How to get a Taurus Man back?

I met a Taurus and we hit it off with our crazy humour and the attraction was fairly intense. He made it clear from the start that he wasn't interested in a fling or a one night stand and although everything had a joke element to it, i think we both meant most things we said. Anyway, we went out for dinner then back to his house and things got a little heated and then he decided to lay on the couch and nap. & there i was, a Lioness, neglected. I needed attention, affection, recognition, cuddles or something but he was exhausted so i did the unspeakable... I thought i was being sexy but oh was i ever so wrong. I bit him on the neck and i didn't think it was hard and he went crazy. He yelled at me to get off him, said he hates bites and it's his pet peeve and he said it hurt and i felt so humiliated. I appologised, felt awful and then picked myself up and ran out the door. So i spoke to him a few times since and told him i was upset and hurt by his reaction and tried to make him feel guilty because he made me feel so bad and he said i'm a handful because i became so insecure. And now... he's ignoring me. I messaged him a couple of times and he hasn't replied. I am head over heels and can't get him out of my head, How do i get him to like me again without crushing my leo pride too much?

Tell him to get the fuck over himself and that you're done being made to feel like shit, and wait for the response - I bet you get one.

Tricky, tricky. You brought drama, which Tau isn't fond of. And we go through massive amounts of energy so when we say we're tired/exhausted/shattered, we mean it.
Bake him something as a peace offering, or find someone that can if cooking is not your forte. And next time ( hopefully there is one ) big boy wants a nap, find something else to do. Someone needing rest is simply that, not a slight against another person. Good luck.

OMG!

hot damn this was funny! 😄

chicky, it's going to be ok. he was tired and irritable. men are f'ing babies when it's bedtime. frankly it's the worst time to bother them fuckers if they're truly exhausted. if you do you get a mixture of bitch and baby. so i wouldn't take it too seriously and the fact that you are is only making things worse.

brush it off and keep on truckin! not sure how to get him back but it probably wouldn't work out anyway. leo and taurus....been there, done that. he probably would've been an awesome lay for you though.

*shrugs*

Thank you for the replies. My Taurus is back to being his funny little stupid self again and sending me sweet, silly messages and thankfully i didn't need to bake a cake (I don't bake, so that was handy). I guess he needed some space to miss my crazy antics. I think I need to learn patience if things are going to work with the crazy bugger and i really hope it does, i guess only time will tell. 🙂 Thanks again.

Arrrgggghhhhhhhhhhh... My friend just saw him on an internet dating site and he's online!!!! What a PIG! Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy are guys such jerks? Why do they lead you on and play sweet and say all the things you want to hear only to keep looking for what else might be out there? What a waste of a month of my life. There I was thinking i'm just insecure ans being stupid... the stupid part was right but the insecure part was my gut telling me i should be. 😢
I read that Taurus is supposed to be loyal... and then on this site all i read about is married, cheating, manwhores! Astrology has these men all wrong.

Why would you think you were exclusive? A month. Wow. What ever happened to dating? So you see each other a few times & he's supposed to be in love already?

I know we're not exclusive but i thought that you wouldn't keep looking unless you didn't like what you have in front of you... It's preparing for failure before giving it a chance to grow into anything. Isn't it? I guess the Leo in me expects to be adored and being ruled by the sun, everything should revolve around me and that is how I treat those who capture my interests... maybe i'm over reacting or maybe i deserve to be more than just another girl that some guy may or may not choose over another.

Ahhh, and welcome to the allure of the Taurus male. 😉

lord, you're SUCH a leo.

dRaMA!

she's known him a month. it's taken me longer to decide on whether or not to buy a pair of shoes.

Maybe i'm a little impulsive... If i like something, i want it there and then. Patience is not one of my strengths.

she's dramatic cause she's known him one month and pitching a hissy fit.

lol...whatever is right.

getting worked up over some asshole that she's known a month is stupid so to over analyze his actions let alone hers is a waste of fucking time. she doesn't know him and based on the time line she gave, she should've kept her teeth to herself anyway.

she needs to calm down...PERIOD. she doesn't know if he's a crackhead let alone if he has cooties or something worse. she's (and you) are acting as if they've been dating a lifetime.

it's really WHATEVER 😛

why do i need to convince you of anything? or you convince me? what is there to convince anyone of besides the fact that you're writing BOOKS about a situation that can easily be resolved by her relaxing?

the only convincing thing at present is that you're being a twit. you are so entitled to it though. you're wearing it well atm.

so you win! you are a twit.

congrats!

WOO!

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Posted by lioness81
Maybe i'm a little impulsive... If i like something, i want it there and then. Patience is not one of my strengths.

If you want a Taurus man, then you will have to learn PATIENCE. These men are not impulsive, if they like something, they DON'T want it there and then....

They prefer to step back,
Assess
Analyze
Ponder
...And then maybe after six months, he may start verbalizing.

But 1 month is way too soon.....!

If he forgave you after that TRUE BLOOD bite mark (LOL) then he's defintely interested sweetie. You just need to relax. If he senses your impulsive, drama-filled nature, he may step back and may not be as forgiving as he was the 1st time around.

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EXACTLY!

put some earth on that fire. relax. remember the queen you are, "stalk" your prey and at the right moment, pounce on his ass.

and frankly, if some dude got on and was like i tried to come on to some chick who was sleeping, who told me she was tired and i made an advance anyway, the tone of the responses would be decidedly different.

NO MEANS NO!...even for a man.

either way, chill out. the bigger deal you make it, the bigger it becomes. chillllllllllll out.

if anything, a drama queen recognizes a drama queen so shush!

the queen has spoken.

STORY: My ex-roomie, a Leo girl met a guy she had a 3 day fling with in Hawaii at the airport with a tray of lavash crackers in the shape of hearts (ever see those?) with bits of crap on it cuz she can't cook for shit. She went above & beyond & wouldn't let him up for air for days from her room. Poor guy kept trying to include me in their activities since he hated the constant smooshing. And he was an Aries.

Leo, chill out. Your sexing him up will not make him love you. He might take advantage of what you are offering when he's not tired but he won't love you for it. If you have no patience to develop a real relationship if that is what you want, then move on to a fire or air sign.

WOW!!! Here i was thinking i was dramatic... For the record, I'm not in love i was just smitten and he's very, very, very attractive. He was what i wanted and i hate not getting what i want, and even more than that i hate doing things wrong or people being upset or mad at me.
I know i've blown a tiny experience with just some guy out of proportion and perhaps invested more time and energy into it than i needed to, but isn't that what this forum is for? Peoples experiences shared and shedding light for others in a similar boat? Or atleast it seems that way.
I am slowly giving up on him, this patience thing is not for me and i'm not sure i can hang around waiting for someone to express their intentions. Life's too short to waste waiting.

LoveBucket: he's 6'4 and very muscular- not skinny. I don't know what a Decan is, but my DOB is 18-8-81

No one said you were in love and why be so dramatic about the responses to your situation? You know you best so don't take it to heart. It's all general discussion here & what doesn't pertain to you might pertain to another reading this.

What you did and what my friend did could have been the best thing ever to the RIGHT guy. There is no real right or wrong but IMO it's best not to be too aggressive in the beginning. Leo's tend to be which overwhelms some people. You can say 'f them' & that's fine but know it's not everyone's cup of tea.

Are you expecting people to agree with you and say what a jerk he is to make you feel better? A public forum welcomes ALL opinions and we don't really know you & don't really know him, just what you posted. And each of us has our opinions, take it or leave it.

Mistery, We haven't had sex, we just kissed and fooled around a little. I made it very clear that i wasn't having sex with him until we got to know eachother more. It took all my willpower to not to go to his apartment on previous occassions and suggesting meeting somewhere instead. So i can relate to your compulssive leo friend very well but as i get older, self control becomes a little easier. 😉

No, that's not what i expected because he's not a jerk. He's actually very lovely, just stubburn like bull. I wanted someone to say... just do "this...." and he'll like you and you can live happily ever after. Silly, I know. But it's what i wanted at the time and still do want to an extent. He's like the boy version of me

Ok hun, I do wish you the best, hope you know that? 😉 No one has that magical wand but all you can do is just be yourself and see what happens. As far as a Taurus man goes, he will take his time if he wants something serious or will take advantage of a situation if he isn't. Earth men are usually pretty conventional when it gets down to it. They like to take the lead and don't want to be pushed into anything. No hasty decisions for them.

Yeah, I'm noticing that. Guess i'll just have to see what happens if i have the patience to wait that long. Thank you for your posts. 🙂

hmmm... I can see where the jealousy may arise, he always asks if i picked up if he knows i went to a pub & he fishes for compliments a little and is very consious of his weight so that could be the insecurity. I have yet to see stalking or clinging though.