Mixed signals??!

I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I'm following this regarding a taurus sun, aqua moon and mars/merc in aries.

You should but you shouldn't, they might, it takes time...it's painful!

Posted by wildflower
I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I have all these placements and can only say I normally do not talk to someone I broke up with unless I was still interested in them. And, then on another note - I find it exhilarating to actually just discuss everything with them and iron out all the bad juju from my head in order to move forward with the relationship with a completely better understanding.

Having said that, who knows - only you two. Don't push for sure. But definitely and gently state your boundaries and be clear on what path you are both on that leads into the future.

The advice is.... patience lol... honestly with a Taurus especially if you guys are trying to get back together we are gonna put a wall up and protect ourselves until we Herve over it till thy kingdom come and we are sure you won't hurt us again lol... and for a Taurus not to ice you out or dissapear... means ALOT... and goes to show he either still loves you and can't let you go OR deciding if they should let you go.

Just go with the flow and let this time be platonic... if it's meant to be it will but you have to have patience especially with regaining trust with a TAURUS.

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Posted by wildflower
I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I have all these placements and can only say I normally do not talk to someone I broke up with unless I was still interested in them. And, then on another note - I find it exhilarating to actually just discuss everything with them and iron out all the bad juju from my head in order to move forward with the relationship with a completely better understanding.

Having said that, who knows - only you two. Don't push for sure. But definitely and gently state your boundaries and be clear on what path you are both on that leads into the future.

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That makes so much sense, I guess if he continues to talk to me there is some feeling. I know there is feeling. I feel like when I'm with him we have such a good time, I avoid anything negative. Perhaps talking about the bad would be beneficial, how do I do that?start that conversation? I see where I messed up/could've done better but equally he did some stuff I wasn't to happy with. Alas, we are here. It's so good I don't want to mess up haha shouldn't he be the one trying to win me instead of I him—

That, is my internal struggle.

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The advice is.... patience lol... honestly with a Taurus especially if you guys are trying to get back together we are gonna put a wall up and protect ourselves until we Herve over it till thy kingdom come and we are sure you won't hurt us again lol... and for a Taurus not to ice you out or dissapear... means ALOT... and goes to show he either still loves you and can't let you go OR deciding if they should let you go.

Just go with the flow and let this time be platonic... if it's meant to be it will but you have to have patience especially with regaining trust with a TAURUS.

Lol thank you for the advice! I can see him being equally direct haha

One thing I noticed in our last encounter was his attention towards me, it was like when we first met. I noticed he would point out many things we have in common, complimenting me a lot, trying to tell me if his future plans/impressing me, brought up good memories, subtly asked about things I'm assuming we're on his mind, he went on a trip and brought me a gift (a practical one not romantic haha) but still it's the thought that counts.

And last, I noticed that he was slightly following my lead. I accidentally called him babe and he later called me baby, or I told him I missed him and he told me he missed me too. And didn't let go of me all night.

All of this tells me it's good... right?

The switch is that once we are separated, he's just doing his thing! He'll text me here and there and will respond if I text but sometimes I double text lol is that being pushy?

I know it sounds good but he did break up with me so far back in my mind is a reminder that he did not want to be with me at one point and rejection y'all. Rejection.

Posted by wildflower
I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I'm not getting enough context here for me to lend my voice in.

How have you two been interacting post break up (via social media, text messaging, in person), how frequently and when did you first come back to speaking terms post break up? Have you two met in person since? Are you two in the same city? What was the reason (you don't have to get into specifics if you're not comfortable) you broke up in the first place?

Help me help you 🙂

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Posted by wildflower
I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I'm not getting enough context here for me to lend my voice in.

How have you two been interacting post break up (via social media, text messaging, in person), how frequently and when did you first come back to speaking terms post break up? Have you two met in person since? Are you two in the same city? What was the reason (you don't have to get into specifics if you're not comfortable) you broke up in the first place?

Help me help you 🙂

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Thank you 🙂

Well we broke up because he was struggling financially and he said he wasn't making me happy, that someone else would be better for me and he needed to focus on making money and his passion. I did not understand this but our break up was so sweet and we both cried and held hands, I didn't know what to do, to accept it or not? bc why make someone who doesn't want to be with you (clearly by breaking up with me) stay?

I do not break up with someone unless I see no future between us.



Our interaction seems to be consistent, via text mostly. Sometimes social media. since we broke up, we would still talk a few times a week. I noticed that the longest he would go without reaching out is 2 weeks, max 3. Just to say hi or check in or whatever but he was also very vague and short. We would still see each other, also every 2 weeks but it was in social settings. I did try the NC thing for 30 days and when we started talking again, things changed a bit.. more responsive, more communicative, etc.

We did get together a couple of times alone afterwards-

1st time: he was sick and I took care of him, he tried to talk about the break up but I didn't want to really go there as it just brought back a lot of negative feelings and honestly I was scared he would tell me he still didn't want to be with me. So we avoided it and had a wonderful night.

Another time: we had been talking for a week daily, and I wanted to see him, talk. But he retreated and honestly, I got fed up so I sent him a long msg telling him that I get it, he doesn't want to be with me and I wrote him a note wishing him well, that our chemistry and love was too real for me but i understood and was letting go. So then he tells me he felt the same for me and he was just going through a really hard time (depressed, financially struggling, alone, missed his family) I went over and I told him I was there for him, we talked but not too much about us, he did say he just couldn't be in a relationship.

So I created a little bit of distance after that, to let him sort himself out.This might be TMI but we always had fantastic amazing sex but that night, I could feel his pain, his sorrow, it made me deeply sad, I cried when I got home. I noticed a lot of alcohol around his house and beer bottles in his shower, I got very worried. So I felt he did need time for himself. I did tell him I didn't want to be strangers and we could be friends. Idk how he felt about that since he didn't say anything just accepted it and kissed me, said thank you for coming over.

Since then, he came over last week and things have done a full shift. What happened was he made me so upset/hurt one day that I finally burst & went off on him. I told him that I was really hurt by him, I was loyal and supportive and trying so hard for us and he was treating me like a stranger in front of my friends (long story but it was humiliating) /not replying/wouldn't come over for dinner (lol) that he was not loyal. (I felt as if he was stringing me along and I was fed up) He started saying sorry, that he didn't realize I felt that way and he had been so busy but he did want to see me. We started talking a lot more, He left for a trip and the day after he came back, brought me a gift and came to see me......

it was wonderful and here I am.

Posted by wildflower
I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I have all these placements. I generally don't waste time around ex's unless I feel like there's still potential there. So the fact that he's still talking and being around you is a positive! We're not going to openly talk about our emotions unless we reach a certain point of uncertainty and feel the need to address it (this could take a LOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time).

However, with you being a Scorpio (a lot of my best friends are Scorps), I'd highly suggest being more communicative with him. I can only speak on my behalf, but even though I may come off as the type that isn't confrontational, I'm totally comfortable with expressing my emotions if asked, especially if it's from someone who genuinely cares for me that I too care for.

You just want clarity on the situation, and that's not too big of an ask. Don't be afraid of expressing yourself. Patience is required but communication is as well. Don't keep all those emotions you're holding under wraps, it's not healthy to do that to yourself and not good to withhold that from him either. If he cares about you, he won't get upset about this at all.

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I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from the universe on how to proceed with my taurus.

My heart & mind are positively forward and honestly, my hopes are high. I love him. We've been broken up but slowly and surely reconciling. Slowly and surely we talk more and I can feel his love for me, and just being responsive and communicating is great.

However, as Scorpio, I am constantly looking for signs and I'm not sure if I keep getting signs to continue or to stop. It plagues my mind a little bit. But dealing w a Taurus is so different, he operates differently I am learning, so getting back together makes me feel like I am doing more than I should. My experience has always been that the guy pursues the woman and honestly, if an ex and I broke up they'd chase and beg me. Taurus is not like that. He is warming up it seems, keeps me close but not too close, in person he is magical but when we are apart, conversation are very regular lol I guess I shouldn't complain.. I'm just trying to understand him. I have surrendered to him. I love him, I can't even explain the attraction on a cellular level.

This creates hesitation for me... I would like reassurance from him to know what page we are on. Or if I should just let go... but I don't think I should let go bc I see so much progress. I also require constant reassurance so I'm trying to avoid being clingy/needy, it's just a security thing. I'm scared to be a nuisance. Annoying.

Idk if it's a Scorpio thing but I do not know how to be forward with my feelings, they overwhelm me so I assume they overwhelm you, so I hide my feelings and mask them and instead I push ppl away bc they see I am too aloof, nonchalant and uninterested.

What advice can you give me— How can I differentiate getting back w a bull vs other signs? What are clear signs that he might be interested in us again? Threads here have me in fear of ending up in his harem. Also what can I do or continue doing to keep progressing in a positive way...?

I wish I could read his mind honestly.

He is a Taurus sun, cap moon, Aries Venus

I'm not getting enough context here for me to lend my voice in.

How have you two been interacting post break up (via social media, text messaging, in person), how frequently and when did you first come back to speaking terms post break up? Have you two met in person since? Are you two in the same city? What was the reason (you don't have to get into specifics if you're not comfortable) you broke up in the first place?

Help me help you 🙂

Thank you 🙂

Well we broke up because he was struggling financially and he said he wasn't making me happy, that someone else would be better for me and he needed to focus on making money and his passion. I did not understand this but our break up was so sweet and we both cried and held hands, I didn't know what to do, to accept it or not? bc why make someone who doesn't want to be with you (clearly by breaking up with me) stay?

I do not break up with someone unless I see no future between us.



Our interaction seems to be consistent, via text mostly. Sometimes social media. since we broke up, we would still talk a few times a week. I noticed that the longest he would go without reaching out is 2 weeks, max 3. Just to say hi or check in or whatever but he was also very vague and short. We would still see each other, also every 2 weeks but it was in social settings. I did try the NC thing for 30 days and when we started talking again, things changed a bit.. more responsive, more communicative, etc.

We did get together a couple of times alone afterwards-

1st time: he was sick and I took care of him, he tried to talk about the break up but I didn't want to really go there as it just brought back a lot of negative feelings and honestly I was scared he would tell me he still didn't want to be with me. So we avoided it and had a wonderful night.

Another time: we had been talking for a week daily, and I wanted to see him, talk. But he retreated and honestly, I got fed up so I sent him a long msg telling him that I get it, he doesn't want to be with me and I wrote him a note wishing him well, that our chemistry and love was too real for me but i understood and was letting go. So then he tells me he felt the same for me and he was just going through a really hard time (depressed, financially struggling, alone, missed his family) I went over and I told him I was there for him, we talked but not too much about us, he did say he just couldn't be in a relationship.

So I created a little bit of distance after that, to let him sort himself out.This might be TMI but we always had fantastic amazing sex but that night, I could feel his pain, his sorrow, it made me deeply sad, I cried when I got home. I noticed a lot of alcohol around his house and beer bottles in his shower, I got very worried. So I felt he did need time for himself. I did tell him I didn't want to be strangers and we could be friends. Idk how he felt about that since he didn't say anything just accepted it and kissed me, said thank you for coming over.

Since then, he came over last week and things have done a full shift. What happened was he made me so upset/hurt one day that I finally burst & went off on him. I told him that I was really hurt by him, I was loyal and supportive and trying so hard for us and he was treating me like a stranger in front of my friends (long story but it was humiliating) /not replying/wouldn't come over for dinner (lol) that he was not loyal. (I felt as if he was stringing me along and I was fed up) He started saying sorry, that he didn't realize I felt that way and he had been so busy but he did want to see me. We started talking a lot more, He left for a trip and the day after he came back, brought me a gift and came to see me......

it was wonderful and here I am.

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Thanks for filling me in @wildflower. I think I've got a clearer picture now. My partner's a Taurus too btw 🙂

It's clear that the two of you care about each other very much even post a very reluctant break up. I'm sad to admit but he sounds very broken. But unlike other break up stories I see now and then, he is a responsible, decent man. He made a difficult choicing knowing that he was struggling immensely and believed if a man cannot even support himself financially and get back on his feet, how can he possibly look after the people he loves? As much as he loves a partner to take care of him, he's guilt-ridden by his own situation.

I do believe there's a good chance you two will rekindle your relationship after he has found financial stability/sort himself out. You two have been talking on friendly terms regularly - that's an excellent sign! I think it's very apparent that he still harbours romantic feelings for you and has demonstrated them to you. Actions speak louder than words and there are many examples of where he has (gifts, thinking of you, putting your feelings and needs first by obliging, keeping the lines of communication open and he even told you he wanted to see you). You absolutely shouldn't doubt yourself, from what I've read, this man cares about you so much! He wouldn't do anything to hurt you or play games with you. You've found yourself a gem of a man, guess that means you're also quite a special lady! Be patient with him and trust that he means well. I know us Scorpio ladies are prone to overthinking and conjuring up some of the worst scenarios in our head "to prevent the fall." It's easy for us to believe in our own fantasies (because we've got such a scarily good imagination) but when it does happen, ask yourself "will this really happen in reality? Is he that kind of guy? Has he ever done anything to make me doubt his sincerity etc.?" Don't let your doubts cloud what's right in front of you! There's nothing wrong with staying alert but sometimes, you have to trust.

All the best!

Well Im back with an update.... Still figuring things out with him lol

I have a hard time just being forward and requesting a clear answer, Im scared it will be no. Im scared of rejection.

We had been talking for a while and then check this, one day Im at work and tell him to give me a ride. He had just gotten back from a trip so Im assuming funds were low because I asked him for a ride home and he was like don't be mad but its kind of a hassle, I don't have a lot of money, so on so on. So then he says ok, where are you by? and if he came my way he would let me know, so I was like nah, Im just gonna get going (bc Im not going to wait to see **IF** he comes my way wtf) what rubbed my wrong is the hassle part, Im sensitive to words so I didn't like that. So I leave and 10mins later hes like ok Im on my way, by this point I was gone so I told him nvm I had left already.

I tried to be cheery about it like whatevaaa it cool. So we kept talking and we made plans to go hiking on the weekend. In my head, Im thinking Saturday bc I work Sundays but nothing was set in stone so when he didn't come through, I didn't even bother. Then Tuesday he text me apologizing for not coming, he got sick and something or another happened. and I... never text back. I didn't know what to say. I just didn't say anything.... for a whole month.

So then as I was not speaking to him, he would tag me in things online or try to get my attention in subtle ways but I dgaf.. I text him back a month later totally not even acknowledging the apology. I feel bad for it because that is not my style but at this point, its like I was too disappointed.

So when I text him back, we began talking all of the time and he was more responsive than ever and it was nice, really nice. But that disappointment is still here. but its better. Anyway, we hung out and I ended up staying 2 nights at his house!!! Something I never did even when we were together.. And it was nice, I could tell he missed me and it felt like we were together again but we still haven't talked.

AND IDK HOW TO. FUCK. what do I doooooo? Idk where his head is even at in regards to us because HE DOESNT SAY IT.

Here's the other part though, he seems like a hot mess.This is what is putting me off.

He didn't even shower or even change from the night before when I showed up... like wtf. Later he did but still.. I was turned off lol

If you like someone don't you want to impress?

But then later he started doing cute/thoughtful things for me, like he always used to. We cuddled for like 2 days straight and we talked about random things, and laughed and enjoyed each others presence. He shared a note with me of his journal which he said was private and he bought me my favorite drink when we went on a food run lol sounds dumb but it was thoughtful for this specific drink. He opened my doors like he always used to and he never let my hand go. I also caught a glimpse of something he wrote about me in his journal which was soooo sweet. Like he thought those nice things about me—

Then why break up with me— it doesn't make sense. I think he got scared.