Incomplete Harem?

Long story shorten...I had a fwb with taurus male. His childs mother moved in...I distanced myself. He never stopped calling and texting. He said he missed me and needed me etc. Fast forward, she left and we resumed our friendship. He will say things like I love u and he wants to marry me but I always confront him because his actions don't show it. Even though this was supposed to be a casual relationship he started the lovey dovey stuff. He has worn me down some and my guard was let down a little. I find myself feeling jealous that he talks to other women. Every time I tell him that I need to back off or that I don't wanna continue our fwb, he pleads with me and tells me that he needs me in his life. I don't understand why. He has other women. He still hasn't let me in the way people do when they love somebody (even as a friend).

I wonder if the reason he doesn't want to let me go is because his harem would be incomplete. Maybe I serve some kind of purpose in the group. I am a few years older so maybe that's it lol.

Posted by miimii
Long story shorten...I had a fwb with taurus male. His childs mother moved in...I distanced myself. He never stopped calling and texting. He said he missed me and needed me etc. Fast forward, she left and we resumed our friendship. He will say things like I love u and he wants to marry me but I always confront him because his actions don't show it. Even though this was supposed to be a casual relationship he started the lovey dovey stuff. He has worn me down some and my guard was let down a little. I find myself feeling jealous that he talks to other women. Every time I tell him that I need to back off or that I don't wanna continue our fwb, he pleads with me and tells me that he needs me in his life. I don't understand why. He has other women. He still hasn't let me in the way people do when they love somebody (even as a friend).

I wonder if the reason he doesn't want to let me go is because his harem would be incomplete. Maybe I serve some kind of purpose in the group. I am a few years older so maybe that's it lol.

I guess the real question is do you want to find out. If you don't want to be a part of someone's harem, I'd suggest you leave him be_??_

You are a Cap right? We are good for the egos of some men imho. Incomplete harem sounds about right.

You gotta fight for better or get out... Only two options imo.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by miimii
Long story shorten...I had a fwb with taurus male. His childs mother moved in...I distanced myself. He never stopped calling and texting. He said he missed me and needed me etc. Fast forward, she left and we resumed our friendship. He will say things like I love u and he wants to marry me but I always confront him because his actions don't show it. Even though this was supposed to be a casual relationship he started the lovey dovey stuff. He has worn me down some and my guard was let down a little. I find myself feeling jealous that he talks to other women. Every time I tell him that I need to back off or that I don't wanna continue our fwb, he pleads with me and tells me that he needs me in his life. I don't understand why. He has other women. He still hasn't let me in the way people do when they love somebody (even as a friend).

I wonder if the reason he doesn't want to let me go is because his harem would be incomplete. Maybe I serve some kind of purpose in the group. I am a few years older so maybe that's it lol.

I guess the real question is do you want to find out. If you don't want to be a part of someone's harem, I'd suggest you leave him be_??_

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No, I don't like being one of many. He is very persistent but I control my own actions. Just wanted some insight from tauruses.

Posted by lnana04
You are a Cap right? We are good for the egos of some men imho. Incomplete harem sounds about right.

You gotta fight for better or get out... Only two options imo.

Yea I'm a Cap. I do ignore calls and texts but I feel bad and answer sometimes. I know I have to let go cause second and third place doesn't sit too well for me.

If he won't prove it, he ain't worth it 'cause he doesn't deserve it. Also remember that his kid's mother left him. The impression I get from what you wrote is that she's left him twice.

First rule about of the HAREM. You don't talk about the HAREM

Posted by Damnata
First rule about of the HAREM. You don't talk about the HAREM

LMAO

Posted by Damnata
First rule about of the HAREM. You don't talk about the HAREM

Funny lol!

Posted by 2N3R
If he won't prove it, he ain't worth it 'cause he doesn't deserve it. Also remember that his kid's mother left him. The impression I get from what you wrote is that she's left him twice.

She did but he never gave any details. He just said they don't get along.

Wanted: woman over 30 to complete harem

Any takers—? He Is really good in bed lol

Posted by soultalk
HAREMS NEED CLOSURE TOO 😭 LOL 😛

Lol that's not part of the deal.🙂 started off without any contract or agreement . So End without warnings... Painful isn't it....