Taurus behavior? im heartbroken

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Hello everyone. Im very new to this forum, just made an account today, but have been checking this site out for years.

Im a 28 year old libra. English is not my first language, so sorry if its not correct.

I have been dating a taurus 27 year old guy for almost 3 months.
He is very sweet, affectionate, romantic, everything I would like in a man. We had only been dating for about a month, and he bought me a gift for my birthday, he also wrote a song to me about his feelings for me. Im crazy about him. But im also crazy jealous.

I have been in a couple of really bad relationships in the past, where my boyfriend cheated on me for years. So i have a hard time trusting people, my taurus guy knows this. He told me to trust him, and not doubt his feelings for me. So i tried...

2 days ago we were hanging out at his brothers house, i took his phone to search for a song, but i could resist to dobbelclick the iphone button so I could see all the open pages. I saw the message page, and some girl had texted him something and called him bubbi and put a kiss emoji. I was in chock, but i didnt say anything because i didnt want to get in a fight, but i was heart broking.. on my way home i cried all the way.

The morning after i texted him, that i saw it, and i ended it, and wished him luck. I know its dramatic but i couldnt think clear at that moment.
He texted me back saying i have misunderstood something, and that he hasnt showed me anything but loyalty, he havent felt this way for anyone in 7 years.
we texted back and forth for sometime, and he said that it was a friend and that he had helped her with something and that was her way of thanking him.
so i ofcourse said prove it.
And after that, he became different talking about i had hurt him by throwing him away by a text, he had dreams about us getting married, and he is heartbroking that i accuse him of something like this, i should have asked him about it, and he would have told me everything. but he didnt want to prove anything to me, because i had already ended it, and that he obviously didnt mean anything to me since i could do something like this to him. At the end of the text he wished me good luck with the future. we texted for sometime. and i also said that if you really do have so strong feelings for me, you would try to prove it and work it out..
in my last text i wrote, something like im sorry i didnt ask you, you mean alot to me.. I apologised ! but he didnt reply 😢

Im so heartbroken and confused.
what do you guys think? I hope to get some anwers

His chart

Sun: taurus
moon:leo
Mercury:taurus
Venus:gemini
Mars: aquarius
jupiter:taurus

My chart

rising sign: sagg
sun: libra
moon: sagg
mercury: scorpio
Venus: libra
mars: virgo
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Posted by libra87
i think i deserve a second chance...
if you want a second chance then you truly have to be sorry, accept that you might have ruined this and that if this does end, then you are the one that messed up, not him.

thinking you "deserve" a second chance is not the way to go about this. you should be grateful if a second chance is given. appreciate the chance to make things right, you are not owed anything.
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He may or may not be back. Haha VIG oh lord..


Anyways busyeyes not angry it just sounds like.

I on the other hand. Wtf were you thinking? And seriously did he ask you out only a month of being friends? So you only be friends one month and two months actually together? Have you had sex already? And always know it takes a hot minute to really ask date someone....

You have to have some foundation otherwise its just going to be fwb.. or whatever... damn Taurus guys rushing like that. Lord.
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Posted by libra87
what is a closet just like me ..

busyeyes88: why are you so angry?

i have a sisterly taururean love for busy, but she doesnt understand taurus/libra connection, she has had too many negative experiences with libras apparently. mine are mostly positive. libra and taurus are amazing together, my libra makes me a better person and he makes me life literally so peaceful, its like a dream. be patient, give him some time to come down, hes probably just angry, use your libra charm and apologize to him for snooping, explain to him you did it because of your trust issues, your insecurity, take responsibility and he will appreciate that. it is taurus behavior to get really angry and calm down eventually, he seems that he is still in angry mode. what i would do is, ask to meet in person to talk about things since talking/arguing/fighting via text makes everything worse. you need to speak face to face
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Posted by PV&Jellay
He's a taurus. If he's into he will be back...Leo moon or not. If he's not then he's gone forever. Taureans are very patient, sometimes too patient, with people they care about. Try to talk to him face to face or over the phone, not via text. And take the time to listen to what he has to say, rather than just accuse. I'm sure he will have no issue with reassuring you how he feels if you stop saying "prove it to me". No one likes ultimatums.
my close friend said the same thing to me! im "too patient" lol, i also read once that "tauruses are often waiting forever, just waiting" lmao that made me laugh because its sadly true
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libra87
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He is very kind and sensitive, at least thats what i think. when he read the text/song he had written, he was so nervous that he's hands were shaking.
i do believe his feelings for me are strong.. my brother is a taurus too, and he is stubborn too, but not with his family, and he doesnt get angry quick. he is very calm..

we havent had sex, he knows that i dont want to have sex until i feel comfortable and secure with him ..
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Posted by libra87
at first i thought why does he gets so angry about me accusing him, if it was me i would do everything to prove i had not did anything wrong, i wouldnt give up..
but people are different.

first time im dating a taurus man..and im not use to nice guys seriously everytime he does something nice for me im surprised, im used to leos...all my x's are leos 😄
when is the last time you guys spoke
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Posted by libra87
busyeyes: there has never been a problem, at all !! anytime!! so he didnt have to forgive me for anything. it is like your talking about your experiences with this type of person or relationship, not all your planets are in the same sign.. it is not like i killed his dog, i accused him for something, i made ONE mistake, i apologise and we will see what happens.
you broke up with him, remember? it is a big ONE mistake

now every time there is something, you immediately broke up with him? that is what he may think