new taurus who doesn't want to date me?

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I just met this great new taurus guy a few weeks ago through friends (I'm completely addicted to this sign) and the moment I found out he was a taurus I though OMG not again....

Anyway we email back and forth every day and also chat on the internet and text each other. This has been going on for about three weeks.

I told him I had feelings for him and he said that he just wanted to stay friends. Other taurus guys have done this to me before.

Even after we had this discussion, this guys keeps emailing maybe three times every day and I email back, yet he won't date me.

Why would he do this? Aghghgh.... Taurus you confuse me.
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I find it odd that he is emailing and texting and chatting to you constantly but as he has stated that he doesnt want to date you and you have to take that at face value. Most men are certainly upfront when it comes to something they dont want to do.

What do you talk about? I'm thinking he's found a really good friend in you but I hope he isnt crossing those lines with the conversation, like leading you on. So why do you feel you are starting to develope feelings for him? Are you misinterpeting his conversation?
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I find it odd that he is emailing and texting and chatting to you constantly but as he has stated that he doesnt want to date you and you have to take that at face value. Most men are certainly upfront when it comes to something they dont want to do.

What do you talk about? I'm thinking he's found a really good friend in you but I hope he isnt crossing those lines with the conversation, like leading you on. So why do you feel you are starting to develope feelings for him? Are you misinterpeting his conversation?



Yeah it's strange. We talk about everything, our past, our childhoods, books, movies, music, life, work... We flirt, but maybe I am misinterpreting it. I feel like I am developing feelings because it's rare to have this connection with someone so soon. You are probably right, that he just thinks of me as a good friend. So sad!
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See that's the thing, if he's stated that he is not interested in dating you but then leading you on and flirting with you I think that is so wrong. Constant contact with someone on a personal level is addictive, you start checking your phone and email accounts constantly and it really is wrong for him to say one thing and then do another. I would suggest you not flirt back and when he does you draw the line and tell him not to cross it so that you dont misunderstand your friendship. I think this will make him sit up and realise how unfair he is being and then you will be able to continue with your friendship...I hope you are up for only being a friend though...it can get kind of crazy as I'm sure you already know!

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ur leo side is getting the best of u! tone it down. he says he wants to be friends and guys usually mean that. they are not typically as complicated as women are. u sound too available as well. start letting some time pass between returning his emails/texts. get urself busy.

be absolutely direct with him too. u need to tell have a strong will and confront everything up front but with a level head. just tell him that ur receiving mixed signals. taureans can be passive and they need someone else to be the more aggressive one. they'll be honest with u though.