislike possessive things.... I did not specified about him is possessive, but I tough he will understand and deduce this......... But no way...... I told him I am busy for cooking and other things, but he continued to send messages .... For God, I can't stay non stop to computer !... I will try to tell him directly, maybe this will calm down him....

Posted by Curiousram
Why would u want to date a taurus?

No date, is a business partner , but he want in continue to talking abut anything, but just to talk............

Hm well you're just business partners nothing more. Then there is some issues to talk about.. one is attached the other is not and it's just business.. keep it casual friendship..

Yeah Gemini placements are talkative and so are air signs. Lol..I talk about everything even if I know we're not interested in a relationship. I'll still be protective and possessive for some reason.

Especially if we're good friends. Oh yeah not clingy but in close range. I'll always be there for you just in case.

Fyi Huldra- Not everyone is possessive but more protective of someone or something.

Yeah Delia has some good advisors here left to give positive feedback. Unlike some people has negative feelings about being possessive traits or Taurus people..

It's not even likely you would see that side of any Taurus. Because Possessive and is about material possessions, like money and food and sometimes people..


I don't tolerate some one more possessive, or jealous, at all. We like easy going people.. however we let go of material possessions too when there isn't any value to it.

Posted by Curiousram
Why would u want to date a taurus?

OP didn't say anything about dating the Taurus. Try reading the posts before you vent. Just a suggestion.

Posted by Delia

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
Just tell him it's suffocating outright.How're you even dealing with such possessiveness? It'll choke me to death!

Right ! Is terrible ! If I am not to computer, he leave messages asking : are you there ? or what are you doing ? 😢 and this for so many times per day................

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He probably has a crush on you. Just be firm with him and don't worry about whether or not he gets upset. His behavior is annoying you and you should be clear about that, for your own sake.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hm well you're just business partners nothing more. Then there is some issues to talk about.. one is attached the other is not and it's just business.. keep it casual friendship..

Yeah Gemini placements are talkative and so are air signs. Lol..I talk about everything even if I know we're not interested in a relationship. I'll still be protective and possessive for some reason.

Especially if we're good friends. Oh yeah not clingy but in close range. I'll always be there for you just in case.

Yeah, that struck me as well. I don't get possessive over "business partners" or even "friends". Sounds like he has feelings that the OP has not or doesn't want to recognize. Is there something that happened in the past that would make him think he likes you?

Yeah I was wondering that too.

Oh that's it just find ways to not show interest in Taurus. Great way is to be clingy or become excessively jealous, or simply no trust will ever transpire. No relationship with this ..

Its not wrong to directly and politely say "please try to not take this the wrong way, but i feel uncomfortable when you (a friend) message me non stop during the day when i am busy with work". You're friends and friends don't message one another good morning, good evening every day.

I had this issue with a sagitarius who said we would get married literally 2 weeks after meeting him. I was like hell no and said to him straightforwardly that we are friends and can only be friend and that i have no intentions of marrying him and friends message one another everynow and then as they need their space. He messaged me next morning with "good morning". I ignored him as he scared me in a stalker kind of way.

Its not wrong to say upfront that as just normal friends, its inaapropriate for him to message you like this.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Fyi Huldra- Not everyone is possessive but more protective of someone or something.

Yeah Delia has some good advisors here left to give positive feedback. Unlike some people has negative feelings about being possessive traits or Taurus people..

It's not even likely you would see that side of any Taurus. Because Possessive and is about material possessions, like money and food and sometimes people..


I don't tolerate some one more possessive, or jealous, at all. We like easy going people.. however we let go of material possessions too when there isn't any value to it.

I ended up ending all business with him ! HE started living illusions that in one day we will live together and personal things like this, just like he is sure 100% about it ! ... I told him, this is too much and is the end of anything if he don't give me space and peace ! He disappeared very angry ! Feel much better without him and I don't need anymore his business ! LOL, is quiet... 🙂

Sag, Taurus and Capricorn..

Delia congratulations. One just has to break it off.. good luck..