I have a crush on this Taurus woman, but dont know if she feels the same... Help—

Ok so to start it all off i am a Cancer man, and i met her at my job. ( she is 20 and i am 19) We were coworkers for about 4 months and during that time We never really flirted with each other or anything, we actually acted more like friends. Id get under her skin at times and annoy her (purposely because her reaction was funny lol ) and vice versa... but that was back then when i didnt really feel anything for her. ( crush wise)

Now ever since i quit that job we've been hanging outside of work more. At first she contacted me and would say " oh we need to go to this place .." ( she would pretty much ask me out at first) and i felt as if she liked me.

Like 3 weeks ago i took her out to eat , (our first date?) and after that we went back to my place, for it was her first time ever coming to my house. ( i still live with my parents btw) it was like 11 at night and we went straight to my room but we didn't do anything besides watch that 70s show on Netflix. The next week we did the same thing i took her out to eat ( different restaurant of course lol ) but afterwards we went back to my place and watched a movie in my room.( mind you that we were all alone in my room at night from like 11-3 am both nights..but never did anything not even touch each other) She would lay on my bed while i sat next to her in my chair. She would be texting her friend that she was at my house and she would be giggling at their texts and then i asked " whats so funny?" and she'd just say "oh just girl stuff" And about 10 minutes later, out of no where she asked me " do you know what "boom boom is?" or something like that. At the time i really didn't know what she meant

until the next day when i googled it. I felt so dumb and i wanted to punch myself.

its been 2 weeks since we last hung out at my house, but the thing is... is that we dont really communicate when were not together in person. The only social media i have her on is snapchat. I guess the reason i dont text her is because i always feel like as if i would be bothering or annoying her, so i wait and see if she would text me first ( which she doesnt anymore) and honestly it kills me

and i hate it because ever since those two nights, ive really started to like her. I must admit i have caught feelings for this girl 😢 . We hung out the other day with some other people at this bowling place. but thats about it. I asked her last night if she wanted to hang out and do something... which she said no and that she was "too tired" but that we will hang out another day. And honestly getting rejected for the smallest things like that kills my confidence to ask her out again and makes me feel like she doesnt like me.

The thing is im a really shy guy also, i hate to initiate contact because i always feel like im bothering the person. But ever since i caught feelings for her ive been wanting to talk to her every day ( which i dont, i just gather up the strength and go with missing her) I texted her first one time out of no where just to ask how shes been, but she takes forever to reply (10-25 min sometimes an hour) but she does reply .. but it makes me feel like she doesnt want to talk to me.

Shes only had one boyfriend in her life time ( which they broke up like 3 months ago) which really suprised me.

But now all i know is that i really like her, and i want to keep hanging out with her and make her my girlfriend. I just dont know how to approach her. Shes given me hints that she likes me in person. but yet she seems so distant and hard to get to when were not together. Sometimes i just want to tell her how i feel and how ive started to like her. But my fear of rejection gets in the way and i get scared that im going to scare her away.

There is a little more to this that i probably forgot to include, and if anyone is generous enough to help and ask more questions id really appreciate it! =/ But i just dont know.. what do you guys think?

Call me a bit old fashioned, but how are emotional bridges being formed with all of this New Modern Age technology form of communication?

I can't offer you an indirect way to approach her to combat your shyness.

It's too late for that...

You're gradually moving into the level of friend-zone...

Which apparently looks...

As if that status is on its way to becoming non-existent.

You're probably not even holding her purse anymore.

You want some advice?

Send her flowers.

In the note, say....

"No Boom Boom...Just a a nice quiet date with you."😉

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Call me a bit old fashioned, but how are emotional bridges being formed with all of this New Modern Age technology form of communication?

I can't offer you an indirect way to approach her to combat your shyness.

It's too late for that...

You're gradually moving into the level of friend-zone...

Which apparently looks...

As if that status is on its way to becoming non-existent.

You're probably not even holding her purse anymore.

You want some advice?

Send her flowers.

In the note, say....

"No Boom Boom...Just a a nice quiet date with you."😉

oooohhhhhw this is cute... lovely lovely lovely hahahah —

Posted by andrex2121
Ok so to start it all off i am a Cancer man, and i met her at my job. ( she is 20 and i am 19) We were coworkers for about 4 months and during that time We never really flirted with each other or anything, we actually acted more like friends. Id get under her skin at times and annoy her (purposely because her reaction was funny lol ) and vice versa... but that was back then when i didnt really feel anything for her. ( crush wise)

Now ever since i quit that job we've been hanging outside of work more. At first she contacted me and would say " oh we need to go to this place .." ( she would pretty much ask me out at first) and i felt as if she liked me.

Like 3 weeks ago i took her out to eat , (our first date?) and after that we went back to my place, for it was her first time ever coming to my house. ( i still live with my parents btw) it was like 11 at night and we went straight to my room but we didn't do anything besides watch that 70s show on Netflix. The next week we did the same thing i took her out to eat ( different restaurant of course lol ) but afterwards we went back to my place and watched a movie in my room.( mind you that we were all alone in my room at night from like 11-3 am both nights..but never did anything not even touch each other) She would lay on my bed while i sat next to her in my chair. She would be texting her friend that she was at my house and she would be giggling at their texts and then i asked " whats so funny?" and she'd just say "oh just girl stuff" And about 10 minutes later, out of no where she asked me " do you know what "boom boom is?" or something like that. At the time i really didn't know what she meant

until the next day when i googled it. I felt so dumb and i wanted to punch myself.

its been 2 weeks since we last hung out at my house, but the thing is... is that we dont really communicate when were not together in person. The only social media i have her on is snapchat. I guess the reason i dont text her is because i always feel like as if i would be bothering or annoying her, so i wait and see if she would text me first ( which she doesnt anymore) and honestly it kills me

and i hate it because ever since those two nights, ive really started to like her. I must admit i have caught feelings for this girl 😢 . We hung out the other day with some other people at this bowling place. but thats about it. I asked her last night if she wanted to hang out and do something... which she said no and that she was "too tired" but that we will hang out another day. And honestly getting rejected for the smallest things like that kills my confidence to ask her out again and makes me feel like she doesnt like me.

The thing is im a really shy guy also, i hate to initiate contact because i always feel like im bothering the person. But ever since i caught feelings for her ive been wanting to talk to her every day ( which i dont, i just gather up the strength and go with missing her) I texted her first one time out of no where just to ask how shes been, but she takes forever to reply (10-25 min sometimes an hour) but she does reply .. but it makes me feel like she doesnt want to talk to me.

Shes only had one boyfriend in her life time ( which they broke up like 3 months ago) which really suprised me.

But now all i know is that i really like her, and i want to keep hanging out with her and make her my girlfriend. I just dont know how to approach her. Shes given me hints that she likes me in person. but yet she seems so distant and hard to get to when were not together. Sometimes i just want to tell her how i feel and how ive started to like her. But my fear of rejection gets in the way and i get scared that im going to scare her away.

There is a little more to this that i probably forgot to include, and if anyone is generous enough to help and ask more questions id really appreciate it! =/ But i just dont know.. what do you guys think?

I really do hope it's not too late for you yet... (ok im giving you li'l hope). There's nothing for you to fear. You've already seen the cute signs of having her attention. I believe you are good looking.

Trust me, those flower thing with note will work, and I surely know CANCER guys are good with these one. -thanks to @TaurusBull1977 ??

If you really like her, you really have to be strong because you are the guy. Don't show her any signs of weakness, and acting so distant like not talking to her is just the WEAKEST thing, seriously (so please gather all your strengths here).

ohhhw goodness gracious why am I giving some hope...... ? tsktsk!

You've been wanting to talk to her?? then talk to her. There is nothing for you to fear without even trying.

Replying for about an hour or even a day is tooooooooo NORMAL for us and it doesn't mean anything, you are just too afraid of the unknown and there is NO UNKNOWN here, we are just lazy (haha) and been observing you how far you could handle it. There's no use of waiting for her to text you because it won't really happen even if she likes you.

Hope you won't miss the chance, well, if you have all the strength to conquer those fears. ?