How do you deal?

How do you guys get over a lost love? Lately I've constantly been thinking about this Taurus guy I kind of was involved with. It's weird because I'm not one to usually dwell on past "loves"... but I just can't get over him 😢.

I think I'm just hoping me and him could have something again... jeez this blows 😢

It's hard to say....depends on the intensity of feeling I held for that person....but normally I just head back towards the sky to begin the search....I know based on feeling that it's not like we were going to get married, and as long as I keep my mind and heart open, even if they left, and I WANT THEM BACK, they're welcome to return.....

FE, you might STILL have something....I say investigate, and ask questions about why you two broke up.....he's a bull, so even though he can be stubborn, he can be reasonable....so what's the harm in a try?

Well I'll see this guy once I go back to my University, so we shall see 🙂. He is stubborn... but I want him 😢.

tap into that feeling and use it.....YOU WANT HIM.....so use that.....let your feelings drive you but use your head to guide them.....I'm learning about that as I speak with fly....I thought it was just about screaming your gutz out but there's so much more to it!!!

FE: How do you guys get over a lost love?

I never truly get over it, and I will get nostalgic at the weirdest times...

I miss my Taurus Chick occasionally even now - and it was really bad when I was divorced.

yeah i agree, although i move on i always have that feeling of missing someone, i still think of my first girlfriend, my 2nd and 3rd. i just think you get to a stage where although you miss them doesnt mean you want them

f_s: What part do you miss (the most?) about your taurus?

Before Debra came along, I missed the sex. Now, I miss the passionate debates we used to have before the sex. Of course, we were both young back then, and Ideas really mattered...

Btw, am back with virguy; this time it's different. I must say... quite passionate in many aspects including the debate part I used to not get into it before.

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Oh no its nothing 🙂 ... I just thought that you would've given it a bit more time before getting back together with the virgo but I'm sure you know yourself better then anyone. So if you are happy, then its all cool then 😄

f_s,

As far as the Debates go, it's a Debra Thing, not a Scorpio Thing...

My Original Scorp Daughter (in her 20's) and I have always had very lively discussions; and - get this! - Debra and my OSD will have lively discussions! But Debra will not debate me - says I always have to be right... of course, she's completely Wrong about this!

Glad to hear you're hanging in there with your VG - and protecting yourself, too!