How do bulls handle breakups?

Do you guys ever go back to an ex?

Do you all get over the relationship quickly?

If you broke up with someone but still loved them do you think that it's harder to get over them?

How would an ex know that you still wanted them?

Also, how do you know if someone is the 'one' to/for you?

From personal experience, it depends on how they things ended. Once you betray them, consider yourself dead. The ones with mutable placements in their personal placements might take back an ex but the ex have their work cut out for them. Taureans are known to take things in a slower pace, they want to be 100% sure about what they're getting themselves into. Once they're in, they will stay by your side even if the relationship goes sour. They take so much for those they care about, that stubborn loyalty.

As for breaking up with someone that you love, it's always going to be hard regardless of your sign. Sometimes the people you love aren't right for you. There's really no sure way of knowing if someone is truly the one for you, no one in this world was "made," just for you. It's the a part of the human experience to hurt, grow and eventually you'll be with someone that you want to go through everything with.

Do you guys ever go back to an ex?

- I did once with a cancer. Mistake. He was pretty good at the guilt tripping.

Do you all get over the relationship quickly?

- Yup. Got over a 1 & 1/2 yr one in a week. When I leave someone, I have thought about it long and hard, for a long time. I am most likely over it already before the break up actually happens. Longest time was a month.

If you broke up with someone but still loved them do you think that it's harder to get over them?

- No because there had to be a serious reason for me to leave someone I love so I would logically justify getting over them.

How would an ex know that you still wanted them?

- I wouldnt since theyre an ex for a reason. Hypothetically, maybe I'll try to find an excuse to talk to them. Like oops texted you by mistake. So how are you? Lol But other than that, too much pride to show signs.

Also, how do you know if someone is the 'one' to/for you?

- I dont believe in "the one". You find someone and you CHOOSE to love only them, romantically, forever. Well, if youre monogamous.

With that being said, my venus is in Gemini, so, yeah.

Venus in Gemini here so I may be aloof when it comes to being single. However when I'm happily taken, I stay with that one person till I can't take it anymore.

Do you guys ever go back to an ex?

Yes. I always say I don't believe in second chances. However, depending on reasoning for break-up, I end up being a stubborn bull and giving them the chance anyways since I'm still in love with them. If they fuck up after that, nothing in the world can save them from me giving them a third chance.

Do you all get over the relationship quickly?

Depends on what they did. IF they cheated, it'll take a shorter amount of time than usual. If there's a rebound that appears in my life, the process will be much faster since it'll be my distraction.

If you broke up with someone but still loved them do you think that it's harder to get over them?

Of course. If I'm the one that did the "breaking up", it will be harder because I'm the one that had to come to the conclusion of breaking up the life investment I had with them. However, if it was for legit reasons and it becomes mutual on both ends, it'll be less painful

How would an ex know that you still wanted them?

Only if they asked me. Otherwise, my pride won't allow them to see me suffer.

Also, how do you know if someone is the 'one' to/for you?

I used to believe in "the one" growing up. I don't so much anymore with what life experience has taught me. I do believe in a life partner and falling in love with that life partner and invest both your lives together, grow old together, succeed together, fail together, being each others rock, etc. And how will I know? I'll know when I love them so much that it hurts and life is just better with them in it.

sounds like your relationship ended and your going thru the stages of a breakup for sure.

first one is always Denial: not ready to start over in life's search for new love, ready to back track to the comfort zone of the love you know.

my understanding is when i Taurus is done he is done.

im sure the confusion of missing what once was may happen. meaning he might come back and sleep with you, maybe sparingly text you but he will most likely disappear because he knows it will never be the same. and if not he will just be a ghost in your life. just a memory to hold onto until you find something new and more exciting.

don't let him back in unless you know what his intentions are.

and just keep busy. good luck

Posted by sagittariusxo
sounds like your relationship ended and your going thru the stages of a breakup for sure.

first one is always Denial: not ready to start over in life's search for new love, ready to back track to the comfort zone of the love you know.

my understanding is when i Taurus is done he is done.

im sure the confusion of missing what once was may happen. meaning he might come back and sleep with you, maybe sparingly text you but he will most likely disappear because he knows it will never be the same. and if not he will just be a ghost in your life. just a memory to hold onto until you find something new and more exciting.

don't let him back in unless you know what his intentions are.

and just keep busy. good luck

I think she is wondering about this guy that she fancies and if he still has a thing for his ex.