Plz Help for Taurus man

Imma a Libra...To make a long story short I have known this Taurus man for 12yrs now.He fell outta my life after the first time but came back 2yrs ago and here we are..We have only been casually dating up till this point.Now we have very strong feelings for each other...I see and talk to him daily,We can't keep our hands off of each other.He's also my best friend..Don't know how it happened but it did..


The problem is that he lives with someone 10yrs younger(even though it don't matter).I can't let him go at this point or vice versa...what should I do?. Plz only serious replies

Is he messin around with the younger girl or is she just a roommate? If he's been living with her from way before you two reconnected and started talking again I don't see what the deal is if they aren't in a relationship with each other.

You already said that it doesn't matter although I can see why you're concerned that he's living with another female.

Well I knew him years before her..when we reconnected,he said that you never know where we can go...He said he's only there for his child..But it would be hard to cut off an intimate relationship without cutting our friendshp..

from all my personal and non-personal experience with taurean men, things are usually simple, and not complicated. When you see 'complications' or 'drama' it means that sooner o later they will get out of it!

Yes ...so true he said if it was'nt for the baby he would be gone.She texts me and calls me..she read our text messages.The only problem is ..I have already begun to mess with him romantically..it's weird he thinks I'm his woman and I should'nt be with anyone else.

We started off as best friends and I don't want to throw the baby out with the bath water..but it seems it's soooooo hard to get rid of him now..esp when he calls and he's already in front of my house without notice...I'm soo confused..I am a beautiful woman inside and out.I can kick myself for this one!

bronze, she texts you and calls you — are you and her friends??

NO...Of course we are'nt friends,but she checks his phone and sends me nasty texts.

so is there a chance she'll follow him to your house without his knowledge and you could get hurt? how is this love again?

bronzebunnie wake up, unless your commitment phobic yourself and okay with being the other woman, stop complaining or get out of this relationship, he is stringing you both along, he's happy with her, you are the catalyst that HOLDS his relationship together, you have no business being involved with him, your disrespectful, you both are disrespectful, you better not believe he's unhappy, he loves all this attention he gets from the both of you and the sad part about it is that not only do you believe he's going to leave which befuddles me because he was ALREADY taken when you met him, not only did you allow yourself to get involved with a man that is shacking up with his baby mama, you have opted to be second best, sad sad sad....

you just got out clowned by an assclown and a disrespectful one at that...What do you think he's going to do to you? He will do you the EXACT SAME way if he left her for you...get some self respect, some self esteem, leave him alone and allow a man in your life that is less drama and wants to be in your life all the way. He's sloppy, messy and disrespectful and you have no business communicating with his significant other EVER

Well first off I don't communicate with her...I said she texts me..But I don't reply..And if I did what would I say?I am an overgrown woman who asked a question..not to be slammed with a psychological evaluation..I met him 12yrss ago.....I never said I was giving up potential dates for him or not going to move on with my life.I have respect,esteem,money and more and at the end of the day..I'm GLAD SHE GOT HIS AZZ!

yeah Im a Taurus and I couldnt even picture leaving a situation if children are involved...but it sounds like he's playing you with that as an excuse...I say hit the road...you are always gonna come second to his first situation