Is this taurus man mean it when he said he wants to marry me?

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So earlier this year I dated a taurus man. I was kinda of his rebound then. He just got out of long-term relationship. I broke things up after almost two months because he didn't freakin care about me.

But about a month after we broke up, he kept chasing me asking to get back together. I wasn't sure but he kept pursuing me for months until I agreed to date him again.

I must admit it's really amazing. He's different. He cares so much, he said I did started as rebound but he fell for me ever since. He did all the sweetest things, made me laugh all the time, and somehow becomes a little possesive.

He told me he loves me, I nearly freaked out. He also said he's looking for something serious with me. He brought me to meet his family twice this month!

Now now, last night he asked me if he proposed by the end of this year, would it be okay? I mean we both are in age for marriage, he told me his parents also want to see him getting married soon.

I was both happy and freak out to hear that. I don't even know but mostly because I couldn't help but to think he only wants to marry me because I'm the only available one. I'm his last resort hence he's rushing everything. I know I know I sound crazy right now. But I just thought maybe he just wanna get married, not that he wanna MARRY ME.

Does that make sense? Am I being weird? I need help.
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Here is the test...

1. Tell him that you want to wait, and date him all over again.

2. Ask him what he likes about you.

3. Catch him when he thinks you're not paying attention to him. Pay attention to his eyes. Observe his body language. You will read him in seconds.

If he dismisses your comments, rushes you into a commitment, and can only state the obvious (when describing who you are as a person), and his eyes are away from you the entire time, and his body language is indifferent.

....Then he's not ready

If he respects your wishes, avoids the topic of marriage at the current moment, and describes you in subtle detail (less obvious), and his eyes follow you around the room, but drops to the floor when he's caught...

Then he's ready...
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Posted by bubblypisces
So earlier this year I dated a taurus man. I was kinda of his rebound then. He just got out of long-term relationship. I broke things up after almost two months because he didn't freakin care about me.

But about a month after we broke up, he kept chasing me asking to get back together. I wasn't sure but he kept pursuing me for months until I agreed to date him again.

I must admit it's really amazing. He's different. He cares so much, he said I did started as rebound but he fell for me ever since. He did all the sweetest things, made me laugh all the time, and somehow becomes a little possesive.

He told me he loves me, I nearly freaked out. He also said he's looking for something serious with me. He brought me to meet his family twice this month!

Now now, last night he asked me if he proposed by the end of this year, would it be okay? I mean we both are in age for marriage, he told me his parents also want to see him getting married soon.

I was both happy and freak out to hear that. I don't even know but mostly because I couldn't help but to think he only wants to marry me because I'm the only available one. I'm his last resort hence he's rushing everything. I know I know I sound crazy right now. But I just thought maybe he just wanna get married, not that he wanna MARRY ME.

Does that make sense? Am I being weird? I need help.
what country/culture are you from?
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Taurus man and Pisces woman.

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This pairing just does not work.... So many threads re this incompatible pairing... Why, because somehow a Taurus man is able and allowed to step all over them like doormats!! Pisces women when it comes to a Taurus man seem to have no boundaries whatsoever and the Taurus man takes the piss and says all kinds of sweet shit and the pisces woman believes every word.

OP, do the maths and keep a logical head... You were is rebound to begin with and he then broke it off with you and then a few months later he is declaring "undying love" and wants to "marry you"!!!

Tell him to back the hell up and wait.... It takes some Taurus men many years to get over an ex and they seem to break it off with an ex and go back to them many times and before you know it, you become the side chick.

He has to "court" you again and make it hard for him to get back into your panties or you will become another number in his harem!!!!

Taurus uses logic. Use yours!
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But she said that she was the one who broke up with him...
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Doubleram, yes I did break things up with him

Newlove, that's the thing.. I don't know if I do love him but I think I may have fallen for him even more each day that's why I wanted to know if he's being real this time.

Redoctober2000, I did reject him several times when he asked me back together. I told him no, I even blocked him on social medias at some points but he managed to get back at me. I asked him why he's so keen to get back together when he said it himself that I was his rebound.. he said he didn't even know why he turned out liking me for real even begged me to come back this hard. And even when his ex (from long term one) texting him and kept trying to get his attention, he wasn't even bugged. Instead he told me all about it and actually had a good laugh about it. So I don't know.. maybe I'm being unreasonable?
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Posted by bubblypisces
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what country/culture are you from?


I'm from asian country in which parents definitely has says in terms of marriage and age 25-28 is considerably perfect to get married
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i think you need to be careful that he is not using you as a means to an end ie marrying because his parents want him to. it then becomes not about you but about anyone who is in the right place at the right time.

that he is pushing you hard makes me think that it's not about you but more about getting engaged asap. it might be for family money, business or family honour.