Scorpio man vs Taurus woman

So I met a Scorpio 5 months ago while vacationing out of town.  I'm Taurus the bull.  He has a girlfriend that lives in same in Sacramento has he does.  I'm currently going through a divorce and live in Dallas.  We have met up in Key West 1 month ago and had a ball.  We talk and text everyday.  Our communication is great, but at times he is distant.  We both have stated we want to be in each others lives regardless of outsiders.  I'm planning on moving to Sacramento.  I feel like we have been honest about others in our lives.  I wonder  this last with the girlfriend.  She has 4 younger kids, 3 of which he does not care for.  She has money.  So currently she is taking care of him.  I don't have a plethora of money, but I do ok in which I can provide for myself and live comfortable enough to travel to meet up with him.  Is there a possibility that we will be together?  The sex is amazing, we laugh, he's very affectionate behind closed doors and in public.  How can I gain the attention of this man to make him mines.  Our chemistry is amazing.

Signed,

I've got to have this man

So I met a Scorpio 5 months ago while vacationing out of town.  I'm Taurus the bull.  He has a girlfriend that lives in same in Sacramento has he does.  I'm currently going through a divorce and live in Dallas.  We have met up in Key West 1 month ago and had a ball.  We talk and text everyday.  Our communication is great, but at times he is distant.  We both have stated we want to be in each others lives regardless of outsiders.  I'm planning on moving to Sacramento.  I feel like we have been honest about others in our lives.  I wonder  this last with the girlfriend.  She has 4 younger kids, 3 of which he does not care for.  She has money.  So currently she is taking care of him.  I don't have a plethora of money, but I do ok in which I can provide for myself and live comfortable enough to travel to meet up with him.  Is there a possibility that we will be together?  The sex is amazing, we laugh, he's very affectionate behind closed doors and in public.  How can I gain the attention of this man to make him mines.  Our chemistry is amazing.

Signed,

I've got to have this man

"He has a girlfriend-"

Say no more

and children ?

please ...

it sounds like you will just get used ...

WAYMENT y'all have had sex, laughed together and everything and you're still trying to gain his attention ?

Sis

We live miles from one another. She had children. They are not his kids. He took care of all finances when we were out of town. He makes really good money himself.

I'm still in a relationship, but working on leaving. Actually I'm beautiful. Not bragging, but very easy on the eyes. The connection we had was just amazing. I want to know the truth and I accept constructive criticism. I have his attention, but again we live miles apart.

@Scorpio123, without sounding slow. I'm confused in why I should run. Again we don't live in the same city. What harm am I doing? I can't ask for a commitment as I'm still trying to get out of my marriage which was doomed years ago. It had nothing to do with the gut that I just met. I'm living for the moment and enjoying life. But yes I want this man to fall for me, hard. Why do you say he will flake? What will be his reasoning? I appreciate the advice and welcome it. Why would things crash and burn? I've never dated a Scorpio. So I'm just trying to understand.

Scared, why—?? He was already in a situation when I met him. I'm just adding flavor to his life. I'm confident, stubborn, beautiful, daring, funny and will keep my man happy on all levels. What man in his right mind wouldn't want that—?

I'm a female married to a male. What do u mean what about him?

Are u saying what about my husband?

He's not married. I am. He's only dating her. But the whole thing is strange. We talk for hours and text for hours....late in the night, thoughout the night. My husband and I do not sleep together. We are planning another trip to Cancun in October, while he will visit me in 2 weeks. I want to hook this man. I find him mysterious and exciting.

I'm trying to understand a Scorpio. I've never dated one.

OP, you said the woman has 4 kids, 3 of which he does not care for. What about the 4th?

The 4th child is like 3 years old

Posted by Princelover
The 4th child is like 3 years old

But does he care for the 4th one?

Or did you mean he does not look after the other 3?

Not messy I just want to live a happy life. I've lived with a man for 8 years. We've slept in seperate rooms for 7 years. I want someone to love me for me.

Troll

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Princelover
The 4th child is like 3 years old

But does he care for the 4th one?

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4th is his...

if this troll is to be believed.

She is divorced. They are not his kids.

Wait, he's dating her. They aren't married. I don't know what type of connection he has with her. But they aren't married.

Posted by Princelover
She is divorced. They are not his kids.

Yes so what about the 4th kid?

Does he care about the 4th one? You only talk about the 3, but seem to leave out his connection with the 4th one, which makes me think he probably is very fond of the 4th.

Posted by Princelover
Wait, he's dating her. They aren't married. I don't know what type of connection he has with her. But they aren't married.

So how can you be certain that he will willingly leave her?

And how certain are you that he won't do the same thing to you, that he did to her?

I don't know that. If he was married I would keep moving, but she's a "girlfriend? The word friend on that is stated as such, a friend. Question, Ram416 how old are you?

Life is a gamble no matter what you are doing or who you are doing it with.

Im not trying to hurt anyone in the process. I'm just trying to enjoy my life to the fullest. If they were meant to be married they would have been married by now.

Posted by Princelover
I don't know that. If he was married I would keep moving, but she's a "girlfriend? The word friend on that is stated as such, a friend. Question, Ram416 how old are you?

Yes, but they are still in a relationship. You said he was dating her, and that she's his girlfriend. That's a relationship. And not a platonic relationship - it's a romantic pursuit. So are they only friends or are they dating each other?

And what does my age have to do with your situation? I am not the Scorpio man nor his gf. Focus on your situation.

You also still haven't answered about his relationship with the 4th (and probably youngest) child of his current gf.

OP, how do you envisage this playing out for the future?

Posted by Princelover
Im not trying to hurt anyone in the process. I'm just trying to enjoy my life to the fullest. If they were meant to be married they would have been married by now.

That's not really up to you to gauge/measure, considering your own marriage isn't exactly a success, is it?

And you can't be sure that no one will get hurt in the process, since you don't personally know everyone involved, correct?

Im not trying to hurt anyone in the process. I'm just trying to enjoy my life to the fullest. If they were meant to be married they would have been married by now.

Posted by Princelover
Life is a gamble no matter what you are doing or who you are doing it with.

Of course.

As long as it's your life you are gambling with, and no one else's.

You are correct I don't know all parties involved. This man lives states apart. I'm in the divorce stage and moving on with my life and trying to enjoy living from day to day. Im not sure how this will play out. That was my original question. I know people on this site don't have a definite answer for anything in the future.

The kids all have a father. He's not their step father. The 3 year old is just a child.

I agree. I don't want to be hurt and I don't want to hurt anyone.

Posted by Princelover
We both have stated we want to be in each others lives regardless of outsiders.  I'm planning on moving to Sacramento

Outsiders meaning his gf and mother of his child.

You must be one thirsty hoe to uproot your life and move for the chance to be a side piece.

Like others have said...unless your gonna step up and be his sugar momma, it's unlikely he will leave her for you. So put up the cash and watch him come running. Then he'll start banging other chicks on the side behind your back. Cause karma and habit.

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Princelover
She is divorced. They are not his kids.

Yes so what about the 4th kid?

Does he care about the 4th one? You only talk about the 3, but seem to leave out his connection with the 4th one, which makes me think he probably is very fond of the 4th.

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Chances are if he's providing for one of her 4 kids it's cause he's the babies daddy. Js.

Posted by Princelover
Not messy I just want to live a happy life. I've lived with a man for 8 years. We've slept in seperate rooms for 7 years. I want someone to love me for me.

You don't care if you have to share that love with another woman?

I can't understand females like you. I demand more from the people I invite into my life. I don't want to share my man with another woman. I want to be his one and only.

Posted by Princelover
Scared, why—?? He was already in a situation when I met him. I'm just adding flavor to his life. I'm confident, stubborn, beautiful, daring, funny and will keep my man happy on all levels. What man in his right mind wouldn't want that—?

Well your husband for one, for the last 7 years...

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Posted by Princelover
Scared, why—?? He was already in a situation when I met him. I'm just adding flavor to his life. I'm confident, stubborn, beautiful, daring, funny and will keep my man happy on all levels. What man in his right mind wouldn't want that—?

Well your husband for one, for the last 7 years...

Lol at tooting her own horn

she forgets her husband sleeps in separate beds . What happened there!

She's just new cow for the scorpio

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The type of man who fucks around behind his woman's back does so at any opportunity. She's not the only one he's cheating with, I'd bet everything on that.

He sounds like such a catch... I can see why she wants him. Some women just want what they think they want.

Posted by Nevermore
Totally a troll thread

Might be busyeyes trolling us lmao

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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Nevermore
Totally a troll thread

Might be busyeyes trolling us lmao

Holy shit, that crazy cow is back!

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LOL

It's only humorous speculation on my part.

First if you're going to use the word "hoe" kitty boo boo, please learn to spell it. They are not married, dating, not his kids. They've only dated for 6 months. Our plans have changed he is coming to visit this weekend. I was looking for more positive responses, but I guess that's not gonna happen. He kind of took me away from the physical abuse that Ive endured for the past 5 or so years. It was good to step out and be treated like a queen. I appreciate the love though. It kind of tells me that good people still exist.

Thanks Scorpio123 it does put things in a better perspective. I'm just trying to understand it all. I'm going through so much and trying to stay sain while healthy at the same time.

Posted by Princelover
First if you're going to use the word "hoe" kitty boo boo, please learn to spell it. They are not married, dating, not his kids. They've only dated for 6 months. Our plans have changed he is coming to visit this weekend. I was looking for more positive responses, but I guess that's not gonna happen. He kind of took me away from the physical abuse that Ive endured for the past 5 or so years. It was good to step out and be treated like a queen. I appreciate the love though. It kind of tells me that good people still exist.

You understood my meaning though, didn't you. Irregardless of spelling.

So what length of relationship do you respect? Since your sneering at their 6months of dating...

Op plz love your self

Well I don't think there is anything that wrong with enjoying the moment in something that can bring you out of emotional abuse mindset that is very hard to fix - I went through the same with a narcissistic relative And 2 abusive partners back to back and someone came along who picked me up off the floor when I was on my knees and didn't even want to wake up every day

But it may just be there to teach you how to be treated properly and that is its purpose

Perhaps just take it for what it is for now and enjoy the moment

It's the eclipses now so if he is going to leave her for you it should happen fairly soon (as that's one huge benefit of them) note it may also make your situation go one way or the other

I have even heard the head of the spiritual church say it is ok to have a liaison with an involved person if it has very healing benefits go figure

But I think you need to get any obsessive thoughts of him leaving her out of your head and leave it up to the universe and still remain open to meeting someone available ?!

Posted by soundsunscene
Well I don't think there is anything that wrong with enjoying the moment in something that can bring you out of emotional abuse mindset that is very hard to fix - I went through the same with a narcissistic relative And 2 abusive partners back to back and someone came along who picked me up off the floor when I was on my knees and didn't even want to wake up every day

But it may just be there to teach you how to be treated properly and that is its purpose

Perhaps just take it for what it is for now and enjoy the moment

It's the eclipses now so if he is going to leave her for you it should happen fairly soon (as that's one huge benefit of them) note it may also make your situation go one way or the other

I have even heard the head of the spiritual church say it is ok to have a liaison with an involved person if it has very healing benefits go figure

But I think you need to get any obsessive thoughts of him leaving her out of your head and leave it up to the universe and still remain open to meeting someone available ?!

All of that sounds like a convenient excuse to act without integrity or decency.

RUN!!!!!!