We like to be clear about who is just a ?friend with benefits? and who is potential ?relationship? material. From the scenarios you have described, he is clearly seeing you as more than just a friend. For Taurus I think that there is a big difference between ?sex? and ?making love?. Trust me...making love wins hands down! I personally would not just evaluate a relationship on how good the ?sex? was but when someone I care about ?makes love? to me, its almost like I see an invisible security blanket appear, that wraps me up and keeps me safe and warm and it is at this time that the true power of Venus in Taurus is unleashed within me...so if you can do that plus give me loyalty, stability and true friendship...I'm all yours!!! Oh and about him being touchy/feely...get used to it, its how we show we care!
Sounds like he's into you. I know for me there is a huge difference between sex and making love and I don't like casual sex at all.That usually means that someone has to be "more than a friend" at least in my mind for me to have sex with them. Sometimes I like making out better than sex because it is more of an opportunity to enjoy the person...and ok what Im I saying, I like the tease of pleasing them and being teased, of causing their temp to rise and then saying "well that's a wrap". Unfortunately I haven't been able to be so playful with my cancer. The Taurus/Cancer attraction..is something on a completely different level. If you really don't want to add a sexual thing yet then don't go there at all until you're ready. You can never do it just once! I'm not even going to get into pheremones...but always make sure you wear something sweetly scented for him to enjoy (even if its just your shampoo) and to remember your special times by!
I agree... I think Bulls are slow...I think that if he likes you he will show it in his actions and not just in his works. Mine is coming through slowly but surely. I have gone through a rough spot but he came through. Keep the communication doors wide OPEN. I think he appreciates that I tell him how I feel and what bothers me. At first he seemed stubborn like this is who, I am kind of attitude?but now that's changing. I'm in no hurry to rush this relationship or him. Ill let him move at his own pace with a small reminder here and there. Things are going good and I feel he's warming up to me. I felt as if after we went through some hurdles that made us closer?weird how that works?anyhoo I'm happy at the moment and going with the flow!! Just go with it and fallow your gut girl!!
let me guess did that say he was hung like one too!! ha ha ah a
Yes, mine likes the fact that i can cook as well...
What I like most about my bull, is how he is when hes with me... I like his Sex appeal, i like the fact that hes affectionate. I like how he goes the extra mile to make me happy even though its hard for him at time. and most of all i love his.....eyes ha ha ah a
Just the other night he asked me if I wanted to come out with him...I was shocked cause he knows I don't go out on the weeknights and that I have my babies. He told me that his best friend was in town visiting from out of town and he wanted me to come... I was like o.k. This must be a good thing. Where we went I ended up running into a few people that I know... I was chit chatting and every time I would turn around, walk through a door or glance in his direction his eyes were on me... always connecting. I felt like he wanted to see how I was with other people around and get his friends approval...
lol I love Vanilla scents myself, thats my favorite.
Aww you didn't mention the alone time before. That's a very good sign!! Im not usually very comfy spending alone time with someone I'm not very interested in. The thought of someone I'm not interested in in my personal space makes me shudder.
I love a man that can cook and I'll get with one that can't I think. I haven't ever been interested in one that didn't so I'm really not sure. The other day I actually ran into a Taurus guy that ran a menu down for me and now I'm really considering being his friend cuz I would love to sample his dishes.
SweetestFatale, sounds to me like Tauruses are food connoisseurs.....Mr. Taurus was telling me some of his favorite dishes and I was thinking, "HOT DAMN" this boy can eat, cause he was running down so much stuff....Our taste buds have a lot in common...IDK, I am just tooo into Mr. Taurus way too soon, which scares the hell out of me......It has only been 3 weeks.....I notice that we both seem to limit our daily contact so as to not over do it. (we text and talk on the phone).....It seems like he prefers being face to face to interact....We have seen each other 3 times in 3 weeks and each time is longer (3hours, 4, then 7).....
?What did these bulls do that got you so interested in them??
Merc, to be honest it was all in his approach.... He was very polite and respectful which caught and held my attention immediately, so we exchanged numbers....When I am around him he has a calming affect....To my surprise I am so comfortable and have not been nervous once....
GEG, I told him from jump that I was not interested in a casual thing, but GURL LET ME TELL YOU, when he looks at me the way he does and then smiles, I wanna throw him on the ground and straddle his BULL azz.....LMAO
GEG, that is exactly what I am afraid of.....I am hesitant about (even though anticipating) the next time I am around Mr. Taurus....I feel like even though I want to take it slow, if he looks, touches (with those big strong arms), kisses me in just the right way it I will melt with no objections.....My attraction and heat is so thick now I can barely breathe and I am sure he can see it from a mile away even though I try to hide it through joking and being nonchalant....
DAMN YOU SEXY ASS TAURUSES (**wink**).....
I have dated Pisces/Leo/Gemini/Aqua guys before and I have never felt this way instantaneously...Longest relationships with Pisces (dated 5 years) and Aqua (dated on/off for nearly 4 years...mostly on)
Pisces was soothing, calm, caring and nice....Almost too nice Aqua had me going, excited and could get me to do some wacky things. VERY ALPHA MALE....A lot of fun and special times, but in the end just to detached. He was very sensitive and caring but in a detached way as though to hide those feelings from me....He just couldn't allow himself to be vulnerable..
The attraction to Mr. T is so different....He seems very secure in his manhood and still able give compliments, be sweet, caring and show a hint of vulnerability....
What do we say to apologise to a cancer? or make them feel that we want them more then ever? I know it is very difficult to approch a cancer woman when she is pissed,this can go on for months.She wont even pick up your calls,and if she did,she will cl