Made a mistake with a Taurus Man

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by AgentVirgo on Sunday, February 11, 2018 and has 13 replies.

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@AgentVirgo
8 Years

But really, is he ever going to talk to me again? I have read that Taurus are known for the silent treatment. How long does it last?

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AgentVirgo
He was always flirty and touching me, even telling me he liked me when we were drunk, which I just laughed off because he has a rep for playing around.

he put his guard up, said bad timing and the ship had sailed.

He's onto the next conquest. Let him go.

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I’d agree with what the others have said. Although there’s not much actual detail in your post, I think this person has shown you a different side of himself and perhaps it’s not a good side. His pride might possibly be hurt too. However, if he valued your friendship then he wouldn’t just throw it away.

I wouldn’t worry so much about this. What’s done is done. Let him go and be a dick elsewhere. Don’t tolerate crap from him.

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@looneymoonmaiden
8 Years

Posted by tiziani
Just don't make a bad situation even worse at this point.

Sounds like it started off with miscommunication from both, turned into arrogance on his side, then guilt tripping from you.

Play a straight hand in the future if anything.

Tizianiii.

Don't know if you remember me. The cancer who was so foolishly thinking a sag man could complete me 😂😂😂

Well...... A bull charged into my life and swepped me of my feet! Taking over...

Little silent now. But, time will tell

I should have listened to you guys

Sag was nothing for me mehhh

Mr bully is sooooo much fun and appreciates me

How are youuuuu

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@looneymoonmaiden
8 Years

Is it always a bad sign when they change their behavior? In my case it's more that he needs to get his stuff solved and that he will come back after that.

My bull told me he was overwhelmed and that made him don't wanna text back or contact me. But that we are OK.

His communicating changed a bit.... Normally he would be busy but always find time to look me up at some point. And the emojis stopped lol

But I just figured he is busy with his stuff. I trust him when he says we are ok

It's not always a sign off moving on I hope 0_o

It's not all about us right?!!

Someone can need some space. Or am I way off??

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@looneymoonmaiden
8 Years

Posted by tiziani
Posted by looneymoonmaiden
Posted by tiziani
Just don't make a bad situation even worse at this point.

Sounds like it started off with miscommunication from both, turned into arrogance on his side, then guilt tripping from you.

Play a straight hand in the future if anything.

Tizianiii.

Don't know if you remember me. The cancer who was so foolishly thinking a sag man could complete me 😂😂😂

Well...... A bull charged into my life and swepped me of my feet! Taking over...

Little silent now. But, time will tell

I should have listened to you guys

Sag was nothing for me mehhh

Mr bully is sooooo much fun and appreciates me

How are youuuuu

Hey! Can't say I do remember just yet?

But I'm a big fan of Cancer-Sag so I was probably one of the voices egging you on to go for it.

Either way a Bull who's fun and appreciates you sounds good.

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Haha you were

But even you at some point understood he was just not serious

Hahaha 😂😂😂 it is

The fun and the deliciously ability to chill and be lazy at times. Perfect balance

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@LentoBull91
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Caramel_Princess
I still don’t agree that he’s a jerk or a player but that he may have felt betrayed when she completely disappeared.

Can you imagine how he must have felt when she bailed with no explanations? I tried to imagine it happening to me and my heart hurt! No one likes to be ghosted and ignored and now he’s hurt (whether or not he should feel hurt isn’t the problem, it’s feelings you can't change.)

^^^I agree we can be really sensitive to people we like especially Virgals.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

It’s gonna be ok either way. At the end of the day if you two are meant to be together then you will, and if not then there is someone better suited for you. I also try to look at life as a whole pie, and if you think about it this is just a crumb compared to the rest of your life so no worries 😉

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@Fleshpot
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Caramel_Princess
I still don’t agree that he’s a jerk or a player but that he may have felt betrayed when she completely disappeared.

Can you imagine how he must have felt when she bailed with no explanations? I tried to imagine it happening to me and my heart hurt! No one likes to be ghosted and ignored and now he’s hurt (whether or not he should feel hurt isn’t the problem, it’s feelings you can’t change.)

Again give him time to process it, it can take them a while... heck my Taurus friend is just NOW opening up and explaining things that he felt/thought two years ago!

Stand your ground, you’ve apologized and you explained and that’s all you owe him, he works with you so chances are he’ll eventually start to talk to you again, until then just do you and know he’s not just gonna magically disappear off the face of the earth, things can wait a bit.

Agree, I've only known Taurus men to act callous and cruel when they're hurt. If he were a player, your absence would have had little to no impact on him, but he seemed to have taken it very personally, especially considering the passive-aggressive, "I thought you wanted to be left alone" comment.

I think he's just being salty. Give him some time to lick his wounds and he'll come around.

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@looneymoonmaiden
8 Years

Posted by Fleshpot
Posted by Caramel_Princess
I still don’t agree that he’s a jerk or a player but that he may have felt betrayed when she completely disappeared.

Can you imagine how he must have felt when she bailed with no explanations? I tried to imagine it happening to me and my heart hurt! No one likes to be ghosted and ignored and now he’s hurt (whether or not he should feel hurt isn’t the problem, it’s feelings you can’t change.)

Again give him time to process it, it can take them a while... heck my Taurus friend is just NOW opening up and explaining things that he felt/thought two years ago!

Stand your ground, you’ve apologized and you explained and that’s all you owe him, he works with you so chances are he’ll eventually start to talk to you again, until then just do you and know he’s not just gonna magically disappear off the face of the earth, things can wait a bit.

Agree, I've only known Taurus men to act callous and cruel when they're hurt. If he were a player, your absence would have had little to no impact on him, but he seemed to have taken it very personally, especially considering the passive-aggressive, "I thought you wanted to be left alone" comment.

I think he's just being salty. Give him some time to lick his wounds and he'll come around.

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I agree

And could be many reasons

They really do.. :

Love hard

Go hard

So....... Go silent and Hurt hard.... 🙈

I'm such a dumbass, only been in two relations before and both men were immature emotionally

This Taurus is way mature!!!

So i became too much... But he told me... Didn't dropped of the face off the earth though

But that's because of his amazing aqua moon i think

But i made the mistake!

He reacted on it

I make the change now. It's not all about me

He is just busy with his stuff. I have to allow him his space. He and i keep in touch alittle, but enough. When he is ready he will come back again

I know what i mean to him. No need to worry

Meanwhile i'm doing me

😊😊😊😊

They are warm, clumsy loving bighearted people. They just charge in.... But if they feel in any way triggered..... Hurt... Confused..... Angry.... The horns get used.... But if they care... I think they go silent BECAUSE they are smart enough NOT to use those horns

I think they know they go hard in anything.... So a bull that goes silent, i think, is actually in control of his horns

What if they didn't—? I think you would wish for the silent treatment instead of the horns

Ever met a scorpio or aries Hurt.... Nahhhhhhhhhhhhhh 😥😂😂😂😂😂