Taureans, if this isn't hot/cold..what is this?

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{Bullet Points}

** Taurus says he loves me a week before I express my feelings. When my feelings are expressed he tells me. "We should be friend's at this point. My heart is non-existent. I don't want to be romantically involved."
** He's recently lost his car. Has no steady job.
** I give him space. We don't speak from Monday to Thursday, During this time he disrespects me by posting a sexy picture of me via internet. A picture I sent to him months back, for him only. I set things straight. He takes them down. I'm ticked off, and I ignore him from Thursday to Saturday.

I assume he's said nothing knowing I am "ticked off." about what he'd done, along with the fact that he's got things going on.

Now Taureans are NOTORIOUS for being distant, as well as hot/cold when they are "dealing" with something that requires a bit more of their time, and energy.

Saturday evening I've finally simmered down enough to speak with him.

I send a short message letting him know he's in my thoughts, and I care for him. I didn't hope for a response. I didn't expect a reply. I understand he's going through a lot, so of course I just KNOW I am not going to get a reply from him.

(Wrong)

He replies *IMMEDIATELY* He thanks me telling me "I'm just dealing with things." Understood. I leave him alone again.

[Sunday]I order Chinese food. With the food comes a fortune cookie. I break it open. It says "Expect a miracle to happen soon." I smile, and think of him. Its kind of cute, even for wishful thinking. I've said nothing at all to him all day, neither has he.

I don't expect him to either. I take a picture of my fortune, sending it to him.

**IMMEDIATELY** he responds. (Almost as if he was waiting on me.) He responds saying "Congratulations." the message of the picture was clearly taken out of context. I should have been simple in saying. "Thought of you." But I didn't.

I also didn't bother to explain that it was for him. I just want to steer clear of how I feel for him honestly, but I do want him to know care about his well being. We are just friends at this point. That is it, that is all. I've put any expectation of "us" off to the side.

We actually even spoke briefly about the fortune. The conversation ends with him sending me an emoji, and myself sending one as well.


He's not really being what is considered distant. I don't want to put to much into this because we are
Friends at this point.
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HotBeefy.


*A week ago he told me that he loved me. I told him I loved him as well(Its not his first time saying that to me)

*A week after that I expressed to him all the reasons, and things I love about him.

And I sent him a sexy pictures months ago. ONLY FOR HIM. HIS EYES ONLY. He posted that same picture via internet 4days ago.

And he is going through a lot financially.

Also, I understand we need to be stable. I kind of got ahead of myself in my own feelings, but I've taken a step back.

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Also we are on speaking terms per say. He's not distant. Just focused on himself which I understand. He does speak with me briefly when I check in on him every once in a while.

I guess what through me was him out of the blue sending me a picture of his memeber.

And also later on he asked if we could see each other, then upon telling him I couldn't because I had to work he stopped talking.

(We have not at all had sex yet by the way.)

His actions made me questionable.
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Posted by BeaCancer91
HotBeefy.


*A week ago he told me that he loved me. I told him I loved him as well(Its not his first time saying that to me)

*A week after that I expressed to him all the reasons, and things I love about him.

And I sent him a sexy pictures months ago. ONLY FOR HIM. HIS EYES ONLY. He posted that same picture via internet 4days ago.

And he is going through a lot financially.

Also, I understand we need to be stable. I kind of got ahead of myself in my own feelings, but I've taken a step back.



I would kill him, anyway that's because never send anyone a sexy photo, if anyone wants "sexy" to appear in person sexy. With eating things do not play, face to face or t?te ?? t?te that a French would say. Oh la la!