- Scorpio Spell !! -

So, i was caught up with my SCORPIO ex for a while who i wish to remain distance for the rest of my life because he has this thing about him that pulls me in - some kind of SPELL scorpio have for us Taurus ! -
Me and my bull shared our past lovers and how un happy we both were , we became extremely close because of it -

..NOW..
we live interstate and things went SOUR when his ex was back in the picture ! and to my surprise ( not ) i recently found out she's also a SCORPIO !!!!

I just want to give up and move on because i know they have this POWER - and me being so far away will loose anyhow ! and she will remain around his life forever ! -- ( birth- rebirth thing)

I don't have much choice !!!! According to him - they wish to remain friends because they want each other to be happy but they are not the ones to give it - surprise surprise -

THOUGHTS !! ? should I be there for him..i cant help myself but feel for him because i HAVE BEEN THERE and it isn't easy getting away from scorpio's spell !!!

I think you should get away and be there for yourself. At the end of the day you just need to take care of yourself first. If being there for him means putting yourself through unnecessary drama and pain, you'd need to ask yourself Why? The things you are doing for your ex you could be looking out for yourself instead. Work on you and your goals and you'd come out of this much happier instead of being caught up in his drama.

@ Gemini bunny. I totally agree. Getting caught in drama is a big no no for me. I run away from them but I know how it feels to be caught in scorpions drama. They are complex creatures and my ex did drain me emotionally. I just have to keep my distance and wish him all the best I guess.

Posted by MilkySoft
Don't get caught up in anything between them, let him sort out his feelings on his own. I mean, what would you do to support him? Bring up the astro mumbo jumbo and talk of "scorpio spells?" ha

From what I've read here, scorp leaves a bad taste in the mouth afterwards, so...just wait it out if you want?

But make sure to wait across the street at least and not on the back porch, if you know what I mean.

totally agreed with you on this one. He didn't believe in astrology untill he met me. I would totally bring up the fact that my ex is a Scorpio and yes I would talk about their effects on us taureans. He migh think I'm crazy! . I need to leave him alone to sort things out with her for good. He said we should be friends untill he sorts things out with her for good. I think the only way for him to get out of it is to move away from her completely. I will stay away but still be present in his life so he knows I have not gone anywhere. I don't want to give up on him just yet.. I'm seeing him in a week and I'm still unsure of how I will go about it. My plan is to keep it cool and be his friend. I don't think it is the right time to get physical with him but being physical with another Taurus is heaven ... So I'm lost...

STVG,

You need to leave him alone because you have to... not for him to sort out things for her good.

lol. Do some favor for yourself... and if you suggest him to completely to get out from her is to move

away... well then, You might in a wrong track dear. It might be in his mind to get closer to her as

you are too busy minding his business with her. lol.

You are completely wrong about your presence with him just to win him back? lol.

Give him medicine first and let him cure....that means...just be quiet for awhile.

Taurus are drawn to Scorpio some aren't but mostly....

To tell you the truth, Even we commit mistakes to Taurus men they still wanting us ( Scorpio). lol

I hate Taurus man, really. lol. That's why when I found out that my charts that I am close to Tauruses

I prayed... God, please no Taurus for me. 'cause it seems they are not my type of man but they are

provider and passionate like my man at this time, so I consider and learned to accept them...

M 143. Taurus men/women are solid people. We are consistent and the best providers. I am not going to suggest him to move hell no!! all I'm saying is- he knows exactly why they r not good together. We talked about it for ages. I know I'm not good with my ex scorpion either but I am weak around him. He has that effect on me and yes she probably also has that effect on him. I am thankful my scorpion chose to give me a silent treatment for months now and I hope it stays that way. On the other hand I don't think his ex is giving up on him just yet. The reason why I care so much is because we were happy together and I know he deserves to be happy. That is all. But I am going to let him ( them) be.. explore the roller coster and see how the ride ends...!

...so the answer is I don't have much hope....* sob*.. I am not going to fight win a battle with a scorpion . It's a loose/loose situation! !

STVG,

Yes being with a Scorpio has lots of roller coaster ride but Scorpio are not coward. They loved

the death and rebirth process thing... that is when the partner give up after the big storm hits

in a relationship there we conclude that they cannot stand for a long term relationship.

Scorpio embraced the bad and good ones including the ''worst in yourself''

So when a Scorpio will throw a silent treatment... it's because Scorpio will leave you for good.

and when a Scorpio keeps rattling your world... It's because Scorpio wanted you more.

So silent treatment is a bad definition.

M143,

My scorpio ex gave me silent treatment for 6 months 4 years ago. He waited for me those years to finally be with me. - fast forward here i am having another silent treatment for 2 months now and i WISH it stays that way. Its way too much drama for me. Taurus are DRAWN to scorpion yes ! there's no doubt about that..but after a while we RUN because we know scorpion are trouble and not good for us. It almost feel like an addiction. There's no consistency- stability- communication etc. Its nothing i look for as a long term partner. I am just being brutally honest here.

If they work out great- I told him i wish them both much happiness and he moved up there for a reason so he should give her a chance ( i meant it) only to be knocked back saying its over between them-

If he comes making a move on me next week , i will tell him directly that i wish not to do anything with him since things are not over between him and his ex- He will probably say otherwise- see what happens.

True. Scorpio are troubled including me. It takes our partner to stand for us....

Maybe he loves his ex that's why he kept going back and forth.

Again, If you allow him to do it over and over again... He will take every chance.

So learn to say ''no'' if he is a Scorpio. lol

Posted by M143

True. Scorpio are troubled including me. It takes our partner to stand for us....

Maybe he loves his ex that's why he kept going back and forth.

Again, If you allow him to do it over and over again... He will take every chance.

So learn to say ''no'' if he is a Scorpio. lol

It wouldn't surprise me if he still does. I probably still love my scorpio as well. Loving someone doesn't mean it will work long term..they are two different things. I will never say yes to my ex scorpio ever again !!! too much drama !!

Just let it go already

They man just wants to lay around, he's not serious and u know that

U were on the scorpio board asking the same thing and even they told u to let him go, cause the man is bi polar

Ahh Sweetz I feel for you! Darn Scorpio's and their charm. I dont think you should write the taurus guy off just yet. If there was a connection there was a connection. Maybe just back off a bit and see what happens. If he told you things were bad with the ex then those problems are probably still there and he will see that. Just take a deep breath and have a glass of wine...live your life and see what happens a few weeks down the road.

M143 I sent you a message...I didnt want to highjack this thread.

Posted by TaurusNikki
Just let it go already

They man just wants to lay around, he's not serious and u know that

U were on the scorpio board asking the same thing and even they told u to let him go, cause the man is bi polar

I'm definately letting my Scorpio ex go! Hell no! The bull though? Not so fast.. He's worth keeping around for a while unlike the Scorpio! You know that ! 🙂

Posted by sugerbear
Ahh Sweetz I feel for you! Darn Scorpio's and their charm. I dont think you should write the taurus guy off just yet. If there was a connection there was a connection. Maybe just back off a bit and see what happens. If he told you things were bad with the ex then those problems are probably still there and he will see that. Just take a deep breath and have a glass of wine...live your life and see what happens a few weeks down the road.

M143 I sent you a message...I didnt want to highjack this thread.

thanks sugar bear. It's funny how things turn out hey! I'm just keeping him at arms length. I don't expect anything serious with the bull anyway because of the distance but yes I do want him away from her. He has to dig his heels and do it for good! Not so sure how long that will take but I will definately live my life and just relax 🙂

Posted by Redbull
When my situation with a Scorp was over, it was over. Brought peace back to my life. Im blessed in that regard because I went through it, and then i was free. With wisdom haha. But i think this is inherently a difficult pairing.The whole opposite thing especially with these two signs. So I think Tauruseshave to accept this. If it goes good, fine. But if its difficult, just accept it and move on. For me it was one side destroying and rebuilding elsewhere, and me walking away from sheer determination and stubbornness to move on we havent talked in several years and lost complete touch and in the end that was the best way to handle it.

agreed! I totally understand what you went through because I had the exact same experience! cutting all communication and walking away for good is the best way to deal with the ending of this pairings ! The spark is too strong to remain friends! I'm glad you found peace in the end! That's heaven to any bulls's ears!!!

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Posted by TaurusNikki
Just let it go already

They man just wants to lay around, he's not serious and u know that

U were on the scorpio board asking the same thing and even they told u to let him go, cause the man is bi polar

I'm definately letting my Scorpio ex go! Hell no! The bull though? Not so fast.. He's worth keeping around for a while unlike the Scorpio! You know that ! 🙂

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Very true, keep the bull

Redbull,

Congrats... Scorpio when they want to break the relationship they invested they just want

to WALK AWAY. You might failed to do your part dealing with her those times but what you've lost

is a woman who can stand with you for life and love you for death...

I've heard men and women who been in a relationship with my fellow Scorpio. The ups and downs.

The drama thing. The games etc. After all, They still longing their ex Scorp that doesn't exist to

be with them again and wishing things were different...

Posted by M143

Redbull,

Congrats... Scorpio when they want to break the relationship they invested they just want

to WALK AWAY. You might failed to do your part dealing with her those times but what you've lost

is a woman who can stand with you for life and love you for death...

I've heard men and women who been in a relationship with my fellow Scorpio. The ups and downs.

The drama thing. The games etc. After all, They still longing their ex Scorp that doesn't exist to

be with them again and wishing things were different...

- I can stand by my partner FOR LIFE and LOVE HIM till DEATH - without any drama- emotional roller coster- mind games- manipulative words - and all the others that come with it.. My love might not be as INTENSE as it is for scorpio's love..but at least it doesn't come with all the extras...just pure consistence love ..peaceful life and normal standards 😉 just saying ..

STVG: I just want to give up and move on because i know they have this POWER

>>>I hear you there. And if the Scorp finds out you are in the equation, she will probably get competitive and cast an even stronger spell for that (poorly motivated) reason alone.

STVG: Taurus are DRAWN to scorpion yes ! there's no doubt about that..but after a while we RUN because we know scorpion are trouble and not good for us. It almost feel like an addiction. There's no consistency- stability- communication etc. Its nothing i look for as a long term partner. I am just being brutally honest here.

>>>Kinda the conclusion I've come to just based off of my limited interaction, and listening to alot of the bulls here. And if it doesn't last, to bulls, it just really isn't worth it at all. I've dealt with addiction and I think that's the best analogy for this. I really feel for you on this. Apparently some bulls aren't as drawn to the Scorps, but based on these boards, some obviously have it BAD. Curious - what was your Scorp's Venus?

The greatest lesson it seems to learn from the Taurus/Scorp dynamic is how to be extremely STRONG and put yourself back together after your mind/heart/soul have been almost completely obliterated. Taurus is looking for someone to love TIL death. Scorpios love TO death. Hhahaha...

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
STVG: I just want to give up and move on because i know they have this POWER

>>>I hear you there. And if the Scorp finds out you are in the equation, she will probably get competitive and cast an even stronger spell for that (poorly motivated) reason alone.

STVG: Taurus are DRAWN to scorpion yes ! there's no doubt about that..but after a while we RUN because we know scorpion are trouble and not good for us. It almost feel like an addiction. There's no consistency- stability- communication etc. Its nothing i look for as a long term partner. I am just being brutally honest here.

>>>Kinda the conclusion I've come to just based off of my limited interaction, and listening to alot of the bulls here. And if it doesn't last, to bulls, it just really isn't worth it at all. I've dealt with addiction and I think that's the best analogy for this. I really feel for you on this. Apparently some bulls aren't as drawn to the Scorps, but based on these boards, some obviously have it BAD. Curious - what was your Scorp's Venus?

The greatest lesson it seems to learn from the Taurus/Scorp dynamic is how to be extremely STRONG and put yourself back together after your mind/heart/soul have been almost completely obliterated. Taurus is looking for someone to love TIL death. Scorpios love TO death. Hhahaha...

Thanks TLS for your sympathy ! 🙂 I see you are also caught in the spell.

My ex scorpio's venus was Sagittarius .

I can not agreed more with this statement ! --
" The greatest lesson it seems to learn from the Taurus/Scorp dynamic is how to be extremely STRONG and put yourself back together after your mind/heart/soul have been almost completely obliterated. Taurus is looking for someone to love TIL death. Scorpios love TO death. "

I'm also sure that my bull knows what's best for him and what isn't . It is easier said than done esp when you have that spell hanging around you- the best way to deal with it is to WALK AWAY for good- who hasn't experienced it won't understand what i mean by that. He's a grown up man and he will figure it out - STRONG and determination is needed. I also think that he can't just " leave " her coz according to him- when they broke up- she stalked him every morning..following him to his work for a month ! he didn't know until she told him... she also harms herself and all that as well ..

I'm so grateful my e

I'm grateful my ex scorpio gave me the silent treatment - i must thank him ! = i was so caught up in the spell and i was too weak to walk away. He did it for me- The world is so much brighter without him in my life - ! and i truly hope it STAYS THAT WAY !

STVG: I also think that he can't just " leave " her coz according to him- when they broke up- she stalked him every morning..following him to his work for a month ! he didn't know until she told him... she also harms herself and all that as well ..

>>>Yeah, that is NOT a good situation. I had a Cancer I was with for 5 yrs. She cheated while I was away at school. I broke up with her and she started harming herself as well (in a very serious way where I thought she might kill herself). Very scary stuff and it *did* actually keep me in the relationship for an extra year, because I felt so bad for her. Real stalking like that though; that is on another level. I really haven't studied the psychology of it, and am not sure if it is always potentially dangerous. But it sounds like it could be, if she's already a danger to herself. Even if you're not with your bull romantically, its probably good that you're available to give solid advice. Its hard to see clearly in these situations, especially when you rely so much on your own thoughts because it seems no one can understand the depth of what you're going through.

@ TLS . I'm sorry about what you went through with a cancer (( damn water signs huh? ) when I was with him, he told me enough about her. She has extreme self esteem issues and socially akward as well. I know he still cares for her alot. Recent message I told him to give her a chance as he moved up there fr a reason and maybe she will change. He told me things are " over" between them. He said she only loves him like a family love kind of thing . Not in a romantic way. He said they want happiness for each other but they are not the ones to give it. I took his words seriously because I know how honest bulls can be. when I see him in 4 days, I'm planning get closer to him as friends and try to get him to talk to me more openly to me about her so he knows I'm not jealous nor not planning to steal her man or anything . I know he had a very rough 5 months when he moved up there and his situation is not something he can just walk away from. We are passionate loving people. I truly think she feels he is the only thing she has.. While he doesn't need her in that way at all. He's very very independent just like myself. How was your relationship with your ex cancer after that ? That extra 1 year! ? It must have been awful.

@ impulse. I know how Scorpio loves. I never say they are bad people. He has not gone back to her . I don't think he likes the drama.. He's a bit like a Leo in a way. I truly believe he has a Leo moon. So maybe that's it !!! untill they are a couple again that's when I know he does like the drama.. does that mean TLS like drama just because he went back with his ex cancer? I don't think that's the reason. We are passionate loving people. We can't just leave the exs ESP when they harm themselves. I would be there as well. That doesn't mean I will give the relationship another shot. My bull also cares for me. He's very concern n very caring. You migh think we do mind games but we don't. Really. We are honest straight forward people.not much go in our heads but great sex n great food n peaceeeee. We are that boring at times.