So I've been with this (28) taurus guy for a over two month now, and finally decided that I wanted to have sex with him. This was a huge step for me because I am a (24) virgin scorpio. We started making out on the couch like usual and then he moved me to his bedroom, and he just sat me there and left. Which honestly was kind of weird and got me very nervous, because I was just sitting there. He finally came back to the bedroom after 5 minutes, put on some music, and then tried to pick up where we left off. I was not really turned on by the whole thing anymore, but just decided to just ride it out to see where it was going to go. All of sudden with no foreplay or anything he just decided to throw his shaft inside of me with no warning. It didn't get it in at all because I started pushing him away. Afterwards he tried three more times but I finally just told him to stop because he was just hurting me. I don't know what was wrong with him. He knew before I was a virgin, and he told me he's had sex with virgins before.... so I don't know how this happened. Sex should not be this difficult, and I'm just turned off by the whole situation. Now, don't get me wrong I respect him for stopping after his attempts, and making me feel comfortable afterwards, but I'm just not sure about a next time at this moment. Has anyone else had this problem, and how do I deal with it?
