Taurus GF Changed Her Appearance Suddenly

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piscesman707
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She has been cuddly and apologetic on some days and cold on others. I have tried my best to see how she is feeling but she doesn't let me know/in. She has problems expressing herself when it comes to emotions. Details are easy.

So it was my shock yesterday when she decided she is going to change her appearance dramatically tonight without suddenly telling me yesterday afternoon. She did not invite me along but I asked about it and joined her tonight.

Should I concerned about our stability? She has people she has told me that says 'she could do better' and it is causing me some concern. I know I am a great Pisces guy who owns his own home but her behaviour is all over the place lately.

It seems like I am going to be dumped as she posted her new look on Facebook and has hid our relationship from public (the wall). She still wants me in her life she claims but the sex has died but the affection (kissing/leaning-in cuddling) is still there, although she seems to have problems with eye contact lately.. either lots or none. Tonight when we were waiting for the bus, she was looking everywhere else but at me. 😢

She told me her mom doesn't want me over there tonight so we saw a movie and had a good time together but still... everything is looking bad for our relationship right now.

On the plus side, she seemed interested in meeting more of my friends and keeping plans to meet my parents again this Saturday. She is also constantly sick but then said 'she isn't that sick tonight' so that makes me feel like her feelings to leave the relationship soon are sadly true...
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piscesman707
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I have tried asking her if something is making her unhappy. She is always sick because I think her immune system is horrible. Her parents treat her horribly and her mom in particular seems to want to split us up.

I paid for our movie tickets tonight and after she paid me $ 20 I believe to cover it. It was very strange. Before she was spitting out break-up lines like 'i need space', hinting at just being friends (I refused outright and threatened to disappear out of her life for good, etc.).

I always have had the impression that her female friends aren't there for her and the "guy friends" are just looking for a quick lay and nothing long-term. The other day she suggested over text:

her: You just make it easy to feed you.

me: And you are wonderful

her: Awww

Me: You are a keeper to me

Her: It would be great to keep each other

But there are so many red flag signs in the last 1-2 weeks. It seems like she is reluctant to leave but also reluctant to stay?!
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Posted by piscesman707
I have tried asking her if something is making her unhappy. She is always sick because I think her immune system is horrible. Her parents treat her horribly and her mom in particular seems to want to split us up.

I paid for our movie tickets tonight and after she paid me $ 20 I believe to cover it. It was very strange. Before she was spitting out break-up lines like 'i need space', hinting at just being friends (I refused outright and threatened to disappear out of her life for good, etc.).

I always have had the impression that her female friends aren't there for her and the "guy friends" are just looking for a quick lay and nothing long-term. The other day she suggested over text:

her: You just make it easy to feed you.

me: And you are wonderful

her: Awww

Me: You are a keeper to me

Her: It would be great to keep each other

But there are so many red flag signs in the last 1-2 weeks. It seems like she is reluctant to leave but also reluctant to stay?!


She will leave when she finds someone ‘better’ which could be total asshole...

Maybe she needs an asshole and you too plain and good almost boring?

Anyway. Good luck keeping her and be happy!
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piscesman707
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Posted by piscesman707
I have tried asking her if something is making her unhappy. She is always sick because I think her immune system is horrible. Her parents treat her horribly and her mom in particular seems to want to split us up.

I paid for our movie tickets tonight and after she paid me $ 20 I believe to cover it. It was very strange. Before she was spitting out break-up lines like 'i need space', hinting at just being friends (I refused outright and threatened to disappear out of her life for good, etc.).

I always have had the impression that her female friends aren't there for her and the "guy friends" are just looking for a quick lay and nothing long-term. The other day she suggested over text:

her: You just make it easy to feed you.

me: And you are wonderful

her: Awww

Me: You are a keeper to me

Her: It would be great to keep each other

But there are so many red flag signs in the last 1-2 weeks. It seems like she is reluctant to leave but also reluctant to stay?!


She will leave when she finds someone ‘better’ which could be total asshole...

Maybe she needs an asshole and you too plain and good almost boring?

Anyway. Good luck keeping her and be happy!
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Well, considering she wanted sex without a condom I find that hard to believe...

Have no idea what her moon or venus signs are.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by piscesman707
I have tried asking her if something is making her unhappy. She is always sick because I think her immune system is horrible. Her parents treat her horribly and her mom in particular seems to want to split us up.

I paid for our movie tickets tonight and after she paid me $ 20 I believe to cover it. It was very strange. Before she was spitting out break-up lines like 'i need space', hinting at just being friends (I refused outright and threatened to disappear out of her life for good, etc.).

I always have had the impression that her female friends aren't there for her and the "guy friends" are just looking for a quick lay and nothing long-term. The other day she suggested over text:

her: You just make it easy to feed you.

me: And you are wonderful

her: Awww

Me: You are a keeper to me

Her: It would be great to keep each other

But there are so many red flag signs in the last 1-2 weeks. It seems like she is reluctant to leave but also reluctant to stay?!


She will leave when she finds someone ‘better’ which could be total asshole...

Maybe she needs an asshole and you too plain and good almost boring?

Anyway. Good luck keeping her and be happy!
Well, considering she wanted sex without a condom I find that hard to believe...

Have no idea what her moon or venus signs are.
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How is her wanting sex without condom among her NOT looking for ‘better’ someone?
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Posted by piscesman707
I have tried asking her if something is making her unhappy. She is always sick because I think her immune system is horrible. Her parents treat her horribly and her mom in particular seems to want to split us up.

I paid for our movie tickets tonight and after she paid me $ 20 I believe to cover it. It was very strange. Before she was spitting out break-up lines like 'i need space', hinting at just being friends (I refused outright and threatened to disappear out of her life for good, etc.).

I always have had the impression that her female friends aren't there for her and the "guy friends" are just looking for a quick lay and nothing long-term. The other day she suggested over text:

her: You just make it easy to feed you.

me: And you are wonderful

her: Awww

Me: You are a keeper to me

Her: It would be great to keep each other

But there are so many red flag signs in the last 1-2 weeks. It seems like she is reluctant to leave but also reluctant to stay?!


She will leave when she finds someone ‘better’ which could be total asshole...

Maybe she needs an asshole and you too plain and good almost boring?

Anyway. Good luck keeping her and be happy!
Well, considering she wanted sex without a condom I find that hard to believe...

Have no idea what her moon or venus signs are.
How is her wanting sex without condom among her NOT looking for ‘better’ someone?
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Haha. Exactly! 😂😂

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I can only think of 2 scenarios, either she is really sick from her sickness like dying and she wants a drastic makeover or she may have someone else she wants to try with already but stuck due to commitment hence the push and pull.

My uncle is a Taurus, and previously when he was with my aunt at the final phase of their marriage, he did the push and pull thing when things wasn't working anymore which created a lot of drama for their family. Also, after his marriage and he took interest in a new lady, he would dress up or suddenly hit the gym to look healthier/younger. That's how my cousins know when there's probably a new woman in his life.

Hope is none of the above though... good luck.
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Maybe someone told her something that pulled her off her square.

When I was younger when someone said something to me that made me question who I was and where I stood with people on the whole in relationships I would get seriously weird. I've been told Im difficult, Im selfish, I nitpick until I find something wrong, I'm hard to please, I'll never be happy, I'm what's wrong in my failed relationships. All things that left me more confused and bruised my self esteem.

She might be getting not only bad, but conflicting advice about who she is and being with you.

I'd step back and give her some time to sort out whatever she's going through.