Should I give up on taurus man? (scorpio woman)

It's been months! Now 6 months and still nothing. He expressed interest and once i reciprocated he suggested we default to friendship. We both got out of relationships at the time. He would constantly text, that has now died out he would only text to workout. He would respond if I message him but I stopped. You can read original post below. I am just not sure anymore. Should I give up?



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Give up. He may come around at a later stage but I see no reason why you should wait around for that to happen.

Go out and meet more people. Keep him on the backburner if you like but don't put your life on hold.

I've just red you other thread and to be honest he seems like a pretty nice guy. You said he is very supportive of you whenever you need him. You said he's very respectful and and prefer to be friend for now...

So the real question is... are you ok with his decision? Because you might have to wait for a while longer and still not get the result you're hoping for... or he might just confess his undying love for you tomorrow.... nobody knows... Whatever you decided to do... make sure that it's your own decision and that you will be able to deal with whatever the result is.

He said he prefer to be friends first...you have to understand that... right now... is he a good friend to you? If he is... then he didn't lie... he didn't lead you on...he is just doing whatever he said. Try not to mixe up what he's doing with what you're hoping him to do... that's where things get complicated and messy.

The problem seems to be you want more than what he can currently offer you...So again... what would YOU like to do... whatever decision you will choose... you need to understand there will be consequences...

You can move on go meet other people and maybe fall in love with someone else and be happy ever after and that's good for you!!! but understand that doing so you might lose whatever chance you might have to be with him as a couple. What I'm trying to say is just make sure that whatever you do... you have thought it through...just don't do things hoping to get a reactions or something out of him... because you'll just end up hurting th both of you.

My husband is a wonderful Taurus.... back then it took him over a year just to even flirt with me...so I know how frustrating it could be with them (I'm an Aries btw... so patience is definitely not my forte)... we finally got together after almost 2 years... then got separated for almost 12 years and finally ended up as husband and wife 🙂

Back then we were young and even though I didn't do it on purpose but I did hurt him very badly...after we ended our relationship the first time... I quickly moved on... and it took many many years for me to understand what I had actually lost that day...but no matter... I'm one of the lucky one as he had waited for me all this time and now I'm the happiest woman on earth!!! And I'll will not trade him for all the gold, diamonds... or anything in the world!! He's mine and mine alone 🙂

Posted by Leylia12
I've just red you other thread and to be honest he seems like a pretty nice guy. You said he is very supportive of you whenever you need him. You said he's very respectful and and prefer to be friend for now...

So the real question is... are you ok with his decision? Because you might have to wait for a while longer and still not get the result you're hoping for... or he might just confess his undying love for you tomorrow.... nobody knows... Whatever you decided to do... make sure that it's your own decision and that you will be able to deal with whatever the result is.

He said he prefer to be friends first...you have to understand that... right now... is he a good friend to you? If he is... then he didn't lie... he didn't lead you on...he is just doing whatever he said. Try not to mixe up what he's doing with what you're hoping him to do... that's where things get complicated and messy.

The problem seems to be you want more than what he can currently offer you...So again... what would YOU like to do... whatever decision you will choose... you need to understand there will be consequences...

You can move on go meet other people and maybe fall in love with someone else and be happy ever after and that's good for you!!! but understand that doing so you might lose whatever chance you might have to be with him as a couple. What I'm trying to say is just make sure that whatever you do... you have thought it through...just don't do things hoping to get a reactions or something out of him... because you'll just end up hurting th both of you.

My husband is a wonderful Taurus.... back then it took him over a year just to even flirt with me...so I know how frustrating it could be with them (I'm an Aries btw... so patience is definitely not my forte)... we finally got together after almost 2 years... then got separated for almost 12 years and finally ended up as husband and wife 🙂

Back then we were young and even though I didn't do it on purpose but I did hurt him very badly...after we ended our relationship the first time... I quickly moved on... and it took many many years for me to understand what I had actually lost that day...but no matter... I'm one of the lucky one as he had waited for me all this time and now I'm the happiest woman on earth!!! And I'll will not trade him for all the gold, diamonds... or anything in the world!! He's mine and mine alone 🙂

WOW! Thank you so much for taking the time to respond. I truly just don't get it and still learning this whole process. I now just give him his space and his taken notice so we rarely text...He'll only send something regarding sport or something related to my business. The wait has me guessing that maybe he lost interest? hence why I posted this asking if I should just give up. You know> but thank you

Posted by Leylia12
I've just red you other thread and to be honest he seems like a pretty nice guy. You said he is very supportive of you whenever you need him. You said he's very respectful and and prefer to be friend for now...

So the real question is... are you ok with his decision? Because you might have to wait for a while longer and still not get the result you're hoping for... or he might just confess his undying love for you tomorrow.... nobody knows... Whatever you decided to do... make sure that it's your own decision and that you will be able to deal with whatever the result is.

He said he prefer to be friends first...you have to understand that... right now... is he a good friend to you? If he is... then he didn't lie... he didn't lead you on...he is just doing whatever he said. Try not to mixe up what he's doing with what you're hoping him to do... that's where things get complicated and messy.

The problem seems to be you want more than what he can currently offer you...So again... what would YOU like to do... whatever decision you will choose... you need to understand there will be consequences...

You can move on go meet other people and maybe fall in love with someone else and be happy ever after and that's good for you!!! but understand that doing so you might lose whatever chance you might have to be with him as a couple. What I'm trying to say is just make sure that whatever you do... you have thought it through...just don't do things hoping to get a reactions or something out of him... because you'll just end up hurting th both of you.

My husband is a wonderful Taurus.... back then it took him over a year just to even flirt with me...so I know how frustrating it could be with them (I'm an Aries btw... so patience is definitely not my forte)... we finally got together after almost 2 years... then got separated for almost 12 years and finally ended up as husband and wife 🙂

Back then we were young and even though I didn't do it on purpose but I did hurt him very badly...after we ended our relationship the first time... I quickly moved on... and it took many many years for me to understand what I had actually lost that day...but no matter... I'm one of the lucky one as he had waited for me all this time and now I'm the happiest woman on earth!!! And I'll will not trade him for all the gold, diamonds... or anything in the world!! He's mine and mine alone 🙂

Great post. OP, you’ve had plenty of sound advice for this one. I don’t think you’re accepting him or his decision. I also think you need time for you before rolling into the next relationship. Just be friends with the guy and stop moaning because he’s not doing what you want. You could fuck up a good friendship by being impatient and selfish.

Posted by Sodapop
I don’t think he’s into you romantically at this point and it’s up to you if you think you can be okay with just being friends. I personally couldn’t, not if my feelings and my heart are on the line. I don’t want to hear about his dating stories down the line or sit on the bench hoping and praying someday he’ll change his mind and catch feelings.

Also he doesn’t seem like he’s being as friendly or consistent as he once was, so even that he’s not being good at right now. Would you be okay with a flaky friend?

I know others said be patient and he sounds lovely and all that, but it seems like you’re unhappy and not having your needs met, it’s causing you endless anxiety and unhappiness. It’s also stopping you from initiating anything with someone new.

I had something end with a Taurus recently and he wanted to remain friends but I couldn’t do that to myself again. I already spent month waiting for something to change or wondering if he’s changed or I’m just inpatient and overreacting.

It shouldn’t be this hard. If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive. I don’t want to just think about his needs, I’m thinking about my needs cause I bet you 110% that he’s doing the same for himself.

I know it worked for some people on here that have waited and had things eventually workout, but I know myself, and I know it would cause me to toss and turn everynight.

Ultimately it depends on you now and you know yourself and if you can handle it and not regret it down the line.

This truth hurts terribly but there's no denying it anymore. Thanks def working on how to address that considering the fact that I'm always the one asking to be left alone only to come back which his used to. I think it's best to not say anything at all and decline these morning run offers. Thanks ya'll

Posted by sagaciouscorp
YES Wait twelve years

Yes life is like the movies happy endings

You will get that man

He will not marry another after you waiting years for him to open up.

IM The one who invested my all with no happy ending

I wouldn’t recommend it.

But it’s your gamble because that is what it is a bet with high stakes

DAMN! That's deep yeah I aint waiting. With each passing day I feel a fool and stupid for allowing things to get this messy

If you wait. You are going to waste a time. Time is all you have.

Enough you heard him and sees you as friend - AM not going to insist myself. lol. that is dismiss.

Taurus are not slow movers - that is sh*t Talk.

Posted by Sashvmerr
There is most likely someone else he is pursuing which is why he wants to be friends. If things don’t work out well with the other girl he will start to give you more attention. Don’t waste your time. Find someone else who will show that they are into you and not friend zone you after you’ve expressed interest. You deserve that much as

True enough. Seeing me as friend I will put him to a route of Dead End. Delete Contacts and Move on my life.