Are Taurus men crazy?

I was planning to see my Taurus man tonight that lives 4 hours away? Was about and hour away and the subject of a home cook meal came up and I said that I would be happy to comply, but never knowing when he was coming and or leaving was uncertain how to plan....He said thats its ok. I then said well when are you leaving he says tommorow at noon after supposedly arriving at 8 pm tonight! Well, did I mentioned how he complained about the long ride that was not scenic..blah! blah! blah!

Anyway I had expressed how it would be nice if he could plan to spend more time in the future because I knew he had something to do with his son! He said that maybe we should plan another weekend. His reply was "well I can turn around and go back if you want" , I said, "its up to you! The phone dropped and I called back three times no answer. I check my voice mail, and he said he just wanted to let me know that he is turned around and is going back and he will plan more time in the future and he didn't appreciate what I said about his son? I tried to text and call he would not answer? I texted him to never call me or text me again in the future. I am deeply disappointed that he would not at least discuss this with me before making a decision. I went out of my way to prepare for him! I feel really misled? I plan to erase and eradicate him from my life..any thoughts? Is this atypical for a taurus or is he just some twisted guy! Either way I have no stomach for the drama.. I like smooth and silky...no drama in my life! What about the real issues that may arise!

He was only an hour away..and everything was going smooth!

aaaaaaaah!

Im a scorpio and payback is a MF..., but i think its better to cut my ties now before someone walks away bloody!

M. Bull NO? as in dont pay him back...Well, anyway he stopped at a casino to release his stressed and was in shcck after he got my messages!

and called me insisintly a 6:00 am after getting my messages..I had no choice but to answer phone..he went off about how I was not accepting responsibility for my actions, and then persised to tell me how tired he was physically and how my comment detoured him. He still thinks that we have a relationship?

He was very persisent abut me responding to him when he was ready! The ony way I will cosider this is if we clearly map out when and where and how we are going to see each other going forward! Once a month, twice a month..something tangible..Other wise we need to look at the other options!!

Could you eleborate about the NO!

would you care to elaborate— Mr Bull.

M. Bull NO? as in dont pay him back...Well, anyway he stopped at a casino to release his stress and was in shock after he got back to my car....and made sure that he was not accesible!

He blew my phone up at 6:00 am after getting my messages..I had no choice but to answer his call..he went off about how I was not accepting responsibility for my actions, and then persised to tell me how tired he was physically and how my comment detoured him. He still thinks that we have a relationship?

He was very persisent about in calling me when he was ready, which I did not appreciate! The ony way I will consider this is if we clearly map out when and where and how we are going to see each other going forward! Once a month, twice a month..something tangible..Other wise we need to look at other options!! platonic friends!!

Could you eleborate about the NO!

well as a Taurus women I know if I am traveling 4 hours when I know I have something to do with my son who comes before anybody and the person sounded unappreciative then I would have turned around too he probably knew he shouldn't have came in the first place because it would be pushing it with timing but he probably really wanted to see you and knew you wanted to see him so he was trying to make a way. I had a guy friend a stingy cap that use to have me drive 45 min to come see him then wanted me to take him somewhere else because we couldn't spend time at his parents spot we were 18 but I use to wit no prob but I was 18 wit a part time job he was 20 wit a full time job wit no bills I asked him for gas and he only put 5 $ and he would change my radio station and put in his rude gangster up north rap and would get a attitude when i wanted to listen to my music if i didnt get up and take him home at 5 in the morning that I just wasn't in to so one day I got tired of it he was so un appreciative so I just stopped calling him all together he was selfish and I feel if im willing to go out my way for you I expect you to be more understanding. but as a women missing my man i would have felt the same way he should have justplanned a day were it would fit for both of your schedules

Hey Mr.Bul..It sounds like you are just reaching..but just for the record I did not say anything concerning his son other then it may be a good idea if we just planned something when his son didn't need him..Allowing us and his son more quality time.Oh! I failed to menion his son is 17 and goes to a boarding school. Please I do not minimize our children especially when I have a son myself!

He has explained it just matter factly that I did not show appreciation cause I expressed the need to plan beter in the future and maybe it would have been better to be there for his son! After all that.... he pulled over and went to a casino, but is mad cause he was so tired from driving and over slept and missed his son event? But why not just get a room if your that tired and just go to is sons event. It seems like he was being cheap! and I was definately incinuated that he would have been on time if I had not treated him so bad, but if he told his son he truth then his son would hate me..HELLO what happened from 6:00 pm until 6am? Why even go to the casino knowing you had to be front line and center. Things just dont add up...He wants me to be committed, but I think we need to be friends and I need to know what Im working with!!

Belle,

You hit the nail on the head...with all the great things that everyone says about taurus men its ultimately about the chemistry beween the two people and we both are very head strong people.before I get a chance to elaborate or clarify he has taken it in and assesed it without getting clarity and then follows through with whats on your plate

also they say that age plays a factor with mature taurus and scorpio! I dont think it matters we are both mature!

i hear they can be abusive

I've seen air and fire signs be openly abusive in public settings when in arguments. What's your point?

Are Taurus men crazy? . . . . i clearly thinks abusive is a part of being crazii . . . . n it was a quest n i stated wat i seem judging from wat ive seen/heard from ppl w experiences on more then 1 occasion not sayn yall r but hey just sharing mii imput relax guys try not to release so much steam wooosaaaah a lil . . . .

Ms. Pisces,

you are perceptive...Although I have not had a lot dealings with them. This one is abusive not with language although between his I dont do holidays, birthdays, flowers...I would have to say that alone leaves concern, but I am always reminded that I should know that he is such a catch. Yeeesh!!

But His famous is just know that I love you and worry about whats on your plate not mine! Because I just dont lay down with anyone or touch anyone, but plenty of women like and want me that are georgous and make a lot of money, but I love you! So I say honey! I thougt of surprising you with a sexy semi nude glamour shot. His reply was oh! thats a scam if you dont believe me I can send you plenty of pics that friends have sent me for my perusal!! Huh! are you serious, He says that is not the point! I say yes send them to me..he says why would you want somebodies eles pics....I say why do you keep them..He says thats not the point it has nothing to do with us!!

There are many forms of abuse!!!

trobin939

I can send you plenty of pics that friends have sent me for my perusal!! Huh! are you serious, He says that is not the point! I say yes send them to me..he says why would you want somebodies eles pics....I say why do you keep them..He says thats not the point it has nothing to do with us!!

see thats that ish that have me readii to start a new journey , , , ,

starfish....it was young,new and long distance and not to mention that every post said give them time they are great, be patient, but this guy cleary has some issues! now he has updated his attitude to that he will compromise on holidays!

i like him but i want someone stable!

yea brat! but fact is I didn't say anything about his son. I said he should have given his son the time he deserved and planned another weekend for us. People have their own agenda!

except when they just disappear into thin air then bounce back like nothing happened?

Idk about abusive, but ny bull wouldnt put his hands on me or any female no matter how mad, angry, upset i have made them or another female. Believe me, i have taken him to that point. He takes it out on material items which can be suprising in a way b/c they are materialistic. It may have something w/ him being born on the taurus/gemini cusp (5/20/80), in which both signs are ladies men.