Taurus man driving me nuts ... what to do ?

I have read a a few posts here on Taurus men, so I thought it would be good to get some feedback. I have fallen in love with this taurus guy in office, he was the one to show a lot of interest in the beginning, like playing romantic songs, seeing what my likes and dislikes are, teasing me relentlessly and showering attention. I fell for it, I thought he would tell me about his feelings, but he dint so I thought it would be good to express it myself, so I told him clearly that I was in love. He said "Lets be friends". But even after that he has been showering attention, checking me at my daily hangouts, gets jealous if I even talk about another guy. He gets movies and music for me and still takes care of me and all that but doesnt want to hang out anywhere other than office. Should I just move on, is he interested or is he just playing games?

Please dont post any rude comments.
Thanks in advance.

I'm not a Taurus but just wanted to suggest you post this on the Taurus form as well for more responses.

Most taurus guys do this...In fact, go on the taurus board, virgo board, and capricorn board, and all earth male's do this...Wait! You should check out other boards with this mix-signaling men to see the trend they have placed on other women.

Dude, he's just another cock trying to jump into your pants, do fall for it and just move on. A steady weiner wouldn't leave you hanging and the moment you build doubts on a weiner then you cut it off (no pun intended).

I'd move on and tell him you have no interest in being friends right now. He is playing with your head and confusing you. Look after yourself first sweetie.

Hey thanks people - :-) sure will ... yeah will check out the other boards ... Its so irritating to be clueless... Im a leo and its absolutely sickening... as I am unable to move on due to all the attention and care he gives me ... its been almost a year of knowing him ... whenever I tell him I might quit the job the attention becomes ten folds 😢 sigh ... very confusing ...

This man either 1. Has another woman on the side (thus that explains why he's not accessible to you outside of the office) or 2. He's this same way with most or alot of women, besides just you. I'm willing to guess that it's between 1 or the other. Alot of men, (Taurus or not) that are big flirts naturally will always give themselves away, especially when the woman actually comes forth & makes her feelings known. I say this, b/c a man that was generally interested in you and/or that wanted to take things past friendship with you, WOULD have changed things the minute you let your feelings known. Either he would've backed off, whether due to him already being committed OR he would've made it clear that his feelings for you were mutual, & ESPECIALLY since you went 1st in opening up. BUT, he didn't. Nothing changed. So that indicates to me that this guy saw no reason to change things or switch up the pace b/c after all, he's just doing with you what he probably does to/with any woman, & especially those he considers attractive.

This guy probably does admire/like you a little & thus that might explain why he's constantly showering you with attention. BUT, understand that even the biggest PLAYERS are known for showering each woman with attention. After all, that's 1 of the reasons they are considered players. It's b/c players can have multiple women on the side at all times, BUT for some reason the women keep flocking in b/c they assume that they will be the "different" one that makes him change his ways and/OR they assume that a man wouldn't shower them with such attention if there wasn't more to it. Problem is, often times there is NO certain motive/intention behind it. They do it just b/c they can & b/c they obviously get the attention & feedback they were looking for, even if they had no plans on taking home to mama the very girls they were "gaming" the whole times. It's a huge mystery to most women, especially since women only give that kind of time/energy to a man if they want him for more than friendship. Problem is though, that men can be different.

Some men will buy you a house, car & hang with you everyday BUT yet not have one ounce of respect or love for you, right along with NO intentions on taking things further. I think you just need to move on. If this guy was interested in you the way you are in him, his energy for you would STRETCH outside of the office.

thanks for the advice ... yes I guess he should have extended the attention outside, but about having another girl ... I dont know, I have many mutual friends and I know he spends most of his free time either at home or with his relatives and family, he even works on weekends most of the time, and on weekdays in office with me till late evening. The other option could be true that he does it to all women he finds attractive, though I have never seen him do it to my other female colleagues. Though just thought of putting in ... he has had a terrible past relationship, the trauma of which he still says sickens him. So I was thinking it was commitment issues ... but I guess its time to move on :-) ....... but he is so absolutely adorable...