
LadiiScorpio
@LadiiScorpio
11 Years
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Posted by Infinite8
Whoa, whoa, whoa... TLS! Please, not all scorpio females are this way.
I am very direct an I actually do the opposite. I I have a problem, I discuss it right away. I can't stand making drama out of nothing. No way...
Communication is very important to me. Making my loved ones feel
Loved and important also makes me happy.
These people that you are describing sound so ugly and unstable. _—
Posted by Infinite8
This reminds me:
When I was in college there was this guy that I met through mutual friend(he was Taurus) at a party. I was sitting next to him so I started started talking to him... He wasn't very nice or talkative so, whatever... I did my part. Anyway 2 years pass and the guy calls me out of no where (have no idea how he got my number). He wanted to hang with me. He and I had an awesome friendship. He would meet up with me every day, take me to class. I would make him laugh all the time and his eyes would always sparkle when he saw me. Yeah, he confessed his love and unfortunately I wasn't interested. BUT our friendship continued!! Anyways... Thought this thread needed some hopeful stories on Taurus(m)/scorpio (f) communication skills and relationships. 🙂

Posted by Infinite8
Oh... Well, I'm glad that was clarified 😉
Well... I've felt that "intensity" before with the one Taurus(you know the ONE). But it didn't include hate. It was either intense heat all overt body or extreme void like half of me was missing. But not hate. I also knew he felt the same way. We had an unimaginable connection.
Posted by sugerbear
You know what is so funny...I have never had a love/hate thing with anyone but ny ex scorp took me there in the end. So TLS I know what you mean. Taurus/Scorp relationships are complex...my first love that I was talking about in the other post was a Scorp too...took years to get over that one. Dont get me wrong I think this could be an amazing pairing but I also think that we have a way to bring out the best and the worst in each other.
Posted by Infinite8
Lol!!! Well I was trying 🙂
It's positive in the sense that we still made each other happy, we still cared about each other, communicate extremely well, become quite inseparable and we were able to overcome that awkward confession.
You know how I am. I might feel a lot of things and have a lot in common... But if I don't feel that magnetic energy, physical heat and psychic/telepathic connection... Then I'm just not that interested.
Posted by Infinite8
But why would that happen throughout a marriage? When things should already be more stable and settled? At that point there shouldn't be anything in that sense to figure out. I could only see myself not liking a really grumpy Taurus man and how that can make me more stubborn to stay my ground... But a nice a cuddly one; I would bend more and not be so stubborn. I might be wrong, but I feel that if I bend first, he will follow my pattern. I'm not afraid to lead in that way.click to expand
Very true. I'm sure it can be great with two mature people, once totally committed. I know an old Taurus/Scorp couple that is so cute together. I definitely think you could make it work because you just seem really grounded and "evolved". But....you will never know, because you left your soulmate sad, confused, and scared, looking for you in a parking lot. Hahahhaha....What if the "twin flame" concept is true, and you get to the afterlife and are made to watch a review of your *possible* life with your Taurus "twin flame" in all its glory, and then you have to reincarnate, find each other all over again, and choose him this time? For the benefit of the cosmos. LOL!
Sorry, I have to try and make you feel bad about ditching your bull.....lol.
Posted by Infinite8How appropriate: Meg Ryan(Scorp) was doing Anastasia's voice.click to expand
That's hilarious...didn't realize. I'll have to watch it again with that in mind....further indulging my Scorp fetish...lol.
Posted by Infinite8
Well... I was too young and if I would have stayed with him, I'm sure we would have melted into each other... But not in a peaceful way. That type of intensity is too dangerous when you are too young. I couldn't breath when I wasn't with him and he couldn't sleep when he was without me... Too much obsession to be called healthy. I would have given up too much of myself. All or nothing with him... I knew it deep inside.
Posted by Infinite8
Cute story:
Went to visit uncle at care home an his roommate was this cute old man... Everytime I'd enter the room his eyes would sparkle and he'd flirt in a very adorable way. Caught my interest bc he was German living in Germany before and during WW2. Anyway, we'd talk everytime I would visit, turns out he is Taurus. Once we were talking and this older lady comes in, takes care of all details and was really intelligent and forceful (my uncle really respected her and he doesn't with many people). Anyway, turns out she's a Scorp! She was oh so faithful... Taking care of his every need an he looked so cute and SPOILED!! Made me laugh inside 🙂
Posted by Infinite8Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Finally a Scorpio/Cancer couple that works like the textbooks say it should. I went for "calm" and comfort too with my Sag. I say there's different kinds of love, none necessarily superior to the others. The Scorp felt TOO passionate, risky, etc. Like if it *didn't* work, I would spend the rest of my life devastated by it. It will definitely nag at me forever though....When your emotions spike like that, it is very hard to forget. Its like you can tap into the feeling at any time.
Yeah!! It really works when someone tempers you. People always think we're in the "honeymoon stage" of our courtship and get shocked when we tell them we've been together for that long!
Calm doesn't necessarily mean boring!
Calm allows you to grow in other ways and evolve IMO...click to expand
Posted by Infinite8
Uuuggg... I didn't digest that info very well. Might be allergic to what you just said 😉
I am way too honest and energetic to allow myself to get bored. Settling is also something I don't do. Fortunately my hubby is the same way. Don't settle TLS!!!!
Posted by Infinite8
You're a sneaky little thing... Don't need to fish around (you'll only catch a fish). You can ask me directly 😄
Were you talking about books or females.... LOL!!!!!!
Posted by Infinite8
To be with him would have meant to give up all of my personal dreams. He offered another world to me and it gave me peace (being in nature with him was amazing... He was my hero). But, I don't know how long it would be before I started missing ME.
It would only work out if we were stuck in a deserted island as depicted in one of my favorite Italian movies: "Travolti da un insolito destino nell'azzurro mare d'agosto". That's the only way...

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Hahahah...I was just being cynical (and fishing to see if your "calm" was boring). I get bored with everything so I just have to keep a constant rotation. I love to read for instance, but would never finish a book if it was the only one I was reading. I have to keep several going at the same time so I can switch from one to another and stay interested. I do come back around to them all if I do it that way.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LOL, good insight. I was thinking the same thing as I was writing that. I admit that I love talking to different women. Having Venus in Gemini I get so much from conversations with various women in my life, and I'm conflicted about it morally, as my Taurus side wonders if this is disloyal - especially bc my SO is nowhere near aware of how many or which women I talk to. Plus, I would just not be ok with her doing the same. It is a lot to consider.
I pride myself in thinking I can't be seduced physically, but I noticed my daydreams started to wander to the physical with her and then I was asking myself more "Would you cave?".
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Posted by LadiiScorpio
Honestly- I am a very calm and laid back person. Everyone in my life comes to me for advice because I am very honest about what I say. Taurus and I text everyday so I know he is interested, but as soon as he takes 2 steps forward in our "relationship" he all of the sudden takes 2 steps back. He confuses me because I believe he is confused. I would never push someone to do something they may not be ready to do so for now I will continue to be there, as I have been for over a year and see what happens. I care about him enough to let him come around when he is ready. (If ever) and I care about him enough to be patient and if nothing ever happens, I will have to be okay with just being friends.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Infinite8
To be with him would have meant to give up all of my personal dreams. He offered another world to me and it gave me peace (being in nature with him was amazing... He was my hero). But, I don't know how long it would be before I started missing ME.
It would only work out if we were stuck in a deserted island as depicted in one of my favorite Italian movies: "Travolti da un insolito destino nell'azzurro mare d'agosto". That's the only way...
I can understand all this. I think its a better pairing in older age, if circumstances permit of course, when the Scorp has already conquered the world or her dreams or whatever. I'm not sure a bull can keep up with the pace/drive or demands of a young Scorp. Part of me is hoping a door opens up for this anyway. LOL. I would love to be spoiled by a stern old Scorpio woman. Hahhaha...And that's not to say bulls aren't driven or passionate, but I do think we tend to let things come to us a bit more than a Scorp, being less prone to take risks, experience discomfort in stretching ourselves, etc.click to expand


Posted by justbeingscorpioPosted by LadiiScorpio
Honestly- I am a very calm and laid back person. Everyone in my life comes to me for advice because I am very honest about what I say. Taurus and I text everyday so I know he is interested, but as soon as he takes 2 steps forward in our "relationship" he all of the sudden takes 2 steps back. He confuses me because I believe he is confused. I would never push someone to do something they may not be ready to do so for now I will continue to be there, as I have been for over a year and see what happens. I care about him enough to let him come around when he is ready. (If ever) and I care about him enough to be patient and if nothing ever happens, I will have to be okay with just being friends.click to expand
I can understand you because I dealt with a taurus man few months ago and was the same story : forward-back- too forward- hardly back.
I think he's waiting for you to make a direct straight forward action. Up to you to decide, but if you really like him, why don't you tell him clearly your feelings towards him? You can express your thinking in a neutral way to make him know that he's special to you but at the same time you're not asking him to get engaged with you. The person that we care a lot is to supposed to be the first one to know about our feelings.. ins't it?
Otherwise, "just being friends" attitude would alert him. If he's really that into you he will have to act definitvely.
Posted by Infinite8
My husband has his venus in Gemini... But, we don't hide much from each other and he doesn't seem to have that same need to be stimulated by communication :-/
I wonder if it's just your chart as a whole and how the energies influence your sun? IDK...
Posted by LadiiScorpio
Honestly- I am a very calm and laid back person. Everyone in my life comes to me for advice because I am very honest about what I say. Taurus and I text everyday so I know he is interested, but as soon as he takes 2 steps forward in our "relationship" he all of the sudden takes 2 steps back. He confuses me because I believe he is confused. I would never push someone to do something they may not be ready to do so for now I will continue to be there, as I have been for over a year and see what happens. I care about him enough to let him come around when he is ready. (If ever) and I care about him enough to be patient and if nothing ever happens, I will have to be okay with just being friends.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by LadiiScorpio
Honestly-
You sound grounded/stable. I'd be interested to see the rest of your chart. I think you're probably right that he's jaded from past relationships and maybe wants to preserve what you have, rather than have it end like the others. We take things reaaallly slow. Key is just reassuring him, and keeping an ear out for those rare times that he expresses things he disliked about his exes, fears about future relationships, etc. If he's damaged, you really have to address that stuff, help build his confidence, and convince him that you're safe and not like his exes. I would try to spend alot of time with him, in his actual presence too. You're very pretty and we aren't all about that, but it certainly never hurts with Taurus...lol.click to expand

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal<BR>
Those are a good place to start because they'll give you good brief summaries of your placements without overwhelming you with info. You should see if you can get his birth info.; it would be helpful to compare your moon and venus placements. There are also various free synastry charts where you can see how your placements aspect his.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Infinite8
LMAO!!!! You are so mean!! Hahahahahahaha...
Just trying to help 😉
LOL.click to expand
Posted by scorpgal76
This pic is awesome!!! Hope u don't mind me stealing it for my avi....assuming it will actually upload lol.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by scorpgal76
This pic is awesome!!! Hope u don't mind me stealing it for my avi....assuming it will actually upload lol.
Sure - have at it.click to expand
Posted by braindeadtauro
Except for the age and kids sounds like my "friend" and I. The reason I haven't taken things to the next level is because I'm having trouble choosing between her and another Taurus. I know I suck.
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To give a little background we both have sons, his son is 5 and my son is 6. Both went through rough relationships with our sons other parents. He still sees his son all the time and is a great father. However my sons father is no where to be found.
This taurus man I admire so much. He is such a hard worker and such a good dad. If anything I do not want to jeopardize our friendship, but I believe that we were meant to be more than friends. I am willing to be patient because I believe he has just been burnt and thinks that all woman are crazy. I am trying to show him that I am not like that. I am a very calm person and I have been through so much I am not willing to except drama.
So recently he has been talking about sexual things through text. Obviously I am so into him so it turns me on. Now he has sent me a message saying that he thinks if we are physical it will mess up our friendship and we should spare the drama and headaches and our goal is to be friends. He obviously is attracted to me or he wouldn't have even started it. I am thinking that it must be because of his past. I know for a long time I had no interest in a relationship or marriage until I got over my hurdle of pain from the past.
I mean why is he confused, or am I? Can some fellow Taurus help me out here?? Please!