Taurus man not answering for 2 weeks..

I quit being clingy. Left everything up to him. He said we never broke up. We were ok. For a few weeks. Than 2 weeks ago he came to pick me up. It was in the afternoon.. I was wearing a nice outfit for him. I've worn similar ones before. No problems. But this time he said. Why are you dressing like you're trying to get some. I said I was just dressing up for him. He said we're just going to the store. I said I know. He said why couldn't you just wear something cute like jeans. I offered to change. He said never mind. We started driving didn't even get a block a way and he turned back around and said he didn't want to go to the store with me. And I immediately started to get upset and beg him not to take me home. I haven't seen him in a week and I just wanted to see him. He said you seen me now bye. I told him I wasn't getting out of his car. He told me to get out before I make it worse. I got mad and slammed his car door. I text him sorry when I get upstairs. No answer. I waited 8 hours and texted him that he was right that I was dressed a little inappropriate to go to the store and sorry for slamming the car door. I was childish but it hurt my feelings when he kicked me out of your car like I was a w**** and not your gitlfriend. And I'm sorry. No answer. I waited 3 days. Messaged him hope your not still mad and I hope we can get past this. No answer. Next day I drop off cookies that I baked from scratch by his truck. I promised him I would make them for a trip he was taking that weekend. I messaged him they were outside. No answer but I know he got the cookies. The next day I message him I love.. Miss you..and can we please talk. No answer.. Next day..sent an appropriate pic saying thinking of you hope you're thinking of me. No answer. I wait 3 days and text him hi..no answer. I wait 2 days and I showed up at his place before work. He came out and said he was late. I asked him if I could have a hug. He said why. I said cause I miss you. He said stop which he always says if I get too emotional. I told him I've left him alone mostly..im not texting you constantly.. I've given you time and space..he said you're here now. And I said because I wanted to see you. I'm on my way to work. He said than go to work. I asked him if this was over and he said he didn't know. He said again he had to go to work. He than said we will talk later. I said ok bye. And left. Mind you..I could tell he was not happy me being there. And when we got in this fight 2 weeks ago I feel

Continuation(3 messages)........ And when we got in this fight 2 weeks ago I feel he was upset about something else as well. I don't believe that my outfit set him off for this long. But its been 2 days I haven't heard from him and haven't texted him either. I'm wondering what I should do from here?

Firstly, I think you should have put all this under one thread instead of making a new topic for each message.

Secondly, I think you should read what you have written. As in, really read it and understand your behaviour.

Thirdly, the entire thing just sounds incredibly wrong. This is not how it should be when you meet someone. You've barely known each other for five minutes. Where was the investment of time dedicated to getting to know each other prior to sleeping with him? Was one date really enough? No.

Lastly, you need to pull back and stop harassing him. Leave him alone. If he contacts you then ok. If he doesn't then ok. Move on. Next time try a different approach and get to know the person more or just fuck him and have a one night stand without expectations.

Posted by AgentP911
Firstly, I think you should have put all this under one thread instead of making a new topic for each message.

Secondly, I think you should read what you have written. As in, really read it and understand your behaviour.

Thirdly, the entire thing just sounds incredibly wrong. This is not how it should be when you meet someone. You've barely known each other for five minutes. Where was the investment of time dedicated to getting to know each other prior to sleeping with him? Was one date really enough? No.

Lastly, you need to pull back and stop harassing him. Leave him alone. If he contacts you then ok. If he doesn't then ok. Move on. Next time try a different approach and get to know the person more or just fuck him and have a one night stand without expectations.

all of the above.

It wasn't a one night stand. We have had sex multiple times since than. And we have been on dates multiple times since than. Treats me really great when we are out. This last fight is the worst I've seem him.

What was the conversation about really? What did you say when you talked to him last? Did you say hey I noticed a change lately, what's up anything wrong?

This is a classic example of a Hot and Cold Thread.
An initial rush, intensity, and then things fizzle out.

Romance over!

I will have to agree with Agent,

I believe if there was a gradual courtship, things would have transitioned a little more smoothly between the both of you.

He asked you to be his girlfriend prematurely? You said yes.
He initiated sex with you, you obliged.
You told him you were falling in love with him.

How could you, you don't know him well enough to make that determination.

If I had to take a hypothetical guess, "he's probably wondering how many guys hit you up with that same line."

I think he's become disinterested and using your outbursts as a polite way out.

Not passing judgement, you followed your instinct and you moved forward with your emotions (you're an Aries), but Bulls tend to see situations differently.

We're Bulls, we're possessive by nature. The mantra "I have" is associated with everything we consider to be ours.

Everything we work for, the thrill of the rewards that are going to be gained from it.

In your case, no real effort, not worth pursuing.

A gut instinct tells me he's also keeping his options open.

I could be wrong.

Aries0323,

Good Luck!

Thanks for your honesty. Remember, no judgements here.

If he's still 'worming' his way out, screw him!

Find someone else.

My question is do I just not text him for awhile or show my not taking bs from him fiery nature. I have been very passive and I have not yelled at him or said a mean thing to him. I more or less have agreed with him and let him have his way. I don't know if I should just tell him that I can't take this anymore that he should just be done with me and quit hurting me or if I should wait for him to contact me. I essentially want this to work out and for us to be together.

Aries and Taurus is a tough match. Good luck.

Posted by aries0323
My question is do I just not text him for awhile or show my not taking bs from him fiery nature. I have been very passive and I have not yelled at him or said a mean thing to him. I more or less have agreed with him and let him have his way. I don't know if I should just tell him that I can't take this anymore that he should just be done with me and quit hurting me or if I should wait for him to contact me. I essentially want this to work out and for us to be together.

you haven't been passive. you've been passive aggressive.

i would take a huge step back and slow everything down. does he know how you feel about him? yes. now you need to leave it alone like you would a scab.

but the thing is you just don't sound all that compatible.

@ Aries,

There is nothing that can be done on your end.

Posted by aries0323
I essentially want this to work out and for us to be together.

It's not what you want.

Apparently he has already decided.

He's A BULL.

You can't fix this.

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Give up the chase. Bow out gracefully with whatever dignity you have got left.

+1...

She's a Ram, they chase until the cows come home.
The thrill of the chase excites them.
There is no honor in any conquest.
She's not bowing out.

The Bull is using a passive-aggressive method to worm his way out of something he committed to prematurely.

He will have to take a more direct approach and tell her "I'm just simply not interested."

After all, she's an Aries, they're built for directness and honesty.

Posted by Rachelannthepisces
....why the hell are you running after this dude? I'm sorry but you need a major wake up call. He is not into you at all. And why would you run after and want someone that treats you like this—!! If a man EVER downed my outfit, let alone kicked me out of his car, I would probably slap him in the face and tell him to NEVER contact me again. That is disgusting. But what is more disgusting is that you actually want this piece of trash and are apologizing to him. HE should be apologizing to you. But he isn't because he doesn't respect you, because you don't respect yourself enough to say "fuck you. You're a piece of shit. I'm finding someone else."

in 100% agreement with @Rachelannthepisces. Why in the heck would you allow anyone to treat you like that? Why are you apologizing to an azzhole like that, leaves me clueless. Total lack of respect for self. That's not love or even like. That sounds like an obsession.