Ok so here it is ... I’ve been with my Taurus for 6 months now and 3 months into the relationship I found out that i was pregnant. I am now 4 months pregnant. When we first found out my Taurus boyfriend seemed to be happy and excited. ...I had already met his parents prior to knowing about the baby so he immediately told his whole family that we were expecting a new baby. We live in Atlanta but he is from Macon so he made plans for us to move to Macon as soon as we find a house. We have been looking at houses for months now and even been using a realtor to help us. The relationship has overall been going pretty good with minor jealousy issues from both sides. We are coworkers and work literally with our desks sitting diagonal of each other. So we both tend to get jealous of each other when we see someone of the opposite sex sitting down talking to us at our desks. We will not discuss the jealousy at work so we tend to bring an argument home. he has been living with me ever since I found out i was pregnant (3 months into the relationship)... well about a week ago, a co-worker of ours very loudly announced in front of everybody that my boyfriend was trying to talk to an attractive customer who my boyfriend was helping out. Mind you, the coworker who said this knows that me and my bf are in a relationship. Everyone knows. ... I got really upset that my boyfriend did not try to correct or dispute the coworker and I felt disrespected by both the coworker and my boyfriend. ... so of course I held onto my jealousy until we got home that night. Once at home I questioned my boyfriend was it true and of course he denied trying to talk to the woman, then i asked him why didn’t he correct the coworker and his response was that the coworker was “just being a guy”... I told my bf I felt offended and I felt he should have said something but my bf disagreed saying he didn’t think nothing of it bc the guy was only joking, since he really was the one who wanted to talk to the woman. ... I kept poking at the situation and asking questions and I guess my bf got really upset and started yelling saying he is soooo tired of my crazy jealousy and that he can not do this anymore ... he immediately got up off the couch and went upstairs...packed all his belongings and walked out the house And took off in his car... right before he walked out the door I tried to stop him but he told me to get out his way so I did... 5 days went by and he has not textd me or called me. He does not speak to me at work either although I’m always catching him looking at me but he does not speak. ... so I took the initiative to try to spark conversation by walking to his desk and asking him how has he been doing? He quickly replied “I’m fine just tired”, but it was really awkward it was like he couldn’t look at me in my eye when he speaking to me... so I walked away but I decided to text him... I textd and asked “is everything okay? Just checking on you” ... he textd back and said he was okay and asked how was I doing? ... I textd back asking if we could talk in the parking lot after work?... he textd me back 4 hours later letting me know that he was leaving work early and had to run some errands. Felt like he was trying to avoid me so I never texd back after that.... two days has gone by since and he still has not tried to reach out to me. Although he still looks at me all day long at work. ...it’s so weird tho because we usually eat lunch every day together with one of our other coworkers who is also his best friend. He buys my lunch every single day But since the break up he has not bought me lunch he buys his own lunch and does not even eat with me or our lunch buddy anymore. ...my money has been really tight which is the reason he buys my lunch everyday and also puts gas in my car but he doesn’t even seem to care or to even ask if I’m financially ok. (I have been borrowing money from others) ...i need opinions from other Taurus men... is my Taurus really done— I’m wondering how could he be done when we have a baby on the way? How could he just get up and leave like that without second thought over something sooo petty? Is he running from me and the baby? Was he looking for a way out? .... he is 36 years old .... he also has a 6 yr old daughter... when he and the mother of his 1st child were together they also broke up in middle of her pregnancy and she moved out. But he has told me before that he does not want to go thru that again. And that he does not want to have another broken family. .... I am so confused. could this man have commitment issues? It has now been a whole 7 days since we broke up and he still has not tried to fix things between us. What do you guys think?? What should I do?
